The Last Reformation
The Last Reformation
—Dorte
—Ulla
—Klaus
Torben’s book is a must read for anyone who has become dissatisfied with
the way church is happening today 1n many parts of the world. Its pyramid
system of leadership closes the door to all but a select few while everyone
else pays their tithes into the storehouse, then sits and listens obediently. e
abuses and control tactics (to keep us and our money), and the watered-down
messages to please the “seekers” must change if we are to become the
vibrant and powerful disciples who are carrying on His work and making
disciples in all the nations, as Jesus charged us with doing. Let the
reformation begin!
—Nana
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TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRoDUCTIoN
ChAPTeR 1:
A oughtExperiment............0..........00.. 17
ChAPTeR 2:
ChAPTeR 3:
Church
Culture... 2 29
ChAPTeR 4:
ChAPTeR 5:
ChAPTeR 6:
Wandering In eDesert...........02..0....0.00.. 43
ChAPTeR 7:
ChAPTeR 8:
Finances
ChAPTeR 9:
Tithing
ChAPTeR 19:
Leadership... 2... 0
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INTRODUCTION
We have had the chance to get to know Torben Sondergaard and see
him in action. What we have seen is God’s kingdom being preached,
people being saved, set free, healed, baptized, and filled with the
holy Spirit the way we read about in Acts
—and the way it even happens today in many countries and many
places where the gospel is being preached in the power of the Spirit.
Torben has a passion for the salvation of people and for the
fellowship. People who get saved are quickly introduced into an active
discipleship program and into varying fellowships. New Christians
quickly begin practicing Jesus’ life in word and deed, which in turn
leads to others coming to faith in him.
Torben has studied church history and the Bible, especially Acts, in
order to find biblical principles that are applicable to reaching out to
people. In this book, he describes his own journey, from which we
can all learn something. e training of disciples is a subject that is in
focus throughout the whole book, and Torben shows by many
examples how we can best train disciples.
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PREFACE
the framework of the church and the service—did not change very
much. It was, again, like putting a new patch on old clothes.
If you look back through history, you will see that none of the
revivals of the past have seriously done anything about the church
structure. What we really need is a new and radical reformation, a
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e third reformation is not just about small changes here and there.
No, it 1s a reformation that goes so deep that it requires a complete
new start. I absolutely agree with Christian Schwarz, Wolfgang
Simson, and others who speak out on this subject. What I am about
to present in this book is definitely not just my own opinion. Many
good books have already been written about this topic, but a large
number of them go into such depth that the reader needs a special
interest in church history and its structure in order to be able to read
them. If that background and training are lacking, then it might be a
little difficult to go throughthem. erefore, I will not be going into
such depths in this book as many others have done. Instead, I want
to give the reader a taste of what God is going to do, a taste of the
future of the church. Although I am not presenting anything new, it
will still be new to most people. It seems that this message has not
yet had as much of a breakthrough in Scandinavia and europe as it
has in many other places in the world. I hope, therefore, that this
book will help to start a reformation in you, the reader, and that
a er reading it, you will start to examine the Bible more deeply for
yourself to see what it has to say about these things.
I know God wants something new to happen. I also know that this
reformation is necessary. yet, despite the fact that I am so absolutely
convinced about the things I am writing, I am still writing it with
great fear and trembling because I know this will not be easily
accepted.
We are all still glad today for the reformation that Martin Luther
introduced. yes, a er five hundred years, we think how fantastic that
Reformation was and have an almost idyllic understanding of what
really happened. We imagine how Luther stood by the church in
Wittenberg on october 31, 1517, and quietly and peacefully nailed his
Ninety-Five esesto the door while people were standing behind him
applauding. yes, it was beautiful, and it laid the foundation for
the Reformation, which we are happy for today.
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tion, and they did everything to fight it. you might be thinking now:
Yes, but that was the Catholic Church. here is my response: Yes, it was the
Catholic Church, but it was still the church. Today, another church
denomination will try to fight what God wants. Why do we think it
will be any different today? I am not saying that we will see
thousands killed, but why should we think that everything will
go smoothly, without divisions, and without being accused of working
against God and trying to destroy the church?
Why did the church turn against Martin Luther? Was it because his
words were opposed to the Word of God? No, that was not the
reason. for the church, it was not a matter of what the Bible said,
but of something completely different. Martin Luther’s teaching
opposeda system based on finances, power, and control. We can say
that this 1s also relevant today. People will oppose it today as well,
not because itis unbiblical, but because it will destroy the system
they have helped to build. finances, power, and control still matter a
lot to the church leaders today. is is not because pastors do not
want to serve God and do not want to do the right thing. It is
mostly due to the fact that they either cannot see it or that they have
much to lose that makes it hard for them to go in this direction.
When they see others abandoning their system, they will fight it
because that is how they lose their members and, together with them,
the money that keeps the system running.
Now the Passover of the Jews was at hand, and Jesus went up to Jerusalem.
And He found in the temple those who sold oxen and sheep and doves, and
the moneychangers doing business. When He
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had made a whip of cords, He drove them all out of the temple, with the
sheep and the oxen, and poured out the changers’ money and overturned the
tables. And He said to those who sold doves, “Take these things away! Do
not make My Father’s house a house of merchandise!” en His disciples
remembered that it was written,
“Zeal for Your house has eaten Me up.” (John 2:13-17) God does not
live in a temple built of stone. he lives in us—
“Do you suppose that I came to give peace on earth? I tell you, not at all, but
rather division. For from now on five in one house will be divided: three
against two, and two against three. Father will be divided against son and
son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother,
mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against her
mother-in-law ... Yes, and why, even of yourselves, do you not judge what is
right?” (Luke 12:51-53, 57)
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It did not stop with Martin Luther and the Reformation. A erward
came the Baptist revival, where God again revealed the “biblical
baptism of believers” (full immersion based on one’s personal faith).
Later, the Methodist revival occurred, where the truth
about “justification by faith”
was revealed in a new way. en there was the Adventist revival with
e next revivals renewed the focus on “baptism with the holy Spirit”
and the “gi s of the Spirit.” e last big revival took place in Wales
with evan Roberts. is revival dealt with a renewal of the
Jesus 1s coming back very soon, and I am convinced that we are the
ones who will see his return. Before his coming, he wants to prepare
his church like a bride who is being prepared to meet her
bridegroom.
When we look at these revivals, it seems like the only thing we still
lack is a reformation of the structure of the church. It has never been
God’s intention for these revealed truths to result in independent
church denominations that, a er a while, quench the fire of revival.
God didnot intend to create separate churches and denomina tions
with their own “little” truth, while ignoring the other parts and, thus,
hindering
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our starting point is not Martin Luther and the Reforma tion, nor is
it one of the other revivals. each of them only managed to present a
small part of God’s truth. our starting point is the Word of God, the
Bible, and Jesus Christ because, in him, we have everything we need
for life and godliness (2 Peter 1:3). is is also relevant when we
look at the structure of the church.
—Torben Sgndergaard
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A THOUGHT EXPERIMENT
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Try to imagine that there 1s not even one single Christian in the
whole world. ere are no churches, no Christian books, no Christian
TV, or no Christian newspapers. ere is nothing that directly has
anything to do with Christianity, except for one Bible. one day,
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one finds this Bible. he has never seen it before, nor has he heard
about the Bible, Jesus, or Christianity, but soon he starts to
read through the book.
he starts with the old Testament about how it all began and how the
land of Israel came into existence. he reads how God works with his
people, and he gets a clear picture of God as holy and righteous.
he reads about a God Who can get angry, but Who is also merciful
and patient. A God Who has great love for his people. A God Who
would one day send us all a Savior, which is the red thread
throughout the old Testament. When he gets to the end of the old
Testament, he already has an impression of what God is like and
how he acts.
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My question now is: What do you think their churches would look like?
Would they look like the state church, or would they look more like
our evangelical churches, or would they still look different from that
maybe? Would their fellowship have a nice church building witha
pulpit on a platform and all the chairs standing in neat rows? or
would they have no building, pulpit, or pews at all? Do you think
they would have a service every Sunday morning, with a Sunday
school on the side? Would they have a program consisting of a
welcome, some songs, announcements and an offering, more songs,
sermon, and then communion? or would they have no program at all
and simply allow
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e truth is that their church would be very different from what the
church looks like today. e problem nowadays is that a lot of what
we do in church is not based on the Bible but on “Christian
traditions,”
ere is the aspect of culture within the church that I call “church
culture.” ere are also national cultures that differ from country to
country and from one ethnic group to another. We cannot now say for
sure how they would form a church in the story I made up because
it would certainly depend on the national culture they came from. If
they, for example, came from a culture with strong family bonds,
where they live together for many generations, it would influence
their church ina different way than if they came from a culture that
resembles the Danish one, where one does not always put so much
emphasis on the family and family life.
The story does tell us one important thing about them, however.
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based on paganism and a church culture that goes back to the fourth
century, a culture that already had changed from what Jesus repre -
sented and the way the first church lived for a few hundred years.
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I want to ask you some questions. What is the purpose of the church?
If the purpose of the church 1s not to gather a lot of people or get a nice
building, then what is its purpose? _e only purpose is what Jesus
commanded us to do; namely, to go and make people into his
disciples.
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therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of
the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all
things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the
end of the age. Amen." (Matthew 28:18-20) Jesus never said to his
disciples that they should go out and builda lot of churches. No, he
said they should go out and make disciples.
he would build his church using them. is means that a nice big
church building with many people is not necessarily a fulfill ment of
this purpose, unless all those people are made disciples and followers
of Jesus Christ in everyday life. (My book, Christian, Disciple, or
Slave, talks much more about this.)
If Jesus came back today, would he take all seekers home with him,
or would he only take all the disciples? Many of the churches
we perceive as big today are very small in God’s eyes. When
persecution starts for real and all things are revealed, everything will
be turned
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upside down. e big churches will suddenly become small when they
find out that following Jesus has a high price, a price most of them
have never been willing to pay. is is precisely why they are going
there and not to a place where the Word about repentance and self-
denial is preached radically. It’s very important that we focus on
making disciples. We are living in a time when most of those in
Christianity are gradually moving away from focusing on what the
Word of God says. Today, many people look immediately at what
seems to work right here and now. But we are not supposed to build
something that can last only here and now. We have to build
something that lasts forever!
If you want to find out if your church is a healthy one, check how
the young people live on friday night, or look at what the church
members talk about and what they entertain on Saturday night. at
will give you a better idea of how you are going to end up if you
continue onthe same path as them. We become like those with
whom we associate.
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older members talk about when they are together with their friends
from the church?” “how do you obey Jesus’ command ment
about spreading the Gospel?” e answers will definitely give a more
accurate picture of how healthy that church is. e number of
people, the buildings, the programs, the state of the finances,
etc., are not the purpose in themselves. Instead, they can even be
opposing the ultimate purpose of the church.
e purpose of the church is the fulfillment of the call that Jesus has
given us to make people into his disciples by baptizing them and
teaching them to obey everything he says. Let us therefore not
become distracted by all these other things.
Let me say that this is how many people perceive it today, but we
have to remember that people are not saved before they accept Christ
as Savior and become born again. one is either a child of God or a
child of the devil (1 John 3:10); born of flesh or born of the spirit
(John 3:6); on the way to heaven or on the way to hell (Matthew
25:46). ere is nothing in between. one can be a seeker and be “on
the way,” but if they are not yet born again, they will perish a er
death, no matter if they goto church, pray to God, or read the
Bible. It means that all those who are only “on the way” in our
churches will perish if they die before they get saved. If this was
really understood, we would be preaching much more clearly and
with consequence, which would cause many to repent right here and
now.
If you study revival and church history, you will see that the
acceptance of a long conversion that may take many years is a new
phenomenon. We do not find it in the Bible. So preach the Word and
expect that people will repent, and you will see it happen! If you
preach another gospel that suits seekers, you will get seekers who
never move on to repentance and salvation. of course, there will be a
handful who will repent a er some time, but I can guarantee that we
will lose even more who leave through the back door if we do it
this way. In addition, we will not see the same radical conversions
where people are willing to give everything to God.
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Let us never accept any other purpose than the one Jesus has given
us. he has not given us a commandment to go out and make seekers
or church-goers. he said clearly that it is about making disciples—his
followers—who obey what he has commanded us. When one grasps
Jesus, one will also be willing to obey him. he is the Life and the
reason why we are here.
