Would You Want to Be Home-Schooled?
Do you know about “homeschooling”? It refers to a way of educating
children directly at home without sending them to school. It is called
"homeschooling" when children and teenagers aged 5 to 17 are educated only at
home without attending school at all, and when they attend classes less than 25
hours a week even if they go to school, and the rest are taught by their parents.
On the other hand, it is also called “Un-schooling”, which means not receiving
school education. In a purified language, it is called "homework." With the
generalization of the school system, the role of school education and parenting
has been separated. However, in opposition to the uniform education of public
education, homeschooling is spreading, in which parents directly teach their
children education to suit their aptitude and characteristics. Here, there is a
division between countries where homeschooling is illegal and countries that are
legal. For example, it is legal in the United States, Britain, and Finland, but
Germany and Sweden are currently illegal. How about Korea? In the U.S., it is
legal to teach all curriculums at home from kindergarten to college education,
but Korea is subject to a fine of less than 1 million won if it ignores elementary
courses stipulated by the current law in 2012. Homeschooling, which is still in
place in illegal countries, what is your opinion? For or against? I am against
homeschooling. Let's look at the reasons.
First, homeschooling can cause a lack of social skills. The school that
provides public education is a small society. It is also the first society we meet.
We learn how to meet new people, form relationships, and deal with various
situations with them there. In other words, they learn more than intellectual
learning. However, it is difficult for children who homeschooled to be exposed to
such opportunities. Naturally, socialization may be slow or insufficient. Of course,
children who attend school can also suffer from a lack of social skills. But under
the same circumstances, a child who goes to school continues to bump into each
other at school and learn and nurture social skills. On the other hand, home-
schooled children lack such opportunities. Problems that were not revealed when
they were only with their parents at home would be fatal if they were exposed to
society. No matter how good a home-schooled child is, it is no use. Society is a
world where groups live, and there are implicit orders and rules that have been
learned naturally since childhood. The place where I learned and experienced it is
the school. I object to home-schooling, which hinders my first steps to society.
Not only for this reason. Second, there is a limit to replacing public
education at home. Public education is taught according to the curriculum set for
the school year. It's relatively easy and simple. But homeschooling learns what it
wants, at its own time and level. This is relatively free. Most people even talk
about it as a home-schooling advantage. But this is also not easy to do right. The
amount of time parents have to devote to a child who is home-schooled is
actually enormous. It is more difficult to spend time in Korea where double-
income earners are becoming routine. Specific plans must be drawn up to ensure
efficient learning to keep up with basic public education, not just with computers.
They should also engage in activities ranging from appropriate textbooks to
diverse experiences. Also, parents should have that level of ability because they
have to teach their children to learn. No matter how smart a child is and how
capable his or her parents are, it is truly a miracle to keep the process intact until
the end. I am against homeschooling, which places a great burden on parents
and has many dangers.
The biggest reason for preferring homeschooling is freedom. It is free to
study and to choose the subjects you want to learn. So, especially children who
are interested in music, art, or physical education often choose to homeschool.
Of course, even if it's not an art form, children who usually have outstanding
ability in one field often choose to homeschool. But this is quite dangerous. As I
said earlier, our society is where we live together. In such a society, excellence in
only one field does not make a good living. Even if a person is perfect in one
field, it is hard for a person who lacks social skills to survive. A person must grow
evenly in body, personality, and intelligence. It is the school that learns it. He/She
also thought he/she liked it, and even if he/she was a confident field, it could
change enough. In school, He/she constantly searches for his/her interests and
specialties. So you can find another way even if you change direction in the
middle. However, if homeschooling is changed in the middle, nothing has been
built up so we have to start from scratch. This is why I am against homeschooling
and another important reason to go to school.
As we have seen so far, the pros and cons of homeschooling are clear.
Choosing to homeschool, or not choosing it, is an extremely personal choice. Of
course, it is not a legally restricted country. But the biggest reason I'm against
homeschooling is the preciousness of the moment. The lack of social skills and
limitations in the replacement of public education, of course, are important
grounds to oppose it. But that's not the only thing. I think the moment when
children of the same age get together and learn and enjoy is really precious.
Relationships and memories made during that time are treasures that can only be
made at school and at that age for life. Also, memory at that time is a great
experience and a solid foothold that cannot be changed. The passing time does
not come back. Above all, I hope the children don't miss the moment. I'm sad
because I think home schooling is missing that moment. Hopefully, children will
have the right personality and social skills through public education at the right
time. It also hopes to learn expertise and develop skills to find true dreams. In
this process, they will learn how to live, how to get people, and leave precious
memories. I object to home schooling for the various reasons mentioned above.