Dying for Sex

I will have to start this review by saying I'm a nurse for a Cancer Institute. I work specifically with patients as the survivorship and sexual health nurse. Sexual health is often dismissed. To see this show explore all the needs of a patient especially a stage IV survivor was extremely refreshing. Most of the reviews I have seen said this was not tasteful well unfortunately cancer is not. We strive to not only take care of the patient, but also the caregivers. I will have to say I knew going into this show, I would be quite biased as I'm a huge fan of New Girl. I love the contrast between comic relief, and the intense moments. I've lost many patients over the years, but when I lost my mom it was completely different. This show was true to real life and being able to see Molly and Nikki grow and learn peace is something we will all have to do. This is a beautiful take on past, present, future, but mostly learning to be in the moment. I hope everyone will watch this with an open mind and a loving spirit. Thank you all who worked on this and brought it to the forefront of many conversations.

A lot of people won't like this show because they just want another joyful, beautiful love story about a dying wife being taken care of by her devoted husband. Well, that's not what you'll get here and it is also not reality. Terminally ill women are not victims or props who lose their personalities or desires. They have the right to live and die the way they want to. And to leave a marriage that's broken.

This is a powerful show with phenomenal performances by Williams, Slate and Delaney. I watched it in one sitting. Since I am sick and can't do anything else. For months. And I am glad i didn't have to watch another show about how beautiful dying is...

I still can't decide if this was the best or worst thing to watch while agonizing through a current covid infection, but wow. I'm weak and on meds, hyper aware of who is (or will ever be) there for me when I really need them, that coupled with a pretty rough couple years otherwise medically, this series really shattered me. We all wrestle with these thoughts and this show paints it so thoughtfully and beautifully. May we all have someone like Nikki. Michelle Williams is of course perfect, Jenny Slate just the best work I've ever seen her do, Rob Delaney was lovely, Esco Jouléy was exceptional, and I was so jazzed to see Robby Hoffman as well. Everyone was truly in masterclass form. Remove eye makeup before watching, I watched the entire series in one sitting and just shut the tv right off after, I've laughed, I've sobbed, I'm emotionally drained, literally. But it was so worth it. Emmys and Globes don't let me down.

Ps: to any pearl clutchers (or claspers if you will) in the reviews; ART HAS NO RESPONSIBILITY TO BE PALATABLE OR MORAL FOR YOU. Not everyone is you, we're all on our own journey, and if THIS series doesn't get that through to you, then you're a lost cause. *tips hat*

Dying for Sex is a comedy drama miniseries for FX on Hulu. It stars Michelle Williams and is based on the podcast series of the same name by Wondery and Nikki Boye

Dying for Sex is an 8-part limited series on FX, based on the real-life experiences of Molly Kochan, who documented her journey with terminal cancer and sexual exploration in a podcast. The show follows Molly (played by Michelle Williams), a woman diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer, who decides to leave her husband Steve (Jay Duplass) to explore her long-suppressed sexual desires. Supported by her best friend Nikki (Jenny Slate), Molly embarks on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, navigating the complexities of mortality and intimacy.

The acting in "Dying for Sex" is superb, with Michelle Williams delivering a career-best performance as Molly. Her portrayal is both poignant and humorous, capturing the nuances of a woman reclaiming her life in the face of death. Jenny Slate shines as Nikki, providing a strong supporting role that highlights the depth of their friendship. The ensemble cast, including Jay Duplass, Rob Delaney, and Sissy Spacek, adds depth and complexity to the narrative, ensuring that each character feels fully realized and relatable

The direction by writers Elizabeth Meriwether and Kim Rosenstock is commendable for balancing humor and pathos effectively. While the early episodes may feel a bit rushed, the series builds towards a powerful conclusion that is both emotionally resonant and thought-provoking. The use of the French term "la petite mort" to describe both orgasm and emotional death adds a layer of depth to Molly's journey, symbolizing her reclamation of her body and self

The series explores themes of mortality, desire, and empowerment, intertwining them in a way that is both humorous and profound. Show also explore various coping mechanisms people use when dealing with mortality, such as humor, denial, and acceptance. Molly's journey offers a nuanced portrayal of how individuals navigate these complex emotions. It challenges the conventional view of death and sex as opposites, instead highlighting their intrinsic connection as fundamental aspects of human biology. The show encourages viewers to live life to the fullest, embracing every moment with passion and purpose

Dying for Sex is a remarkable series that transcends its provocative premise to deliver a deeply moving exploration of life, love, and mortality. With outstanding performances and thoughtful direction, it challenges us to confront their own fears and desires, ultimately reminding us to cherish every moment. While it may not be an easy watch, especially in its emotional final episodes, it is a journey well worth taking for its profound insights into the human experience.

Some shows are best for watching alone in a binge, and being completely devastated by the end of it. This is one of those shows. It's a funny show, but it's so so heavy. There are quite a few troupes and unrealistic TV things (person of color that's basically her fairy godmother, hot stranger that's her neighbor, and apparently she has the best health insurance in America despite not being wealthy), but the core ideas of the show feel so true. So many devastating truths are beautifully explored in nuance and with a rawness that's rarely seen on TV. We might never move past our trauma. Our trauma is part of who we are. We long for intimacy with another human being but we are so scared of it. It might just take death for us to face our truths. The performances are excellent.