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Secure Marriage Tips by Gary Smalley

Security is the freedom to openly share without fear of criticism or judgment, allowing intimacy to flourish. The document recommends putting a "deadbolt on your mouth" by stopping criticism, judging your partner as God does, and making a total commitment to your partner through promises like listening with love and serving each other daily. It was written by Gary Smalley, founder of the Smalley Relationship Center, to strengthen important relationships.

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Secure Marriage Tips by Gary Smalley

Security is the freedom to openly share without fear of criticism or judgment, allowing intimacy to flourish. The document recommends putting a "deadbolt on your mouth" by stopping criticism, judging your partner as God does, and making a total commitment to your partner through promises like listening with love and serving each other daily. It was written by Gary Smalley, founder of the Smalley Relationship Center, to strengthen important relationships.

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Security: The Secret to a Great Marriage

By Gary Smalley Security is the freedom to truly open up and be known at a deep, intimate level without fear of being blamed, criticized, judged, condemned, or perhaps worst of all, deemed unacceptable. Security creates an environment where intimacy and deep, lasting friendship can flourish naturally and automatically.

Three Ways to Build a Secure Marriage 1. Create safety for your mate. Put a deadbolt on your mouth. Stop being critical. Stop judging, condemning and belittling. Love and value your mate as much as God does.

2. Honor your mate. 3. Be totally committed to your mate. Five Commitments that Determine the Destiny of Your Marriage 1. I Promise to Conform My Beliefs to Gods Truths 2. I Promise to Be Filled by God 3. I Promise to Find Gods Best in Every Trail 4. I Promise to Listen and Communicate with Love 5. I Promise to Serve You All the Days of My Life

Strengthening Your Most Important Relationships

Smalley Relationship Center

Order resource today from www.garysmalley.com

Gary is president and founder of the Smalley Relationship Center. The center provides conferences nation-wide, books, DVD. He has appeared on national televisions programs such as Oprah Winfrey, Larry King Live, Extra, NBC Today Show as well as numerous national radio programs. Gary has been featured on hundreds of regional and local television and radio programs across the United States.

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