Stutz

I recommend everyone watch this movie. I respect Jonah Hill so much for making this, especially in todays climate, and also for being a MALE raising awareness on the tremendous help and importance that therapy provides. There are so few resources available to people who need mental health support, and many of those resources available are crazy expensive or therapists are booked solid with clients. This film is for everyone. We all struggle sometimes. This made me cry, laugh, and take notes. I will go back to this movie every time I feel the need for a therapy session. It also reminded me of my relationship with my counselor that I went to for ten years. Bless Jonah and Stutz. What a gift of a film.

Dr. Stutz's eclecticism is what makes him a formidable therapist. He was schooled in psychoanalytic theory, but has blended cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness and acceptance into a simple yet potent formula to follow.

Step 1: Identify your Part X, a.k.a. Your inner saboteur. These are all the negative messages about yourself from society, community and family that you have internalised. They form barricades that prevent you from reaching your goals and attaining self-actualisaton.

Step 2: Befriend your Shadow. Most people try to run away from their shadow yet the shadow is irrevocably a part of them. It is the side of you that you are the most ashamed of and the reason you are ashamed of it is Part X, the negative messaging. Be compassionate to the shadow by refuting Part X and loving all parts of yourself.

Step 3: Beware the Snapshot. The snapshot is the thing that we think will finally bring us happiness once we have achieved it, and make up for past hurts and disappointments. Hill thought it was fame and success for him but soon plunged into depression when he realised that it did not make his shadow go away. The snapshot is a diversion.

Step 4: Get out of the Maze. This is us holding onto old grievances, demanding that life should be fair when it is not. It keeps us stuck in the past, unable to enjoy life in the present, and contaminates the future. To get out of the Maze, Stutz advocates for Active Love.

Step 5: Exercise Active Love. Embody the love that you wish to receive from the universe and project it onto those who have done you wrong so that you may forgive them for their actions. This is exercising kindness for yourself and empathy for those who have been responsible for your Part X, finally allowing yourself to let go and move on.

Step 6: Use Radical Acceptance. Try not to resist your negative thoughts and feelings. Whatever happens when you get told not to think about a pink elephant? Instead acknowledge the pink elephant, tell it kindly that you will not engage with it and turn your attention to something more productive and rewarding.

Step 7: Practice the Grateful Flow. Surmount Part X by reminding yourself the things that you are grateful for in life, no matter how big or small. This is like a mindfulness practice in that it helps us to ground ourselves and not be carried away by the incessant negative messages from the world.

Stutz says that his biggest fear is not getting enough done before he dies. He has a website offering The Tools, but there is probably an opportunity for a book like the Happiness Trap, which takes people through the steps of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).

You just have to see this film. No way around it. Just have to. It is just great to be able to see something so simple, short, but yet so effective on your mind - or better yet, your emotional health.

It is so important that we understand the magnitude of the impact our emotions have on us, how they control us if we don't control them - and it all starts with acknowledging them, so this film will help you do just that!

Presenting therapy as something normal, presenting humans as emotional beings - which we really are - will help people allow themselves to be just that, no matter the sex or the age.

The 'tools' presented are also very useful. Thank you for this movie!

This was really what i needed seeing things from a different angle. Second opinion. Different way to look at things. Learning to accept things we cannot change and live with it. It was really good i couldn't stop myself from crying. They should do like series of each method!!! Not everyone can afford to seek help and this would be an amazing way a platform to reach out to people. It feels comforting to know that we are not alone to feel this way. Everyone is going through things in a million different ways. I wish i had a chance to sit and talk or have a session with Phil Stutz!

Thank you Jonah Hill!!! And Phil Stutz.

This is a beautiful film. The goal of helping people by sharing Stutz methods, has at least in my case, been met. I love that the film actually contains tools and actions that a person can use. As you watch, you can follow along with exercises that Stutz asks Jonah to do. The relationship between Jonah and Stutz is really special and as a viewer it feels like you're seeing them both so vulnerable and intimate. There is a real sense of honesty throughout. I also really enjoyed the visual aspects of the film. The film also has the perfect amount of humour. I will be rewatching this film and would definitely recommend it.