NANDA DYAH DWIYANTI (31116122)
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Assalamualaikum warrahmatullahi wabarakatuh
Good morning, everyone! How are you today? I hope you all are fine. First, I
would like to say thank you for coming in my presentation.
Before telling more and more, let me introduce myself. My name is Nanda
Dyah Dwiyanti. I’m a student at Serang Raya University. Ok! Shall we get
started now?
In this presentation, we will discuss about “Child Abuse and How to Stop it”.
Do you know what is child abuse? Everyone knows? Yes I will give you
information about that.
Child abuse is when a parent or caregiver, whether through action or failing to act,
causes injury, death, emotional harm or risk of serious harm to a child. There are
many forms of child maltreatment, including neglect, physical abuse, sexual abuse,
exploitation and emotional abuse.
1. Physical Abuse
Physical abuse of a child is when a parent or caregiver causes any non-accidental
physical injury to a child. There are many signs of physical abuse. If you see any of
the following signs, please get help right away.
28.3% of adults report being physically abused as a child.
Physical abuse includes striking, kicking, burning, biting, hair pulling, choking,
throwing, shoving, whipping or any other action that injures a child. Even if the
caregiver didn’t mean to cause injury, when the child is injured it is abuse. Physical
discipline from a parent that does not injure or impair a child is not considered
abuse; however non-violent alternatives are always available.
Physical abuse can result in:
Bruises, blisters, burns, cuts and scratches
Internal injuries, brain damage
Broken bones, sprains, dislocated joints
Emotional and psychological harm
Lifelong injury, death
Signs of physical abuse in parent or caregiver:
Can’t or won’t explain injury of child, or explains it in a way that doesn’t
make sense
Displays aggression to child or is overly anxious about child’s behavior
Indicates child is not trustworthy, a liar, evil, a troublemaker
Delays or prevents medical care for child
Takes child to different doctors or hospitals
Keeps child from school, church, clubs
Has history of violence and/or abuse
Signs of physical abuse in a child:
Physical:
Any injury to a child who is not crawling yet
Visible and severe injuries
Injuries at different stages of healing
On different surfaces of the body
Unexplained or explained in a way that doesn’t make sense
Distinctive shape
Frequency, timing and history of injuries (frequent, after weekends,
vacations, school absences)
Behavioral:
Aggression toward peers, pets, other animals
Seems afraid of parents or other adults
Fear, withdrawal, depression, anxiety
Wears long sleeves out of season
Violent themes in fantasy, art, etc.
Nightmares, insomnia
Reports injury, severe discipline
Immaturity, acting out, emotional and behavior extremes
Self-destructive behavior or attitudes
2. Sexual Abuse
Sexual abuse occurs when an adult uses a child for sexual purposes or involves a
child in sexual acts. It also includes when a child who is older or more powerful
uses another child for sexual gratification or excitement.
20.7% of adults report being sexually abused as a child.
Sexual abuse of children includes:
Non-contact abuse
Making a child view a sex act
Making a child view or show sex organs
Inappropriate sexual talk
Contact abuse
Fondling and oral sex
Penetration
Making children perform a sex act
Exploitation
Child prostitution and child pornography
Signs of sexual abuse in parent or caregiver:
Parent fails to supervise child
Unstable adult presence
Jealous/possessive parent
Sexual relationships troubled or dysfunctional
Parent relies on child for emotional support
Signs of sexual abuse in a child:
Physical:
Difficulty sitting, walking, bowel problems
Torn, stained, bloody undergarments
Bleeding, bruises, pain, swelling, itching of genital area
Frequent urinary tract infections or yeast infections
Any sexually transmitted disease or related symptoms
Behavioral:
Doesn’t want to change clothes (e.g., for P.E.)
Withdrawn, depressed, anxious
Eating disorders, preoccupation with body
Aggression, delinquency, poor peer relationships
Poor self-image, poor self-care, lack of confidence
Sudden absenteeism, decline in school performance
Substance abuse, running away, recklessness, suicide attempts
Sleep disturbance, fear of bedtime, nightmares, bed wetting (at advanced
age)
Sexual acting out, excessive masturbation
Unusual or repetitive soothing behaviors (hand-washing, pacing, rocking,
etc.)
Sexual behavior or knowledge that is advanced or unusual
Reports sexual abuse
3. Emotional Abuse
When a parent or caregiver harms a child’s mental and social development, or
causes severe emotional harm, it is considered emotional abuse. While a single
incident may be abuse, most often emotional abuse is a pattern of behavior that
causes damage over time.
10.6% of adults report being emotionally abused as a child.
