Finding Nicole

Although "Finding Nicole" doesn't gloss over the aftermath of violence (the lingering fear, the emotional scars, the struggle to rebuild), it conveys a crucial message: it is possible to heal, it is possible to speak out, and it is possible to find a new, stronger, and brighter version of oneself.

Eliminating domestic violence begins with visibility, with educating people about self-love, emotional autonomy, and recognizing the early signs. But it also requires that as a society we stop blaming the victims, strengthen protection systems, and support those emerging from the darkness.

"Finding Nicole" is not just a film about violence; It is a love letter to human resilience, a reminder that even in the midst of the deepest fear, there is always a path to freedom.

"Finding Nicole," based on the book by Nicole Beverly, immerses us in a heartbreaking yet hopeful story, brought to the screen under the sensitive direction of Harley Wallen and masterfully starring Kaiti Wallen.

The film chronicles the devastating cycle of domestic violence that Nicole endured for over a decade, from initial love, through control, paralyzing fear, and finally the persecution that continued even after she left her abuser. Kaiti Wallen delivers a performance that transcends words: her portrayal captures the emotional complexity of a woman caught between loyalty, terror, and the instinct for survival.

One of the film's most powerful moments is the scene where Nicole confronts her abuser in court. Her statement, her voice trembling but full of conviction, symbolizes all those who have been silenced for too long. Also unforgettable is the depiction of the constant surveillance and stalking she endures, reminding us that violence doesn't always end with separation.

The film highlights the failures of the justice system-human failings that put her life and the lives of her children at risk-but also highlights the power of community: support networks, the viralization of her story, and the collective force that ultimately protected her.

This film explores the horrors of domestic violence, and is based on a true story. It gives us a raw and honest account of how one woman managed to survive her abusive husband, and how she got out to live on to tell her horrifying tale to the world, in the hopes it will help someone out there to take a stand against abuse towards women and children. Not only that, but we also see the mistakes made by the police, who need to be trained on how to handle domestic violence properly.

Nicole (played by Kaiti Wallen) and Warren (played by Mari G.) met in college and not long after she begins to see his possessive nature, and his angry temperament. The red flags are there, and are being ignored, and is usually the case when love is new. You don't want to see the bad side of the person you've just fallen in love with. Then we see the other side of Warren, when he love bombs her, which is also very common in situations like this. His insecurities are really the problem here, making him an unpredictable person to be around. His behaviour forces his wife and children to live in survival mode, always walking on eggshells. He does things in front of his family that are deplorable! The scene with the bird nearly made me sick. While they are separating, he breaks into the house and forces Nicole to have sex with him, without her consent. This shows us he is a diabolical monster. Why did she stay with him? Because he threatened to end her life if she left him. This too is very common when the victim tries to separate from the abuser. If it isn't an amicable breakup, it could turn dangerous, very fast.

Nicole is a hero in this scenario because she faced her adversary in court. At the expense of her emotions and at the sacrifice of her privacy, she has to re-live it in a brutal battle, where we witness her being revictimized by the defence team. The police aren't any better when they investigate the case. Warren's friend Bobby (played by Harley Wallen) is the cop that turns up to the house after Warren sexually assaults Nicole, he takes Warren's side, and I hope to God he lost his job after this. Unless there is solid evidence, then it is usually and casually dropped down the line of priorities. You can see the old adage coming through; that what happens behind closed doors, should stay behind closed doors. Which is not correct or healthy thinking. You would also think that after spending some time in a jail cell should teach the average person a lesson, and he should be begging for forgiveness. Sadly, that is not the case, and barely ever is that simple. It can take a lifetime to change old patterns, or intergenerational violence, because it is ingrained into one's psyche, making it a challenge to take the necessary steps towards changing the behaviour to obtain a better and more fulfilling life. Warren does not appear to be very remorseful, so I understand why Nicole had a final decision to make; she can stay as herself, or change her whole identity to escape the hold he has over her. What makes it worse is that from his jail cell he still manages to order a contracted hit on Nicole and the children.

This film shows us what victims of domestic violence go through, every single day. Waking up and wondering if this day will be the day he kills you or the kids. Never knowing whether talking to the innocuous neighbour or the mailman, would set the abuser off. To have to contend with court and everything associated with that, is a huge and scary challenge. Having to tell your story over and over again, for statements and to show in court, can feel like a never-ending cycle. Having to protect your children from their father who has become a monster in their eyes. The feeling of being stalked, walking around waiting for him to show up, which he does. Not being able to live a normal life, because there is a man out there who is trying to ruin your life and everything you have built together is destroyed. This is when you need support, and I'm glad Nicole found a friend in Katrina (played by Blanca Blanco) who teaches Nicole self-defence. Nicole's mother Susan (played by Debra Lamb) was also pulled in as a support person. But, how long will he get in jail? I was very pleased with how it all turned out at the end.

Overall, this is a very poignant and compelling film with a lot of messages layered in the storyline. A bit of back and forth with the timeline occurs and can be a little confusing at times, but the overall effect is strong regardless. It is there to show flashbacks and memories of how much the abuse has escalated over the years. For a true crime film, I think Nicole's story will relate to a lot of people. Due to this being based on true events, it will definitely provoke some sort of response from the viewer. The cast and the acting are great, considering what their roles are. I commend the filmmaker for bringing this social issue to the world, from his vision. I was on the edge of my seat a few times. The suspense and tension are palpable. I recommend this one to watch and is another example of indie filmmaking at its best. You will not be disappointed!

Reviewed by Del Gibson.

Being a survivor of domestic violence myself, I found the movie "Finding Nicole" incredibly well-crafted. It's a difficult watch, but it sheds light on the raw and often hidden truths about domestic violence, including aspects that are rarely discussed. The film follows Nicole and her children as they escape domestic violence and depicts the harsh struggles victims of abuse face when navigating our judicial system.

Survivors have to fight to feel safe, and this film serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of raising awareness and creating change. It's a film that everyone needs to watch to help us understand the challenges faced by domestic violence victims and to work towards a more just and equitable society.

FINDING NICOLE is based on the gut-wrenching true-life story of Nicole Beverly, who not only survived years of domestic abuse, but is now a champion for those affected by this issue.

This movie can be emotionally draining due to the subject matter which can be horrific. However, this is an important story to tell, and Nicole not only survived, but continues to inspire others through her advocacy for justice.

The gripping performances are solid throughout and this movie is well worth watching. Hopefully, it will inspire others to be strong and demand the respect they deserve. An excellent film.