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CHURCH CULTURE
What do you think of when you hear the word “church”? If you
come from a Lutheran or Catholic background, you will certainly
think of a church building with a big tower, an altar, and pews
where people can sit when the priest is preaching. If you come from
an evangelical background, you will surely think of amore modern
building with a big stage and modern musical instru -
ments. e pews are replaced with chairs that can be moved around,
although they almost always stand in neat rows.
even though what people associate with the word “church” can be
slightly different, there are many things they have in common. e
majority of people think of a building designed for the sake of
worship.
ese are some of the first things that come to mind. A church is a
place where one goes to services, hears sermons, and does other
church-related things.
What do you think of when you hear the word “service”? Again, the
associations can vary from person to person. e common thing,
however, is that people think of church as something that takes place
in a building. ere are songs, an offering, a sermon, and communion.
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e question, then, can be: “Does it matter what our meetings look
like? We have to conduct our meetings in one way or another, so
why can’t we just continue doing it the way we have always done
it?”
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thinks of a building, a place designed with the purpose of worshiping,
etc. however, the concept of a special church building for that purpose
is not found in the Bible. further, it did not exist among the
first Christians either.
tine. Many of the things we do today find their roots around that
time.
Constantine the Great was emperor of the Roman empire from 306 to
337 A.D. he played a decisive role in the spreading of Christianity,
but at a price. It happened at the cost of rejecting the Christianity
that had been known for the first 300 years. Constantine
transformed Christianity from a persecuted minority group into an
authorized state religion. But Christianity cannot be forced upon
people. one has to be born again from the heart out of free will, or
else you will not be ableto see the Kingdom of God. forcing people
to become Christians will never bring any good results.
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¢ Why are many Lutheran and Catholic churches nameda_ er a dead saint?
Because of paganism and worship of the dead.
“disciple,” etc. It 1s my hope that this book can help the reader look
beyond this church culture. If we can ignore it, we can start to
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stand what the Bible really says about how the church was meant to
be and should be today. If we come back to what God intended, we
will see him adding daily to those who are getting saved.
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OUR TRIP
It has been a long trip for us, and we have learned a lot. It has been
a lot harder to get rid of this wrong understanding than I thought it
would be. Actually, until now, it has taken us almost twelve years,
the planting of three churches, a lot of experiences,
disappointments, opposition, mistakes, hours with the Bible and church
history before we could say that we felt free to be the church God
has created us to be.
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As I share our journey with you, I hope it can help, encourage, and
give you an understanding of how things connect together, seen from
our evangelical perspective. I cannot go into too much detail without
the risk of revealing too much about individuals. I will, however, pick
out various important incidents that have influenced us and led us to
where we are today. I also want to comment on what happened at
that time and why it happened. It has been a long journey where we
have repeatedly felt as if we were hitting a brick wall, until finally
realizing we could move on.
Not long ago, I got the following prophetic word, which describes it
really well. “I see that you, Torben, are standing with blood
and blisters on your hands, while you are making a hole in a
huge mountain. Lene is coming to help you, and the children are
coming with water for both of you. on the other side of the
mountain, there isa huge valley with green and fertile fields. I can
see that you are making a way so that many others can go through
the mountain and into those green and fertile fields.”
I hope you want to go out to the green and fertile fields that are
waiting on the other side of the mountain. It can be a long journey,
depending on where you are, but it is worth it.
It did not take a very long time for Moses to get the Israelites out
of egypt where they had been in slavery (exodus), but it took a great
many years to “get egypt out of them.” It 1s the same today. It’s not
hardto come out of the church culture, but it is hard to get
the church culture out of the individual. When it ends in success, it
is like being born again. you suddenly see things in a totally new
way and wonder why you could not see it before and why others
cannot see it when you tell them how fantastic it is.
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that did not have any special church traditions. If I had paid a visit
toa Lutheran church, for example, I would not have had any idea
when I was supposed to stand up or sit down during the service.
Until the night I got saved, I had never set foot in an evangelical
church either, and still it was not long before I started to adjust
myself to the culturein which I found myself. e evangelical church
where I got saved wasa real faith fellowship in which much
emphasis was put on “the manof God.” ey thought these “men of
God” had a special connection with God, and one should therefore
respect and honor them as if they were almost God himself. I
remember one particular experience some months a er I got saved
that really shows how fast one can become indoctrinated into a
particular culture. It sounds like a joke today, but back then, it was
also really terrifying.
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of God to others, but I had no idea how I could reach that goal. one
day, I asked my youth leader what I had to do to get to preach on
the platform. his answer really impacted my whole future. he said the
following: “Torben, you can become a Sunday school assistant. en 2
at meant that if I did all the mght things according to that system,
a er five years I would be allowed to preach one Sunday a year.
When we moved there, we wrote the statutes for the church and
started our first service. We were all very excited about how it would
go, and I clearly remember standing together with the pastor and
talking about how our first service should be. We were young and on
fire for the Lord. We finally had an opportunity to do exactly what
we wanted, and we did not want to just copy others. No, we wanted
to let God do his work. But how could that be? We agreed that I
would lead the meeting, and the pastor would preach. We were also
going to take an offering, so we talked back and forth that we
should not have the offering and the sermon right a er each other.
We agreed that I would welcome the people, and then we would
sing some songs, take an offering, and have some more songs
before he got up to preach. yes, that was the plan, and we were both
very excited about it, at least right
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Because their church culture hinders them from doing what God wants
them to do. ey start sincerely, with big dreams, but they still end
up with something they do not want at all—that which they ran away
from, that which was the reason for them starting something new in
the first place. for me, getting rid of the church culture has definitely
been the hardest task.
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that we are living a life today that is totally different from the life of
many of our old friends. Many of them are actually not living with
God any longer. I must sadly conclude that the system we came from
has not managed to make disciples and minister as it should. Instead,
ithas slowly quenched people’s zeal and fire for the Lord. is is
true not only for our old church but for many churches in general.
It’s sad to think that I had to leave the church to be able to make
progress in my life with God. Look at how many are sitting in
churches today merely listening and how few are really working and
on fire forthe Lord, even a er so many years. Look around and
think about how few ministries have been started by doing what the
system has expected of them. e condition is similar in Lutheran
churches, and there are many more denominations that lock people up
within their system.
Recently, I recetved these prophetic words: “I can see a big pot with
large flames. A lid is being put on the pot, and the fire is slowly
being quenched and is dying out. I can see that God has given you
a special call and grace to remove that lid so the fire can burst into
flames again.”
We saw people getting saved and transformed, and the fellowship was
growing. As usual, the other churches in town were not particularly
excited about the new “rival.” at is unfortunately how it is in the
West today, where we run churches like small companies that need to
compete for members and finances to keep running. is _ results
in frequent warnings against a new church to prevent “loss of the
members.” is is an important reason as to why I have written this
book.
our new church grew primarily with new people and not with people
from other churches. even though the other churches did not like us
in the beginning, the cooperation improved a er some time, and we
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I remember one evening when a lady suddenly fell on the floor, and
a demon began to manifest itself through her. She was lying on her
back, writhing sideways, and saying something in english with a very
deep masculine voice. My first thought was: “help, a demon! We
have to finda pastor!” But then I realized: “oh, no, there is no one
here but me!” [Thad no choice but to pray and hope that God would
help us. he did, and the demon le her. I began to see that what is
written in the Bible really works. Since that time, we have cast
demons out of many, and we have seen that God is the same today,
just as we read in his Word.
once again, I am convinced that I would never have acted if this had
taken place in one of the bigger churches where it is the pastor, the
board of elders, or a prayer team who do such things. 1s leaves a
big flock that observes passively and never gets going. fortunately, we
had le the big church and now had to take this responsibility upon
ourselves. A er some time, we grew too large, and our living room
became too crowded, so we rented a building where we could have
our meetings.
I was happy that we were finally a “real” church with a venue, drum
set, rows of chairs, etc. At first, we were all very excited, and we
felt alittle more “real” because we had another place to gather other
than in our home. When we got the place together, however, with the
rows of chairs, drum set, program, and everything else that a “real”
church consists off, it felt as if we lost something personal that we
had before.
ere was a teaching that was very popular in some churches at that
time. It went like this: “Let the seed die and obey your leader in
everything, so you will succeed even more in due time.” I could not
do it. I could not close down’ e Last Reformation and stop traveling
to meetings in various places, not even for a short time. We had to be
faithful to the call God had given us. at is why we had no other
choice but to stop our ministry in the church. Some other elders also
resigned at that time. e period following was very hard for us, and
we felt really down, but we received a word from the Lord: “Go, but
take one step at a time.” About a year a er we le the church, it
closed down, and the people started to go to other churches.
Many years later, I found out they had been told by the leadership
that we were experiencing a call to move on, and that was why we
le . Itmade them think that it was us who did not want them
anymore. at was one of the reasons nobody contacted us.
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Now your painful time is over, and you will see that God is going to
pick you up from the dust and put you up on top of the mountain.
your pain is over. It’s going to be a new day for you. It’s going to
be a new season for you.”
It really was a great encouragement for us. It was true that the
separation came from God. If we had stayed, we would have lost our
vision. It really hit home. at was why I thought our wandering in
the desert was over and from then on there would only be progress.
e truth was that it was just the beginning. God was going to
remove the wrong understanding of church from us, so he could
build together with us. Little did we realize that the process was
going to take the next five years ...
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We had no church, and we did not know what to do, but then a
church from another town contacted us. ey wanted us to come and
help them. We met the leadership team, but I withdrew due to some
particular issues including membership and submission to them. I
could not agree to become a member of that church because, by
doing so, I would also have to approve of everything that was
happening there, which I could not. e church had a wrong view of
re-marriage a er divorce, and I could not accept that. Moreover,I
was not able to find proof in the Bible for the idea of membership.
Inthe previous church, we did not have to sign any papers in order
to become a member. We were together, just like the first Christians.
furthermore, the issue of having to submit to them was hard for me.
Why should they make decisions for me concerning my life, as if I
was still a child? At that time, I considered it very unhealthy, not
because I did not want to do what the Bible said, but because leaders
had tried to subdue/control me too many times in the past by saying
that I should give up my vision or compromise on the Word of
God. Iwas simply afraid it would happen again. I had to be faithful
to God and his call instead of people’s opinions. e issue of
submission is abig problem in some evangelical churches. is does
not mean that new believers are not to listen to their spiritual
parents, but I think that mature Christians get locked up in a
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for this reason, we had some more talks, and the outcome was that
we did not have to become members. I was supposed to preach one
Sunday a month and could spend the rest of my time working for
I am not writing about these things in order to let out hurt feelings
but to give you an impression of how this system can work in some
places. rough all of this, we have learned a lot, and, even today, we
would not have wanted to miss any of it.
We were really happy and were praising God. e deal was that we
would have to pay the house rent and all the house expenses to the
man. As soon as we were able to take a loan from the bank
ourselves, we would be able to become the homeowners, and the
home equity would be ours.
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agreed. It went very well for a while, but a er a time, I could see
that it could not go on the way it was going. What we had
experienced in our living room before had made a strong impression
on us. As a result, our view of a Christian fellowship was much
different from the view of the rest of the church. I could see that if
we continued as the youth leaders, we would lead the youth group in
one direction while the church went in another. Besides that, we
could also see some theological differences. So we withdrew and
started to seek God about what we should do.
Some time a er that, I was on the faroe Islands where God spoke to
me through a prophetic word. When I came home, we knew it was
time to take the next step, which was starting our own fellowship. We
knew that the leadership would definitely not be happy about it, so I
inquired with some other churches that were in the same network in
order to find out what I should do. As a result, we gathered together,
and I shared with them what kind of calling we were experiencing.
We believed everything was fine then, but it was far from fine. our
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succeed and who had no ambition in any way to use us to build his
own vision. for the first time, I felt I had met a leader I could
submit to with all of my heart.
During that time, I made a big mistake for which I later had to
repent. When we got started, there was a lot of gossiping going on
about us. People were saying that I had caused problems, that I had
been rebellious, and that I did not want to submit. Sadly enough,
gossip flourishes in our churches nowadays. Nobody, however, came
to us and listened to our side of the story. Because of all the
criticism, I wanted to prove that I was not on the wrong track and
that I had started achurch. I therefore sent a press release to a
Christian magazine called
one of them in particular weighed upon me heavily, and that was the
number of people we had in the church. is question was
really embarrassing for me because we were only five or six people,
and I now
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fortunately, I was set free from all this later. I can, however, imagine
that all of this might sound quite extreme to you if you do not know
what it is like to be a pastor in the church culture we have created.
isis the reason why so many pastors of churches resign or burn
out. It 1s because of stress. It is also why so many church members
feel abandoned or imprisoned by control when they want to move on.
experiencing these things myself really gave me a new
understanding of these dynamics. Luckily, not all pastors think that
way, but the truth is that the body of Christ has been divided into
small “companies” that o encannot work together, especially when
they are from the same town and have to compete for the same
potential “customers.”
