Rizal Reviewer
Rizal Reviewer
Why is Rizal the greatest Filipino hero that ever lived? Rizal is the greatest
Filipino hero that ever lived because he is a man honored after death by
public worship, because of his exceptional service to mankind especially to
his countrymen. Due to Rizal’s ability and love for our homeland, he stood
bold to battle for our opportunity despite the fact that his life was on the line so
as to spare his nation for enduring the Spaniards. That is the motivation
behind why Dr. Jose Rizal turned into our national legend.
Even before the outbreak of the revolution against Spain in 1896, many
instances can be cited to prove that his country & abroad recognized Rizal’s
leadership.
(1) He was elected by the Filipinos in Barcelona & Madrid as honorary pres. of
la Solidaridad.
(2) He became chief of the Indios Bravos.
(3) Rizal was again unanimously chosen Responsable (chief) of the
Spanish-Filipino Association.
(4) He was also the founder of la Liga Filipina in Manila on July 3, 1892.
(5) He became honorary President of Katipunan.
A year after Rizal’s execution, Gen. Emilio Aguinaldo & the other revolutionary
chiefs exiled to Hong Kong held a commemorative program there on 29 Dec
1897 on the occasion of the 1st anniversary of the hero’s execution &
martyrdom. Pres. Aguinaldo issued the 1st official proclamation making 30
Dec 1898 as "Rizal Day". The same proclamation ordered the hoisting
the Filipino flags at half-mast "from 12:00 noon on 30 Dec 1898" and the
closing of "all offices of the government" during the whole day of 30 Dec.
Many paid tribute for Rizal’s greatness as to honor his death. However, his
death did not finish his mission. It has just begun. For his death inspired many
others and became the rallying force of the revolutionary leaders who were
also willing to sacrifice and die for the country, if necessary.
The Taft Commission, which functioned as the US colonial administration in
the Philippines from 1900 to 1904, passed Act No. 37, creating the Province
of Rizal out of the military district of Morong in honor of Dr. Rizal. The act did
not formally declare Rizal a national hero, nor proclaim a national holiday in
his honor. However, while Taft commission chose Rizal out of several great
Filipinos as the No. 1 hero of his people, still we can say that what the
commission did was merely to confirm a sort
of what has already been decided, and that was Jose Rizal had already been
acclaimed by his countrymen and the scientific world as the foremost hero
and martyr of the land of his birth. Nay, we can go even farther and concur w/
Prof. Blumentritt, who said in 1897
Not only is Rizal THE MOST PROMINENT MAN OF HIS OWN PEOPLE but
THE GREATEST MAN THE MALAYAN RACE HAS PRODUCED.
Rizal wrote the historically famous novels “Noli Me Tangere” and “El
Filibusterismo” that spoke against the tyranny of the Spanish regime in our
country. After his death, a lot of books from different parts of the world have
been written about him. But there have been constant debates from
generation to generation that Andres Bonifacio is more deserving to be called
our national hero than Rizal. Many would claim that unlike Rizal, Andres
Bonifacio is a true revolutionary. While Rizal wanted change through
peaceful means, Bonifacio believed change is only possible through violence
and it was through war that the Spanish gave up. Thus, leading to a
conclusion that Bonifacio should be the national hero, and Rizal should only
be credited for helping. Most of the world Heroes was elevated as such
because of their war exploits. Rizal never did it. Rafael Palma has very well
stated the case of Rizal versus Bonifacio in these words:
It should be a source of pride & satisfaction to the Filipinos to have among
their national heroes one of such excellent qualities & merits w/c may be
equaled but not surpassed by any other man. It is true that in our case the
sword of Bonifacio was after all needed to shake off the yoke of a foreign
power; but the revolution prepared by Bonifacio was only the effect, the
consequence of the spiritual redemption wrought by the pen of Rizal.
Napoleon himself, who was a great conqueror & ruler, said: "There are only
two powers in the world; the sword & the pen; and in the end the former is
always conquered by the latter".
