Reading Lolita in Tehran

From what I've read here, some may see it as exaggerated or one-sided, especially those who lived through the same time period and came away with different memories or interpretations. But "Reading Lolita in Tehran" isn't trying to offer a comprehensive history of post-revolutionary Iran. It's telling a very specific story, one rooted in the inner lives of women navigating a system that sought to control not only their actions, but their thoughts.

To me, what makes the film truly moving is how these discussions become a lifeline, sort of a rare space where they can finally be themselves, even if only briefly. The idea that some of them couldn't even feel safe being authentic inside their own homes is heartbreaking.

The film quietly captures the suffocation of life under authoritarian patriarchy, the struggle to imagine a future as a woman, the daily negotiations between visibility and safety, and the simmering anger that many men (and the regime itself) seem to harbor toward both women and the West. Yet rather than dramatize these themes, the film presents them with restraint, which makes them feel all the more real and disturbing.

The movie it's not flashy, but it's honest. For anyone interested in the emotional and psychological cost of life under repression, especially from the perspective of women, this film is well worth watching. It's quietly radical, emotionally honest, and deserves more attention than it has received.

Each culture has their own moral and values leave them alone.... Not everybody want a western civilization in their homes.... Using contraceptives and hastened lifes... Each culture has its own beauty and value leave it to be.

All fathers want their daughters having a beautiful and peaceful life not a life full of nightlife, boyfriends and alcohol.

Each culture has its own beauty and value leave it to be.

Let's start with the story or rather the lack of one There was no clear plot or direction and what was there was so disjointed and unengaging that I found myself completely uninterested in what was happening It felt like the filmmakers were trying to make something profound, but ended up with an incoherent mess instead The characters were another huge letdown None of them were remotely compelling or worth caring about They felt flat and underdeveloped and I never once found myself emotionally invested in their struggles I was just waiting for it to end, hoping for some kind of resolution or revelation, but nothing ever really happened The acting was absolutely atrocious The performances were stiff, lifeless, and completely unconvincing. It felt like none of the actors had any genuine connection to their roles, and their dialogue often came off as forced and unnatural. This lack of chemistry between the cast really sunk the whole film And then there's the direction wow. Just... wow. It was an absolute disaster. The pacing was sluggish, the cinematography was uninspired, and the overall tone of the film felt more like a high school project than a professionally made movie The direction did nothing to elevate the material, and in fact, it only made the film more excruciating to watch In short, Reading Lolita in Tehran is one of the worst movies I've ever seen. It fails on every level, from the plot to the performances to the direction. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone it's an exhausting, forgettable experience that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy.

This is not an easy watch, and the documentary style opening anchors it firmly in reality. We are very much in Iran in the late 70s, but we could equally be anywhere else where oppression exists -- where a new beginning turned into a living nightmare.

Azar Nafisi, confidently returning from America, experiences the grim reality of Iran in the 80s. Exuberant and self-assured, her behaviour couldn't be further from what's expected of her as an educator and a woman.

Lead actress Golshifteh Farahani has the gravitas and leadership required for the role, but also the levity and mischief that fuels Azar's acts of resistance. She creates an alchemy with the superbly matched ensemble cast, translating the political dynamics into painfully accessible human relationships.

"There's a lot on the line for me", says a visibly tortured security guard to a non-compliant Azar, putting the responsibility on HER to save HIS skin. That scene really drove home the grotesque unfairness debilitating both sides.

As the film progresses, you feel it viscerally: sickened and squirming, eyes brimming with tears, then warmth and joy spilling into your belly. What really shows the brutality of the regime is not even the dramatic scenes of obvious shock value. It is the small everyday moments that constantly grate on dignity and liberty, until the only choice left is to leave.

And equally, it is the small everyday moments of defiance and connection that make you revel in joy and resistance. As the real life Azar Nafisi says in her book, these women "never had a private corner", and it is in her living room, in each other's company, that they experience privacy and individuality.

The film asks a lot of you, but the aftertaste that remains is not of oppression or tragedy. It's one of defiant joy, unquenchable hope, a love for Iran, and the safe haven of connection.

Only a woman who has lived in Iran and felt every moment of this film with her whole being can truly understand its real value someone who has endured the pain can describe it It may not captivate the global audience but every scene is one we have lived Pain in Persian language reads the same from every side it is still pain.