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You Hurt My Feelings

  • 2023
  • R
  • 1h 33min
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6,5/10
16 k
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Julia Louis-Dreyfus and Tobias Menzies in You Hurt My Feelings (2023)
A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.
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  • Réalisation
    • Nicole Holofcener
  • Scénario
    • Nicole Holofcener
  • Casting principal
    • Julia Louis-Dreyfus
    • Tobias Menzies
    • Michaela Watkins
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  • NOTE IMDb
    6,5/10
    16 k
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    • Réalisation
      • Nicole Holofcener
    • Scénario
      • Nicole Holofcener
    • Casting principal
      • Julia Louis-Dreyfus
      • Tobias Menzies
      • Michaela Watkins
    • 99avis d'utilisateurs
    • 115avis des critiques
    • 80Métascore
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    • Récompenses
      • 1 victoire et 6 nominations au total

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    Julia Louis-Dreyfus
    Julia Louis-Dreyfus
    • Beth
    Tobias Menzies
    Tobias Menzies
    • Don
    Michaela Watkins
    Michaela Watkins
    • Sarah
    Arian Moayed
    Arian Moayed
    • Mark
    Owen Teague
    Owen Teague
    • Eliot
    Amber Tamblyn
    Amber Tamblyn
    • Carolyn
    David Cross
    David Cross
    • Jonathan
    Walter Brandes
    • Chris
    Erica Matlin
    • Ivy
    Karolena Theresa
    • Marielle
    Trey Santiago-Hudson
    Trey Santiago-Hudson
    • Billy
    Doug Moe
    Doug Moe
    • Hal
    Lynnsey Lewis
    Lynnsey Lewis
    • Romy
    Claudia Robinson
    Claudia Robinson
    • Esther
    Bryan Reynoso
    Bryan Reynoso
    • Jared
    Kelsey Carthew
    Kelsey Carthew
    • Zoe
    Zach Cherry
    Zach Cherry
    • Jim
    Clara Wong
    Clara Wong
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    • Réalisation
      • Nicole Holofcener
    • Scénario
      • Nicole Holofcener
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    TxMike

    Examines how miscommunication can hurt relationships.

    This is a simple concept but carried out very well. Don (Tobias Menzies) and Beth (Julia Louis-Dreyfus) are a long-time, loving couple. They live in Manhattan. He is a Psychiatrist with what appears to be a thriving practice. She is a published writer who also teaches writing to small groups. They have a 23-yr-old son who works at a smoke shop and wonders what better might be in store for him.

    Most of the first half hour of the movie establishes the setting and interactions between the couple, her mother, the son, some patients. Beth is writing her second book, her first novel, and seems to be having difficulty getting it published. Don always reads her drafts and tells her how good they are. He encourages her. Their relationship appears ideal.

    Then it happens, Beth and her sister come upon Don in a shop, as they approach hear him tell his B. I. L. That he doesn't really think Beth's book is good but he praises it for her encouragement. Beth is devastated, she leaves without Don ever knowing that she overheard. Until days later, after Beth has been acting cold towards him.

    And the rest of the movie is the real story, how they sort this out, how they develop an understanding of lying vs not hurting the others' feelings. In the process Don also learns how he might become a more effective Psychiatrist.

    Good, interesting relationship movie. My wife and I watched it at home on DVD from our public library.
    7depaulo-69529

    Entertaining without major surprises

    Sometimes it is good to go out on a date, and watch a movie that will not change the course of the night. It is neither hilarious or boring, just an interesting story that can happen to all of us, when we try to please our partner.

    The cast is good, Julia Louis-Dreyfus can be funny without forcing it, so the movie flows well. The movie is flat, but not in a bad way, it is a good entertainment and goes fast, but you probably won't cry or burst out laughing. It is just a good movie, where you probably arrive and leave in a same state of mind, in peace.

    There are some clever jokes, and some reflection about our own behavior, but nothing too deep.

    Enjoy, without big expectations, just a good entertainment.
    7jimfinger-47793

    Points for originality, but sadly, not so entertaining.

