Win Forever
Win Forever
PhilosophersNotes
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A Winning Philosophy
What’s yours?
Pete Carroll.
Pete wrote this book after an incredibly successful decade coaching the USC Trojans (thankfully
he started at USC after I left UCLA—go Bruins!) and right before he started coaching the
Seahawks—a team that had won 9 games in the 2 seasons before he showed up.
He basically called his shot—quickly turning the team around and winning a Super Bowl after a
few seasons. That’s remarkable.
This book captures the essence of his philosophy: To Win Forever by Always Competing. It’s an
inspiring semi-autobiographical look at his journey in life and in football to craft the philosophy
that now guides his success on and off the field.
“I knew that the first step
If you’re into sports, you’ll definitely love it. Even if you’re not, it’s a great read packed with
in doing great things was
goodness.
affirming the belief that
great things are possible.” I’m excited to share a handful of my favorite Big Ideas and tie them back to other teachers we
profile in these Notes so let’s jump straight in!
~ Pete Carroll
It is also the point where people, in a host of different ways, begin to strive to be the best people
they can possibly be. When we reach this level, we can begin to have access to what Maslow
called “peak experiences,” or moments of great happiness and high performance. At this point
people can begin to actualize moments of full potential.
From a coaching perspective, one aspect of Maslow’s findings influenced how I looked at players.
Maslow is widely considered to have been the first psychologist to study happy, healthy people—
from regular folks to extraordinary minds like Albert Einstein. He wanted to understand how
As you probably know by this point, Maslow was kinda the Grand-Godfather of the Positive
Psychology movement. Way before researchers were looking at how to help people optimize
their lives, he was studying the healthiest among us and asking, How can we all be like THAT?
At the peak of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is the need to self-actualize. Here’s how he puts it:
“Musicians must make music, artists must paint, poets must write if they are to be ultimately
at peace with themselves. What human beings can be, they must be. They must be true to
their own nature. This need we may call self-actualization... It refers to man’s desire for self-
fulfillment, namely to the tendency for him to become actually in what he is potentially: to
become everything one is capable of becoming.”
As we become healthier human beings and satisfy our lower needs for safety and survival and
love and esteem, the need to actualize our potential becomes as real as the need for oxygen.
Pete brought that wisdom to the football field—making his primary job as a coach all about
helping his athletes experience their own greatness, to perform at their highest levels and to
actualize their potential.
It had been six months since I’d been fired as the head coach of the New England Patriots and in
the summer of 2000 I was trying to figure out what to do next with my life. I was reading a book
by the legendary basketball coach John Wooden.
It took him sixteen years to figure it out, I told myself, but once he did, he absolutely knew it.
After that, he rarely lost, and he went on to win ten of the next twelve national championships.
It seemed he won forever.
Looking back, I had been feeling all but down and out. Suddenly everything had changed.
I reached for a pad of paper and started writing. What Coach Wooden had done that so
impressed me was to pull together his own vision, philosophy, and belief system into a detailed
plan for winning. Once he had it, he went on, year after year, to build teams that were almost
unstoppable. I needed to come up with a plan of my own. I needed to develop my own winning
philosophy and design a plan for implementing it. I started that afternoon.”
I remember being fired up when I first listened to them and again when I re-read the book.
I have always believed that We pretty much NEVER think about the fact he coached at UCLA for 16 (!) seasons before he
what you expect is usually won his first title. And, he coached for a number of years before even showing up at UCLA.
what you get, what you
In a fixed-mindset society, we like to think that greatness is born, that little or no effort is put in
focus on is what you draw
by those who achieve great things. But that’s NEVER the case. That’s the first point.
to yourself.”
The second point: Once Coach Wooden figured it out, he FIGURED IT OUT. Hah! He was almost
~ Pete Carroll
unstoppable. As Pete says, it was as if he could win forever. Now, Pete just needed to figure out
HIS vision, and philosophy and plan to implement it.
Guess what? The same thing holds true for us. WE need to figure out *our* philosophy for being
unstoppable—for creating an optimal life. We need to figure out what we’re doing when we’re
ON—the fundamentals we’re rockin’ and the thoughts and behaviors we engage in that help us
perform at our best.
So, what’s your vision for *your* life? Your philosophy for optimizing + actualizing? Your plan to
put it in action so you can win forever and experience higher and higher (and more consistent)
levels of happiness, meaning and mojo?!
That’s so good.
Get this: Pete was fired FIVE times before leading USC to its extraordinary success. FIVE (!!!)
times. As he says, he needed those challenges and adversity to bring forth his truths.
That’s how it is for all of us. We need to look at failures as stepping stones to our success—
challenging us to get stronger and more clear on who we are and what we’re committed to.
Robert Emmons is one of the world’s leading scholars in the positive psychology movement.
Here’s how he frames the importance of challenges in his great book, Thanks! (see Notes): “It is
relatively easy to feel grateful when good things are happening, and life is going the way we
want it to. A much greater challenge is to be grateful when things are not going so well, and
are not going the way we think they should. Anger, bitterness, and resentment seem to be so
much easier, so much more a natural reaction in times like these...