What happened next was that Lene became sick due to fear and
stress. Among other things, it was caused by the things we
went through—opposition, moving, loss of friends, etc. At the same
time, we were pressured financially. We had lost a lot of money, and
I had also suddenly lost my job because I had been telling my
colleagues
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When all of this happened, I really felt I did not want to live
anymore. e opposition we had experienced in the last years and our
current situation gave us a lot of pressure in many ways. I was tired
of it all and did not know what to do. We had truly ended up in a
desert, and it seemed it was not to stop any time soon. We were
seeking God intensely, and, during one period of time, I actually
prayed between eight and ten hours every day because I could not do
anything else.
ings slowly started to change, and one night God gave me a dream
that made a huge impact. In that dream, I saw myself standing with
two men who were smoking. one of them reached out his hand with
a cigarette and said I should smoke it. I refused, but he insisted and
said I had to smoke it or else people would notice that they
were smoking. I took the cigarette and started to smoke it, even
though Iknew I should not. en I woke up.
I knew that the dream was from God, and I immediately under -
at same day, my friend Steve hill called me and said that he would
be coming over to visit us. he really appeared at the might
moment. When he arrived, we talked about the dream, and he could
easily see how I had started to resemble the system we had le . e
first time Steve had been to our place, I had been walking back and
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ose five years in the desert were really difficult but also necessary.
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anyone. yes, the brothers “threw us into the well,” just like in the
story of Joseph, but God was with us and brought us here so that
we could set his people free today. he has been with us in every
situation and used it for his purpose. I know that God uses whom he
wants for whatever purpose he wants, and this is why I can
forgive anyone.
We can see that God is really building his church, a church that 1s
not built of stones, programs, finances, fear, and control.
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FINANCES
When I look at churches today, I can see that church buildings are
the biggest challenge. having a church building 1s not necessarily
wrong, but it o en implies many other things that can sabotage
God’s ultimate purpose with the church.
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the church experience a call to move on. or, even “worse,” they feel
called to start a fellowship in their own home. is means that two
tithe payers leave the church. Let’s say that these two members have
been paying about $10,000 in tithes to the church every year, and
now this income suddenly disappears. Imagine how that $10,000 will
impact the budget of such a church, especially if the church already
has a tight budget. Now, imagine what happens if one or two
more couples experience a call to go away and become missionaries.
e truth is thatmany churches today are run as_ businesses.
Church-goers become paying customers that are needed to keep the
church running.
Imagine that a mature married couple who have been living with God
for many years come to the pastor and say: “We’ve really been
seeking God, and we feel that it’s time for us to move on. We would
like to have your blessing.” Do you think the pastor will bless
them? I feel that if there was no money issue involved, and if the
pastor had nothing to lose, he would bless them with great pleasure.
It should be every parent’s wish that the children will one day leave
home and start their own family. It’s a good thing to be ready to
move on and stand on your own two feet. even Jesus lived with his
disciples for only a shorttime before he sent them out. It’s a
leader’s job to make people dependent on God and not on
themselves, to lay a foundation in their life that they can later build
on themselves. If we talk about what is natural, we can easily all
agree that it’s unnatural for a 40-year-old to still live at home with
his or her parents. e same rule applies to the Kingdom of God,
and this is exactly the way Jesus and the first Christians
discipled people.
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e need for finances even affects situations where there is sin in the
camp. e Word of God outlines the proper procedures for
addressing sin in the church. It involves admonishing the sinner and,
as a last resort if they remain unrepentant, excluding the sinner(s) as
the Bible says. In the current church system, it 1s also about finances.
In this current system, when a sinner is expelled from the church, one
does not just say goodbye to a person who is choosing to rebel
against God and live in sin but also to a stack of money. 1s,
unfortunately, results in many churches compromising the Word of
God when itcomes to preaching about what sin is and how we
should react to it.
Just a few months ago, I had a talk with a pastor about some of his
church members he did not feel comfortable about and who had
caused a lot of destruction in the church. I asked him why he did not
let them go, to which the pastor replied: “We need their money.”
Money is the reason why so many do things they should not do and
fail to do things they ought to do. is is o en a cause of great
stress for pastors.
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about 2,400 pastors. e church tax is not enough to keep the system
running, so on top of the church tax, the state donates 180 million
dollars every year. e turnover of the state church becomes thus one-
to two-billion dollars. is means that the state has influence on the
church. It is no longer God’s church but the state’s, just like it is
called.
In addition, we see more and more how the church adapts in putting
the state and the people above the authority of the Bible.
Let’s look again at the free churches. What would happen if we took
away the tithing principle from the free churches? It would mean that
many free churches would have to close because they are built
entirely around this principle.
you might be thinking that tithing actually belongs to the church and
is a biblical principle. e truth is, however, that tithing is not a New
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Many Christians in the free church have heard these words from the
book of Malachi:
“Will a man rob God? Yet you have robbed Me! But you say, ‘In what way
have we robbed You?’ In tithes and offerings. You are cursed with a curse,
for you have robbed Me, even this whole nation. Bring all the tithes into the
storehouse, that there may be food in My house, And try Me now 1n this,”
says the Lord of hosts, “If I will not open for you the windows of heaven and
pour out for you such blessing that there will not be room enough to receive
it.” (Malachi 3:8-10)
“you are stealing from God if you don’t pay your tithe,” the pastor
will say. “It belongs to the church. e tithe belongs to God and
should be paid to the storehouse, which is the church to which you
belong.”
Did you know that when you were going to pay your tithe,
sometimes you needed to pay an extra fi h?
“If a man wants at all to redeem any of his tithes, he shall add one-fi_h to it.
And concerning the tithe of the herd or the flock, of whatever passes under
the rod, the tenth one shall be holy to the Lord.” (Lev. 27:31-32)
Did you know the Bible says you yourself were sometimes to eat of
your own tithe?
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“You shall truly tithe all the increase of your grain that the field produces
year by year. And you shall eat before the Lord your God, in the place where
He chooses to make His name abide, the tithe of your grain and your new
wine and your oil, of the firstborn of your herds and your flocks, that you
may learn to fear the Lord your God always.” (Deut. 14:22-23)
Did you know that tithing in Israel was from the land and not of
money?
But if the journey is too long for you, so that you are not able to carry the
tithe, or if the place where the Lord your God chooses to put His name is too
far from you, when the Lord your God has blessed you, then you shall
exchange it for money, take the money in your hand, and go to the place
which the Lord your God chooses. And you shall spend that money for
whatever your heart desires: for oxen or sheep, for wine or similar drink, for
whatever your heart desires; you shall eat there before the Lord your God,
and you shall rejoice, you and your household. You shall not forsake the
Levite who is within your gates, for he has no part nor inheritance with you.
(Deut. 14:24-27)
at’s right. It says here, too, that you were to eat it yourself. Did
you know that, every third year, your tithe was to stay at home? It
was to be fed to the fatherless and the widows.
“At the end of every third year you shall bring out the tithe of your produce
of that year and store it up within your gates. And the Levite, because he has
no portion nor inheritance with you, and the stranger and the fatherless and
the widow who are within your gates, may come and eat and be satisfied,
that the Lord your God may bless you in all the work of your hand which
you do.” (Deut. 14:28-29) As you can see, we have taken from the
Bible without knowing what it really means and have built up a
whole church system on it. We could continue to see more examples
in Scripture indicating that the way the church teaches about tithing
is just one of the tithes we see inthe Bible. e fact is that there
are many different types of tithes. ere was, for example, a tithe to
the Levites because they did not get any
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It is also worth noting that Abraham did not pay a tithe with his
own money but from the spoils of war, and this happened only once
during his entire life, according to what we read. All these examples
show that the issue of tithing is not as simple as it seems. one thing
becomes clear, however, and that is the fact that the “storehouse” is
not necessarily the local church.
Why not pay the tithes to them and get a little more biblical?
e early church did not spend money on big buildings or pastor’s
paychecks. e money was used according to the needs in the fellow -
ship and was given to those who were traveling and had the task of
spreading the gospel and equipping the saints. e Bible does
not require us in any way to pay ten percent of our income to the
local church with which we are affiliated.
okay, then, but did Jesus not say that we should pay a tenth of our
income?
“But woe to you Pharisees! For you tithe mint and rue and all manner of
herbs, and pass by justice and the love of God. ese you ought to have done,
without leaving the others undone.” (Luke 11:42) No, Jesus did not say
that we should give a tithe. he said that the Pharisees should pay a
tithe. e reason for that was that they were a
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part of Israel, and tithing and tributes were part of the tax system
that God had ordained at that time. ey were to give a tithe of
crops and of cattle. In connection to what Malachi writes to them,
they rob God if they do not pay this tax because it was there to
support the land of Israel.
e truth is that only a few people know what tithing is really all
about. So when someone today says that you should pay ten percent
of your income to the church, which is the storehouse, well,
that person either does not know the written Word or is
misusing it consciously to finance their work.
I actually mean to say that ten percent is a good start. But the way
I see it, according to the New Testament, all our money belongs to
God and not just ten percent. Tithing can be a really good thing, and
I think that we should give with a joyful heart if we are to give.
But tithing can actually keep people in their comfort zones. ey can
easily begin to think that since they have given their ten percent, the
rest is theirs. But, no, my friend, everything you have belongs to
him, and you shall one day be held accountable for how you used it
(Matthew 25). e Bible has a lot to say about giving. If you have
become confused by all of this, go and search the Scriptures yourself
and ask God what you should do with your money.
Why did I bring up such a delicate subject? I know all too well that
this is a fuse waiting to be lit and can cause a lot of problems. e
reason I bring it up 1s to show you that a lot of churches are built
on afalse foundation. A foundation that helps to hold up a system
that is simply not functioning properly. is system traps people and
prevents them from obeying God. It is a system that stresses out the
pastors and obstructs us from spreading the gospel and training
disciples. Many church-goers wish they could spend their money to
support other causes, but they simply will not do it because of what
they have been taught. Instead of giving to the poor, widows, and the
spreading of the gospel, which is what the Bible tells us to do, they
are giving their money to buildings, chairs, sound equipment, etc, and
mostly out of fear. ink about the hundreds of thousands of dollars
that could be spent in other ways to reach out with the gospel to the
world.
e money would truly start be used for what God really wants to
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“Now all who believed were together, and had all things in common, and
sold their possessions and goods, and divided them among all, as anyone had
need.” (Acts 2:44-45)
Even so the Lord has commanded that those who preach the gospel should
live from the gospel. (1 Cor. 9:14) As you can see, economy plays a
big role in today’s churches. It traps people and creates passivity.
When you pay a pastor to hear from God for you, which you are
called to do yourself, you are inevitably going to become passive. e
pastor quickly becomes the professional middleman between God and
man.
If you are now thinking, “yippee, I don’t need to pay my tithe any -
more and can spent it all on myself now,” I would like to tell you
that, in doing so, you would be revealing that God is not Lord over
your money. If you belong to him, then so does your money. is
teaching should, instead, make you search the Lord to be free to give
even more but to give to those you feel led to give it to. God will
surely bless it!
“But shouldn’t I obey the church that I’m a part of and give my tithe
there?” If you are a member in a church where one 1s expected to
give tithes, then you can, of course, continue to do so, as long as
you are amember or until the discipline changes. e fact that some
churches decide to impose on people to give ten percent of their
income in order to be a member is something I do not wish to
comment on. It is not biblical, but it is not a sin either. It is up to
each individual church to decide whether to enforce tithing or not.
e individual church will
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“But what about all the testimonies of people who have been
blessed by giving tithes?”
ere are indeed a lot of testimonies about people who have been
blessed by giving ten percent of their income, but I believe they were
blessed for giving, not for giving exactly ten percent of their income
toa specific church. If you give in faith, God will bless you. It says
so inhis word. If you experience that God 1s saying ten percent, and
youare obedient, he is going to bless your obedience. If he says to
give fil een percent, or a certain amount, and you give it, it is the
same. If he says you should give to some missionaries or others in
the fellowship, then he will surely bless it. God loves a joyful giver,
and he blesses those who give in faith.