Going back to our main question, Who made Rizal the foremost hero of the
Philippines?
His struggles, sacrifices and notable contributions to today’s independence
were held accountable for making Dr. Jose Rizal our national hero. Of course,
Rizal himself, his own people, and the few influential foreigners all together
contributed to make him the greatest hero and martyr of his people. Jose
Rizal, considered as the greatest among the Filipino heroes,
was not explicitly proclaimed as a national hero. His exceptional dedication
and conviction to his life’s purpose are beyond the realm of imagination
knowing that he sacrificed his own life, not having the assurance that his
sacrifices will be worth it. If he hadn’t, and among other note-worthy heroes of
our history fought for our well-deserved freedom, maybe we’ll still be in the
hands of our unjust captors. His “excellent qualities and merits” (Rafael Palma)
made him Our Foremost National Hero.
Jose did many good deeds and tried to accomplish his goals; he wanted to
free his country. He was well-known enough to even have his own special
holiday which celebrates the anniversary of his death. Few people have had a
leader who so entirely gave of himself as he did, and who
asked so little for himself in return. He is a hero.
REPUBLIC ACT NO. 1425
WHEREAS, today, more than any other period of our history, there is a need
for a re-dedication to the ideals of freedom and nationalism for which our
heroes lived and died;
WHEREAS, it is meet that in honoring them, particularly the national hero and
patriot, Jose Rizal, we remember with special fondness and devotion their
lives and works that have shaped the national character;
WHEREAS, the life, works and writing of Jose Rizal, particularly his novels
Noli Me Tangere and El Filibusterismo, are a constant and inspiring source of
patriotism with which the minds of the youth, especially during their formative
and decisive years in school, should be suffused;
WHEREAS, all educational institutions are under the supervision of, and
subject to regulation by the State, and all schools are enjoined to develop
moral character, personal discipline, civic conscience and to teach the duties
of citizenship; Now, therefore,
SECTION 1. Courses on the life, works and writings of Jose Rizal, particularly
his novel Noli Me Tangere and El Filibusterismo, shall be included in the
curricula of all schools, colleges and universities, public or private: Provided,
That in the collegiate courses, the original or unexpurgated editions of the Noli
Me Tangere and El Filibusterismo or their English translation shall be used as
basic texts.
The Board of National Education shall determine the adequacy of the number
of books, depending upon the enrollment of the school, college or university.
Published in the Official Gazette, Vol. 52, No. 6, p. 2971 in June 1956.
BATANGAS STATE UNIVERSITY
Malvar, Batangas, Philippines
ACTIVITY 2
Rizal Law vs. RH Law
In 1956, the Roman Catholic Church opposed the passage of Rizal Law that
will make the study and reading of Rizal’s novel mandatory. Today, the
Roman Catholic Church opposed the legalization of divorce, restoration of
death penalty, and the controversial RH Bill which was passed into law in
2012.
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BATANGAS STATE UNIVERSITY
Malvar, Batangas, Philippines
The first teacher of Rizal was his mother, who was a remarkable
woman of good character and fine culture. On her lap, he learned
at the age of three the alphabet and the prayers. "My mother,"
wrote Rizal in his student memoirs, "taught me how to read and to
say haltingly the humble prayers which I raised fervently to God."
That same night, Jose, with his cousin named Leandro, went
sightseeing in the town. Instead of enjoying the sights, Jose
became depressed because of homesickness. "In the moonlight,"
he recounted, "I remembered my home town, my idolized mother,
and my solicitous sisters. Ah, how sweet to me was Calamba, my
own town, in spite of the fact that was not as wealthy as Biñan."
The school was in the house of the teacher, which was a small
nipa hut about 30 meters from the home of Jose’s aunt.
Paciano knew the teacher quite well because he had been a pupil
under him before. He introduced Jose to the teacher, after which
he departed to return to Calamba.
Immediately, Jose was assigned his seat in the class. The teacher
asked him:
The teacher sharply stopped all noises and begun the lessons of
the day.
