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How to Talk to Girls at Parties

  • 2017
  • R
  • 1h 42m
IMDb RATING
5.7/10
13K
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Nicole Kidman, Elle Fanning, Ruth Wilson, and Alex Sharp in How to Talk to Girls at Parties (2017)
An alien touring the galaxy breaks away from her group and meets the young inhabitants of the most dangerous place in the universe: the London suburb of Croydon.
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Alien InvasionQuirky ComedyComedyMusicRomanceSci-Fi

An alien touring the galaxy breaks away from her group and meets two young inhabitants of the most dangerous place in the universe: the London borough of Croydon.An alien touring the galaxy breaks away from her group and meets two young inhabitants of the most dangerous place in the universe: the London borough of Croydon.An alien touring the galaxy breaks away from her group and meets two young inhabitants of the most dangerous place in the universe: the London borough of Croydon.

  • Director
    • John Cameron Mitchell
  • Writers
    • Philippa Goslett
    • John Cameron Mitchell
    • Neil Gaiman
  • Stars
    • Elle Fanning
    • Alex Sharp
    • Nicole Kidman
  • See production info at IMDbPro
  • IMDb RATING
    5.7/10
    13K
    YOUR RATING
    • Director
      • John Cameron Mitchell
    • Writers
      • Philippa Goslett
      • John Cameron Mitchell
      • Neil Gaiman
    • Stars
      • Elle Fanning
      • Alex Sharp
      • Nicole Kidman
    • 101User reviews
    • 90Critic reviews
    • 50Metascore
  • See production info at IMDbPro
    • Awards
      • 9 nominations total

    Videos5

    Official Trailer
    Trailer 2:22
    Official Trailer
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Be An Original
    Clip 1:47
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Be An Original
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Be An Original
    Clip 1:47
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Be An Original
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Eat Me Alive
    Clip 0:56
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Eat Me Alive
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Do More Punk To Me
    Clip 0:46
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Do More Punk To Me
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Third Degree
    Clip 1:49
    How To Talk To Girls At Parties: Third Degree

    Photos76

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    Elle Fanning
    Elle Fanning
    • Zan
    Alex Sharp
    Alex Sharp
    • Enn
    Nicole Kidman
    Nicole Kidman
    • Boadicea
    Matt Lucas
    Matt Lucas
    • PT Wain
    Ruth Wilson
    Ruth Wilson
    • PT Stella
    Abraham Lewis
    Abraham Lewis
    • Vic
    • (as A.J. Lewis)
    Ethan Lawrence
    Ethan Lawrence
    • John
    Edward Petherbridge
    Edward Petherbridge
    • PT First
    Joanna Scanlan
    Joanna Scanlan
    • Marion, Enn's Mum
    Tom Brooke
    Tom Brooke
    • PT Waldo
    Martin Tomlinson
    • Slap
    Alice Sanders
    Alice Sanders
    • Spinning Jenny
    Lara Peake
    Lara Peake
    • Wainswain
    Jessica Plummer
    Jessica Plummer
    • Celia
    • (as Jessica Kate Plummer)
    Marina Bye
    Marina Bye
    • Blonde Stella
    Elarica Johnson
    Elarica Johnson
    • Dark Stella
    Joey Ansah
    Joey Ansah
    • PT Bob
    Stewart Lockwood
    • PT Silas
    • Director
      • John Cameron Mitchell
    • Writers
      • Philippa Goslett
      • John Cameron Mitchell
      • Neil Gaiman
    • All cast & crew
    • Production, box office & more at IMDbPro

    User reviews101

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    7Aktham_Tashtush

    SO punk ,, so hip ,, so rock.

    The movie is just weird in every way possible ,, and i think that what made it appealing and interesting to watch .. The story grows from a punk kid loves to rock to meeting that alien girl from the cult "of California :D" and they start living the punk life together.. The ending was so unexpected and surprisingly emotional.

    The story-line is well built and the events from start to finish are easily fathomable,, the casting was just amazing ,, loved Nicole Kidman and Ruth Wilson .. Nicole was so cool ... and Alex Sharp and the other two co-stars did an amazing job too.

    Recommended if you love weird sci-fi 80's style rock hip movies :D ,, if you don't love this movie you might actually hate it a lot ,, it just doesn't go in between.
    5weekendjail

    Really just... middle of the road.