I have many testimonies from people who have stopped giving ten
percent to a church and, instead, gave a different sum to a number of
others and suddenly experienced blessings. It is not the ten percent
that counts. It is the obedience, just as God says. And, yes, giving
ten percent to a fellowship could be part of this.
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When they were together they were one in spirit and in truth. ey
were one, and they had all been born again into the same family.
ey all had the same longing—Jesus Christ. for that reason, and that
reason alone, they could share their lives in fellowship and grow
together in the Lord. Whenever they came together, they also shared
communion, which was not just a little bit of bread and wine. No, it
was part of ameal they ate together. Regardless of whether you
share communion the way we read about it in the Bible or you do it
like the majority ofthe Christians do today, communion is still
very powerful. It’s not something to be taken lightly.
(1 Cor. 11:23-26)
erefore whoever eats this bread or drinks this cup of the Lord in an
unworthy manner will be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.
But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of the bread and drink of
the cup. For he who eats and drinks in an unworthy manner eats and drinks
judgment to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body.
For this reason many are weak and sick among you, and many sleep.
For if we would judge ourselves, we would not be judged. But when we are
judged, we are chastened by the Lord, that we may not be condemned with
the world. (1 Cor. 11:27-32)
Communion has always been set apart for Christians, and it should
be like that even today. e lack of understanding that the church, and
communion, are meant for Christians might have very negative
consequences.
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erefore 1f the whole church comes together in one place, and all speak with
tongues, and there come in those who are uninformed or unbelievers, will
they not say that you are out of your mind? (1 Cor.
14:23)
My answer to that 1s: “We do not have uninformed or unbelieving
people coming to our meetings! however, if an unbeliever happened
to join us, we would naturally take that into consideration. We would
take the opportunity to teach them about the holy Spirit and speaking
in tongues, and that would mean they would no longer be
uninformed!
My point is that we should not turn the church into a tool for
evangelism when, in reality, it should be a center for discipleship. e
church’s primary goal is to make disciples, like Jesus commanded. e
fact that we have, in many ways, changed the purpose of the church
by trying to make it a place to reach non-Christians means that
the Christians who are coming to the church are not being
made into productive disciples. ey are not getting the food they
need to growand produce fruit. Another consequence is that, in
many free churches, people are no longer speaking in tongues.
e result is that new Christians are neither being baptized in the
holy Spirit nor receiving the gi of tongues because they do not see
it put into practice. ey might encounter tongues later in a cell
group, but they are not likely to understand the importance of it
because they did not receive it from the beginning. We see this in
many Pentecostal churches today as well, and if they continue further
down this road, there will be no “Pentecost”
le in them!
I understand why many pastors and leaders today have chosen this
path. ey long to see people come to Christ and are having a hard
time seeing other possibilities for that to happen. ey rarely see
Christians doing the things I’ve talked about before, like inviting
people into their homes and leading them to Christ. is is something
that has been discussed in the church for many years, but we simply
do notdo it. erefore, the pastor has to find other ways. It’s much
easier for Christians to invite non-Christians to a concert at
church or to aseeker-friendly service than to invite them into their
homes and share the gospel. even the very thought can o en create
an immense fear in many Christians.
however, any way you look at it, in the end it is just an excuse for
not doing what we should be doing, and it is the main reason for the
lack of growth in the church. e reason for this is that the church
has been transformed from a center for discipleship into a tool
for evangelism. 1s has resulted in the fact that Christians simply are
not being discipled anymore, and that makes it hard for them to reach
people with the gospel. e church has not been trained how to do
this, and most are filled with fear at even the thought of having to
reach out to the world.
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to the model we find in the Bible, church leaders are going down a
totally different path. ey are creating seeker-friendly churches and
changing lots of things in order to get non-Christians into church. But
this does not solve the problem. It actually does the opposite!!
With great sadness, I have to conclude that most free churches today
are moving in this direction. ey are focused on the wrong thing and
are working hard to be more and more seeker-friendly all the time.
By doing this, they might be getting more people to come to their
church, but in the long run, they are not going to produce good and
lasting fruit.
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If we take away the cross and that which offends the sinner, what
then do we have le of the Gospel?
e church states that it 1s not the gospel message they are changing,
but it is the “packaging” that must change. e truth of the matter is
that we can wrap the message up so much that the salt loses its
saltiness, and then we no longer even have the gospel. I personally
do not think we should change the packaging; we should remove
it altogether!
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en He said to them all, “If anyone desires to come a_ er Me, let him deny
himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me. For whoever desires to
save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will save it.
For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and is himself
destroyed or lost?” (Luke 9:23-25) It is not popular today to say you
have to deny yourself. It was not actually popular when Jesus said it
either. Many times, the result was that people went away grieved or
offended. however, Jesus did not turn around and run a er them in
order to compromise the truth or to try to package his message in a
different way. one of the largest and most popular seeker-friendly
churches in the USA made a survey of their members a while back.
¢ 47% of the members did not believe they were saved by grace.
¢ 56% of the members did not believe that Jesus is the only way to
God.
Again and again, I meet “Christians” who have no idea what the
gospelis really about. ey have gone to church for several years,
but they do not live at all like disciples of Jesus.
Sadly, they did not ask how many of the members in the fellowship
were truly disciples of Jesus and obeying him each day, but that’s
what it’s really all about. however, looking at these numbers, I can
only imagine that the number would be very low. e survey gives a
good picture of what might happen when we change the purpose of
the church and turn it into an evangelistic tool rather than a center for
discipleship.
In order to make the gospel attractive, we remove that which can
bring salvation and actually change people. is will result in many
people living in delusion and being lost.
e fact that this woman still did not understand the meaning of
baptism worried me, especially because, according to the Bible,
baptism is the entering into a new life in Christ. Nowadays, it has
been exchanged for the prayer of salvation, for which we do not find
any clear biblical evidence. everyone who wanted to accept Jesus as
their Lord was baptized at that moment, even if there were three
thousand in one day or in the middle of the night. Some might
say: “But what about the thief on the cross? he wasn’t baptized.”
It is true that he was not baptized, but the baptism of Jesus did not
yet exist at that time. When the thief was hanging there on the cross,
the old covenant was still in effect. Jesus was hanging beside the
man.
I took her hands, and we prayed together. God’s Spirit came over us
ina strong way, and she immediately began speaking in tongues
while we both cried. She opened her eyes and looked at me and
quietly asked,
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A er that, Lene and I visited the woman and her family. When I
met the 13-year-old daughter, I asked her if she had been baptized in
the holy Spirit, and she answered no. People do not really talk about
such things in seeker-friendly churches like the one they were
involved in. of course, she was still quite young, but she really
wanted to be baptized in the holy Spirit. To God, a 13-year-old girl
is “old enough,”
so the girl’s mother and I went into her room and prayed for her. e
holy Spirit came over her in a strong way, and she began speaking in
tongues while she prayed and explained that she had never in her life
felt so fantastic. yes, God works just as powerfully in the room of a
teenage girl as he does in a church. Later, the mother baptized her
daughter herself with water in their bathtub. Since then, they have
stopped attending the “seeker-friendly” church they had attended for
many years and have started their own fellowship in their home,
which no doubt is much more fulfilling.
who are active in ministry, and the majority of the people who simply
sit in church and support them. In seeker-friendly churches, the world
comes into the church, even though the church is called to be holy
and set apart for God to equip people to go out and evangelize the
world.
is is what the Bible has to say about sin: Flee also youthful lusts; but
pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out
of a pure heart. (2 Tim. 2:22) We should flee from the things that
might tempt us instead of letting temptations be served to us on a
silver platter. To be relevant for non-Christians is not the same as
being like the world in which they live. To be relevant is to separate
oneself from the world and, instead, offer something that the world
can not give them. e church
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is does not necessarily have to take the focus away from the
equipping or training of the disciples. In fact, the opposite is quite
true!
I am quite concerned that many will not see the problem until it is
too late. In my country, many are so busy looking at megachurches in
the USA that this message cannot be received enough to look honestly
at the fruit they are producing. Jesus said that we should judge a tree
by the quality of the fruit it produces and not only by the quantity.
Even so, every good tree bears good fruit, but a bad tree bears bad fruit. A
good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit.” (Matt.
7:15-18)
I believe there 1s a reason that seeker-friendly churches have been
such a success in the USA and Denmark. It is because we do
not experience the same opposition and persecution as Christians do in
other parts of the earth. Unfortunately, because of this, we have not
been able to see how things truly are. In the gospel of Mark, chapter
four, Jesus uses an important parable about the sower: And He said to
them, “Do you not understand this parable? How then will you understand
all the parables?” (Mark 4:13)
In the parable about the judgment of the world, we can read that
Jesus will separate the sheep from the goats and not the sheep from
the wolves as one might expect (Matthew 10:16). e judgment of the
world deals with the people in the church who “confess” Jesus is
Lord.
“Some fell on stony ground, where it did not have much earth; and
immediately it sprang up because it had no depth of earth. But when the sun
was up it was scorched, and because it had no root it withered away.”
(Mark 4:5-6)
“Christian” who “lives” with God. It looks like the plant is growing
well, but something that you cannot see until the sun is high in the
sky is very wrong with that seedling. Later, Jesus explains what
the sun represents.
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ese likewise are the ones sown on stony ground who, when they hear the
word, immediately receive it with gladness; and they have no root in
themselves, and so endure only for atime. A erward, when tribulation or
persecution arises for the word’s sake, immediately they stumble.” (Mark
4:16-17)
e sun represents hardship and persecution that reveals the true
condition of the heart. 1s can be a big problem in Denmark and the
USA because we do not experience the same hardship and persecution
as Christians do in many other countries. We may think we are
growing as we should be, but much of the growth we see might not
last simply because the Word of God has not taken root.
I believe that, in that moment, it would become quite clear that the
seeker-friendly church movement is only programs and procedures. I
believe that, in a short amount of time, there would be few seeker-
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When the seed was sown in the stony ground, the message was
heard and received with joy, just like we read in the parable.
e message sounded so good that they accepted it with joy. yet, we
do notread that there is any grief involved over sin, and neither
were they told about denying themselves and taking up their crosses.
ey heard and came to church faithfully, but the gospel never really
took root in them.
e truth is that we will not see this happen until the day the sun is
atits highest point in the sky and everything gets revealed. erefore,
we should learn from the persecuted churches and listen to what they
have to say. When we look at them, we do not see the same seeker-
friendly ideas where the message is being nicely packaged and where
people are drawn in with entertainment. When we read of the
persecuted church, we find home fellowships that equip Christians to
become disciples of Jesus, just like we read in the Bible. Also, as a
matter of fact, these home fellowships grow many times faster
than the seeker-friendly megachurches. We just do not hear about it
because it is not being broadcasted on Christian TV channels.
WHAT IS CHURCH?
The word “church” occurs several times in the Bible. one place is,
for example, 1 Corinthians.
And God has appointed these in the church: first apostles, second prophets,
third teachers, a_ er that miracles ... (1 Cor. 12:28) In this chapter, we
will take a closer look at the meaning of the word
e word we use for “church” that has been translated from the
original language of the New Testament is: ekklesia. When we hear
the word “church” today, the first thing that almost always comes to
mind isa building. But the word ekklesia actually has no connection
to a building or religion at all. e word simply means “an assembly
or gathering.”
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Some therefore cried one thing and some another, for the assembly was
confused, and most of them did not know why they had come together.
(Acts 19:32)
fused, and most of them did not know why they had come together.”
however, there is not really any point because we are reading abouta
group of Diana worshippers. When we hear the word “church,” we
geta picture in our head, and in the context we have just read, that
picture is totally wrong! however, it is not only in this context that
we have aproblem; it’s the fact that we have actually created a false
picture inregard to the word “church.” is passage proves that the
word in the New Testament that we translate as “church” is not
necessarily always referring to a Christian meeting or a building but
simply to a gathering.
and then you drove down to an empty building where you normally
meet. is empty building has nothing at all to do with a gathering of
people (church) because it’s empty. e fact is that, today, we rather
think of a building when we hear the word “church,” even though
that is kind of like calling a group of people a house. e two things
have
however, when seen through the eyes of the New Testament, there is
actually no building that is holy! It is you and me—Christians—who
are holy! If we meet at a particular place, it is not the place that is
holy.