Jose described his teacher in Biñan as follows: "He was tall, thin,
long-necked, with sharp nose and a body slightly bent forward, and
he used to wear a sinamay shirt, woven by the skilled hands of the
women of Batangas. He knew by the heart the grammars by
Nebrija and Gainza. Add to this severity that in my judgement was
exaggerated and you have a picture, perhaps vague, that I have
made of him, but I remember only this."
First School BrawlIn the afternoon of his first day in school, when
the teacher was having his siesta, Jose met the bully, Pedro. He
was angry at this bully for making fun of him during his
conversation with the teacher in the morning.
The two boys wrestled furiously in the classroom, much to the glee
of their classmates. Jose, having learned the art of wrestling from
his athletic Tio Manuel, defeated the bigger boy. For this feat, he
became popular among his classmates.
When he was nine years old, his father sent him to Biñan to
continue studying Latin, because his first teacher had died. His
brother Paciano took him to Biñan one Sunday, and Jose bade his
parents and sisters good-bye with tears in his eyes. Oh, how it
saddened him to leave for the first time and live far from his home
and his family! But he felt ashamed to cry and had to conceal his
tears and sentiments. "O Shame," he explained, "how many
beautiful and pathetic scenes the world would witness without
thee!"
They arrived at Biñan in the evening. His brother took him to the
house of his aunt where he was to stay, and left him after
introducing him to the teacher. At night, in company with his aunt’s
grandson named Leandro, Jose took a walk around the town in the
light of the moon. To him the town looked extensive and rich but
sad and ugly.
Source: Zaide, Gregorio F. and Zaide, Sonia M., Jose Rizal, Life,
Works and Writings of Genius, Writer, Scientist and National Hero,
Second Edition, All Nations Publishing, Quezon City, 1994.
Reading Material 2
BATANGAS STATE UNIVERSITY
Malvar, Batangas, Philippines
Our history textbooks reveal the Rizal family was counted among
the wealthier families in the Philippines in the 19th century.
The Rizal family’s wealth has always a point of curiosity: Why were
they wealthy? Where did their wealth come from? How affluent
was the Rizal family? We need to retrace hundreds of years of
history to answer these questions.
The Principalia
One of the key reasons the Rizal family was wealthy was because
its lineage, both maternal and paternal, can be traced
to principalian roots.
The heads of the family and their eldest sons were exempted from
taxes, conscription, and forced labor. When the concept of land
ownership was introduced by the Spanish, the principalia took
advantage of it by claiming that agricultural land was their private
property (when in fact it was their subjects’ lands or public lands),
which they then sold to the state. They also reinforced their
political power by selling and donating lands to the friars, which
became the infamous friar estates.
Both families belonged to the principalia and were among the most
respected in Laguna.
Another reason that explains the Rizal family’s affluence was their
closeness to a certain friar order in Biñan. Letters between
brothers Paciano and Jose Rizal reveal their family’s links to the
friar orders.
The lands Paciano was referring to were the plots of land they
leased from the Dominicans, which were granted to them for free
despite many other principalias aggressively bidding to lease them.
It was from these lands where the Rizal family’s main income was
generated. Paciano managed the farmlands, which he planted with
rice and sugarcane.
Had they been a little wealthier, perhaps Paciano would not have
bothered tilling the land and taking up the cudgels for more
oppressed indios, and the national hero would not have bothered
writing novels about injustices he had never felt.
Source: https://www.esquiremag.ph/the-good-life/pursuits/rizal-
family-net-worth-a1957-20181020-lfrm
Reading Material 3
BATANGAS STATE UNIVERSITY
Malvar, Batangas, Philippines
Father Magin Ferrando- was the college registrar, refused to admit Rizal
in Ateneo for two reasons:
(1) he was late for registration
(2) he was sickly and undersized for his age
Jose was the first of his family to adopt the surname “Rizal”. He
registered under this name at Ateneo because their family name
“Mercado” had come under the suspicion of the Spanish authorities.
A Religious picture- Rizal’s first prize for being the brightest pupil in the
whole class.
