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Never Put Anybody On A Pedestal

The document provides advice on how to stop obsessing over someone by not putting them on a pedestal, recognizing that unhealthy obsessions should be directed inward towards self-improvement, and realizing that bettering oneself will attract someone deserving. It also discusses remaining single because the author loves their own company and doesn't want a relationship that doesn't add value or is based on need rather than abundance.

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Never Put Anybody On A Pedestal

The document provides advice on how to stop obsessing over someone by not putting them on a pedestal, recognizing that unhealthy obsessions should be directed inward towards self-improvement, and realizing that bettering oneself will attract someone deserving. It also discusses remaining single because the author loves their own company and doesn't want a relationship that doesn't add value or is based on need rather than abundance.

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How to stop obsessing over someone?

Never put anybody on a pedestal.


This means that everybody you see is just like you – on the same level.
Nobody is incredibly better and super duper special.
We are all just human, capable of mistakes.
And if somebody hurts you, boooom- take that as it is.
Don’t justify it, don’t’ give excuses.
Just see the actions for what they are.

And you know, if you’re obsessing over somebody UNHEALTHLY,


Then recognize that you should be obsessing over yourself instead.
All that energy and attention you are putting into somebody’s existence could be used to better
yourself.

And when you better yourself, then you will attract the kind of person who deserves to be in your life.

Real reason why I remain to be single right now:

The main reason is really chessy,


The relationship I am in with my self is beautiful
I love my own company.
I am my own bestfriend.
I don’t need anyone.
I can actually meet my needs - loves and affection?
I can give that to myself.
Time and attention?
I can give that to myself.
I am a great listener to my own thoughts.

But, I entertain the idea of relationship.


I wanted to be the one that I don’t have to force.
You’ve got to add value to my life and inspire me and match the type of energy that I give to myself.

I want you to be your own person and not need me for your own validation, your attention, or your
happiness. I want you to enter into a relationship from a place of abundance, not from a place of lack or
need.

Sure, single can be lonely but it’s better than to be in relationship that doesn’t add value to my life.

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