When we leave that place, we are still holy, and the building is still
only a building. God does not live in a building made of stone. No,
he livesin us who live with him. We are God’s temple here on
earth. erefore, it does not matter where we meet. A gathering at
McDonald’s can be as holy as a meeting at St. Peter’s Church.
further, it does not matter if we meet together with only two or with
two thousand. Jesus is in our midst in both occasions. Meeting ina
building that 1s called a “church” does not make that meeting more
significant than meeting on the street or in a house. Rather, the
opposite is true because meeting on the street and in homes 1s
actually what the first Christians did. e place where you gather has
very little significance because of the fact that the word “church”
merely means
Around the year 300 A.D., the word “church” came into use, though
we are not completely sure why. It is said that the word “church”
comes from the Greek word kuriakos, which means “that which
belongs to the Lord,” or “the Lord’s.” is word, however, is only
found in two placesin the Bible, and neither of those places has
anything to do with the church/assembly. In both places kuriakos 1s
translated as “the Lord’s.”
I was in the Spirit on the Lord’s [kuriakos] Day, and I heard behind me a
loud voice, as of a trumpet ... (Rev. 1:10)
erefore when you come together in one place, it is not to eat the Lord’s
[kuriakos] Supper. (1 Cor. 11:20)
As you can see, we do not find the word “church” in the original
language of the Bible. We actually do not even find the
word “fellow -
ship.” Instead, we find the word “assembly” (ekklesia) over and over
again.
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he was even the high priest in the cult of the sun god (the Sol
Invictus cult). If you search online for the word “church,” you will
find that
This might explain why, during this time in history, the word
“church” came into use. however, we do not know for sure. What we
do know is that when our Bible uses the word “church”
or “fellowship,”
[Among the assemblies of believers around and about in the home and on
the streets, God has appointed some to be] ... first apostles,
God comes out of the box we have put him in, and Christianity
today will again be like it was in the New Testament.
zations,. We will be led by the Spirit and what the Bible tells us we
should believe and consider. e first Christians were not members of
a church organization. ey were simply repre sentatives of Jesus
Christ.
e Bible says that we know in part, but one day we shall know God
in full (1 Cor. 13). e idea of knowing in part is like all of us
having our own bits of Christ. I have some bits of him, and you
have some bits of him, etc., because God reveals different thing to
each of us.
Today, we each sit in our own churches and groups, each with our
own little bit of Jesus. But what would happen if we came together
with all our bits and met at home? yes, like a puzzle, we would be
able to see more if we gathered the bits together. We would suddenly
get amuch bigger picture of who Christ actually is. When people
today meet together for services, Christ is limited to what a single
pastor knows about him because the pastor is the only one who
shares anything inthese systems. e Bible, on the other hand, says
that when we come together, everyone has something to share. is
can only work in small
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you are Christ’s church here on earth. 1s 1s who you are twenty-
four hours a day, seven days a week! If you meet someone from
another church, you should be allowed to share Christ with one
another because you are part of the same body/church. When you
come together, you are the church, and you can, therefore, share
Christ and be a blessing and an encouragement to each other.
This is how it should be.
I truly believe in unity, but a unity that is built on Jesus Christ, not
on a church system or structure. ere was not any membership in the
first assemblies either. When one repented and was baptized, they
were baptized into the body of Christ. ey belonged to Christ and
not any particular church or organization. erefore, they could easily
have meetings with others who also belonged to Christ. you
were not amember of any one church and, thus, not a part of any
man’s vision.
New people would come in, and new groups were being started, or
they
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YOU ARE THE CHURCH
The church is not a building or a place where you can visit. you are
the church! you are Christ’s body here on earth. you are the church
wherever you are and wherever you go. e fact that we are Christ’s
body is something I believe most Christians have heard before, but
only a few are living that way.
is, however, was never God’s intent, and it is exactly what Jesus
did away with in the New Covenant.
“Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, and you Jews say that in Jerusalem
is the place where one ought to worship.” Jesus said to her,
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this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, worship the Father. You worship what you
do not know; we know what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews. But the
hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the
Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him. God
is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” e
woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming” (who 1s called Christ).
“When He comes, He will tell us all things.” (John 4:20-24) Jesus came
to make a new and better covenant. he came to build himself
a “house” out of you and me. God wants to live in us, and this
means 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. ere is not anything
that happens at church on Sundays that cannot happen at home every
day.
Research from the USA has shown that only ten percent of those
regularly going to church talk with each other and their children about
God daily. at might indicate that ninety percent of those attending
church are not living with God in their everyday lives. 1s should
bother us when we realize that, from the beginning of creation, God
primarily meant for the Christian life to be part of the family and the
everyday life. Many people, however, seem to substitute this with their
weekly attendance of a church.
We see the same thing happen with the idea of Sunday school. e
first Sunday school came about at the end of the 18th century
in europe. When it came to the USA in the beginning of the 19th
century, many big churches were actually against it. ey did not
want to have it in their churches. 1s is hard to imagine for many
of us. Why in the world did they not want a Sunday school in their
churches? ere isnot anything wrong with Sunday schools, is there?
e reason for this was that they feared a Sunday school would start
to take the place of those to whom God had given the
responsibility to teach children about him, such as parents, and
especially fathers who are the priests in the home.
e main reason for this is that many today think teaching their
children about God is something the Sunday school will take care of.
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Do you not know that you are the temple of God and that the Spirit of God
dwells in you? (1 Cor. 3:16)
Or do you not know that your body 1s the temple of the Holy Spirit who is in
you, whom you have from God, and you are not your own?
For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in
your spirit, which are God’s. (1 Cor. 6:19-20) We are God’s temple, and
it is the only temple he has. We should, therefore, honor God with
our bodies, which, as I said earlier, is something that applies
seven days a week. We are God’s temple, and we are all priests as
well.
... from Jesus Christ, the faithful witness, the firstborn from the dead, and
the ruler over the kings of the earth. To Him who loved us and washed us
from our sins in His own blood, and has made us kings and priests to His
God and Father, to Him be glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.
(Rev. 1:5-6)
is iS our position today under the New Covenant. Today, we are
God’s temple, and all of us are priests. or, to be more specific, you
are God’s church, and you are a priest with personal access to God.
e only thing holy about a church building and a church meeting is
you and others who are attending there. you have access to the holy
of holies because of Jesus’ precious blood, if you are born again and
are living with him. We do not need a high priest as a middleman
anymore, like we read about in the old Testament. We do not
necessarily need to goto a specific church building or have a “real”
priest in order to have achurch service. We are all priests and can
all hear from God, baptize people, hand out communion, pray for the
sick, etc. you are the church, and you are the priest. e service
actually has to do with you as well.
If you search for the word “service” in the Danish Bible, it comes
up inonly two places. one of them is the following: I beseech you
therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a
living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which 1s your reasonable service.
(Romans 12:1)
standing of these things. When you realize this, it will lead you into
even more freedom with God.
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CHURCH SERVICE
When we look at the different types of church services that exist
today, we find that, wherever we look, they almost all look the same.
In the Catholic Church, communion is put at the center of the
service. e Catholic Church believes that the bread and wine are not
just symbols but that they actually do become the physical body and
blood of Jesus during communion. 1s idea goes all the way back to
Gregory the Great (540-604 A.D.). Luther fought against this idea,
however, so that, today, we have the Lutheran service where the
preacher is placed in the center of the service. is actually laid the
foundation for the Protestant and the Lutheran church tradition. Today,
in most churches, communion, the pulpit, and the preacher are still
the most important elements in the church service. Another big
change that came with the Protestant and Lutheran tradition was the
idea of whole congregations singing together during the church
service, which didnot happen in the Catholic churches of those
days. Besides these elements, there is not any big difference between
that which Gregory the Great presented during the 6th century and
that which Luther presented during the 16th century.
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In a typical free church, you start with a welcome, then prayer, and
a er that some worship songs. en there will be announcements and
a collection, a couple more songs, and then the preacher gets up to
preach. When the sermon, which is always a one way communication,
is finished, then it is time for prayer. In some places, communion is
performed right a er the sermon. finally, the morning is finished off
with church coffee. is structure reminds me very much of the
structure of church services in the more traditional churches. Such
church services are usually conducted by a worship leader and a
preacher. Most of the time, the pastor/preacher is also the person
leading the meeting. e rest of the fellowship can join in with the
songs, but, other than that, they have to be satisfied with what all of
the other “participants” are doing. If someone were to ask you
on Monday if it was a good service, you would mostly consider what
you thought of the preacher, the sermon, and perhaps the worship.
But let’s look at what the Bible says about “church service.”
How is it then, brethren? Whenever you come together, each of you has a
psalm, has a teaching, has a tongue, has a revelation, has an interpretation.
Let all things be done for edification. (1 Cor. 14:26)
e Bible verse that we just read is actually the only reference to the
structure of church meetings that we find in the New Testament.
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serving in the church and are satisfied; they have found a place in
the church where they can serve God. ey feel like they’re being
used and are growing because of it. ey are satisfied and feel no
need for change.
first of all, there are many who are dissatisfied and frustrated because
they are not being used and are not growing in the things that God
has put in them. ese people have sat in church for many
years and listened, Sunday a er Sunday. Some begin to criticize
everyone and everything out of pure frustration. ese people have
chosen to put their dreams on the shelf and to accept the fact that
they can not growor be used any further. ey have been beaten
down; the fire inside has slowly gone out, and they have finally
become complacent, lukewarm, and possibly even backslidden. ey
continue to come to church, but in their hearts, they have already
le their first love and lost their fire.
I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present
your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your
reasonable service. And do not be conformed to this world, but be
transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that
good and acceptable and perfect will of God. (Romans 12:1-2) Most
people who read this think of sin and wrong thoughts. But this
Scripture does not only refer to sin and wrong thoughts, it also has
to do with the determination not to adjust to the systems of this
world.
We should not follow the ideas that don’t exist in the Bible and that
aren’t connected to Christ. We should renew our minds so that we
can do what God wants us to do. Don’t follow the traditions and
systems that are built on the world’s philosophy and on religion. Let
your mind be renewed so that you can understand how God wants
his church to function and also what he wants you to do to make
disciples.
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Westated earlier that Jesus has called us to make people into his
disciples. I believe we are wrong when we think this will happen all
by itself or simply by people attending our church meetings
Sunday a er Sunday. Listening to teachings does not necessarily
make one into a disciple.
Jesus was a carpenter, but he did not build a single church! he never
started an organization, nor did he have church services at any
specific time. Neither did he start a Bible school to get the job done.
No, the way he made disciples was entirely different from the way in
which we do it today. In chapter four of the gospel of Matthew, we
read about Jesus calling his first disciples.
And Jesus, walking by the Sea of Galilee, saw two brothers, Simon called
Peter, and Andrew his brother, casting a net into the sea; for they were
fishermen. en He said to them, “Follow Me, and I will make you fishers of
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ey immediately le their nets and followed Him. (Matt. 4:18-20)
Jesus called his disciples with the words: “follow Me.” A disciple of
Jesus was, and still is, a follower of Jesus. We leave what we are
doing behind in order to follow him. yet, what did Jesus do to make
people into his disciples? Did he build a church where they could
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Sunday? Did he start a Bible school where he could meet the students
every morning and teach them?
ey are not only taught through my words but also through my way
of life. ey are not only listening, but they are also learning by
seeing how I treat my wife and my children, how I think about
others, and how I spend my time with God, etc. ey learn by
following me and doing what I do. e church is supposed to be a
part of everyday life, not something that only takes place in a certain
place for a couple of hours each week.
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disciples of all nations every day, disciples who are living the life
each day. God has not called us to serve him only in some small
areas of our lives, leaving the rest alone. Being successful in a
speaker’s chair while the family is falling apart is not being
successful at all. No, it is about your entire life. at is why Jesus
called people to follow him, so that, through life’s challenges, they
would learn by example.
A good picture of the way Jesus and the first Christians lived is that
of an apprentice and his master. It is a practice that does not occur
as much today as it did some years ago. e thought behind this
practice is that the student (apprentice) learns from an experienced
teacher (master) by following his example until he becomes
experienced and competent himself. how did such an apprentice learn?
Well, first of all by seeing what his master did. In teaching this
way, the apprentice not only learned by seeing, but also by hearing
and doing.
“A disciple is not above his teacher, but everyone who 1s perfectly trained
will be like his teacher.” (Luke 6:40) In the gospel of Luke, chapter
nine, you can read another example of how Jesus taught his disciples.
here, he gives them an order along with some practical instructions.