At the end of the school year in March, 1873, Rizal returned to Calamba
for summer vacation.
When the summer vacation ended, Rizal returned to Manila for his
second year term in Ateneo. This time he boarded inside Intramuros at
No. 6 Magallanes Street. His landlady was an old widow named
Doña Pepay.
The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexander Dumas- the first favorite novel
of Rizal which made a deep impression on him.
Universal History by Cesar Cantu- Rizal persuaded his father to buy him
this set of historical work that was a great aid in his studies.
March 23, 1877- Commencement Day, Rizal, who was 16 years old,
received from his Alma Mater, Ateneo Municipal, the degree of Bachelor
of Arts, with highest honors
Father Jose Vilaclara- advised Rizal to stop communing with the Muse
and pay more attention to more practical studies.
Rizal studied painting under the famous Spanish painter, Agustin Saez,
and sculpture under Romualdo de Jesus, noted Filipino sculptor
After finishing the first year of a course in Philosophy and Letters (1877-
1878), Rizal transferred to the medical course.
“Don’t send him to Manila again; he knows enough. If he gets to know
more, the Spaniards will cut off his head.”- Doña Teodora, vigorously
opposed the idea that Rizal pursue higher learning in the university.
April 1877- Rizal who was then nearly 16 years old, matriculated in the
University of Santo Tomas, taking the course on Philosophy and Letters
because
(1) his father like it
(2) he was “still uncertain as to what career to pursue”
It was during the following term (1878-1879) that Rizal, having received
the Ateneo Rector’s advice to study medicine
During Rizal’s first school term in the University of Santo Tomas (1877-
1878), Rizal also studied in Ateneo. He took the vocational course
leading to the title of perito agrimensor (expert surveyor)
November 25, 1881- the title was issued to Rizal for passing the final
examination in the surveying course
A La Juventud Filipina (To the Filipino Youth)- Rizal, who was then 18
years old, submitted this poem
The prize was awarded to Rizal, a gold ring on which was engraved the
bust of Cervantes
D.N. del Puzo- a Spanish writer, who won the second prize
Junto al Pasig (Beside the Pasig)- a zarzuela which was staged by the
Ateneans on December 8, 1880, on the occasion of the annual
celebration of the Feats Day of the Immaculate Conception, Patroness
of the Ateneo
Reading Material 4
BATANGAS STATE UNIVERSITY
Malvar, Batangas, Philippines
It can only be with true passion that one can conquer and accomplish what
Filipino hero Jose Rizal had in his thirty-five-year life. He stopped at nothing
when it came to expressing his love not just for his country but also his
women. His travels across the Philippines and the world swayed him into
multifarious relationships that colored almost half his life. There are nine
women on record. It’s not to say that all those relationships were serious, but
he did pursue when he wanted to pursue, cared, at least, and displayed his
attentiveness and charm unapologetically.
But amidst the flirting, he was a big believer that women should be
empowered. This was evident in his essay, “To the Young Women of Malolos,”
which he wrote for the 20 women of Bulacan who fought to have a night
school so they could study Spanish.
He wrote, in part, “No longer does the Filipina stand with her head bowed nor
does she spend her time on her knees, because she is quickened by hope in
the future; no longer will the mother contribute to keeping her daughter in
darkness and bring her up in contempt and moral annihilation. And no longer
will the science of all sciences consist in blind submission to any unjust order,
or in extreme complacency, nor will a courteous smile be deemed the only
weapon against insult or humble tears the ineffable panacea for all
tribulations.”
As proof of his “ways,” here are the recorded stories of the nine women of Dr.
Jose Rizal.
1 Segunda Katigbak
First love never dies they say—unless your first love is already engaged to be
married when you meet. Then you have to let it go really fast. Such was the
case of Jose Rizal and Segunda Katigbak, a Batangueña from Lipa City,
whom Rizal met when he was only a 16-year-old boy.
