Prince Harming

I just saw this film on Amazon Prime. I liked that Victoria, the main character was a go-getting independent woman, making life on her own. The script explored causes and reasons abuse happens in the home. It made me wonder ... was she better off alone? Probably not because she wasn't with the right guy, and she wanted someone. I was glad the film made me think. As the film progressed her descent into total humiliation was well established and portrayed. There was great acting.

From the get go, Prince Harming has all the trappings of a modern, charming rom-com - full of clever set pieces and witty banter - though by no means overly sweet. Life is hard for this New York gal, though she never lets it get her down, always pushing forward with a smile and her eternal optimism. When she does at last meet her Blue Prince, it feel like fate is rewarding her. Of course something is not quite right with him and we the audience keep waiting for that other shoe to drop - and drop it does with a loud THUD! When the darkness comes, it comes hard, building to point of raw, real, discomfort - as it should. Prince Harming is a cautionary tale of wanting too badly and of not seeing the evil right in front of us. Of being a victim and at last having the strength to put a stop to it and regaining ones SELF. A great mix of genres and a well made and well acted film...

I am drawn to honest and authentic storytelling. I respect the filmmakers desire to portray real people with dreams, desires and massive flaws. This film is raw and deals with a very complex issue - what will we sacrifice to find happiness? How far will we go to twist reality to meet our needs? When is enough, enough? Those answers aren't easy or clear cut and I really enjoyed how the writer/director handled the subject matter. It really made me think.

"Prince Harming" stands out as a gripping tale of survival and self-discovery in the wake of abuse. Marianne Hettinger, both in front of and behind the camera, delivers a masterful performance and direction that resonates deeply with audiences, particularly those who have experienced abusive relationships.

Hettinger's portrayal of the protagonist is riveting and authentic, capturing the emotional turmoil and eventual triumph with raw sincerity. Through her nuanced performance, viewers are invited to witness the resilience of the human spirit in the face of adversity.

The supporting cast adds layers of complexity to the narrative, with Andreas Beckett's portrayal of the abuser sending chills down the spine. Deborah S. Craig and Velson D'Souza, as the protagonist's steadfast friends, offer a beacon of hope and support amidst the darkness, showcasing the importance of solidarity in times of need.

What sets "Prince Harming" apart is its unflinching portrayal of abuse and its aftermath. Hettinger fearlessly confronts the harsh realities of toxic relationships, refusing to romanticize or sensationalize the pain and trauma endured by survivors. Yet, amidst the heartache, there is a powerful message of empowerment and resilience, reminding viewers that they are not defined by their past.

As a director, Hettinger demonstrates a keen understanding of storytelling, employing intimate visuals and evocative imagery to immerse audiences in the protagonist's journey. The film's pacing is deliberate, allowing for moments of introspection and revelation that leave a lasting impact.

"Prince Harming" is a testament to the power of independent cinema to shine a light on important social issues. It's a film that prompts reflection and conversation, urging viewers to confront the realities of abuse while offering hope for healing and redemption.

Review by Nola Berzinski.

Great film! Wonderful acting and direction! A heartbreakingly honest film that clearly comes straight out of the heart of the writer.