It says, among other things: He sent them to preach the kingdom of God
and to heal the sick. And He said to them, “Take nothing for the journey,
neither staffs nor bag nor bread nor money; and do not have two tunics
apiece. Whatever house you enter, stay there, and from there depart.” (Luke
9:2-4) everything Jesus is saying to his disciples here is meant for
them to learn something specific. Later, we read:
And He said to them, “When I sent you without money bag, knapsack, and
sandals, did you lack anything?” So they said, “Nothing.” en He said to
them, “But now, he who has a money bag, let him take it, and likewise a
knapsack; and he who has no sword, let him sell his garment and buy one.
For I say to you that this which is written must still be accomplished in Me:
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thing specific: to trust God. Later when Jesus said, “As the father has
sent Me, I am also sending you” (John 20:21), his disciples knew
what this meant. ey had seen how he had been sent out by the
father.
Jesus was with his disciples for only three years, but it was enough
for them to then go out and change the world.
bering all that he has heard and read. he is going to think: “What
am Isupposed to do now? It’s not like what I heard and read.
What if something goes wrong?” he’s probably going to turn back
because he realizes the gap between the theory and real life is simply
too big.
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Today, there is a huge spirit of fear standing between the church and
the world. We can only take it away by beginning to make people
into disciples on a daily basis like Jesus taught us.
Look at Christians who have been sitting in the church for ten or
fi een years. Ask yourself whether they are able to do what I have
been talking about. If the answer is no, you know that they are not
going tobe able to do it in the future either; that 1s, if they continue
in the same way for another ten or fi een years. We are o en so
gullible and think that if we continue a little while longer in the
same way, things are going to change. I am convinced that, if change
does not happen now, it isnot going to happen in the future by
continuing to do the same things over and over again.
But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a
brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or
a drunkard, or an extortioner—not even to eat with such a person. For what
have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge
those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges. erefore “put
away from yourselves the evil person.” (1 Cor. 5:11-13)
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For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man
observing his natural face in a mirror; for he observes himself, goes away,
and immediately forgets what kind of man he was. But he who looks into the
perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a
doer of the Word, this one will be blessed in what he does. (James 1:22-25)
In the second example we again see the Word of God being likened
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ese Scriptures clearly illustrate one of the main problems that the
church is facing today: our churches are built around the idea that
teaching in itself can change people! however, teaching in and of
itself is powerless if we do not act on what we’ve heard. We are not
blessed, or changed, through what we hear but through what we do
with what we hear! Many Christians are sitting in church Sunday
a er Sunday, year a er year, listening to teachings, but there is
no sign of any significant change in their lives. ey have come to
believe that if they just keep coming to church and keep listening to
the right teachings, something will begin to happen in their life.
however, that is a lie!
If I had never le the church I was in, I most likely would not have
come to where I am today. I am not saying that I was not taught
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that church because I was, but the whole system made it unbelievably
difficult for me to act on what I heard. Imagine that we are sitting
in achurch, and we hear something we know we should go out and
put into practice. however, the moment you step through those church
doors into the big wide world, you find that you are totally alone in
this, and suddenly, it is difficult. We are like the apprentice who only
spent time in school and never practiced what he learned. at is why
we must go back to the way Jesus did things, to say, “Come and
follow Me.” “Come and see what I’m doing, and start to do the
same while I am standing by your side.”
I have thought for many years that people in the church should pull
themselves together and begin living out the Christian life on a daily
basis. I have realized, however, that this 1s actually very difficult to
do as long as we continue doing church the way many do today.
Since we began working with small house groups, we have seen
people grow like never before. New converts quickly grow to the
level of people who have gone to church for many years. I have
seen new converts, having been saved for only a few weeks, lead
people to Christ, baptize them in water, and pray with them for the
baptism of the Spirit. I have seen Christians, a er just a few months
of being saved, sharing the Word with both Christians and non-
Christians as if they had been going tochurch for many years. ey
have grown so fast because of the example of others. I will ask
again: “how many people do we know who have gone to church for
ten or fi een years who still can not share the Word, baptize in
water, and pray for the baptism of the Spirit? how many do we
know who, a er ten or fi een years, still need milk (hebrews 5:11-
14) from others because they cannot feed themselves?”
We can continue having services the same way for the next ten or
fi een years without seeing any change, but if we want to grow and
see others grow as well, we must change the way we run the church.
We want to build our lives on the Rock. We cannot just hear the
Word, but we need to act on it like Jesus was saying in the parable
of the wise and foolish builders. Notice that, in this parable, the
difference is not in what they hear but in what they do.
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erefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken
him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain
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descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and
it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock. But everyone who hears these
sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built
his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the
winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall.”
(Matt. 7:24-27)
e Bible supports what the research shows. We change and learn
best through what we do. e following is worth repeating.
We remember:
When I teach, I hope the listener will get something out of what ’m
sharing. I hope you will get something out of reading this book. It is
doubtful, however, that you will get as much out of this book as I
do.
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until the time comes for him to share it. e next day, if I were to
ask those who were listening what they remember, they are bound to
have remembered something. however, if I were to ask him, he
would be able to tell the entire message all over again. is is one of
the reasons why I believe in small gatherings and fellowships where
everyone has the opportunity to share something—just like in the first
fellowships.
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Many people today have the wrong belief that the purpose of an
evangelist 1s to go out and proclaim the gospel so that other
Christians do not need to do so. Many believe that teachers should
teach so that we do not need to read God’s Word for ourselves, and
prophets should prophesy so that we do not need to listen to God
ourselves. is is notat all what the New Testament teaches us.
¢ Can all evangelize and share Jesus with each other? yes!
¢ Can everyone, according to the Bible, pray for the sick, and they can be
healed? yes!
ese numbers are much higher than what we see in other places.
how to heal the sick. So the day before I was to teach, I contacted
a new Christian who had been saved only one month. I asked him if
he would be willing to pray for the sick, see them healed, and if I
could have an hour of his time? he agreed. I looked at the clock and
saw that it was 3:36 PM. I told him that we would stand in the
same place, and by the time it was 4:36 PM, he would have shared
the gospel of Jesus, prayed for a sick person, and seen that person
healed.
We jumped into the car and drove to town. on the way, I gave him
a short lesson on praying for the sick. When we arrived, I
said: “Come, follow me.” We walked around a bit, and, at some
point, I started talking to some people on the street. e guy
followed me and saw whatI said and did. one woman had pain in
her back, and I prayed for her.
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Within that hour, four people had been healed, and we had shared
the gospel with even more. e new Christian had prayed for two
people, and I had prayed for two. he was extremely enthusiastic and
went all around the Bible camp telling people what had just
happened, even though I told him that he should not tell everyone.
is reminds me of Jesus’ disciples; they could not keep quiet about
what they had experienced either.
And they called them and commanded them not to speak at all nor teach in
the name of Jesus. But Peter and John answered and said to them, “Whether
it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge.
For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.” (Acts
4:18-20)
is young Christian learned a lesson he will never forget. ere is
nothing as exciting as experiencing God working through you! Again:
we remember much more of what we do than of what we only hear.
Some readers are bound to think this practice sounds robotic, and
many will not like it that I say I teach people to heal because only
God can heal. I agree. only God can heal! ee truth 1s that he has
giventhis gi to the fellowship in order to guarantee that we
Christians continue his work on the earth. It may seem weird to
some that I didthis only to have an illustration for what I was
going to talk about the next day. e truth is that, even though it
might seem that way, God was in on it. he has made his will clear
once and for all:
“And heal the sick there, and say to them, ‘ e kingdom of God has come
near to you.’ ” (Luke 10:9)
e proof of how much God had been involved in all of this came
the very same evening. I went to a meeting where the worship leader
suddenly asked if we could pray with her for her son, who was not
living for God. his name was Jeppe. e whole fellowship began
praying for him. When I heard his name, I thought: “Jeppe. We
prayed for someone named Jeppe today.” When the worship leader
got down
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from the stage, I asked her if her son had a problem with his big
toe.
She looked at me, completely shocked, and said, “yes!” I then said:
“Well, he does not anymore!” I then told her how we had met him,
how the newly saved Christian had prayed for him, and that her son
had been healed. is all confirmed that my little “experiment” was
actually an answer to the prayers of other people.
If we desire to see people grow and serve the Lord in their everyday
lives, we have to use the gi s that God has given to the fellowship.
rough the authority of example, Christians can learn in just an hour
what many still do not dare to do a er 10 or 15 years of sitting in
the church. Do we want to use these gi s and return to
working and training by example so that fear will disappear?
If we dare to put our culture behind us, forget what we usually do,
and begin doing what Jesus and the first Christians did, we will see a
fellowship rise where people are freely living as disciples of Jesus
Christ in their everyday lives.
ment to God and his Word, then we must spend time with them and
train them through example.
May God raise up role models in our land so that the fellowship can
grow as it should grow.
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e small fellowships we see in the Bible were led by those the Bible
calls “elders,” or “overseers.” ese were also called “bishops.”
e problem is that, today, we come up with our own definitions for
these words. If I say “pastor,” you automatically think of a person
who leads a church, meets in a building, and has church services
every Sunday.
one day I was in Copenhagen with seven people from seven different
countries who worked with a ministry called “DAWN,” which stands
for “Disciple A Whole Nation.” e main goal of DAWN is to
mobilize the whole body of Christ and to equip 20,000 co-
workers to train 2,000,000 churches so that together they can plant
20,000,000 other churches before 2020. When I met them, someone
asked what my ministry was. At that point, I looked down to the
ground and answered that I probably was an evangelist. Much to my
surprise, he answered,
his answer was a shock to me. At that point in time, I was feeling
pretty down because people had just told me that I was rebellious for
wanting to start a fellowship. e truth is that, in Denmark, we are
living in a little bubble. We are doing things without questioning why
and without questioning whether what we are doing is right. further, if
anyone is doing it differently, they are probably rebellious and should
be put back in place; even though people outside our little bubble are
actually doing things the very same way. house fellowships are
actually
the fastest growing church movement in the whole world. But many
churches in Denmark do not realize this yet and do not see that they
are fighting against the trend. What I am trying to say is that we
should not focus so much on what ministry each person has. We
should just do what is given to us and forget all about titles.
When I got saved more than fi een years ago, I had just one thing
on my heart, and that was to reach out to non-Christians. e
Christians around me did not say anything at the time, but as my
ministry grew, my focus and my heart changed. Today, I no longer
see myself primarily as an evangelist but rather as an apostle,
something which has been confirmed by many.
If I use the word “apostle,” what would you think of? I believe that
most of us would think of someone important, perhaps the highest
position in the church today. If this is the case with you, you
probably have a hard time with the fact that I see myself as an
apostle. you might have thought: “how can he say such a thing?
Who does he think heis?” is just shows you how we think. I
wrote this to demonstrate that we define terms based mostly on our
culture and not on what the Bible says. further, it shows that we all
suffer from peer pressure, and by doing so, we keep each other from
excelling. But that subject is for another time.
If so, then the most important ministry is that of an apostle, then the
prophet, then the evangelist, then the pastor, and finally, the teacher.
But if they are in order of hierarchy why then is the ministry of the
teacher number three in the list in the letter to the Corinthians? And
what about the other ministries mentioned here? Where are they in
the hierarchy?
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For I think that God has displayed us, the apostles, last, as men condemned
to death; for we have been made a spectacle to the world, both to angels and
to men. We are fools for Christ’s sake, but you are wise in Christ! We are
weak, but you are strong! You are distin -
guished, but we are dishonored! To the present hour we both hunger and
thirst, and we are poorly clothed, and beaten, and homeless. And we labor,
working with our own hands. Being reviled, we bless; being persecuted, we
endure; being defamed, we entreat. We have been made as the filth of the
world, the offscouring of all things until now.
(1 Cor. 4:9-13)
Today, we use the post office and computers to send messages, but in
those days it was the task of a slave to go out with a message from
his master. In those days, going out with a message was not a safe
task.
for this reason, a lord o en sent soldiers with the slave messenger in
order to ensure that the slave arrived with the message and got back
I do realize that this is not what we think of when we hear the word
“apostle,” but it very much supports what Paul wrote about being an
apostle. What I am not saying, however, is that an apostle has a
lesser responsibility than the other ministers because they do not!!
... having been built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Jesus
Christ Himself being the chief cornerstone. (eph. 2:20) here we read that
it 1s primarily the apostles and the prophets who lay the foundation
of the fellowship. ey give direction to what God has planned to do,
which naturally gives them a bigger responsibility.