They met when the young hero visited his grandmother with his friend,
Mariano Katigbak, Segunda’s brother. The Katigbaks were close to Rizal’s
grandmother, and coincidentally, Segunda was at the grandma’s house when
Rizal and Mariano arrived. It was attraction at first sight. Segunda was also a
close friend of Rizal’s sister, Olympia, whom he visited every week at the La
Concordia College. The two became very close. However, Segunda was
already engaged to be married to a man who lived in her town, and Rizal had
to stop pursuing her.
Rizal wrote about the incident years later, “Ended, at an early house, my first
love! My virgin heart will always mourn the reckless step it took on the flower-
decked abyss. My illusions will return, yes, but indifferent, uncertain, ready for
the first betrayal on the path of love.”
Our heartache-filled, hugot-induced breakup films would be put to shame.
2 Leonor Valenzuela
Leonor “Orang” Valenzuela, Rizal’s second object of affection, is literally the
girl-next-door. They met when Rizal was a sophomore medical student at the
University of Santo Tomas, during which time he also lived at Doña Concha
Leyva’s boarding house in Intramuros, Manila. Orang, who was then 14 years
old, was his neighbor.
During the courtship, Rizal was said to have sent Leonor private and secret
love letters, which he wrote using invisible ink made with water and salt—he
was adept in chemistry, too. To read the letters, Orang had to heat the letter
over a candle or a lamp. (How did we get from this intricate, labored way of
courting someone to pressing that heart icon on Instagram? Just wondering.)
Rizal also frequented the Valenzuelas’ home, which was a hang out place of
the students in the area.
There are, however, documents that may serve as proof that Rizal’s efforts
were not effective. Some accounts say he was courting Leonor Valenzuela
and and his second cousin Leonor Rivera at the same time—thus the need for
invisible letters. (Still, we need to appreciate the effort that went with it.)
Rivera apparently knew of this and gave way to Rivera’s attraction for Rizal.
When Rizal left for Spain in 1882, it was said that he did say goodbye to
Orang, but kept in touch with the help of Rizal’s close friend, Jose “Chenggoy”
Cecilio.
Lest it be forgotten, while he was pursuing the two Leonors, Rizal was in
Europe taking courses in medicine at Universidad Central de Madrid and
painting at Real Academia de Bellas Artes de San Fernando in Calle Alcala.
Maybe he still had time on his hands?
3 Leonor Rivera
Leanor Rivera and Jose Rizal lived the tragedies of Shakespeare’s poems.
They met when Rizal was 18 and Leonor was 13, at the boarding house of
Rizal’s uncle in Intramuros, Manila. Leonor was Rizal’s second cousin.
It was a perfect love story in the beginning: he, the intelligent charmer, and
she, the beautiful student who had a beautiful singing voice and was a
talented piano player. Soon, they fell in love. But as tragic love stories go,
they were besieged by obstacles. Leonor’s parents highly disapproved of their
relationship as they were wary of Rizal being a “filibuster.” In his letters, Rizal
called Leonor “Taimis” to hide her identity.
Before leaving for Europe in 1882, Rizal said that he had found the woman he
wanted to marry. But even his brother, Paciano Rizal, disagreed with the idea,
saying that it would be unfair to Leonor if he were to leave her behind after
getting married.
But their love—as young loves are—wanted to go against all that stood in the
way. Although they did not get married, they tried to continue sending each
other love letters, a lot of which were intercepted and kept hidden by Leonor’s
mother. In 1890, Leonor wrote a letter to Rizal saying that she was engaged
to be married to a British engineer named Henry Kipping. That same year, the
wedding pushed through.
Upon the coercion of her mother, Leonor burned Rizal’s letters to her—but it
was said she kept the ashes of those letters. A story goes that she hid some
of these ashes in the hem of her wedding gown.
In 1893, Leonor died during second childbirth. Documents show that when
Rizal heard of the news through his sister, Narcisa, he didn’t speak for a few
days. It is believed that Rizal immortalized Leonor through the character Maria
Clara in Noli Me Tangere. Like we said, it’s a Shakespearean kind of dark—
and no love story is more intense than the one that lost the battle with
circumstances.
