Mi vida heterodoxa

Most of the hate is coming from people in the community she left.

It's sad that they don't want her to tell her story.

The show itself: Similar to other reality TV shows like the Kardashians (which I haven't really watched). It feels heavily scripted. If you don't like those other shows I doubt you'll like this.

I come from an Orthodox Jewish background and watched it because her background intrigued me. It's far from a must watch but I found it entertaining.

In terms of TV quality I'd actually rate it much lower than a 6. But I support her transition and hate all the people trying to shut her down. She has the right to tell her story and people need to stop calling her liar and denying her own experiences due to their own insecurities.

I'm not a religious Jewish woman. I'm a liberal one.

But I find Julia extremely authoritarian and disrespectful.

For someone who left the community because they forced her to do things she didn't want or like, she behaves that way.

Apparently never learned that lesson.

Bat and Ben are loveable.

The rest sounds scripted. Fake.

This reality show has very little "real". Everything looks planned and staged (the cameraman in the bedroom filming one of Julia's daughters in bed having sex - or make it look like it - with her boyfriend: really?! Not to mention the dialogue). Lots of money but little good taste in both style and behaviour. Julia wants to rule everyone's life; she has a God complex. Silvio, Robert and Ben are the only characters that inspire sympathy.

I am writing things only to help out with the bad ratings, that apparently come from people that are very religious or can't deal with this type of women.

I find the main message of this reality amazing: You can re-do your life and have a fresh start at any stage, at any time, no matter what. If that is not inspirational, I don't know what is. Get a grip, people!

For those who condemn her for attacking an entire group, watch the documentary One of Us, also on Netflix. You'll have a better understanding of what she left and why she doesn't want her son to be sucked into that way of life. I think she's going about convincing him in the wrong way, but maybe, hopefully, by the end of the series I'll be proven wrong. I agree with her that fundamentalism in any religion is a huge problem. We see it with American right wing Christians, Myanmar Buddhists, Middle Eastern Muslim Al-Qaeda, etc.; they're all putrid peas in the same rotten pod. I fast forwarded through all the fashion world junk. Other than a few brief scenes it was irrelevant.