Asian Persuasion

I honestly didn't expect to feel so seen by a rom-com. Each of the characters was relatable, and my husband and I caught ourselves laughing in between jokes bc we've experienced people like this in real life. It's more than a rom-com. It's a fresh take on being a FilAm, and I highly encourage everyone to watch this film.

I appreciate that this didn't punch down on any female characters. It's a relief to not see women portrayed as shrill or mean-spirited. As a Filipina, It's refreshing. Bonus points for not making the Filipino accent the center of the humor. It's a tired trope, and I'm glad that it was nowhere to be found here.

Asian Persuasion is a romantic comedy about a recently divorced couple, where the ex-husband sets up his ex-wife to remarry, in an attempt to get out from under an onerous alimony decree.

Will husband's zany plan to love-coach the new man dating his ex-wife work? Or will the exes get back together? How does Kevin Kreider (the hottie from Bling Empire in his scripted acting debut) figure into all of this?

I won't reveal any spoilers here, but I can confirm this is a rom com through and through. There are multiple characters falling in and out of love - and even Prince Charming (actor Paolo Montalban from the Cinderella reboot has a supporting role).

That said, the real love story is with food, NY and childhood dreams. There are delicious shots of ube pancakes sprinkled throughout the film. There are also close-ups of street signs indicating Filipino parts of Queens, NY, as well as other NYC landmarks such as the Museum of the Moving Image or Chinese Tuxedo. Finally, both lead characters are creatives (ex-husband is a chef, ex-wife is a fashion designer), and their childhood aspirations figure prominently in why they fell in and out of love.

Asian Persuasion is a fun, multi-layered film with a tight ensemble cast.

With a combination of comedy, feel-good moments, and likable characters (even if they don't always do the right thing :)), Asian Persuasion put a smile on my face. It's an enjoyable experience for people of all kinds, Asian or not, but Asian Americans, in particular, feel seen and heard. Jhett Tolentino's directorial debut is successful in visual story telling and Mike Ang's personal, yet exaggerated and lighthearted writing brings his personal experience to life in a digestible and satisfying way. It's extremely hard not to root for the main cast even in their morally gray endeavors which is a testament to the charisma that comes through the screen. Overall, it was a very enjoyable experience.

Without giving the movie away, I can only share that the movie is akin to "Friends with Benefits" and those series of teen movies from the early 2000s but without sex scenes though. I'm talking about how you would feel at the end of the movie. After laughing your ass off and enjoying yourself - by yourself or with the company of friends.

It's a feel good movie about Asians Americans but not so heavy on the Asian cultures. Everyone can relate to this honest movie about "making it" career-wise.

On a separate note, I'm so proud of all those involved In making this film happen - in the midst of a pandemic. Major brava/o to all!

"Asian Persuasion" has some outdated dialogue and utter predictability, but this romantic comedy gets by on earnest charm. It's a story about an ex-husband who plays marital matchmaker for his ex-wife so his alimony payments can end. The cast members have believable chemistry with each other, which makes up for some uneven acting.

Directed by Jhett Tolentino and written by Mike Ang, "Asian Persuasion" is Tolentino's feature-film directorial debut. The movie takes place in New York City and is centered around a group of Filipino American friends. A lot of the movie has characteristics (including the music score) that's reminiscent of a family sitcom, but some of the language (cursing) and some of the subject matter (sex talk) are adult-oriented.

"Asian Persuasion" begins by showing coffee shop owner Mickey De La Santos (played by Dante Basco) signing divorce papers to officially end his marriage to fashion designer Avery Chua (played by KC Concepcion), who is seated with her attorney across the table from Mickey. Mickey, who doesn't have a divorce attorney, let Avery have everything she wanted in the divorce settlement. He barely wants to look at the divorce papers before he signs them.

Mickey and Avery have a 10-year-old daughter together named Sam (played by Scarlet Sherr), who is inquisitive and adorable. Avery has full custody of Sam, while Mickey has visitation rights. It's later revealed that Mickey and Avery's marriage ended because he was resentful that her career has been more successful than his. Mickey's dream was to open his own restaurant, but he gave up on that dream sometime after Avery was born.

After the divorce papers are signed, Mickey's best friend Caspian "Cass" Jang (played by Kevin Kreider), a commitment-phobic bachelor who works as a bartender, mildly scolds Mickey for not having a divorce attorney because Cass thinks Mickey got a raw deal in the divorce settlement. About half of Mickey's income will go to pay for Avery's alimony. Avery also has other expenses, such as child support and rent for his small apartment and small coffee shop in Queens.

Mickey and Cass celebrate Mickey's divorce by getting drunk and stoned on marijuana at Mickey's apartment while Sam is asleep in a nearby bedroom. The next morning, Mickey finds out that in his intoxicated state of mind the night before, he created a dating app profile for Avery. Her account already has several replies from potential suitors.