He showed affection towards Consuelo but was not serious in his pursuit as
he was still engaged to Leonor Rivera at the time. Yes, he loved the company
of women, but during that brief period, he too was lonely and yearning for the
physical void left by Leonor.
Although most accounts say the dalliance didn’t turn serious, Rizal wrote a
poem for her, entitled, “A La Señorita C.O.y.P.” Of course, these days, when
you write a poem for someone, that’s like a marriage proposal. In the end,
Consuelo got engaged to Rizal’s friend, Eduardo de Lete. It is said that
Eduardo’s love for Consuelo was also the reason Rizal didn’t pursue the
mestiza. Or maybe, in modern parlance, theirs was a classic case of a
rebound fling.
5 Seiko Usui
In many of his diary entries, Rizal wrote about how he was charmed by
Japan’s beauty, cleanliness, and peace and order. But if there was one thing
that almost kept him in the country where cherry blossoms bloom most
beautiful, it was a woman named Seiko Usui, affectionately called O-Sei-San.
It was in 1888. Rizal had just arrived in Japan from Hongkong upon an
invitation to take a job offer at the Spanish Legation. One day, while he was in
the office grounds, he saw O-Sei-San walk past the legation’s gate and was
immediately enthralled by her beauty. With the help of a Japanese gardener,
he asked to be introduced to the woman who captured his eyes—and the
gardener acquiesced. Rizal spoke little Japanese at the time, so the gardener
had to serve as a translator. However, a few minutes into the conversation,
they both found O-Sei-San spoke English and French, which was a relief as
Rizal spoke both languages. When the language barrier broke, they started to
build a relationship.
Seiko Usui, also known as O Sei San, was a Japanese samurai's daughter.
She was 23 years old when she first met Jose Rizal. He had moved to a
Spanish Legation in the Azabu district of Tokyo where she regularly worked.
She served as his interpreter during his stay in Japan. She also helped him to
be accustomed to the Japanese culture, taught him how to read and write
Nihonggo, and taught him the Japanese art of painting also known as su-mie.
Together, they visited The Imperial Art Gallery, The Imperial Library, various
universities, the Shokubutsu-en (Botanical Garden), the Hibiya Park, and
various shrines.
Rizal was almost tempted by her beauty and affection to stay in Japan. When
Rizal left for the United States, he told her in a note that he had spent a happy
golden month with her and that he do not know if he can have another.
As days went by, O-Sei-San taught Rizal the ways of the Japanese. They
went gallivanting, visiting museums, galleries, and universities. They talked
about the arts and culture, switching their language from French to English
and back as they pleased. Their love was childlike and spirited. According to
many accounts, Rizal was ready to move to Japan, stay with O-Sei-San, and
live a peaceful life with his love.
Unfortunately for this relationship, country-saving duties would call and he had
to leave Japan for San Francisco. He never saw O-Sei-San again. Their affair
lasted for around two months. It’s shorter than an average season of a Netflix
series, but you know Rizal and his intensity.
6 Gertrude Beckett
In the same year he began and ended his relations with O-Sei-San, our JR,
then 27, went to London and met a woman named Gertrude Beckett, the
eldest daughter of his landlord. Gertrude showered Rizal with all the love and
attention of a girl who is hopelessly in love. She even assisted Rizal as he
finished some of his popular sculptures, “Prometheus Bound,” “The Triumph
of Death over Life,” and “The Triumph of Science over Death.” He called her
Gettie, she called him Pettie. But all documents lead to say one thing: the
feelings weren’t mutually shared.
In 1889, Rizal left London, and left Gettie a composite carving of the heads of
the Beckett sisters. Marcelo del Pilar, Rizal’s friend, said Rizal left London to
move away from Gertrude, whose idea of their relationship was more than
what it really was—the most tormenting kind: an unrequited love.
7 Suzanne Jacoby
Maybe Rizal was repulsed with the idea of having an idle mind. With all the
loneliness and anxiety from the turmoil of his country and family, he was even
able to fill his resting moments learning new things—like flirting with women.
