Millers in Marriage

I love films written, directed and acted in by Ed Burns. He knows exactly how to create a realistic and poignant portrayal of life, where the characters, the geography (typically New York), the era and the story each play an equal part in the audience's journey from beginning to end. This is no exception. It touches on what it means to reach your 40s or 50s and wonder what could have been had you made different decisions, how marriages become a very different type of relationship once the nest is empty, and how professional aspirations are lost or fulfilled, or both, but perhaps without the expected exhilaration or satisfaction. This film has a cast of A-list actors at their very best, no one of them being any more or any less integral than the other. It is supremely touching and will no doubt resonate with anyone "of a certain age."

Forever appreciate Burns achievements, From the Micro-budget to the modest. As he is admitted Woody Allen fan, I don't think Burns movies are as memorable as Allen's lesser efforts. While many are still quite good, charming, this is a lesser Burns effort. With less than 10 reviews a month from it's streaming debut, it is already forgotten.

It's made for my age group, a 90s young adult. With A good 90s A-list cast. Yet it's not for me either. And that was Burns only pitch for this film as it was for "US". It probably should just be called "Argument Movie". It's just a collection of argument scenes from several couples, and that's it. With some flirt scenes.

Most of it taking place in comfy homes. Most characters are living in the past, and not the least self-aware about it, and what it's doing to their relationships. Weird that many of the arguments are the same, and the scenes structured the same. Nothing evolves. Written like a first draft without a rewrite. Anyway, We crosscut, and flashback a bit between these couples. No bliss, no romanticism. No stakes in the game. This could be one of his worst. And he usually does well with bigger casts, especially "The Groomsmen". Maybe I can't relate to these easy-lifers easily solvable problems, but then again, I can less relate to a Woody Allen film like "Another Woman", even seeing that as a teen, yet I loved it, seeing the artistry at work. That's the level Burns SHOULD be at by now, and he just isn't. Hate to say it, but this was dull and Burns needs to work through that. But It's not just him. Many proven directors forgot how to make a competent movie. Tough times in the comedy/drama department.

The movie has an essence of soap opera, not real life people. They always drink wine and champagne, they are never hungry, they never do real life things, they never finish conversations that matter. They just behave like 15 years old, not mature 50 plus years old people. Unfinished conversations, feelings, relationships. Things are not explained. Why do people behave the way they do? The constant ending of a scene and jumping to another and then another is tiring and frustrating. What this movie is is three unhappy couples who should have divorced years ago. Did this movie teach me anything new? Not really.

Edward Burns is a very talented writer, director, and actor. I have seen several of his works and always consider them pretty good. But when I watched this 2024 movie, it seemed to be not quite right this time. After I did some thinking, I finally understood why I had such feelings and what was wrong with this screenplay. I don't know if you have found out or not, but I will point it out to you anyway.

Three all-white couples?! That is so wrong! In all the movies we have seen in recent years, the married couple should be and must be an interracial couple, either the husband is African American, or the wife is African American, or either one should be Asian sometimes. That is how we show to the world, that Americans' marriages, like cops or business organizations, are based on the DEI principle. Most of the superior ones should be African Americans. Therefore, these three couples all in White just looked so unreal. Mr. Burns completely ignored the actual norm of Hollywood. One of the three couples, the husband should be African American, and one of the couple, the wife should be African American. Only one couple, the husband and wife could be White, or best yet more thoroughly DEI, one of them is Asian American, Hindi American, Chinese American, or Korean American. Three couples all in White; how boring it would be!

Anyway, I would not think Mr. Burns is a racist for such an overlooked mistake.

Feels like all these couples need individual therapy to figure out how to be married after kids launch. It's like no one paid attention to their marriages during their marriages. Now they are all struggling. I love ed burns and his movies...they feel like unhealed people seeking others to fill something within. Great acting beautiful scenery. Worth a watch for sure. Seems like intelligent people who won't seek support to resolve internal issues creating external problems. I'm sure many couples can relate to these three couples And their struggles. There has to be a more effective way to work though these situations.