Emotional abuse can include:
Rejecting or ignoring: telling a child he or she is unwanted or unloved,
showing little interest in child, not initiating or returning affection, not
listening to the child, not validating the child’s feelings, breaking promises,
cutting child off in conversation
Shaming or humiliating: calling a child names, criticizing, belittling,
demeaning, berating, mocking, using language or taking action that takes
aim at child’s feelings of self-worth
Terrorizing: accusing, blaming, insulting, punishing with or threatening
abandonment, harm or death, setting a child up for failure, manipulating,
taking advantage of a child’s weakness or reliance on adults, slandering,
screaming, yelling
Isolating: keeping child from peers and positive activities, confining child
to small area, forbidding play or other stimulating experiences
Corrupting: engaging child in criminal acts, telling lies to justify actions or
ideas, encouraging misbehavior
Signs of emotional abuse in parent or caregiver:
Routinely ignores, criticizes, yells at or blames child
Plays favorites with one sibling over another
Poor anger management or emotional self-regulation
Stormy relationships with other adults, disrespect for authority
History of violence or abuse
Untreated mental illness, alcoholism or substance abuse
Signs of emotional abuse in a child:
Physical:
Delays in development
Wetting bed, pants
Speech disorders
Health problems like ulcers, skin disorders
Obesity and weight fluctuation
Behavioral:
Habits like sucking, biting, rocking
Learning disabilities and developmental delays
Overly compliant or defensive
Extreme emotions, aggression, withdrawal
Anxieties, phobias, sleep disorders
Destructive or anti-social behaviors (violence, cruelty, vandalism, stealing,
cheating, lying)
Behavior that is inappropriate for age (too adult, too infantile)
Suicidal thoughts and behaviors
4. Child Neglect
Child neglect is when a parent or caregiver does not give the care, supervision,
affection and support needed for a child’s health, safety and well-being. Child
neglect includes:
Physical neglect and inadequate supervision
Emotional neglect
Medical neglect
Educational neglect
Physical Neglect
Children need enough care to be healthy and enough supervision to be safe. Adults
that care for children must provide clothing, food and drink. A child also needs safe,
healthy shelter, and adequate supervision.
Examples of physical neglect:
Deserting a child or refusing to take custody of a child who is under your
care
Repeatedly leaving a child in another’s custody for days or weeks at a time
Failing to provide enough healthy food and drink
Failing to provide clothes that are appropriate to the weather
Failing to ensure adequate personal hygiene
Not supervising a child appropriately
Leaving the child with an inappropriate caregiver
Exposing a child to unsafe/unsanitary environments or situations
Emotional Neglect
Children require enough affection and attention to feel loved and supported. If a
child shows signs of psychological illness, it must be treated.
Examples of emotional neglect:
Ignoring a child’s need for attention, affection and emotional support
Exposing a child to extreme or frequent violence, especially domestic
violence
Permitting a child to use drugs, use alcohol, or engage in crime
Keeping a child isolated from friends and loved ones
Medical Neglect
Some states do not prosecute parents who withhold certain types of medical care
for religious reasons, but they may get a court order to protect the child’s life.
Parents and caregivers must provide children with appropriate treatment for injuries
and illness. They must also provide basic preventive care to make sure their child
stays safe and healthy.
Examples of medical neglect:
Not taking child to hospital or appropriate medical professional for serious
illness or injury
Keeping a child from getting needed treatment
Not providing preventative medical and dental care
Failing to follow medical recommendations for a child
Educational Neglect
Parents and schools share responsibility for making sure children have access to
opportunities for academic success.
Examples of educational neglect:
Allowing a child to miss too much school
Not enrolling a child in school (or not providing comparable home-based
education)
Keeping a child from needed special education services
Signs of Child Neglect
There is no “smoking gun” for most child neglect. While even one instance of
neglect can cause lifelong harm to a child, neglect often requires a pattern of
behavior over a period of time.
Signs in Caregiver
There is no “typical neglectful parent.” Nevertheless, certain indicators may suggest
a parent or caregiver needs help to nurture and protect the child or children in their
care:
Displays indifference or lack of care toward the child
Depression, apathy, drug/alcohol abuse and other mental health issues
Denies problems with child or blames the child for problems
Views child negatively
Relies on child for own care and well-being
Signs in Child
While a single indicator may not be cause for alarm, children who are neglected
often show that they need help:
Clothing that is the wrong size, in disrepair, dirty, or not right for the
weather
Often hungry, stockpiles food, seeks food, may even show signs of
malnutrition (like distended belly, protruding bones)
Very low body weight, height for age
Often tired, sleepy, listless
Hygiene problems, body odor
Talks about caring for younger siblings, not having a caregiver at home
Untreated medical and dental problems, incomplete immunizations
Truancy, frequently incomplete homework, frequent changes of school
Moreover, child abuse can happen in any family and in any neighborhood. So how
to stop it? Prevent Child Abuse America offers these tip for stopping child abuse:
Try to understand your children. Learn how kids behave and what they can
do at different ages. Have realistic expectations and be reasonable if
children fall short.
Keep your children healthy. Denying children food, sleep, or healthcare is
abuse by neglect.
Get help with alcohol or drug problems. Keep children away from anyone
who abuses those substances.
Watch your words. Angry or punishing language can leave emotional scars
for a lifetime.
Get control of yourself before disciplining a child. Set clear rules so the
child knows what to expect. Avoid physical punishment.
Take a time-out. Stop if you begin to act out frustration or other emotions
physically. Find someone to talk with or watch your kids while you take a
walk. Call a child abuse prevention hotline if you are worried you may hit
your child.
Make your home a violence-free zone. Turn off violent TV shows and don't
let kids stay under the same roof with an abusive adult.
Join a support program for new parents.
Take regular breaks from your children. This will give you a release from
the stress of parenting full-time.
I’d like to finished the main part of my presentation. Let me tell what we
can get from our topic so far. Remember that child abuse often repeats
itself in the next generation. By doing what you can to prevent it today,
you can help save children’s lives far into the future.
Ok ! I think that’s all I told you about child abuse. Thank you for your
attention. May all those we have shares be usefull for all of us. See you
later.
Wassalamualaikum wr. wb