Primemates is a disturbing and honest conversation among four men in an exclusive cigar shop. They talk about love, relationships, and sex. While exploring men's fascination with younger wom... Read allPrimemates is a disturbing and honest conversation among four men in an exclusive cigar shop. They talk about love, relationships, and sex. While exploring men's fascination with younger women, Primemates delves into many political taboos usually associated with the intellectual.Primemates is a disturbing and honest conversation among four men in an exclusive cigar shop. They talk about love, relationships, and sex. While exploring men's fascination with younger women, Primemates delves into many political taboos usually associated with the intellectual.
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It starts in a cigar lounge, where men as they all do, start mixing it up and sharing jokes until a young girl walks in, this of course gets there heart pumping. Once she leave the room the real true discussion comes out. The men, being all older, start talking about what it would be like to be with someone so young, but they know it's all talk because there's no way that could happen. But when one of the characters tells the other that it can happen and he's living proof, they all want to know how. Before you know it they are all sharing personal secrets and what comes out at the end is shocking. You really have to see this film!
The topic of discussion seems inevitably to turn to that of sex and desire. Ray (Leo Rossi) argues that infidelity is simply an "evolutionary" phenomenon, one that has actually strengthened his marriage. Devoted to his wife, Clint (Ethan Phillips) challenges Ray's carefully constructed, intellectual argument. Joe (Joe Estevez) seems less remorseful about his divorce than entranced by the passionate affair which brought it about. And Jim (Will Wallace), the self-aggrandizing womanizer (the "slut") of the group, serves as foil to what seems the relatively diffident, Prufrock-like, Clint.
The machismo and jousting, locker-room camaraderie suggest a certain shallowness and superficiality in the male menagerie. But as Oscar Wilde reminded us, "the truth is seldom plain and never simple." When Ray promises to reveal a secret if the others will respond in kind the story becomes at once both more disturbing and more meaningful. A conversational movie, even one punctuated with the occasional flashback, is a risky venture. On the other hand, when that risk pays off it can become that most valuable of films--raw and redemptive, yet believable and riveting. The casual tone progressively grows darker and more unsparing as these middle-aged men relate their own stark, once-told tales.
In PrimeMates Rudy Luna's first film manages to uncover the archetype beneath the stereotype. All good stories are about trial and transformation, and the one here is no exception. The unexpected narrative turn ambushes both audience and characters in a poignant, haunting depiction of the depth and integrity of authentic relationship.
Bob
-Joe Estevez plays a guilt ridden divorcée, Will Wallace plays the womanizer who can't find his perfect match, Ethan Phillips plays the passive husband(although you'll find out that this is completely wrong!) and Leo Rossi is the smug perfect mate, who's also the antagonizer of the group-
Primates is a unique twist on the "boys will be boys" morality question except that it's so much more than just that. I was swept up on an emotional journey I won't forget. Everyone should see this moving and important film. I can't wait to see another Rudy Luna film.
Thanks for your talent, Lucinda Gobin
An old professor, Fr. McCann said the purpose of art is to make us think and a good friend Tom D. said the purpose is to make us emote. Primates has it all. Masterfully shot on a shoestring budget in four days, the images and sounds had me deeply emote. Honesty can be dangerous. So as we navigate this life with trial and error, attempting to work out the problems of being, the most agreed upon plan- an education, a source of income, friends/a mate/ a family, give the brain plenty to ruminate about and compel us to share it's subjective conclusions/judgments with whomever will listen. When the trials in life force us to be honest and the fear of judgment is momentarily removed in a safe environment, the personal fears, which have accumulated since birth are released from their prison and lose their grip on infinite possibilities for liberty that life holds. Liberty is questioning the plan.
What more could I want from a movie? Maybe a solution to it all- IN the sequel! Primates is spectacular!! Six stars!!! > Seamus McDonagh
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