Cass thinks it's an opportunity for Mickey to find a new husband for Avery so Mickey will no longer have to pay alimony. Mickey is persuaded to give this idea a try. They find a potential suitor for Avery when a Wall Street executive named Lee-Kwan Prince (played by Paolo Montalban), who goes by the nickname Lee, responds to Avery's profile. Lee is admittedly socially awkward.

Mickey pretends to be Avery online, and shows up for the blind date to meet Lee, who is shocked and disgusted when Mickey tells Lee about his plan. But then, Lee changes his mind because he's very attracted to Avery, and Mickey has offered to coach Lee on how to win over Avery. Mickey advises Lee on where Lee should take Avery on dates.

It leads to some very corny slapstick scenes of Mickey feeding Lee things to say through an earpiece in date conversations with Avery. Mickey, sometimes accompanied by Cass, does surveillance of these dates from afar in ridiculous disguises. In one of the disguises, Mickey wears a big hat, sunglasses and very large, fake-looking moustache.

The movie has flashbacks to the relationship that Mickey and Avery had before their marriage fell apart, beginning with their "meet cute" at an outdoor party where Mickey accidentally set a Tiki bar on fire. These flashbacks (which include scenes from their marriage) show that Mickey and Avery met when they were both college students and found out that they had a lot in common. Avery and Mickey had shared goals of being successful in their respective chosen careers.

Avery strived to be a fashion designer with her own product line and fulfilled that goal. Mickey, who has culinary skills, had ambitions to be a successful restaurateur, but those ambitions fell by the wayside and he became lazy when it came to his career and his marriage. Avery tried to encourage him to still pursue his dreams, but Mickey interpreted this encouragement as nagging.

The couple was overjoyed by the birth of Sam, a child who was very much wanted by Avery and Mickey. The couple also weathered some tough times, such as the deaths of Mickey's parents. A breaking point in the marriage was when Mickey became verbally abusive to Avery during an argument and called her a "bitch."

These flashbacks bring some emotional resonance to a movie that is sometimes a little shallow in its presentation. Some of the supporting characters are very underdeveloped and just say their lines and then are never seen again. For example, Avery's mother Imelda Chua (played by Fe de los Reyes) comes to visit, but Imelda's scenes are so inconsequential, her scenes could've been cut from the movie, and it wouldn't have made a difference to the story. Cass has an ex-girlfriend named Helene Dubois (played by Geneva Carr) who is seen in the beginning and the end of the movie, with not much context to their relationship except that they broke up because Cass didn't want to commit to dating her exclusively.

However, other supporting characters are better-developed. Avery runs her fashion business with her best friend Lisa (played by Celia Au), a bachelorette who talks openly about her sex life. Au has terrific comedic timing, and her performance is one of the movie's highlights. Kreider also does well in his role as Mickey's best friend Cass. Basco and Concepcion do good jobs in showing nuances in their performances as Mickey (who isn't always as goofy as he appears to be) and Avery (who isn't always as serious as she appears to be), who are navigating their lives after their divorce.

The movie falters when it has some scenes that look like they came from a 1990s sitcom. For example, there's a scene where Mickey chastises a teenager he knows named Dennis (played by Imani Hanson) because Dennis is selling candy outside of Mickey's coffee shop. Mickey has asked Dennis before to stop loitering in front of the shop. Mickey says to Dennis in a good-natured tone: "You better check yourself before you wreck yourself, Kris Kross." That's a line what might have worked in 1992, when hip-hop duo Kris Kross was a big deal, but this movie is supposed to take place in the 2020s.

"Asian Persuasion" gets the job done fairly well, in terms of what people can expect for a low-budget romantic comedy with this concept. There are some delightful references to Filipino culture and Asian American identities, as well as candid talk about interracial relationships, such as Cass' admitted preference for dating white women. The movie avoids being too saccharine sweet by having some raunchy jokes. Ultimately, "Asian Persuasion" is mostly light-hearted entertainment that is the cinematic equivalent of comfort food for people inclined to like romantic comedies about finding and keeping true love.

"Asian Persuasion"

Directed by Jhett Tolentino

Culture Representation: Taking place in New York City, the comedy film "Asian Persuasion features a predominantly Asian group of people (with some white people and African Americans) representing the working-class and middle-class.

Culture Clash: A divorced father schemes to find a new husband for his ex-wife so he doesn't have to pay her any more alimony.

Culture Audience: "Asian Persuasion" will appeal primarily to people who are fans of the movie's headliners and old-fashioned but likable romantic comedies.

Scatena & Rosner Films released "Asian Persuasion" in select U. S. cinemas on March 21, 2025. The movie will be released on digital and VOD on May 27, 2025.