Talk and speak both mean “to say words.
” And, many times,
you can use either word without losing any meaning. But
there are some differences in when we use these words.
The word talk is usually used:
for conversations between two or more people
and informal situations, such as between friends or
family
For example, Ashley asks Anna: “Are you talking to yourself
again?”
Speak is usually used:
for one-way communication, such as presentations
formal situations, such as a boss speaking with her
workers
to talk about language ability
and in polite requests
The words tell and say have similar meanings. But we
use them in different ways.
Tell means “to inform or instruct someone with words”
and is almost always followed by an indirect object. For
example, Sue says, “Tell me about that.”
The word me is the indirect object and tells us who is
being told.
Say means “to express something with words”
and focuses more on the words used. For example, Anna
says, “That’s what it said. It said, ‘Use me, Anna.’”
Tell | Say
TELL means “to inform or instruct someone with words.”
We use an indirect object (personal pronoun) with tell to
say who is receiving the information.
Tell is only used without an indirect object in a few
expressions, such as: tell the time, tell the difference and tell
the truth.
When we report a command or instruction, we usually also
use the verb tell. When we do this, we use an infinitive verb after the indirect object.
Command (in Direct Speech) Reported Speech
“Read the instructions carefully.” She told Anna to read the instructions carefully.
Use tell:
In reported speech
Sometimes in direct speech*
With a personal pronoun
Examples:
Sue told Anna that she liked her lamp.
She told her to read the instructions carefully.
Anna told her that the broken toys wanted help.
Sue told me, “So…it’s a plastic helmet.” (wrong)
SAY means "to express something with words." When we use
say, we do not focus on who is receiving the information. So,
we do not use an indirect object (personal pronoun).
Use say:
In direct speech
In reported speech
Without a personal pronoun
Examples:
Anna said the glue was very sticky.
Sue said that she had to take a call.
She said, “Don’t start without me.”
Anna said me, “Got it.” (wrong)
Sue tells Anna not to start without her.
When to Use Tell Say
In reported speech Yes Yes
In direct speech Less common Yes
With an indirect object Yes No
*The verb Tell is sometimes used with direct speech, but this
is less common than say. However, it can be common in
some types of writing, such as in news reports.