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They/Them/Us

  • 2021
  • 1h 30m
IMDb RATING
4.7/10
385
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They/Them/Us (2021)
ComedyDramaRomance

Charlie and Lisa, two divorced parents in their 40's who find themselves at a midlife crossroads. Both are single parents and they have four complicated teenagers.Charlie and Lisa, two divorced parents in their 40's who find themselves at a midlife crossroads. Both are single parents and they have four complicated teenagers.Charlie and Lisa, two divorced parents in their 40's who find themselves at a midlife crossroads. Both are single parents and they have four complicated teenagers.

  • Director
    • Jon Sherman
  • Writers
    • Jon Sherman
    • Melissa Vogley Woods
  • Stars
    • Joey Slotnick
    • Amy Hargreaves
    • Jack Steiner
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    4.7/10
    385
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Jon Sherman
    • Writers
      • Jon Sherman
      • Melissa Vogley Woods
    • Stars
      • Joey Slotnick
      • Amy Hargreaves
      • Jack Steiner
    • 14User reviews
    • 30Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 1 nomination total

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    Joey Slotnick
    Joey Slotnick
    • Charlie Goldman
    Amy Hargreaves
    Amy Hargreaves
    • Lisa Harper
    Jack Steiner
    Jack Steiner
    • Danny Goldman
    Lexie Bean
    Lexie Bean
    • Maddie Harper
    Shanna Strong
    Shanna Strong
    • Anna Goldman
    Abi Van Andel
    Abi Van Andel
    • DeborahGoldman
    Sarah Eddy
    Sarah Eddy
    • Courtney Harper
    Robert Pavlovich
    Robert Pavlovich
    • Dr. Rawlings…
    Trina Gardinier
    • Lauren…
    Esther Cunningham
    Esther Cunningham
    • Paige
    Cheyenne Poz
    Cheyenne Poz
    • Candy
    Lisa DeRoberts
    Lisa DeRoberts
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    Johanna McGinley
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    Tre Ryan
    • Midwestern Man
    Heidi Lewandowski
    Heidi Lewandowski
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    Graham Caldwell
    Graham Caldwell
    • Young Danny
    Richard Hagerman
    • Older Professor
    Abigail Esmena
    Abigail Esmena
    • Suburban Woman
    • Director
      • Jon Sherman
    • Writers
      • Jon Sherman
      • Melissa Vogley Woods
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    2jh_thorn

    ruined by constant 'you guys'

    Super annoying. Would have been way better without every character calling everyone else 'you guys'. Filmmakers who think that little of the audience need to find another profession. Would have been way better without every character calling everyone else 'you guys'. Filmmakers who think that little of the audience need to find another profession. Would have been way better without every character calling everyone else 'you guys'. Filmmakers who think that little of the audience need to find another profession. Would have been way better without every character calling everyone else 'you guys'.
    3ks-60500

    Where's the fun part ?

    I seldom write reviews until I see so many 10/10 reviews just can't hold my anger anymore. Single parents with kinky interests met and bring their kids together. Go to kinky club and leave the kids alone with weed left behind. Selfish irresponsible jerks I seen. And the worst is, which parts n lines are laughable ? Come on.....
    10trinagard

    Great Movie!

    Finally...Hollywood has a realistic version of what a real mid-western blended family looks like. Director Jon Sherman along with his partner and co-writer Melissa Vogley-Woods bring to life an amazing Rom-Com that explores what it means to create a new family, with all the joys and challenges that come along with it.

    All families have issues and this family is no different. They have a son who is headed for rehab, a daughter who is gender fluid, and two other daughters who are dealing with being the children of separated parents. Plus there is the added strain on the kids of their parents new romantic partners coming into their lives.

    The movie also does an incredible job of showing the BDSM Community as it really is...a diverse amalgam of folks from all walks of life who choose to explore and express their sexuality creatively, spiritually, and of course kinkily. This is not a Shades of Grey or Eyes Wide Shut version of BDSM. Amy Hargraves and Joey Slotnick show the humanity and vulnerability of normal people open to discovering new parts of their sexuality with their partners.

    This film is filled with rawness and humor and most of all realness. I appreciate the story they tell and the way they tell it. Kudos to Jon and Melissa for writing such a wonderful screenplay and a round of applause to the actors who it brought it to life.
    10miracb-92858

    Really great movie!

    This is a really great movie showing some of the complexities of modern blended families and modern parenting. I loved the balance of funny moments and thoughtful moments. Really well done!
    1Avidviewer-02847

    Beware the top reviews, it's a dud.

    One of those movies where you ask yourself after watching it, "Why was it made?" It's not even funny, it's just stupid. Dumb script and characters that aren't appealing. Don't waste your time.

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    • Release date
      • February 1, 2022 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Official site
      • Official Website
    • Language
      • English
    • Filming locations
      • Columbus, Ohio, USA
    • Production companies
      • Blended Family Productions
      • Columbus Pictures
      • Silver Sound
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    • Runtime
      • 1h 30m(90 min)
    • Color
      • Color
    • Sound mix
      • Dolby Digital
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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