When he arrived in Belgium in 1890, he lived at a boarding house that was
run by two sisters whose last name was Jacoby. The sisters had a niece
named Suzanne. You probably can guess now what happens with Rizal and
his caretaker’s kin. If it’s not a neighbor, it’s a caretaker’s kin. Are we seeing a
trend here? Obviously the guy is too busy to explore beyond a one-kilometer
radius.
The relationship was probably a fling, too, as Rizal made no mention of
Suzanne when he wrote letters to his friends about his stay in Belgium. Rizal
left the country in August that year. Suzanne was heartbroken. Rizal
continued writing El Filibusterismo, writing for La Solidaridad, and worrying
about his family back home. It was said that Suzanne wrote Rizal letters. Rizal
may have replied once. In 1891, Rizal went back to Belgium—not for
Suzanne—but to finish writing El Filibusterismo. He stayed for a few months,
left, and never returned. Maybe she got the point after that.
8 Nellie Boustead
Remember that famous time when Antonio Luna and Jose Rizal almost got
into a duel because of a girl? The girl in the middle of that madness was Nellie
Boustead. Rizal and Nellie met in Biarritz, where Nellie’s wealthy family
hosted Rizal’s stay at their residence on the French Riviera. Before Biarritz,
Rizal already made friends with the Boustead family a few years back, and
even played fencing with Nellie and her sister.
During his stay at the beautiful Biarritz vacation home, Rizal learned of Leonor
Rivera’s engagement and thought of pursuing a romantic relationship with
Nellie, who was classy, educated, cheerful, and athletic. After strengthening
their relationship, Rizal wrote letters to his friends, telling them about his
intention to marry her. They were all supportive, including Antonio Luna.
Although they seemed like the ideal couple, marriage for Rizal was still not
meant to be. First, Nellie’s mother did not think Rizal had the resources to be
a good provider for her daughter. Second, Nellie wanted Rizal to convert to
Protestantism. Rizal refused. But their friendship must have been strong
enough because they ended up being friends after all the drama.
Before Rizal left Paris in 1891, Nellie wrote him a letter: “Now that you are
leaving I wish you a happy trip and may you triumph in your undertakings, and
above all, may the Lord look down on you with favor and guide your way
giving you much blessings, and may your learn to enjoy! My remembrance will
accompany you as also my prayers.”
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you become friends with your ex.
9 Josephine Bracken
Josephine Bracken was the woman who stayed with Rizal until his execution
in 1896. She was also, allegedly, the woman whom Rizal married. However,
accounts of their marriage have been much-debated over the years.
Josephine was the adopted daughter of one George Taufer, whom she lived
with in Hongkong for years before she needed to seek help from an
ophthalmologist due to George’s blindness. They then sought the help of Jose
Rizal, who was already exiled in Dapitan, Zamboanga del Norte at the time.
Rizal and Josephine fell in love and in a month made the announcement that
they wanted to get married. But just like the other Rizal great loves, this one
was once again complicated. No priest would marry the two, for reasons that
are still unclear—but perhaps it was because of Rizal’s status in politics.
Without a legal paper, Rizal and Josephine lived together, and had a son, who
died a few hours after birth. Rizal named his son after his father, Francisco.
Up to this day, there is no legal proof that Josephine and Rizal ever got
married.
In retrospect, maybe Rizal was not meant for a long commitment, like
marriage—with all his travels and freedom-fighting obligations. Maybe heroes
can only be alone with their thoughts. Left alone, they will naturally think too
much, and thinking for an entire country, we assume, can be exhausting.
Maybe Rizal just always needed a companion.
But if there’s one thing his dalliances and longings and pursuits remind us, it
is that heroes are humans, too. Humans have needs. And he did die for our
country. He gets a pass—even when he was a master in ghosting.
Source: https://news.abs-cbn.com/ancx/culture/spotlight/12/30/18/all-the-girls-rizal-
loved-before
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/171800856/seiko-usui,