AN INTERNATIONAL
RELATIONSHIP
Sachiko is a 22-year-old
Japanese student who
is spending her senior year
atan American
untversity in Los Angeles.
She has met a special
man named Amir,
Read her diary and find
out: What is she trying
to decide?
Dear Diary,
‘Tonight Amir asked me to marry
him! I knew he would. I love him
so much. It is hard to believe that
we have known each other for
only eight months.
But as much as I love him,
I donit know what to do, My par-
ents would be angry with me for
marrying a man from India.
‘They want me to man
Japanese man. My mother has
told me thar good Japanese marry
only Japan:
And that’s not all, There
are so many other problems. |
mean, where would we live? I
think it would be very hard for
me to live in India. Would I fit
in to Indian society? I don't speak
any Indian languages. I would
have a difficult time finding a
job. And I dontt want to be just a
how !| That's for sure.
I don't think Amir would
fit in to Japanese society, either.
He doesn't speak Japanese. He
sounds so funny when he tries to
say a single Japanese word! It
would be impossible for him to
find a job in Japan. Besides, he
doesnit even like Japanese food!
Maybe we could stay in
the United States. Both of us will
finish our studies in May.
I wonder if we could get work
visas here. That might be diffi-
cult. Buc even if we could stay
aeticleets asy bare
live away ftom Japan. I would
miss my family and friends and
everything.
And what about our chil
dren? Children of mixed mar-
riages might have a difficult time.
Would they be Japanese? Indian?
What? Ics all so confusing.
The more I write to you,
dear diary, the more problems I
see. I know that marriage is
difficult. More and more mar
riages end in divorce. And I
think that international mar-
riages are even more difficult!
Oh, Lam SO confused.
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‘+ fit in» mien » mixed! marriages." confusingWhat should Sachiko do? &
hicbiso aed beds Lt Check the responses you agree with
(4 They shouldn't make a decision about U1 She should marry Amir and live in the
marriage right now. They should visi U.S. That's fair for borh Amir and her.
each other's country. There is a lot of Both of them could visit their home -
time to think about what to do. countries sometimes.
1 Sachiko should break up (2 She should marry Amirand
with Amir, There are too live in Japan, More and more
many problems to continue foreign people are living én
the relationship. Japan so Amir will be accepted,
Now exchange your ideas with a classmate,
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3.20 Years of Pain wa
Abi and Moon had been married for 20 years. They had
four children. Then one day, Abi killed Moon.
Read the story and find out:
Why did she murder her husband?
Abi L. isa small woman with a gentle smile, She
speaks quietly and politely, She seems like the nice
woman who lives next door, not the kind of person
who is in prison for murdering her husband, Abi
cl er tory carefully how the problem began,
how after 20 years of pain she finally killed her
husband.
Abi explains: “Before we were married,
Moon was the nicest, most gentle man I had ever
met. Maybe that is why | married him, Hee was 50
kind, The Fist two years wete wonderful. But then
something happened. He started working late, not
coming home, and drinking a lot.”
She continues, speaking softly, “Ar first, when
he was angry, he just pushed me, Then later he
kicked me or slapped my face a few times. After a
while he started to beat me badly. Once he choked
me so hard I thought I was going to
Abi looks down at her hands, They still have
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