My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall
receive a stricter judgment. (James 3:1)
e different ministry offices have been given different responsi -
When arriving at someone’s house for a visit, one does not say,
“oh, what a lovely founda tion this house has.” e foun da tion 1s
not even noticed. e only thing that is noticed is the house itself. It
is the same with these ministries. ey are there as a foun da tion,
not to take all the honor.
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According to the grace of God which was given to me, as a wise master
builder I have laid the foundation, and another builds on it.
But let each one take heed how he builds on it. (1 Cor. 3:10)
erefore, be free and do what the Lord has called you to do!
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LEADERSHIP
Abig obstacle for fellowships today is how to function like the early
church in the structure of leadership. In most places, this structure
looks like a pyramid, with one leader at the top of the organization.
If you look at the way the church was structured in the New
Testament, you will see that it had a very flat structure.
Let’s look at a few things Jesus said and did that go directly against
much of what we see practiced today. In the gospel of John, we can
read about Jesus washing his disciples’ feet. he does this to teach
them a lesson they will never forget—a lesson on leadership. We read:
So when He had washed their feet, taken His garments, and sat down again,
He said to them, “Do you know what I have done to you? You call Me
Teacher and Lord, and you say well, for so I am. If I then, your Lord and
Teacher, have washed your feet, you also ought to wash one another’s feet.
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“But you, do not be called ‘Rabbi’; for One is your Teacher, the Christ, and
you are all brethren. Do not call anyone on earth your father; for One is your
Father, He who is 1n heaven. And do not be called teachers; for One is your
Teacher, the Christ. But he who is greatest among you shall be your servant.
And whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself
will be exalted.” (Matt. 23:8-12)
Should we wash each other’s feet, as some are doing today? No.
Jesus did not wash his disciples’ feet to start a new religious
tradition. Instead, we should understand that Jesus is saying we
should serve one another.
We are all brothers and sisters, just like he says here. e same goes
for leaders. We should not start washing people’s feet today because
it is nota part of our culture. We do not recline at the table, and
we do not have dusty, dirty feet. however, we should find ways to
serve one another.
for example, we could wash each other’s cars if they are dirty.
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find support for this idea in the Bible, you must, again, go back to
the old Testament. I am not saying that there should not be someone
who leads. I am also not saying that there are not certain ministries
in the fellowship that we should recognize and honor, but there needs
to bea sound balance.
us you also have those who hold the doctrine of the Nicolaitans, which
thing I hate. ‘Repent, or else I will come to you quickly and will fight
against them with the sword of my mouth.’ ” (Rev. 2:15-16) At another
place, we read that Jesus hates the teachings and deeds of the
Nicolaitans. What is the teaching of the Nicolaitans? e word
Nicolaitans comes from two words: “Nikos” and “Laos.” It
means
“victory over the people” or “reign over the people.” It is from the
word
“Laos” that we get the word “layman.” So Jesus hates the teaching
that certain people rule over laymen. e fact that we have leaders and
pastors today who are reigning and making decisions over people is
contrary to what we find in the Bible. is is a teaching that Jesus
clearly hates. e idea that only priests, pastors, and leaders can
baptize, share communion, share God’s Word, etc., 1s something we
do not findin the New Testament. According to Jesus, there is no
such thing as a
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are still first and foremost brothers and sisters. e people in these
fellowships have access to God and can hear from him in the same
way as do the leaders.
you might ask, “how can you say that when her leader had said
something else?” I can say that because she is the one who will be
held accountable for her own life and for what God has spoken to
her. A leader can give advice and guidance but cannot decide over
another person’s life.
I can see that, in some churches, the leaders use fear to control their
members. ey come again and again with scary examples of people
who have not obeyed their leaders and what happened as a result.
ey are saying indirectly, “ is can happen to you, too, if you go
against your leader.” In response to this, I would like to say that I
have only gotten to where I am today because I have not
always obeyed my leaders. If I had obeyed my leaders, my ministry
would have ended likeI said in the beginning of the book. e
question was whether I would obey my leader or God.
Many times, I have seen this Bible text being misused in order to
control people:
Obey those who rule over you, and be submissive, for they watch out for
your souls, as those who must give account. Let them do so with joy and not
with grief, for that would be unprofitable for you. (heb.
13:17)
If you dig into the original text, this verse read something like this:
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Can you see how things can be misused when they are taken out of
context? Imagine if I was a leader and went to visit some people
from the fellowship. Do I then have the right to decide where their
piano should be placed? And, if they do not listen, do I have the
right to say:
“IT am your leader, and you must obey me?” No way! When I go
before them and guide them from the Word, then I am surely their
leader, but I do not have the right or the authority to decide over
their lives. I can only guide them based on the truth of the Word,
but they have the mght to allow themselves to be convinced.
In the book, Paul’s Idea of Community, Robert Banks shows how Paul
used his authority. Paul never used his authority to dominate people
or decide over them. he did not even decide over the fellow -
ships that he had started himself. he guided them like a father and
challenged them, but he never dominated over them or decided for
them like we see people doing today. his relationship with the other
apostles also shows that he was not placed under them in any way.
for example, he was not afraid to correct the Apostle Peter when he
madea mistake, although Peter had walked with Jesus. But he
always challenged from the Word, which is the highest authority. As
a leader, you are not to lord over people; we are co-workers like
Paul says here: Not that we have dominion over your faith, but are fellow
workers for your joy; for by faith you stand. (2 Cor. 1:24)
Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever. (heb. 13:7-8)
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Peter has this to say to the leaders in the fellowship: Shepherd the
flock of God which is among you, serving as overseers, not by compulsion
but willingly, not for dishonest gain but eagerly; nor as being lords over
those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock; and when the Chief
Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that does not fade
away. (1 Peter 5:2-4) Leadership is not about making yourself the
ruler over another person’s life. Leadership is about being an
example. Being a leader is not about standing over others; it 1s about
going before others. A leader goes ahead and lets the others decide
for themselves whether they want to follow or not. When those
whom God has placed as leaders in the fellowship understand
this, they will experience a greater freedom as well.
for a long time, this issue was a great challenge for me. I came from
a free church where this way of thinking had been deeply rooted in
me.
Not everyone can understand what I’m talking about here, but many
unfortunately do. Steve hill showed me what a true Christian leader
and father in the faith actually is. for the first time, with all of
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my heart, I could recognize a true leader. I suddenly realized that the
reason I had such a problem with this was not because of me or
becauseI was rebellious. Rather, it was because I was in a system
full of control that did not build upon the structure we read
about in the New Testament. further, this is the type of control that
results in only a fewcoming out into the calling and ministry the
Lord has given them. 1s incorrect teaching on “spiritual covering”
keeps people imprisoned ina system where they can not go any
further.
We are all brothers and sisters, and the head of the fellowship is not
the pastor nor the leader; it’s Jesus Christ. he wants to talk to us all.
When the first fellowships gathered together, they all sought Jesus
and let him talk through them. We are not talking about
creating anarchy or chaos, which is what many fear. ere is a Lord
who leads the church, and he is Jesus Christ.
you stand side by side and not over anyone. you go before so that
others can follow.
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THE HOLY SPIRIT
Luckily, God showed me how wrong this idea was. he set me free
and taught me a couple of lessons that I will never forget. Before I
received these lessons, I could not even manage leading our
little fellowship with only a few new believers. A er the lessons, it
would not have been a problem if I had a million new believers to
lead. edifference is that God taught me two very important points.
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“Nevertheless I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away; for
if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will
send Him to you.” (John 16:7) If it was better for them that Jesus, the
best Leader ever, le them, how can we then believe that we are
irreplaceable? Maybe it is because we do not have enough trust in
the holy Spirit. is leads to another important point I learned.
he then asked me how good the holy Spirit was at doing this. I did
not know what I was supposed to answer other than that he was
really good at it. he then asked me how I thought we should divide
the work between us, whether I was responsible for forty percent and
the holy Spirit for sixty percent, or the opposite.
I can bear witness to many great things that happened when I let go.
People were saved and grew like never before. All of us understood
that I did not have responsibility for them, which made them take
responsibility for themselves. ey understood that it was the holy
Spirit’s task to teach them and remind them about sin, etc., which
made them listen to the holy Spirit more. As a result, they were
changed.
Now, the number of people is not a problem anymore because the
holy Spirit 1s big enough for all people and all of their needs.
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But the anointing which you have received from Him abides in you, and you
do not need that anyone teach you; but as the same anointing teaches you
concerning all things, and 1s true, and 1s not a lie, and just as it has taught
you, you will abide in Him. (1 John 2:27)I am not saying that all
teaching is unnecessary. When we read this verse, we need to realize
there is something we have forgotten. ink!
“For this is the covenant that I will make with the house of Israel a_ er those
days, says the Lord: I will put My laws in their mind and write them on their
hearts; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. None of them
shall teach his neighbor, and none his brother, saying, “Know the Lord,’ for
all shall know Me, from the least of them to the greatest of them. For I will
be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their lawless deeds I
will remember no more.” (heb.
8:10-12)
We are reading here about a whole new covenant. Today, we all have
access to God through Jesus Christ. We can all know God and be
led by him. Like we read here, he sent his holy Spirit to guide us
and to show us Who he is.
Why do we not have more confidence in this? Why do we still
believe that people need a middleman—a pastor—to know God’s will
and to live the life to which God has called us? Maybe it ts
because we have churches where many are not even saved. Many
have gotten atouch from God and prayed to him and are now
coming to church faithfully, but they have never really “come
through” to salvation, and now we are trying to organize “babysitters”
for them.
Since they have not really “come through,” we are not going to see
the holy Spirit doing the same in them as we see him doing in others
who really are saved. Instead, we pretend to be the holy Spirit
ourselves. We try to raise them to live like true disciples of Jesus,
but we are not doing them any favors. Rather, the opposite. We
should be showing them that they have not really come through yet.
When they
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turn completely and experience the new birth like Jesus talks about,
then the holy Spirit will take over and will work in them. ey will
then be led by the Spirit instead of the flesh, like the letter
to the Romans talks about. is is a sign of a true Christian.
It 1s not God who has changed, but we have changed the gospel in
such a way that the church is o en full of people who are not really
saved. Nowadays, I see pastors spend hours, weeks, and even months
giving advice and helping people within their churches. yet, many of
these issues would be resolved automatically if people would simply
repent and get saved. We should use the time to lead them to
salvation instead of being their advisors on all kinds of issues and
trying to dothe holy Spirit’s work.
“And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of
righteousness, and of judgment: ... He will guide you into all truth ...”
I see the same thing happening today when others turn to him
completely. When this happens, we do not need someone to tell them
all these things because this 1s something the holy Spirit does. In the
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beginning, when I was first saved, there were times when sin or my
old friends would draw me in, but I simply could not let go of God.
I was like one of the disciples when he answered Jesus a er many
had le him:
en Jesus said to the twelve, “Do you also want to go away?” But Simon
Peter answered Him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of
eternal life. Also we have come to believe and know that You are the Christ,
the Son of the living God.” (John 6:67-69) In Acts, chapter eight, we
read about Philip baptizing the ethiopian eunuch. A er the eunuch
was baptized, God took Philip to another place, and the eunuch was
le alone. he was completely new in the faith, and the only thing he
had was the text from the old Testament.
however, he was not all alone. he had the holy Spirit! God
had complete control over the eunuch and took Philip away. God had
given the eunuch a helper for life, the holy Spirit.
e first fellowships saw how the holy Spirit was present among
people. e holy Spirit was a big part of their lives, and they could
say:
“For it seemed good to the Holy Spirit, and to us ...” (Acts 15:28). It was
not just the people in the fellowship who made decisions. No, they let
the holy Spirit take his rightful place in the fellowship.
Today, the church 1s filled with “fleshly” people, and this is the main
reason why the current New Testament church structure that we see
in many places simply will not work. As a result of this fleshliness,
we have been led to develop the structures that we have today. It 1s
simply a replacement for the real thing. e same goes for the style
in which we conduct our meetings today. Just think about all of the
energy we
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spend creating the feeling that the holy Spirit 1s close. We do not
needa dark room with candlelight or emotional music or anything
else ifthe holy Spirit is truly there. Instead, this 1s an indication that
he isnot present the way we see it in the Bible.
“But if we take all of this away, everyone will stop coming!” many
will say. yes, but maybe this is an even bigger reason to lay aside
these things because then we will see what has truly been built
by God.
