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The Family I Had

  • 2017
  • 1h 17m
IMDb RATING
6.7/10
1.6K
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The Family I Had (2017)
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CrimeDocumentary

In The Family I Had, a mother recalls how her brilliant teenage son came to shatter their idyllic family through one horribly violent and shocking act.In The Family I Had, a mother recalls how her brilliant teenage son came to shatter their idyllic family through one horribly violent and shocking act.In The Family I Had, a mother recalls how her brilliant teenage son came to shatter their idyllic family through one horribly violent and shocking act.

  • Directors
    • Katie Green
    • Carlye Rubin
  • Stars
    • Ella Bennett
    • Charity Lee
    • Kyla Bennett
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    6.7/10
    1.6K
    YOUR RATING
    • Directors
      • Katie Green
      • Carlye Rubin
    • Stars
      • Ella Bennett
      • Charity Lee
      • Kyla Bennett
    • 31User reviews
    • 10Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 win & 1 nomination total

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    The Family I Had: Being A Good Mom
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    Ella Bennett
    • Self
    • (archive footage)
    Charity Lee
    • Self
    Kyla Bennett
    Kyla Bennett
    • Self
    Becca Baggenstoss
    • Self
    Donna Kleman
    • Self, Abilene Police Department's chaplain
    Paris Lee Bennett
    Paris Lee Bennett
    • Self
    Khyman
    • Self
    Phoenix
    • Self, Charity Lee's child
    • Directors
      • Katie Green
      • Carlye Rubin
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    6thebimp

    @sleepyratingscale- sitting in bed

    It centers around a horrific event and the aftermath of it. If you were a parent would you still love your child despite knowing what they are capable of. The documentary brings to question the whole nature versus nurture question. What causes someone to be evil? Are they born that way or is it because of the circumstances they are born into? The documentary leaves a lot unanswered and I wish they would have delved more into the why. So we only got surface level explanations as to why things went left for this young man. I give the mom props to be able to allow us into her live and listen to the scrutiny I'm sure she received .
    9heaze

    Terrible Mother

    Great story, but please do further research like I did. Charity relapsed a lot more than she states in the documentary. On top of that she blames all these guys and her mother for her issues, but she goes out an looks for men like that. She minimizes everything, and sets up foundations and plays a role like an actress , so as to hide who she really is. Hopefully I never meet anyone like her in my life, because she's the definition of toxic. Feel bad for the children they never had a chance at a good life.
    10nielsenjeannette

    A brilliant and thought provoking documentary

    This is a haunting and thought-provoking documentary that provides insight into an impossible situation a family is placed in after a tragic murder of one underage sibling by another. The documentary, in my opinion, is all the more interesting because it does not fall into the trap of trying to provide concocted closure where there can be none. I highly recommend it. Thank you to the family for sharing such awful and difficult thoughts.
    7a_baron

    The Family I Had

    When he was thirteen, Paris Bennett murdered his four year old sister. Ella was stabbed no fewer than seventeen times. The kid who did this is said to have an IQ of over 140. Why did he do it? As an act of revenge on his mother. Revenge for what? Go figure. One might expect his mother to disown him, but a mother's love is unconditional, at least in this case. Paris Bennett's mother has led what might be called an unusual life, partly by fate, partly by design. Married twice very briefly both times, her own mother is quite wealthy; the source of that wealth was one of her husbands, Charity's father, who was gunned down in mysterious circumstances. Charity's mother was not only said to have hired the hit-man but was actually tried for murder, and acquitted. In this documentary she makes what can only be taken as a confession, although if pushed she would undoubtedly claim it was a joke.

    The documentary makers speak at length with Charity and her mother who are free to tell their respective stories without questions; there is lots of archive footage of the delightful young girl who was denied the chance to grow up, and face-to-face encounters with the monster who killed her.

    If you take away anything from this, it should be that some people are just evil. True, a 13 year old is not to be judged by the same standards as a 23 year old, but ultimately, words like psychopath and sociopath are precisely that, words, descriptions of behaviour, not diagnoses of some elusive chimera known generically as mental illness.
    9reneereives

    Wow!

    Probably one of the craziest documentaries I've ever watched. I feel bad for Charity, because it seems like she's caught in a twisted web of dysfunction. Hopefully there's some healing for her, but Jiminy Christmas, her oldest kid. The signs are there.

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      References One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (1975)
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      Mira Billotte: Vocals

      Kathi Wilcox: Bass

      Matt Schulz: Drums

      T. Griffin: Guitar

      Recorded by Guy Picciotto at La Bas, Brooklyn

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    • Release date
      • September 23, 2017 (Netherlands)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
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    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Cuando tuve a mis hijos
    • Filming locations
      • Abilene, Texas, USA
    • Production companies
      • Motto Pictures
      • Smoke & Apple Films
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      1 hour 17 minutes
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