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Love Me Instead

Original title: Beni Çok Sev
  • 2021
  • TV-MA
  • 2h 4m
IMDb RATING
7.0/10
3.4K
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Love Me Instead (2021)
One day, Sedat, who works as a prison guard in Konya, is given the duty to take one of the prisoners, Musa, to his hometown. Musa does not intend to return until he finds out why his daughter was killed.
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Accompanied by a ward, a prisoner travels to his hometown to reconnect with his daughter and make amends, but a tragic truth mars his journey.Accompanied by a ward, a prisoner travels to his hometown to reconnect with his daughter and make amends, but a tragic truth mars his journey.Accompanied by a ward, a prisoner travels to his hometown to reconnect with his daughter and make amends, but a tragic truth mars his journey.

  • Director
    • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
  • Writer
    • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
  • Stars
    • Sarp Akkaya
    • Songül Öden
    • Ercan Kesal
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    7.0/10
    3.4K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
    • Writer
      • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
    • Stars
      • Sarp Akkaya
      • Songül Öden
      • Ercan Kesal
    • 22User reviews
    • 9Critic reviews
  • See production info at IMDbPro
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    Sarp Akkaya
    Sarp Akkaya
    • Musa
    Songül Öden
    Songül Öden
    • Nuriye
    Ercan Kesal
    Ercan Kesal
    • Sedat
    Aleyna Özgeçen
    • Yonca…
    Füsun Demirel
    Füsun Demirel
    • Nebahat
    Sinan Arslan
    • Haluk
    Ali Seçkiner Alici
    Ali Seçkiner Alici
    • Apo
    Ushan Çakir
    Ushan Çakir
    • Müfettis 1
    Dogukan Polat
    Dogukan Polat
    • Müfettis 2
    Su Burcu Yazgi Coskun
    • Selen
    Güner Özkul
    • Gülendam
    Onur Bilge
    • Kadir
    Kaan Altay Köprülü
    • Emre
    Murat Yilanci
    • Cezaevi Müdürü
    Serpil Ozcan
    • Nihan
    Ihsan Saran
    • Hikmet
    Kemal Öztekin
    • Kemal
    Koray Altinpinar
    • Koray
    • Director
      • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
    • Writer
      • Mehmet Ada Öztekin
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    User reviews22

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    8me_is_we

    Complex yet interesting

    The story started a little too slow. I had many questions in the beginning, as the characters and the mise-en-scene of some flashbacks were not fully explained. The director definitely kept us in the dark for too long. But after my questions found answers - somewhere half way during the movie - I started to feel more empathy for the characters. I LOVED the acting; Yonca's acting especially! And what I LOVED the most about this film is the portray of the location i.e. How the residents live, walk, talk and behave. Using real residents from this deprived area really gave this film a magic touch.

    Great job director!
    8E_S_Nightingale

    Is Love the source of all good...and evil?

    The basic outline of the story is of an incarcerated man who is allowed to visit his daughter for a day (under the supervision of a prison guardian). The man has not seen his daughter since she was a baby and thus is very anxious and at the same time apprehensive to meet her. One cannot say much more without giving much away but I can add that it is not what you might expect.

    The pace seems slow yet you understand why eventually. Behind every blink of an eye, every pursing of the lips, every slow moving frame there is some layer of the tragedies that have unfolded and are yet to.

    The acting is perfection. No more to say. Sarp Akkaya is as always sublime in presenting a damaged character even behind a simple smile. Young Aleyna Özgeçen proves to be capable of working with such heavy and disturbing material. Ercan Kesal also provides a perfect supporting character who is there to help the audience connect with such a gritty world.

    The story will keep you guessing and even when you think that all is laid before you, you keep getting small bread crumbs that add to the picture. It is a story that concludes with leaving the audience satisfied, grieved yet hopeful all at the same time.
    10privateeroglu

    Best Drama in 2021

    Thais Movie is the best Drama i seen in 2021... very good actors... good musik and picture... the plot in the film is great and very much taken from reality.
    8zangi1090

    Bravo 👏

    I was searching on Netflix what film to watch and this caught my interest. It has all the ingredients of a good film. It's one of those films that make you think rather than let the film think for you.

    I really enjoyed it, the acting is superb, the small details such as the guitar playing in the background, the rundown drug infested town the gaunt looks of the drug users the scene where you see the dead body of Musa's daughter all added to this film.

    It's one of those films where you are emotionally involved and it leaves you thinking about it for the next few days.

    I would definitely recommend you to watch.
    9vasso-ierem

    Very interesting,dramatic movie

    I really loved this movie. Very well directed,interesting,great acting. Pure drama,with plot twists. Raises social issues as well. Sarp Akkaya gives an acting recital,as always.

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    • Release date
      • November 19, 2021 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • Turkey
    • Official site
      • Netflix Site
    • Language
      • Turkish
    • Also known as
      • Quiéreme tanto
    • Filming locations
      • Konya, Turkey
    • Production companies
      • Lanistar Media
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      • 2h 4m(124 min)
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    • Aspect ratio
      • 2.35 : 1

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