    The issue of how we, if not lie, fib to our loved ones in order to either spare their feelings or be supportive. And the consequences of that well-intentioned lack of honesty are thoughtfully dramatized, as are the family dynamics between spouses, parents and children, and siblings. But even at a short (by today's standards) 90 minutes, the movie feels overlong, and while there is an occasional laugh, the entertainment quotient is disappointingly low given the talents of the parties involved. Bottom line: a worthwhile watch if one's expectations are very measured. And much more of a family drama than a comedy.
    gortx

    Mildly engaging Holofcener entry

    Write about what you know. That's the advice Beth (Julie Louis-Dreyfuss) dispenses to her writing students. It's also pretty much the path Writer-Director Nicole Holofcener has followed in her six feature films. Her stories center on urban upper middle class professionals.

    Beth is an author who's latest novel hasn't sold yet and it's causing her some stress. Her husband, Don (Tobias Menzies), is a therapist who is also having some career doubts. They have a son (Owen Teague) who wants to be a playwright. Beth's sister, Sarah (Michaela Watkins), is an interior decorator who is becoming disenchanted with her work. Her husband Mark (Arian Moayed) is struggling actor. Plenty of first world angst to go around.

    Holofcener and her cast are good enough to overcome some of the familiar tropes here and the theme of how to tread the line between honesty and (hurting one's) feelings is decently explored. David Cross and Amber Tamblyn as a passive aggressive couple in Don's care are terrific scene stealers. What's missing here is true bite. There's never a sense of either urgency or sharp insights. One never feels that any of the interlocking relationships are truly in peril. A hug, a kiss, or a hit of edible marijuana and all will be fine.

    YOU HURT MY FEELINGS is a pleasant enough little movie, but, it's the epitome of a 'dramedy'- it falls just short of either of it's components.
    7arungeorge13

    Didn't "hurt my feelings", but made me introspect! [+70%]

    Well, I sat down for this one trusting A24, and it delivered more than what I asked for. It's a pretty simple drama alright, with conflicts not carrying the greatest of stakes. There's a sense of softness to the leads here, and they are, by nature, "good people". While it wouldn't have worked if that aspect was shoved down our throats, but the writing is careful when it comes to its subtleties. The lead performances are also great; the relationship equations between Beth and Don, Beth and Sarah, Mark and Sarah, the daughters' relationship with their mother, the couple's relationship with their young son - each of these were adequately portrayed. I loved the few scenes featuring the feisty, opinionated, and encouraging mother (Jeannie Berlin).

    The other beautiful scene is the one where the couple resolve their key issue, and the dialogues are especially well-written in this portion. It's a realization that shared journeys (of life) mean a lot more than individual journeys. It's natural for spouses to think that they're unconditionally supporting each other in their efforts, but sometimes, it's difficult to convey your opinion without even hurting them in the slightest. All that said, there were a few elements that didn't exactly work, such as the badly sketched robbery scene and the one where Don randomly suggests a solution to a patient's family issue. But that shouldn't stop you from checking the film out. It has Julia LD reuniting with writer-director Nicole Holofcener after Enough Said, in a very candid role.

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    • Anecdotes
      Amber Tamblyn and David Cross are married in real life; this is the first film in which they both appear.
    • Gaffes
      In the first scene when Julia Dryfus visits her son in a weed shop he takes a donut and seconds later his donut has a good chunk bitten out of it, but 11 seconds later it's whole again.
    • Citations

      Alice: You know nice is not a nice word.

    • Connexions
      Referenced in Amanda the Jedi Show: I Watched 45 Movies in 1 Week | 'Talk to Me' and the Best Movies of Sundance 2023 Explained (2023)
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    • What did Don do to his eyes at the end of the movie? It's strangely not explained.

    Détails

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    • Date de sortie
      • 26 janvier 2024 (États-Unis)
    • Pays d’origine
      • États-Unis
    • Langue
      • Anglais
    • Aussi connu sous le nom de
      • Me Heriste
    • Lieux de tournage
      • Ville de New York, New York, États-Unis
    • Sociétés de production
      • FilmNation Entertainment
      • Likely Story
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    • Montant brut aux États-Unis et au Canada
      • 4 830 788 $US
    • Week-end de sortie aux États-Unis et au Canada
      • 1 396 448 $US
      • 28 mai 2023
    • Montant brut mondial
      • 5 742 597 $US
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    • Durée
      1 heure 33 minutes
    • Couleur
      • Color
    • Mixage
      • Dolby Digital
    • Rapport de forme
      • 1.85 : 1

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