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The Ultimatum: Queer Love

  • TV Series
  • 2023–
  • TV-MA
  • 50m
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6.6/10
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The Ultimatum: Queer Love (2023)
Follow couples of women and non-binary people over eight weeks, as they find themselves at that critical relationship point: only one is ready for marriage.
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Follow couples of women and non-binary people over eight weeks, as they find themselves at that critical relationship point: only one is ready for marriage.Follow couples of women and non-binary people over eight weeks, as they find themselves at that critical relationship point: only one is ready for marriage.Follow couples of women and non-binary people over eight weeks, as they find themselves at that critical relationship point: only one is ready for marriage.

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    • JoAnna Garcia Swisher
    • Lexi Goldberg
    • Vanessa Papa
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    • Stars
      • JoAnna Garcia Swisher
      • Lexi Goldberg
      • Vanessa Papa
    • 19User reviews
    • 8Critic reviews
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    • Awards
      • 3 nominations total

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    JoAnna Garcia Swisher
    JoAnna Garcia Swisher
    • Self - Host
    • 2023–2025
    Lexi Goldberg
    Lexi Goldberg
    • Self
    • 2023
    Vanessa Papa
    Vanessa Papa
    • Self
    • 2023
    Raelyn Cheung-Sutton
    Raelyn Cheung-Sutton
    • Self
    • 2023
    Xander Boger
    Xander Boger
    • Self
    • 2023
    Tiff Der
    Tiff Der
    • Self
    • 2023
    Mal Wright
    Mal Wright
    • Self
    • 2023
    Mildred Bustillo
    Mildred Bustillo
    • Self
    • 2023
    Yoly Rojas
    Yoly Rojas
    • Self
    • 2023
    Sam Mark
    Sam Mark
    • Self
    • 2023
    Aussie Chau
    Aussie Chau
    • Self
    • 2023
    Magan Mourad
    Magan Mourad
    • Self
    • 2025
    Bridget Matloff
    Bridget Matloff
    • Self
    • 2025
    Haley Drexler
    Haley Drexler
    • Self
    • 2025
    Dayna Mathews
    Dayna Mathews
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    • 2025
    Mel Vitale
    Mel Vitale
    • Self
    • 2025
    Kyle Neal
    Kyle Neal
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    • 2025
    Marita Prodger
    Marita Prodger
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    • 2025
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    8tjxdnwm

    Interesting show but provides a lack of diversity within the couples

    I liked the show a lot, mainly because there are little to none lesbian reality tv shows.

    It was very raw and emotional and represented a lot of real issues of relationships that are very much relatable.

    It had an interesting concept, especially since any person could potentially end up with anyone else participating in the show.

    I did not like however that almost all the couples consisted of one masc and one fem partner, since this can be a bit of a stereotype, it might be the reality for many lesbian couples but by far not for all.

    I also would've preferred a queer woman hosting the show instead of a straight one.
    beetrootsarered

    Love how realistic it is

    I'm not a fan of reality shows at all, the drama & emotions are usually too over the top & exaggerated for my liking, but I am OBSESSED with this show! I did not expect to get so invested in all the couples & their individual journey of growth. I got really emotional seeing how things evolved throughout the series, following through everyone's discovery of what they want & don't want in a partner. As a queer person myself, I found this show to be one of the best media representation of queer love. And for that I thank the producers & everyone who participated in the show, putting themselves out there so bravely.
    8destiny_west

    Absolutely Addictive

    Being a fan of Love is Blind and being in between seasons, I was looking for a similar reality show based on relationships, so I thought I would give The Ultimatum: Queer Love a shot. I was hooked from the first episode. I thrive one watching the way people react to one another. The way each relationship is different and the growth. Of course I also love the drama involved. That is what we are here for.

    Regardless, watching the dynamics of the couples is fascinating. This show feels very real and not as scripted as other 'relationship' reality shows I have watched in the past. I hope we get another season.
    10troopyszn

    Finally!

    I can't tell you how often where I contemplate watching a love or dating show but I always back out and never watch anything because it's always a heterosexual show. It's nice to see different into the queer love lives, versus your typical straight show. Once I scrolled and saw the title on Netflix I started to watch it immediately and I was not disappointed it's everything you look for in a dating show, it also keeps you on your toes and constantly predicting the outcome. Thank you to whoever created the Ultimatum Queer Love, I hope that we can continue to see additional seasons in the future!
    10diaz-karina112

    Lesbian in the house

    Being gay is incredible. I love this show. It's so raw so realistic. The couples truly love each other. I myself have been with my partner for 10 years and I don't see myself being with anyone else. I love her unconditionally but this is an awesome show. It shows us as we are. This woman are so matured. Even with all the cheating they move on. They learn to move on. They put their love above all the bs. The only one who bother me a bit was Yoli but other than that I'm glad she was able to get thru. Years of being with someone knowing them fully doesn't just go away. I feel like destiny picks our partners you don't need to do much. Just be faithful and love them unconditionally because they are there for a good reason. Don't throw it all way for passion.

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      Lexi Goldberg has stated that during filming, she was encouraged to wear tight-fitting or revealing clothing to emphasize her bust, claiming producers told her it boosted ratings. She also said she was offered bonuses as an incentive to dress that way.
    • Connections
      Referenced in Amanda the Jedi Show: Netflix's THE ULTIMATUM Ruined my Life | 'Queer Love' Explained (2023)
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      Waking From Dreaming
      Written by Tom Bromley

      Performed by Tom Bromley

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      • May 24, 2023 (United States)
    • Country of origin
      • United States
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • 最後通牒:酷兒的愛
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