The religious traditions encourage us to do more than react with passivity and resignation to
loss and crisis; they advise us to change our perspective, so that our suffering is transformed
into an opportunity for growth. Not only does the experience of tragedy give us an exceptional
opportunity for growth, but some sort of suffering is also necessary for a person to achieve
maximal psychological growth. In his study of self-actualizers, the paragons of mental
wellness, the famed humanistic psychologist Abraham Maslow noted that “the most important
learning lessons... were tragedies, deaths, and trauma... which forced change in the life-
outlook of the person and consequently in everything that he did.””
Quit beating yourself up and start seeing the opportunities for GROWTH inherent in those
setbacks. We all have them. The best among us use them as fertilizer for our seed of potential.
Let’s do that. :)
WIN FOREVER
“Perhaps the most powerful “At the base of the Win Forever pyramid, the foundation is the philosophy. I collected all of
weapon in the Win Forever the things that I believed were important in my life and in football and from that I derived the
philosophy is the drive to philosophy for Win Forever. What Win Forever means to me is aspiring to be the best you can
constantly be looking for be, or as I like to refer to it, “maximizing your potential.” But Winning Forever is not about the
ways to improve.” final score; it’s about competing and striving to be the best. If you are in this pursuit, then you’re
already winning.”
~ Pete Carroll
Winning Forever.
It’s NOT about the final score. Period. It’s about being in the game, striving to be your best and
using every moment as an opportunity to get just a little closer to actualizing your potential.
A couple other key aspects of Pete’s philosophy include the idea to “Always Compete” and to
strive to “do things better than they’ve ever been done before.”
Use every.single.moment. as an opportunity to compete with yourself (!) to see if you can do
things better than you’ve ever done them before.
Super inspiring. Reminds me of the Greek word that sums up my entire philosophy: Areté. We
come back to this word/concept again and again throughout these Notes.
Basic idea: Guys like Socrates and Plato and Aristotle told us that if we want happiness, a sense
of FLOURISHING and well-being, we need to live with areté.
The word directly translates as “virtue” or “excellence,” but it has a deeper meaning—something
closer to “expressing the highest version of yourself moment to moment to moment.”
Moment to moment to moment you are capable of expressing a certain version of yourself.
To the extent you don’t, there’s a gap between what you were capable of being and what you
actually were in that moment. It’s in that gap (and only (!) in that gap) that regret, anxiety,
depression and all the other ick sauce exists.
Close the gap and you actualized your potential in that moment. Do that consistently and you’re
going to blow yourself away—feeling extraordinarily good, confident and capable as you march
toward maximizing your potential.
Want to Win Forever—experiencing a higher, more consistent level of happiness, meaning and
mojo (and every other measure of personal and professional success)? Live with areté. Always
compete—striving to do things better than you’ve ever done them before.
(But if you’re constantly leaning too far forward and thinking about the outcomes you’re after,
you’ll be distracted and fail to prepare adequately and under perform. But only every time.)
Here’s how Wooden put it: “When I was teaching basketball, I urged my players to try their
hardest to improve on that very day, to make that practice a masterpiece.
Too often we get distracted by what is outside our control. You can’t do anything about
yesterday. The door to the past has been shut and the key thrown away. You can do nothing
about tomorrow. It is yet to come. However, tomorrow is in large part determined by what
you do today. So make today a masterpiece. You have control over that.
This rule is even more important in life than basketball. You have to apply yourself each day
to become a little better. By applying yourself to the task of becoming a little better each and
every day over a period of time, you will become a lot better. Only then will you will be able to
approach being the best you can be. It begins by trying to make each day count and knowing
you can never make up for a lost day.”
Confidence.
The word comes from the Latin con- (expressing intensive force) + fidere (trust). It basically
means INTENSE TRUST in oneself—which is EARNED via hard work and *knowing* you’ve
been showing up and doing your best moment to moment to moment. (ALWAYS COMPETE!)
It’s that tenacious commitment to constantly striving to do your best that allows you to relax
and, as Pete says, “Let it rip!” come game time.
Here’s to the intense trust that’s a by-product of doing your best day in and day out!
What would your life look like if you quit trying to be the best at something (relative to others)
and simply tried to be the best version of yourself?
Let’s focus on fearlessly stepping into the next best version of ourselves as we actualize our
potential and give our greatest gifts in greatest service to the world.
Brian Johnson,
Chief Philosopher
Toward a Psychology of
Pete Carroll is the coach of the Seattle Seahawks. He was previously the head
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coach of the USC Trojans. He has also been the head coach of the New York Jets
Motivation and Personality
and the New England Patriots and defensive coordinator of the San Francisco
Wooden 49ers.
With Winning in Mind
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BRIAN JOHNSON
Brian Johnson loves helping people optimize their lives as he studies, embodies
and teaches the fundamentals of optimal living—integrating ancient wisdom
+ modern science + common sense + virtue + mastery + fun. Learn more and
optimize your life at brianjohnson.me.