Meet Yourself

This drama is very different from other c-dramas I have seen. The story reflects a lot of social issues but still tells the story in a romantic way. The cinematography is just spectacular. The scenery in Yunnan is so beautiful! Liu Yifei is beautiful and amazing as always! Her character and her acting resonate with me a lot! She is a great actress. I highly recommend this c-drama to everyone, especially those undergoing great pressure in their lives. It really resonates with our everyday lives and all the pressure and issues that we're going through. All cast did a great job. This drama would definitely be one my favorites c-dramas!!

The acting is perfect. The location is awesome. The actors, actress are outstanding. The storyline is so touching. You can relate to every emotion in the drama. If you are tired of your daily routine and want to watch something that make you relax, decompress you, and give you hope, watch this. Now when I am trying to watch any other dramas, my mind try to compare it with "Meet Yourself". I wish, I have just started watching it again so I could enjoy this drama again. Although I know, I will come back to rewatch it in a few months/years.

I wish we all the courage and the luxury to be able to leave everything behind when we need the most and go somewhere that no one knows us and perhaps start again.

In the first few episodes, MEET YOURSELF had some charm, and I was hopeful that a genuine story would emerge. The FL is very pretty, but her face seldom changes expression. So far, it's hard to care about her. The ML is warm and engaging--and also a very skilled actor. But hour after hour, the story is pretty thin gruel.

An exhausted woman, who has just lost her dearest friend, retreats to a lovely hotel near a lake in Dali, Yunnan, to rest and recuperate. Just to give you an idea of how it goes: in episodes 3 and 4, the FL, Xu Hongdou, makes small talk with the other residents, naps, eats, plays with a cat in one scene and with an ant in another, worries about mosquitoes, takes a walk to a neighboring village to get her phone fixed-and that's about it. The ML, Xie Zhi Yao, gossips gently about his younger brother, who isn't interested in school. He talks with the mother of another resident, who wants to leave town. He takes a few photographs of the residents for his budding tourism project. He cooks, eats, gently bullies his brother-and that's it for him.

These two episodes took up a little more than 1 ½ hours of my real day. The narrative, such as it is, is slower than continental drift.

I'm a person who lives in a sunny, picturesque town, near the ocean. I, too, have friendly neighbors to chat with. I, too, take naps and run errands. Why spend a big chunk of my time watching people on the other side of the world pretend to do what I do every day?

One reason might be because - this is a chance to view a completely different culture. But is this a fair portrait of that culture? Or is this a romanticized version with all the ugliness omitted?

The description on IMDB is as follows: "After the death of her best friend, Xu Hongdou...takes a vacation in Yun Dali, Yunnan. There, she met wonderful people and did wonderful things." Again, an evasive description like that just doesn't cut it. When there's no central, organizing principal, it's not art-it's not even entertainment.

Later: Now I'm up to Episode 9. One character ran away. Another has left this backwater town for the Big City. The older characters lecture the young folks telling them the equivalent of-"don't underestimate the value of a good education" and "there are sleazy folks on the internet." The young'uns, as always, are duly impressed.

Many, many people say that MEET YOURSELF is peaceful and calming. But really - after several hours of this, there's not enough to stir my emotions or stimulate my intellect or my interest. Nothing to justify this much of my time. I'd rather go watch some ants. But I'll soldier on.

Later still: I'm now up to Episode 31. There's now the semblance of a plot, though the action meanders from incident to incident in a maddeningly leisurely way. The FL has developed some spunk and individuality, but mostly my initial impressions remain. It IS possible for a beautiful FL to have a unique and compelling personality (for example: see IT'S OK, THAT'S LOVE or MY DEAREST).

Cliff hanger: Will this review actually be made available for others to read? Stay tuned...

Xu Hong Dou is career orientated, she is front desk manager at a 5 star Beijing Hotel who has not had a holiday for 3 years because she wants advancement. She is devoted to her job has no relationship, answers her phone at all hours to deal with problems and shares a flat with her college friend who also works in the tourist industry and spends a lot of time travelling. A tragic event in the first episode jolts her out of her mindset and she realises she has nothing more to give so quits her job and honours a promise to travel to Yunnan province for a holiday.

She ends up in a farmstead with several other quirky characters who are also lost and healing and she forms an immediate support group helping each other through tough periods and forming lifelong friendships.

Hong Dou relaxes onto the slower pace, and begins to realise what is important in life, not advancement and strict routine but friendships, relations and enjoying the moment.

Xie Zhi Yao has returned to the vilage after graduating and quiting a job in Bejing in finance, he hates to see his childhood friends struggling and having to leave the village for a better life in the city so has suported several ventures. Internet store, tourist attractions and craft workshops to make the village a desirable destination and build employment.

However the main character here is the environment, shot in a beautiful rustic setting, the side characters are all engaging. The internet web novelist struggling for inspiration, the rich girl who is hiding a secret, the musician living in fear of his father or the tea guru spending his days practising Yoga. And thats just the farmstead. The grannies with their traditional head dresses and the village kids make this the drama you need to watch if you need to chill out, wind down and relax.

A delightful and heartwarming movie that celebrates the power of relationships, family love, and romance in a small, close-knit village. Directed with care and finesse, the film beautifully captures the essence of community and the bonds that connect its diverse inhabitants.

Set in the picturesque countryside, the story revolves around the lives of several families and individuals living in a charming village. As we dive into their everyday lives, we witness the intricate web of relationships and the unique dynamics that exist within this tight-knit community.

Beyond the central romance, "Meet Yourself " skillfully weaves together several subplots, each delving into different aspects of relationships and family dynamics. From the heartwarming bond between a grandmother and her grandsons to the unconditional love shared between siblings, the film adeptly portrays the various facets of love in all its forms.

The ensemble cast delivers outstanding performances, effortlessly breathing life into their characters. Their chemistry and genuine portrayals create an immersive experience, allowing the audience to connect deeply with their joys, sorrows, and triumphs.

What sets this film apart is its ability to evoke a strong sense of community. The small village serves as a character in itself, with its quaint streets and bustling marketplaces. The attention to detail in the production design transports viewers into this idyllic world, where neighbors look out for one another and everyone is invested in each other's happiness.

The movie is a visual treat, with breathtaking cinematography that captures the rustic beauty of the village and its surrounding landscapes. The film's gentle pace allows the audience to immerse themselves fully in the lives of the characters, and the soothing soundtrack adds an extra layer of warmth and charm to the storytelling.

Overall, "Meet Yourself" is a feel-good film that celebrates the power of love, family, and community. It reminds us of the importance of human connections, the beauty of simple pleasures, and the strength we find when we lean on one another. This wholesome family story leaves the audience with a warm glow in their hearts and a renewed appreciation for the bonds that make life truly meaningful.