Ni shi wo de ming zhong zhu ding

Love this show. Amazing chemistry between Xing Zhaolin and Jiang Jie. It started as an innocent meeting of two people with opposite backgrounds, and as fate would have it, brought them together. This show offers - break ups, heartaches, friendship, family ties, tradition, love, honor, compassion, humility and charity. So many misunderstandings. This show proved that communication is the key to a healthy relationship. The story can dragged on too long but they have merit as background stories. With the English sub-title, I have to rewatch this show twice to fully understand and appreciate it. Soundtrack is amazing as well.

I mean this show is so long and boring. There is no chemistry between lead couple. Nothing at all. It is so slow that i had to forward it again and again. Then also i hardly watched 11 episodes and more than that is not my cup of tea.

This series was cute at first. I like light, overcoming obstacles, karma, etc. However, this genre tends to go for extremes with oppressing the heroine and then exaggerated issue the are borderline trashy soap opera.

I started skipping forward. The I realized that I just didn't care about seeing the resolution anymore and stopped watching.

This genre is also big on bullying, classist, abusive behavior and misogyny. I started watching for light subject without nudity. I was happy that this story started out being different from the norm. I think I just need to seek out a different genre.

My other issue: 36 episodes. Had I realized it was that many I would've skipped it in the first place. Most of these series could be delivered well in 16 episodes. The extra episodes are a good indicator of overkill.

Ok, so the cinematography and scenery was great and the acting was a little over the top but good enough for me to want to route for the two leads. I have seen the female lead in another show and she was good. I'm looking forward to seeing the male lead in another show to see how he does.

What I hated was the script! I totally understand one or two misunderstandings in these romantic dramedies but this was ridiculous! No character thought to ask questions about why something was done or not done. The lead couple almost makes up at least 5 times but something always came up. That was so frustrating. I get the one or two times so that you have the tension for the story but this was painful. The happy ending took way too long to get there and only materialized within the last 5 minutes. I would really appreciate it if I could have a happy ending that is at least an episode long.

The story line was cute. It shows how love can grow between two people and how misunderstandings can become a hurdle that needs to be dealt with properly. I personally felt the story dragged a bit, but overall I recommend this because it's cute, dramatic, and romantic.