What kind of parenting best supports the healthy development of children? Changing parenting habits isn’t easy, but when it’s in the best interest of our children, it’s always worth it. Start with these insights from remarkable parents to build a deeper, more fulfilling connection with your child. Want to read the rest? Get the full list in our recent blog post: https://bit.ly/3Al8flt
The Gottman Institute
Professional Training and Coaching
Seattle, Washington 156,535 followers
A research-based approach to relationships.
About us
Co-founded by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz Gottman, The Gottman Institute has two major functions: helping couples directly, and providing state-of-the-art training to mental health professionals and other health care providers. The Gottman Institute applies leading-edge research on marriage in a practical, down-to-earth therapy and trains therapists committed to helping couples. No other approach to couples education and therapy has relied on such intensive, detailed, and long-term scientific study of why marriages succeed or fail. Just as Masters and Johnson were pioneers in the study of human sexuality, so Dr. John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage. For nearly four decades he has conducted research on all facets of relationships, including parenting issues. At The Gottman Institute, in collaboration with Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman, he developed an approach that not only supports and repairs troubled marriages and committed relationships, but strengthens happy ones. The Gottman Institute provides live workshops and take-home training materials for couples, while The Gottman Referral Network provides therapy referrals to couples. We understand that the human family is in crisis, and that all individuals are capable of and deserve compassion. It is our mission to reach out to families in order to help create and maintain greater love and health in relationships.
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http://www.gottman.com
External link for The Gottman Institute
- Industry
- Professional Training and Coaching
- Company size
- 11-50 employees
- Headquarters
- Seattle, Washington
- Type
- Privately Held
- Founded
- 1996
- Specialties
- Relationships, Research, Education, Marriage Counseling, Psychology, Mental Health, and Therapy
Locations
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Primary
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2101 4th Ave
Seattle, Washington 98121, US
Employees at The Gottman Institute
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Bharat Shyam
Angel Investor
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Amy Loftis, M.S., PHR
Director for Professional Development
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Torsten Oberst
Marketing Professional. Strategy. Tactics. Results.
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Vagdevi Meunier
PsyD, Licensed Psychlogist, Gottman Master trainer and Certified Gottman Therapist, Founder and Executive Director at The Center for Relationships
Updates
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In today’s busy world, it’s crucial to be intentional about how we share the mental load with our partners. If we’re not mindful, we can get caught up in the tasks right in front of us, leaving other important responsibilities—and our partners—overlooked. Achieving balance doesn’t require a lot of time, but it does require teamwork and a shared commitment to distribute the mental, emotional, and physical load equally.
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Asking lighthearted, open-ended questions creates an inviting atmosphere for playful conversations that strengthen the bond between partners. Want the full list? Subscribe to our Love Notes newsletter for a free download guide to asking better questions. https://bit.ly/4ewI5L1
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Partners may often let each other choose the movie or restaurant and discuss challenges while keeping their own feelings to themselves. While these selfless actions might feel good at first, they can get in the way of a genuine connection over time. Engaging in deeper conversations can help create a safe space where partners feel comfortable sharing their true feelings. This openness fosters intimacy and understanding, allowing both individuals to express their thoughts, needs, and desires more freely. Read more on this topic in our latest blog post: https://bit.ly/4hjV2tL
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Join us on November 19, 2024, at 12:00 PM for "What Now? Next Steps in the Gottman Method," an interactive Q&A session tailored for Early Career Professionals who have completed Level 1 of the Gottman Method. This is a great opportunity to discover ongoing training options and explore various tools and resources to enhance your practice. Connect with peers, learn, and elevate your skills. Register here: https://bit.ly/4fo2BOe
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Effective communication is the cornerstone of deep connection, as it fosters understanding and emotional intimacy, ensuring that both partners feel seen, heard, and valued. Want to discover one simple ritual that can help you and your partner feel more connected? Read our dedicated blog post: https://bit.ly/3ZmhlZx
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We’re excited to share the New York Post's feature on The Gottman Institute’s insights for helping kids manage their emotions! Learn how to teach children to recognize their triggers, label feelings like “frustration” or “sadness,” and practice calming techniques such as counting to 10 or deep breathing. Empower your child to navigate tough moments—read the full article here: https://bit.ly/48wWvJ6 For additional resources on fostering healthy relationships, visit our website: https://www.gottman.com/
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Drs. Julie and John Gottman talked with Manoush Zomorodi about bravery in relationships and how conflicts can lead to deeper understanding on NPR’s TED Radio Hour. You can listen to their interview here: https://n.pr/4hxEQFm
How healthy couples use conflict to grow closer
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One-word answers can lead to dead-end conversations. These types of interactions don’t lead to connection. If you want to connect on a deeper level, try asking more insightful questions. Open-ended questions encourage thoughtful responses and promote richer discussions, helping you strengthen your relationships. Want a guide to asking better questions? Get a complimentary download when you subscribe to our Love Notes newsletter here: https://bit.ly/4ewI5L1
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All relationships, even the most successful ones, experience conflict—it's an unavoidable part of being together. However, our research indicates that it's not the presence of conflict that determines a relationship's success or failure, but rather how it's managed. Conflicts can feel like the tricks in trick-or-treating—unexpected and sometimes frustrating. But if you approach them with a positive mindset, you’ll discover the treats that strengthen your bond.
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