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Being Frank

Original title: You Can Choose Your Family
  • 2018
  • R
  • 1h 49m
IMDb RATING
6.2/10
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Samantha Mathis, Jim Gaffigan, Anna Gunn, Logan Miller, Gage Banister, Isabelle Phillips, and Emerson Tate Alexander in Being Frank (2018)
Phillip longs to leave his small town for music school in The Big Apple. His dreams are dashed when his overbearing father, Frank, forbids it. In retaliation to his father's dictatorial parenting, he sneaks away for a wild spring break. However, when he crosses state lines he instead finds a charming lake community where he spots his father with another woman. Turns out, his father lives in this town and has an entire other family. With this new heartbreaking information Philip realizes he can wallow in his father's deceit or take matters into his own hands.
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A normal father's family life is turned upside down when his son discovers his dad has another family.A normal father's family life is turned upside down when his son discovers his dad has another family.A normal father's family life is turned upside down when his son discovers his dad has another family.

  • Director
    • Miranda Bailey
  • Writer
    • Glen Lakin
  • Stars
    • Jim Gaffigan
    • Logan Miller
    • Anna Gunn
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  • IMDb RATING
    6.2/10
    2K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Miranda Bailey
    • Writer
      • Glen Lakin
    • Stars
      • Jim Gaffigan
      • Logan Miller
      • Anna Gunn
    • 32User reviews
    • 17Critic reviews
    • 41Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 3 wins & 5 nominations total

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    Jim Gaffigan
    Jim Gaffigan
    • Frank
    Logan Miller
    Logan Miller
    • Philip
    Anna Gunn
    Anna Gunn
    • Laura Hansen
    Samantha Mathis
    Samantha Mathis
    • Bonnie
    Alex Karpovsky
    Alex Karpovsky
    • Ross
    Daniel Rashid
    Daniel Rashid
    • Lewis
    Isabelle Phillips
    Isabelle Phillips
    • Kelly
    Emerson Tate Alexander
    Emerson Tate Alexander
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    Gage Banister
    Gage Banister
    • Eddie
    • (as Gage Polchlopek)
    Danielle Campbell
    Danielle Campbell
    • Allison
    Hayes MacArthur
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    • Stan Kempler
    Michelle Hurd
    Michelle Hurd
    • Marcy Kempler
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    Theresa Burkhart Gallagher
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    Zach Selwyn
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    Thomas Mulzac
    • Troy
    Jessica VanOss
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    • Director
      • Miranda Bailey
    • Writer
      • Glen Lakin
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    8ops-52535

    quite a pleasure

    Infidelity and adultry, siblings and halfsiblings, a wife here and a wife there, never mind it tastes good, the bitter taste comes in the end whatever you do

    its a comedy with a bit seriousity, alot of hide and seek, some teenage festival humour, and a whole lot of family-business. its the story about the man that has made himself two families, and have lived that life successsfully for nearly 20 years till the day he is being disclosed by one of his somns, and so the blackmailing and the whole charade starts.

    its quite an original turn on the idea, and the sort of filmgenre that is hard to make a good ending on, but i think they do it well, and the acting are allover pretty good and you really feel the desperation at times. some may feel the makers are just scratching the surface of the topic , but its meant to be a comedy, and they have made a good one too( i skiped dinner to end the film)

    so the grumpy old man recommends a view of this family bundle, its good and its fun...
    7deloudelouvain

    Not a bad movie, not that funny though.

    Being Frank or You Can Choose Your Family, two tiles for one movie. It's not the first time I see that and I honestly don't get the point of that. Just choose one title and that's it. That said it wasn't a bad movie. First of all I love Jim Gaffigan as a stand-up comedian so I was a bit curious about his acting skills. It wasn't bad but even if this movie is supposed to be a comedy (there are some funny moments but I've seen better) his stand-up comedies are just much funnier. The cast was good, the story is entertaining with some good moments, so overall it's a movie worth watching.
    7Rob-O-Cop

    it works, it's fun and funny

    I was worried by the 5.6 rating but that's not the reality of this movie. It's well put together, complex, funny and fun. Jim Gaffigan is perfect as the two timing dad, he pulls it off with believable self unawareness, clumsily but surely getting himself into and out of tight spots. All the cast were good and it was a clever and complicated set up to pull off. Writing, editing and directing this piece wouldn't have been easy so full credit for a well executed end product. The film ending was the least strong part of the story but really where could it have gone and remained believable? It was left a little open ended, and that's probably for the best, although the happy ending junkies that we are would have hoped for a tidy finish, the one they chose left you to think a little after the movie finished.
    8stevepat99

    They pulled it off!

    Comedy about a man living a double life with two families for 20 years? Movies with such serious seeming themes are not made for comedies. Walking the line if a tough act which, when accomplished, usually results in classic type black comedies. In this case Frank's writers pull it off in fun and also serious fashion. Son Philip and dad Frank are both likeable and do well acting. The remainder of the cast also does well. The writer(s) win the day crafting a dandy back story and current goings on. Frank's effort to convince his son Philip that he did the 'right' thing, embarking on a double life, given the circumstances. What else was a man to do!

    The writers missed a final fun twist. They could have had wife #2 announce her first child was not Franks removing a major obstacle to sibling love.

    That aside, well done!
    Gordon-11

    What a feat

    This film tells the story of a young man who discovers that his father has another family.

    The plot may sound sad and offensive, but the film is actually quite funny. Even though the father has committed such an act, the film portrays him sympathetically and makes you feel for him. It is quite a feat to turn a monstrous life of lie into a comedy.

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    • Trivia
      The premise for this movie sounds a lot like the old Clifton Webb film, "The Remarkable Mr. Pennypacker".
    • Crazy credits
      Opening credits are on street signs as Philip bikes by.
    • Connections
      Referenced in The King of Staten Island (2020)

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    • Release date
      • June 21, 2019 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • You Can Choose Your Family
    • Filming locations
      • Congers, New York, USA
    • Production companies
      • Cold Iron Pictures
      • Imagine Entertainment
      • Reliance Big Entertainment
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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $67,343
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $16,392
      • Jun 16, 2019
    • Gross worldwide
      • $67,343
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      • 1h 49m(109 min)
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