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Three Types of Guilt Healthy Guilt

There are three types of guilt: healthy guilt, which occurs when one recognizes wrongdoing and takes responsibility; unhealthy guilt, which involves taking responsibility for things outside of one's control and having low self-esteem; and false guilt, which can affect victims and cause them to feel responsible for events they had no role in. Unhealthy and false guilt should be addressed to avoid negative consequences like isolation, self-destructive behavior, and oversensitivity to others.

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Three Types of Guilt Healthy Guilt

There are three types of guilt: healthy guilt, which occurs when one recognizes wrongdoing and takes responsibility; unhealthy guilt, which involves taking responsibility for things outside of one's control and having low self-esteem; and false guilt, which can affect victims and cause them to feel responsible for events they had no role in. Unhealthy and false guilt should be addressed to avoid negative consequences like isolation, self-destructive behavior, and oversensitivity to others.

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Three Types of Guilt

Healthy Guilt
Healthy guilt is when you know you’ve done something wrong. It’s our conscience telling
us that we have done something against our morals and beliefs. It’s a natural process of
evaluating our self I the light of honesty.

For these things we need to identify and correct the action as much as possible. Accept
responsibility for your actions. Ask for forgiveness. Live with the consequences.

Unhealthy Guilt
Unhealthy guilt occurs when you feel everything is your fault – even things totally
beyond your control. You did nothing wrong.

You want everything perfect. You feel responsible for everyone and everything. If it
rains – it’s your fault. If someone else makes a mistake – it’s your fault.

You have a low self-esteem. Somehow by feeling everything is your fault – You are
giving yourself approval to sink into further despair. You may feel like you are helping
the person actually at fault by covering for them.

You need to build confidence and self-worth. Learn to identify what you can and can’t
control. Letting unhealthy guilt linger may drive you to behavioral extremes such as
excessive housecleaning or keeping yourself isolated.

False Guilt
Victims of all forms of abuse (sexual, physical and mental) and of violent crimes often
have false guilt. They feel they were somehow at fault for what has happened and
accept the blame.

This creates an unhealthy emotion of guilt that may end in grief, self destructive habits
or isolation. You may be overcome with fear of doing something wrong or making a
wrong decision. You may be over sensitive to other people’s beliefs and comments.
It’s imperative that you identify your true feelings and cope with what has happened to
keep false guilt from misleading you.

It’s important that you make a firm and consistent effort to concentrate on the ONLY
thing you can change – YOU! Self-Confidence allows you to deal with guilt in a healthy
manner

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