    I liked the setting and aesthetic quite a bit.

    Though, it was a strange film-- better than your typical Hollywood schlock that fills up most theaters, but it's in no way great. I feel like much more could have been done with this concept, but it just left me, kinda uninterested about halfway though.

    The film is not bad, but it's also not good.

    If you can watch it for free, eh go ahead.

    5/10
    9root88

    You will love it or hate it

    It's pretentious and cheesy, unique and amazing. The only promise I can make is that you have never seen anything like it. That in itself should be enough to make any movie or art lover feel like this movie was money and time well spent. Of course there are flaws, but it's punk, that's what gives it character. If you spend all your money on Hollywood reboots, stay far, far away...

    You can enjoy the humor in this movie on the surface level or try to dig deeper into the many metaphors. I just went along for the ride and had a great time.
    TxMike

    "Find a girl who is alone and speak in short, admiring sentences."

    I managed to watch this online through my Roku on the Kanopy streaming site through my public library's subscription.

    To mention that this is a very unusual movie is a big understatement. It starts normally, for a British setting, with the usual goofiness, but then everything changes when a group of three friends crash a party full of people in what appears to be a very strange cult. This is not the kind of movie I'd like to watch often but as a one-off it is very entertaining for those of us who can appreciate the very unusual.

    Most of it takes place in the 1970s but there is a scene at the very end in 1992, apparently some new ones start to show up. In the credits is a statement, "No aliens were harmed in making this film" which gives a hint to what we just watched.

    It has some of my favorite actors, including Elle Fanning, Nicole Kidman, and Ruth Wilson, all dressed strangely and playing very strange roles. It was a bit disconcerting to see Kidman and Wilson in such nontraditional roles.
    6SnoopyStyle

    not enough fun nor weird enough

    Enn (Alex Sharp) is a disaffected youth in late 70's suburban London. He and his friends follow the local punk scene. He writes his zine and has trouble talking to girls. The boys crash a party after the club. They find the people there strange and Enn believes them to be a cult. Zan (Elle Fanning) decides to leave the group to find unique experiences with Enn. The group go to see advent-guard artist Queen Boadicea (Nicole Kidman).

    This has some fun and some weirdness. The problem is that it doesn't have quite enough fun nor enough weirdness. Director John Cameron Mitchell is best known for Hedwig and the Angry Inch. I did check out the Neil Gaiman graphic short story which has two regular dudes from an all-boys school and the story takes place mostly at that party. I'm sure Mitchell added the punk element which actually added color to the story. Elle Fanning is definitely a beauty which explains why Enn would tolerate her weirdness. The story should really take place over one night. That has the tendency to intensify the narrative. It would also allow Kidman to join the movie earlier. I only laughed once when the aliens blocked the hallway in formation. Otherwise, this is an odd little movie which fails to elevate.

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    Storyline

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    Did you know

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    • Trivia
      Elle Fanning and Alex Sharp both perform their own singing for the film.
    • Goofs
      Some time, presumably after midnight, Zan is given 48 hours. The next day, at the cafe, she says she only has 22 hours left, when it should still be more than 30.
    • Quotes

      Queen Boadicea: Evolve or die, love

    • Crazy credits
      No aliens were harmed in the making of this film.
    • Connections
      Featured in Evening Urgant: Nani Bregvadze (2018)
    • Soundtracks
      New Rose
      Performed by The Damned

      Written by Brian James

      Courtesy of Sanctuary Music Group, Ltd., by arrangement with BMG Rights Management (U.S.)

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    • Release date
      • May 25, 2018 (United States)
    • Countries of origin
      • United Kingdom
      • United States
    • Official site
      • Official Site
    • Language
      • English
    • Also known as
      • Cómo enamorar a una chica punk
    • Filming locations
      • Sheffield, South Yorkshire, England, UK(1970's London)
    • Production companies
      • See-Saw Films
      • Cross City Sales
      • Delish Films
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    Box office

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    • Gross US & Canada
      • $84,809
    • Opening weekend US & Canada
      • $12,674
      • May 27, 2018
    • Gross worldwide
      • $385,733
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    Tech specs

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    • Runtime
      1 hour 42 minutes
    • Color
      • Color
    • Aspect ratio
      • 1.85 : 1

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