Fora de Mim

I love movies and TV shows, always have. The old "idiot box" was my friend growing up in the 60's. I like anything that stimulates my mind or my emotions and this did both.

The story was great, I didn't know handicapped people had that much of a hard time back in the early 2000's, supposedly this was staged for 2002 I think.

Anyway, it was amazing how they put you into her head and let us feel the frustrations and joys that she felt.

The scene when she first gets the talking device and she greets her Dad just melted me into a puddle of goo! I was yelling at the movie, "hug her for God's sake!!!" I loved this movie and can't wait to show my wife!

Disney doen good, this is how Disney should be!!!

As a father of a non-verbal, wheelchair-bound child with cerebral palsy who uses an AAC device with a joystick as his primary voice, "Out of My Mind" resonated with me deeply. The film captures the day-to-day realities of families like ours with incredible authenticity. Several scenes hit home, especially the one where the motivating teacher encourages the parents to allow their child to attend regular classes. As protective parents, we've been there, reluctant to embrace change for our child's sake. The moment in the film where the child gazes out the window, leaning toward the floor, mirrored our own child's behavior in such an emotional way.

Another touching moment was when the father tries to get other kids to include his child in their play, and the child walks away without showing sadness, simply moving on to another activity. This quiet resilience is something we witness with our own kid every day. The film also beautifully shows how the child processes thoughts, forming sentences through single words and pictures-just like my child does with his AAC device.

The scene where the father cries hearing his child speak for the first time through the AAC device was so familiar to me. I've lived that exact moment, and watching it unfold on screen brought all those emotions flooding back. It's a moment of pure joy and relief. There's also a small but significant moment that shows how families like ours adapt to the world-like when other kids' parents put down cardboard to protect their floors. It reminded us of how we, too, make sure to wipe our child's wheelchair wheels before entering a friend's house to avoid soiling their carpets.

The film also highlights how others sometimes misunderstand or make awkward comments, such as asking if the child is okay when they're laughing-something many of us with children with CP are all too familiar with.

But above all, the film beautifully depicts how, no matter the challenges we face, everything is brighter when our child smiles. The joy that my kid's smile brings to my heart is immeasurable. It reminds me that, despite the struggles, everything is okay. Out of My Mind captures the strength, resilience, and love of children with disabilities and their families in such a heartfelt, truthful way.

I wholeheartedly give it a 10/10-star rating.

I just cannot let this go. There is a review on this page written by a lady with a username lauren_watson or something like that, the primary criticism of which is about what she perceives as the "ableism" that is endemic to the film. For example, she points out, isn't it terrible that the lead actress didn't even get first billing over actors playing minor- or even unnamed- characters?

Now, depending on when you're reading this, you may be wondering to yourself- wait a minute, the film hasn't actually been released yet. The film comes out in late November, and currently it is early October. Her review is dated October 3rd. Hmmm. What gives?

Well, if you're confused because you cannot imagine that a human being could possibly confuse the IMDB actors list for the ACTUAL billing order in the end credits of a film.... yeah, that's exactly what she's done. Her entire tirade is based on the misperception that the end credits in the film for some reason mirror the order IMDB has chosen to list them on their website.

It is odd that she fails to point out she didn't actually watch the movie, given that she ostensibly posted what was supposed to be a review of it. It's also odd that she was so incredibly quick to condemn the film based on what she saw on this website- not merely because they're two different things, but because this is a film ABOUT cerebral palsy; with a lead actress who has cerebral palsy; the plot of which is specifically designed to combat the misperceptions, unfair disadvantages, and poor treatment of those afflicted with cerebrall palsy and other conditions. It seems unlikely that such a film would be insensitive to the needs and emotions of the disabled, let alone be be a bastion of ableism so bad that it serves as a textbook example of how bad things are in Hollywood and elsewhere, as she insinuates.

So instead of "ableism", I have chosen a different theme for this review- it's called "critical thinking". Use your critical thinking skills at all times. Those include basic logical skills, simple deductions from known information, avoiding inaccurate comparisons, and so forth. Also- know where you are at all times in time and space. If the previous reviewer had done those things, none of those misstates would have been made.

And use your critical thinking skills when you're watching this film! It looks like a great movie, and I can't wait for it to (actually) come out.

Well how about that. I never thought Disney would ever make a movie based on a novel like this, and it actually turned out great. Out of My Mind is a very inspiring movie for people with disabilities. Where it values the disability representation and shows that even they can do anything. There may be times where it's a your typical teen film, but a lot of effort that's put for having an inspiring story, a good amount of character development, great acting, and a powerful moral that's beautifully put in the end. I think this is the movie that the people with disabilities need to watch. To be inspired of what the movie is trying to say. And I believe that even those that are not disabled will be touched with this movie too. I'm sure that the novel has inspired those groups before. But maybe it'll inspire some more of them that are more of movie people, and that's a great example of how it does. And if Melody Brooks can be successful even without a voice, then anyone else can.

As a person with non-speaking CP, it was nice to see someone like me as a main character. I think the movie did a pretty good job of telling the story. It shows the challenges everyone faces when trying something new and also shows how far behind the world is on inclusion. I feel like the story was a decent adaptation of the book, but was toned down for the movie. The only thing I didn't like is that it still flattened Melody's personality. Disabilities do not make people one dimensional, the world tries to do that. This movie tried to show that. I think everyone will benefit from watching it. Either to feel seen or learn something new.