Whitney Solloway: If people hurt you very badly, do you have to forgive them?
Bruce Butler: No. But sometimes it hurts you more than it hurts them to hold a grudge.
Whitney Solloway: What's it all for, then? If people can act however they want and get forgiven, then what is the point of trying to be good in the first place?
Bruce Butler: I think it's about what kind of life you want to live. You will have plenty of opportunities to be angry in your life. You have less chance to love people, though. Really love them. So you just.. you want to be careful how many of those opportunities you squander. I think young people believe they'll just keep coming, but they don't.
