Ni shi wo de ming zhong zhu ding

Ok, so the cinematography and scenery was great and the acting was a little over the top but good enough for me to want to route for the two leads. I have seen the female lead in another show and she was good. I'm looking forward to seeing the male lead in another show to see how he does.

What I hated was the script! I totally understand one or two misunderstandings in these romantic dramedies but this was ridiculous! No character thought to ask questions about why something was done or not done. The lead couple almost makes up at least 5 times but something always came up. That was so frustrating. I get the one or two times so that you have the tension for the story but this was painful. The happy ending took way too long to get there and only materialized within the last 5 minutes. I would really appreciate it if I could have a happy ending that is at least an episode long.

This series was cute at first. I like light, overcoming obstacles, karma, etc. However, this genre tends to go for extremes with oppressing the heroine and then exaggerated issue the are borderline trashy soap opera.

I started skipping forward. The I realized that I just didn't care about seeing the resolution anymore and stopped watching.

This genre is also big on bullying, classist, abusive behavior and misogyny. I started watching for light subject without nudity. I was happy that this story started out being different from the norm. I think I just need to seek out a different genre.

My other issue: 36 episodes. Had I realized it was that many I would've skipped it in the first place. Most of these series could be delivered well in 16 episodes. The extra episodes are a good indicator of overkill.

One of the BEST SUPPORTING TEAM, the storyline is such a mess and stupid display. Director, Editor, cinematographer all have done an amateur job here. Scenes are so dissociated at many places, so many loopholes in the storyline. Espl after the eternal love (which is more about the Main leads KISSING each other at unnecessary MOMENTS) with same main lead couple has made me hate them forever. Liang Jie is such a seasoned actress her choice of shows has been very unfortunate..

Liked this drama however the Korean version of this drama justifies both male and females characters reasons are logical. Here the male character had to suffer because no proper communication at all between them because the female character becomes so stubborn and does not want to confront him at all and understand the reason. The female character always believes a third person, she even believes a love rival but fails to confront his husband even though he clearly says its over between him and his ex. Thats very sad for the guy and gives a reason to not like the female character who does not want to communicate because of her ignorance... hope writers portray "Love should always be from both sides and they should not jump to conclusions before confronting their partners".

Love this show. Amazing chemistry between Xing Zhaolin and Jiang Jie. It started as an innocent meeting of two people with opposite backgrounds, and as fate would have it, brought them together. This show offers - break ups, heartaches, friendship, family ties, tradition, love, honor, compassion, humility and charity. So many misunderstandings. This show proved that communication is the key to a healthy relationship. The story can dragged on too long but they have merit as background stories. With the English sub-title, I have to rewatch this show twice to fully understand and appreciate it. Soundtrack is amazing as well.