PERSONAL PERSPECTIVE—JULIAN SAVULESCU
Nearly two years ago I suffered a badly broken leg. Now I have a numb foot, metal holding my
leg together, large gaping holes in my calf from fasciotomies and skin grafts and an artery graft. I
may develop arthritis. I cannot do the things I used to most enjoy. I view it as a terrible loss.
Yet all these things were said to me at one time or another.
The commonest, especially while I was in hospital, were:
“You are so lucky you didn't lose the foot.”
“You are so lucky—at least you will be able to walk again.”
When one person found out it happened on a family skiing holiday, she said:
“Oh…well, you shouldn't have been enjoying yourself so much.”
Another said:
“It was your own fault.”
People frequently tried to help by pointing out how lucky I was in other ways:
“You have two beautiful healthy daughters. You should remember that.”
What was especially irritating was the ease with which other healthy able people were able to
accept my misfortune:
“It is a part of your life now—you have to accept it.”
“You should be happy doing what you can do. There are lots of things you can still do.”
A: Was there an accident on the freeway today?
B: You haven't heard about it?
A: No, do you know what happened?
B: This truck flipped over on the 210.
A: Are you serious?
B: I'm telling you the truth.
A: Did anyone get hurt?
B: Two people were injured.
A: Are they going to be okay?
B: I think so.
A: That's a miracle that no one was killed.
B: Yes, they were lucky.
A: What happened today on the freeway?
B: You don't know what happened?
A: What did happen?
B: There was a truck on the freeway, and it flipped over.
A: Really?
B: I wouldn't lie about something like that.
A: Were there any injuries?
B: I heard that a couple people got hurt.
A: Are they all right?
B: The news said they should be fine.
A: I'm glad to know that everyone made it out okay.
B: Me too.
A: I heard there was an accident today.
B: Nobody told you what happened?
A: Tell me the news.
B: A truck turned over on the freeway.
A: Are you kidding me?
B: I am completely serious.
A: Did anyone get hurt?
B: I believe that two people did get hurt.
A: Were the injuries minor?
B: I believe so.
A: That's great to hear.
B: Yes, it is