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Our Son

  • 2023
  • R
  • 1h 44m
IMDb RATING
5.0/10
1.4K
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Our Son (2023)
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Married for 13 years, same-sex couple Gabriel and Nicky appear to have the perfect life together. However, when growing stress and anxiety leads to divorce, each man finds himself fighting f... Read allMarried for 13 years, same-sex couple Gabriel and Nicky appear to have the perfect life together. However, when growing stress and anxiety leads to divorce, each man finds himself fighting for custody of their young son.Married for 13 years, same-sex couple Gabriel and Nicky appear to have the perfect life together. However, when growing stress and anxiety leads to divorce, each man finds himself fighting for custody of their young son.

  • Director
    • Bill Oliver
  • Writers
    • Peter Nickowitz
    • Bill Oliver
  • Stars
    • Phylicia Rashad
    • Luke Evans
    • Andrew Rannells
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  • IMDb RATING
    5.0/10
    1.4K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • Bill Oliver
    • Writers
      • Peter Nickowitz
      • Bill Oliver
    • Stars
      • Phylicia Rashad
      • Luke Evans
      • Andrew Rannells
    • 25User reviews
    • 25Critic reviews
    • 58Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 4 wins & 2 nominations total

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    Phylicia Rashad
    Phylicia Rashad
    • Maya
    Luke Evans
    Luke Evans
    • Nicky
    Andrew Rannells
    Andrew Rannells
    • Matthew
    Robin Weigert
    Robin Weigert
    • Pam
    Kate Burton
    Kate Burton
    • Maggie 'Miggie'
    Billy Porter
    Billy Porter
    • Gabriel
    Alfredo Narciso
    Alfredo Narciso
    • Lorenzo
    Cassandra Freeman
    Cassandra Freeman
    • Adele
    Gabby Beans
    Gabby Beans
    • Judith
    Liza J. Bennett
    Liza J. Bennett
    • Claire
    Isaac Powell
    Isaac Powell
    • Solo
    Francis Jue
    Francis Jue
    • Jason
    David Pittu
    David Pittu
    • Ian
    Emily Donahoe
    Emily Donahoe
    • Alexandra
    Michael Countryman
    Michael Countryman
    • Jim 'Grumps'
    Will Coombs
    Will Coombs
    • Max Jr.
    Gil Perez-Abraham
    • Kevin
    Nuala Cleary
    Nuala Cleary
    • Isabella
    • Director
      • Bill Oliver
    • Writers
      • Peter Nickowitz
      • Bill Oliver
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    User reviews25

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    7exceladeogun

    Simple and sincere

    Our son

    In this heartfelt narrative, a gay couple embarks on the challenging journey of divorce, entangled in a poignant custody battle. The storyline, while seemingly uncomplicated, distinguishes itself by embracing an authentic simplicity. Although it may occasionally appear unadorned, this simplicity serves as a genuine reflection of life. While the film doesn't extensively delve into character development, the characters' motivations remain transparent.

    The adept performances of Billy Porter and Luke Evans gracefully elevate the film, injecting it with an abundance of emotion and authenticity. Christopher Woodley, in the role of the titular son, delivers a performance that is both revelatory and deeply touching.

    Furthermore, the cinematography, direction, and soundtrack collaborate seamlessly to enhance the inherent simplicity of the movie, contributing to its overall impact.

    7/10.
    7joey-78499

    The Good the bad and the pretty ok

    While I didnt feel much connection between Billy and Luke (purposeful?), I resonated and reverberated with the pulse of this story. With some friends going thru similar struggles recently I saw an adept struggle between to people who are faced with one of life's most challenging struggles: divorce/child care.

    The movie doesn't really beat a totally compelling rhythm while we drift along with the two actors - but their journies feel real, honest, and painful.

    A solid drama. I cried (not buckets, but tears).

    The boy gang was a tad cliche (but what do I know I dont have a boy gang). Oh and a cameo or two from some wonderful legends.
    7db-00459

    This is a film about personal growth

    This is not a film with a twist, as some reviewers hope for on IMDB. It's a film about personal crossroads, growth and learning direction in life, even when you think you know it all already.

    'Our Son' is all about their son and what his and their needs are as both parents have drifted apart.

    This film is a slow burner, but it rewards you emotionally and maybe makes you see things as lesser 'It's a gay film' and more of how the couple could have done better for all three of them.

    It's well shot, uses spaces and sets well, but does not get bogged down with showing every NY landmark it can.

    Watch this one for a casual evening in, or for a Sunday afternoon movie.
    10Alwood

    Heartfelt and Honest, With No Heroes or Villains

    Bill Oliver's OUR SON is a fine drama, telling the story of a gay couple whose marriage comes to an end, and their subsequent custody battle over the young son whom they fathered via IVF.

    In a time when homosexuality is still illegal in some areas of the world, and there is still a large percentage of those in the West who oppose gay marriage and view the LBGTQ community as "other," what Oliver (and his co-writer, Peter Nickowitz) present to the audience is that gay people are simply regular folks, who go through the same day-to-day trials and tribulations as the hetero world does. If anything, OUR SON has far more in common with films like KRAMER VS. KRAMER than something like BOYS IN THE BAND. And it is that population who refuse to see the gay community as human beings just as they are who will benefit most from seeing this film.

    Luke Evans is excellent in the lead, managing to paint a complex portrait of a man who is a driven professional, but who also loves his husband and son deeply, but who perhaps comes to that realization too late. Billy Porter gives an equally fine turn as the estranged spouse, who has found that fatherhood awakened something inside of him that he wasn't aware of previously. The rest of the supporting cast is excellent, with nary a false note among them.

    There are no heroes or villains in this film, just regular people trying to cope with the same roadblocks that life seems to throw in our path randomly. Highly recommended.
    9khamidlawid

    I don't get the critics ?

    This is a light hearted movie about a couple having problems and splitting, trying to get custody of their son. You don't have to see more than that, it is actually good, and no i am not gay, i am a straight male. If you're looking for a plot twist about anything this is the wrong movie. Take it as it is, a beautiful movie about ups and downs. Don't loke for more, there is nothing more. Wanna be critics always asking for a plot twist or more and more, you don't need more, you need to relate to the caracters of the film, gay, straight it doesn't matter, it's about the love of a parent for their child and how to make the most of it for their happinness.

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      • December 8, 2023 (United Kingdom)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Nuestro hijo
    • Production companies
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      • Federal Films
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