Everyone

This could have been the usual predictable gay wedding with the usual stock characters of a director's idea of gay people. It is not. Most of the character's in this witty and enjoyable film are ' straight ' and to this viewer everyone gay and straight are in the same boat of relationship confusion. This makes for a really adult comedy drama and works for most of the duration. The Altman-like cross cutting of characters was confusing at first as there was a bit too much baby deaths, and not being able to have babies, which bordered on the boring ( no offence to those with this situation, but it nearly reached saturation in this film ). I do not want to give away any spoilers but the homeless man seemed like a 21st century version of Pasolini's young man in ' Theorem ' gutting everyone to act and think about their lives. What he does to one of the prospective gay husbands reminded me a lot of the sexual disturbance in ' Theorem '. If this Pasolini film is beyond history for most people in this century I would urge viewers to track it down. The internalization of gay self hatred as a sexual turn on for the gay couple was also possibly tasteless to some, and not politically correct which added a welcome transgressive spice to the proceedings. Also please do not turn off after the end credits as another gay aspect comes hilariously into view. All in all an off beat film that could offend both gays and straights, but that in itself is a plus. The minus side is that unlike the stereotypical gay themed film it will not please enough gay people with fixed views or bigoted straights who dislike gay films. But then the director must have known he could not please everyone. I think it a must see and just misses out because of confusion at the beginning of being a truly excellent film. And the colour was terrible! A really major fault this.

They don't look like lovers, do they even love each others??? they're so annoy... I'd to see gay weddings, it my fav part in every films, but this film ruin it, okay, i can guess the plot twist clearly, but still i can't bear it, it something too terrable for me!

This is a great story of two guys who want to get married (maybe?). Their families come together on the day of their commitment ceremony while our to-be-wed couple experiences some breakdowns and breakthroughs in their relationship.

The ensemble is made up of the various brothers and sisters (and their partners) of each of our two leads. The story quickly expands to display the entire family, focusing on the already married couples of the two grooms. Each couples struggles with the everyday (for the most part) challenges of "married" life. Whether it's dealing with professional difficulties, extramarital affairs or simple miscommunication this film shows that marriage can be rough for everyone.

I rented this movie with no prior knowledge of it. I simply saw Carly Pope in the cast list and thought, "How fun. I remember her from 'Popular'." I thought this was going to be a funny movie, not a depressing flick about depressing people and their depressing lives. I love movies in which families get together for holidays or events (ie. 'Eulogy' or 'Home For The Holidays') and you witness their personal insanities and eccentricities. But I like them because they portray these families in a light that reminds us of our own relatives and allows us to remember that families are insane yet normal. This movie does not do that. It simply removes any faith you may have about commitment, fidelity, love or happiness. I am not a hopeless romantic or blind optimist, but the problems in these peoples' lives did not warrant the amount of infidelity and self-pity that was portrayed. The only characters I enjoyed were the mom, Carly Pope's caterer/bartender and Dylan (only for his quirkiness, his home-wrecker side really bothered me). Basically, this movie is not funny and would have more success if it presented itself as a drama.

This movie is a little strange. When it started, I was a little worried it would turn out to be a drama instead of a comedy. And not a very good drama. Then it started getting better and better, and soon I was laughing out loud at some scenes. Be sure to watch the final credits, for there is a hidden last scene.

This movie tries to deal with some serious stuff, mainly relationships, be them gay or not. I don't know if the director wanted it to happen that way, but it did feel a bit weird, like I wasn't sure if some scenes were supposed to be sad or funny. Maybe he went for the REALISM effect, as in life it often does happen that you don't know if you want to cry or laugh. Anyway, this film was mostly funny, and I'm glad I saw it. I seems to say that everyone is a bit weird, but then again things CAN work out fine. I want to see this director's next movie.