Five Stages of Anger
1) Pre-Anger Feelings
         a. Emotions:
                   i. Primary Emotions: fear, sadness, hurt
                  ii. Secondary Emotions: Shame, guilt, anxiety, hopelessness, loneliness, feeling
                      misunderstood, etc.
         b. Body sensations: tension in stomach, shoulders or jaw, feeling hot, heaviness, agitation,
              headache, shakiness, etc.
  2) Trigger Thoughts
         a. Recall of past hurts, failures, and losses
         b. Judgmental
         c. All-or-nothing: good/bad, right/wrong
         d. I am a victim
         e. Someone else is to blame
         f. Labels: stupid, incompetent, selfish, crazy, lazy, wrong, jerk, etc.
  3) Anger Feeling
         a. Gradual or sudden
         b. Survival mode (or fight-or-flight mode)
         c. Body sensations: pounding/rapid heartbeat, fast breathing, trembling, clenched jaw,
              muscle tension, feeling hot, etc.
  4) Impulse to Act
         a. Quick to follow anger feeling
         b. Based on past history
         c. Habit
  5) Anger Behavior
         a. Aggression: shouting, blaming, putting others down, violence, breaking things, rolling
              eyes, looking disgusted, saying judgmental things, gossip, sarcasm, etc.
         b. Passive/Avoidance: non-communication, cryptic or vague communication, avoiding,
              ignoring, procrastinating, obstructing, being late, making excuses, self-pity, blaming
              others, withholding, acting helpless, etc.