Remember, it is Jesus who will build his church, not us! We are but
“living stones,” and Jesus will build his church the way he wants it!
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person’s life. A system only creates a false picture of what the truth
actually looks like. hierarchy gives a false idea of everything being in
order. e reality is that many are living in rebellion against
God.
Systems can get us to believe that people have “come through” when
they really have not. A hierarchy can be a secret comfort zone for
proud people who actually love to rule over people.
other tasks of the holy Spirit are to remind us of Jesus’ words and
to guide us into the truth.
“But the Helper, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He
will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said
to you.” (John 14:26)
“However, when He, the Spirit of truth, has come, He will guide you into all
truth; for He will not speak on His own authority, but whatever He hears He
will speak; and He will tell you things to come.”
(John 16:13)
I could continue with a long list of all the tasks and functions of the
holy Spirit, such as being a helper, Comforter, Witness, and one who
gives us power, etc. We have heard that it is very important to
follow up on people. e truth is that, in the Bible, we do not see
any following up the way we do it today. Today, we hear that
following up is a necessity because newly saved people are like
newborn babies. We all know that newborn babies cannot survive
without their parents!
It 1s true that newborn babies need their parents. It is also true that
spiritually newborn people need parents, too. however, we forget that
we are not the ones who gave birth to them. God has given birth to
them, and he will certainly take care of them! he is their father and
has not le them fatherless. he has given them the holy Spirit.
I’m not saying that we should just let people go or that I’m against
all forms of checking up on people. We should be making people into
disciples, as you have already read. ere is a big difference, however,
between letting people follow us and using our time to follow up on
them. Jesus said, “Come, follow me,” while he continued onward. If
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people have received the “inner witness,” that they are truly born
again, then they are automatically going to have “outer signs” as
well. for example, these people will look for Christian fellowship.
ese are the people to whom we can say, “Come and follow me.”
We can go on before them without needing to look back all the time
to check whether they are still with us. We need to remember how
important it is that there is someone going before them. It 1s
impossible to follow a car thatis standing still. A car needs to be
moving before anyone can follow it.
So, yes, I do think that we can easily take all the outer things away
and have a flat structure without people falling away, as long as they
have really “come through” and have the holy Spirit living inside
them.
ose who come to a fellowship with a flat structure, for the right
reason, will grow and blossom in faith. ere will be freedom and
space for each individual to follow God and to do exactly what he
has placed in the heart of each individual.
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Small house fellowships are much easier and quicker to start than
traditional free churches. When you start a traditional fellowship, you
o en need a facility and many hands helping you. All you need to
starta house fellowship is an open home.
DAWN (Disciple A Whole Nation) works with the strategy of
planting new fellowships. DAWN says that the optimal way to
accomplish the Great Commission is to start one new fellowship for
every 500 to 1,000 inhabitants because this 1s the best way to
effectively reach people. DAWN came up with these numbers by
looking at how big the sphere of influence of a medium to large
fellowship is and then projecting this number on an entire population
in order to determine how many fellowships are needed to reach an
entire nation, which 1s what Jesus tells us to do in the Great
Commission.
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And Jesus came and spoke to them, saying, “All authority has been given to
Me in heaven and on earth. Go therefore and make disciples of all the
nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the
Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you;
and lo, Iam with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen. (Matt.
28:18-20) Jesus commanded us to make disciples of all nations. he
did not command us to only make disciples of a few people from
every nation but entire nations. When we truly understand what Jesus
has com -
manded us to do, we will start to have an entirely different idea
about the true mission of the church than what most of us have today.
If Jesus had said that the goal is to make a few people from every
nation into his disciples, then it would be logical for a church to
havea vision to grow to 300 members. It would also be okay for
the church to start a new fellowship every ten years. however, a
church with 300
members that starts a new fellowship every ten years will never be
able to accomplish the mission that Jesus has actually given us.
All the numbers show that a fellowship grows the most within the
first two years a er it is planted. A erward, growth decreases and
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I recently heard about a church in Australia that had not grown for
many years. one day, a division took place that split the church into
four smaller fellowships. At first, it seemed like something terrible had
happened, but, in the end, it was only Satan who lost. What happened
is that, suddenly, all four “new” fellowships started to grow again.
A ertwo years, all four fellowships were just as big as the original
fellowship before the division. is is really interesting, and the same
thing has happened in many other places.
Many of those who work with church statistics say that division can
sometimes actually be God’s way to move forward. ey refer to the
fact that the first Christians’ mission was to go out and preach the
gospel, but they did not do it. So God raised up a man called Saul.
he persecuted the church so that it spread out, and wherever they
went, there was great growth. I neither suggest nor hope that this
would be necessary because division is always painful, and it o en
comes with much hardship.
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Imagine a fellowship with forty-eight members who are all doing the
same things we are doing. ey go out and start their own fellow -
Let’s say that these forty-eight members went out four by four so
that they would not have to start alone. Instead of starting twenty-four
new small house groups, they start twelve. Let’s say that these twelve
small house groups were able to grow by only half of what we had
hoped. is would still mean that these twelve new fellowships would
reach sixty new people for Jesus in the first two years.
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each year? e truth is that small fellowships are a really good idea
because it means that we can reach out to many more non-Christians.
What can we learn from this? We can learn that instead of gathering
people in a church Sunday a er Sunday without doing anything, we
should use that time to make them into disciples so that they can
quickly
“But whatever house you enter, first say, “Peace to this house.’ And if a son
of peace is there, your peace will rest on it; if not, it will return to you. And
remain in the same house, eating and drinking such things as they give, for
the laborer is worthy of his wages. Do not go from house to house. Whatever
city you enter, and they receive you, eat such things as are set before you.
And heal the sick there, and say to them, “ e kingdom of God has come
near to you.’ ” (Luke 10:5-9) Jesus laid the foundation for disciple
making for the first Christians when they were sent out. It is about
finding a “son/man of peace” and beginning a fellowship in that
person’s home. is is how they started!
Today, it seems like many people are stuck in the system, and
pastors have a hard time sending people out. We do not see many
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fellowships starting in Denmark. Instead, we see more and more
fellowships joining together and getting bigger and bigger, but this,
unfortunately, only results in more and more passive Christians who
are not being made into disciples. All of the statistics show that when
two fellowships join together, they will still be the same size a era
few years as they were before they joined together. Joining two
churches does not necessarily produce growth, only bigger numbers.
When the pastors told us that this would happen, we thought: “No, it
will not go that way for us. We are going to continue in growth until
we are many.” But they were right. We did not know why it was
like that or how we could have avoided it back then, but we do now.
over the last few years, we have learned what we can do in order to
continue to grow. What we must do is keep starting new fellow ships
all the time, everywhere. If it does not work, just close it down
again.
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is is, without a doubt, the way forward for the church in Denmark,
as well as in other countries. In the last few years, we have actually
baptized over one hundred people in different groups that we have
helped to start up or through the relationships that we have built. I
do not know of any other fellowship that has seen the same growth
through so few people. e reason for this growth is that “church”
and missions are not restricted to a specific place or a few people. It
spreads like ripples in the water. New believers start fellowships in
their homes and lead other families and friends to faith in Jesus
Christ. It is those new believers who are baptizing the newer
believers because they have led them to salvation. is can truly turn
into a revolution that cannot be stopped, a revolution that spreads
every where. We must start making disciples again as Jesus has
commanded us.
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people, the year a er 200, then 400, 800, 1600, 3200, etc. In fi een
years, this fellowship alone would have 1.6 million members and
would be the world’s biggest fellowship. e biggest church growth in
the world right now is probably in China where the fellowship
consists of small, self-sufficient gatherings. is probably explains why
the growth is so significant. ese new Christians were also discipled
to follow Jesus and are growing fast because these small groups are
the optimal environment for discipleship and personal growth.
Most of the churches in Denmark with 200 to 300 members actually
have a very small percentage of growth. It could be that they are
actually growing, but the percentage of growth is very low compared
to their total size. e road forward must be to start many new small
fellowships.
ink what would happen if they made these 5,000 new believers into
disciples so that they could do the same. In a few years, there would
be 50,000 new Christians. If this would continue, then in fi een to
twenty years there would be 5,000,000 new Christians in Denmark.
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approximately 5.6 million in Denmark at this writing.) But what if
our hypothetical experiment was not entirely realistic?
Let’s say we only see ten percent of the estimated growth. A tenth
would still mean many hundreds of thousands of new Christians in a
few years. Instead of waiting for something really big to happen, we
can start with doing the small, simple things like so many others are
doing.
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SIMPLE GATHERINGS
Throughout this book, I have purposely used the term “house
fellowship,” but these words do not really express what I mean.
e reason for this is that we see many house fellow -
I know that many people have the same idea of house fellowships
because they look like this in many places. Personally, if I had to
choose between such a house fellowship and a traditional free church,
I would probably choose the traditional (free) church. It is not
just about meeting in a home instead of in a church building. It is
about every -
thing else we have read about in this book. It is about making people
into disciples of Jesus and, thus, obeying his commandment; for that,
you do not even need to meet in a house. you could meet in a café
on the beach, or any other place—yes, even in a church building. is
sometimes requires a little extra effort, however, because many have
the tendency to become so remarkably religious when they step into a
church building. for this reason, I would like to try to avoid the word
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word completely, however, since you would have a hard time knowing
what it is we are talking about otherwise. Personally, I think the term
“simple gatherings” better describes what God wants to initiate. It 1s
about gathering with one other and with God. It is about the fact that
we are disciples of Jesus, and we are to make others into disciples of
Jesus, disciples who obey our Lord in word and in deed. It is about
doing that as simply as possible, so that it is easy to multiply
and expand. We must lay aside the church culture that is stopping us
from building the church God wants us to be. Laying aside the
church culture might be easier if we did not use the
terms “church,” “fellow ship,” or even “gatherings” at all.
When you have friends visiting and are talking about Jesus, does one
of you lead the evening? have you set up a program for what
should happen? No, not at all! Why make such a huge deal out of it
when it is just as much church as a regular church meeting on
Sunday?
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“For where two or three are gathered together in My name, I am there in the
midst of them.” (Matt. 18:20)
Invite people to your home to eat! eat together and remember Jesus
in sharing communion together! A er you have eaten, everyone can
share a bit about what they have experienced during the last few
days.
A er that, you can pray together and seek God to hear what he
wants to say to you. one or more can share something from the
Bible, and you can talk about it. at is just an example of how
things could be done. Just make sure that these things do not occur
in the same way every time you meet because it can easily become
a ritual again.
e truth is that most people have already done this with their friends
and relatives, but they just have not thought of it as church.
ey simply had a nice, enjoyable evening, and everyone got a lot out
of it. yes, o en, even more than they would get out of a
“normal”
But why is it this way? Why not continue meeting like this and
sometimes invite non-Christians to your home instead of to church?
If we do so, we will see growth! Why make it so complicated?
ship.” No, you do not! Where does it say so in the Bible? In the
first fellowships, you found a man of peace and stayed with him.
you met athis home and did the things we read about. you ate
together, shared communion and life together. you prayed together
and shared the Word. you were together with Christ. you listened to
what Jesus wanted to say to you and then did it. e new disciples
asked questions and learned from those who were more mature. you
did not concentrate on who should be an elder or pastor because you
were all together as afamily. A er some time, it would naturally
become apparent to all who was an elder or host in the gathering—
the one who went forward and held everything together. But that
person did not control everything.
you would lay hands on that person and appoint him an elder.
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in the fellowship. 1s was not something they did on the first day of
meeting together. It would happen a er a while, when it became clear
to everyone who the elder was. We read about what Paul said to
Titus: For this reasonI le you in Crete, that you should set in order the
things that are lacking, and appoint elders in every city as I com -
e first fellowships did not have any name either. is is what Paul
wrote when he was thinking about a certain fellowship:
“Greet the brethren who are in Laodicea, and Nymphas and the church that
is in her house.” (Col. 4:15)
(Notice that women could serve in the first fellowships, too, and I
am not talking about serving food.)
In hans P. Pedersen’s book, 2000 years with the Holy Spirit, he writes:
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e fellowships were self-sufficient, but made an ideal spiritual
gathering. ey related to each other, helped each other, and a range
of common goals bound them together. e fellowships were
especially tied together through traveling preachers who were
equipped with charismatic gi s and who mourned over the
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fellowship’s spiritual nutrition and growth. other leaderships were
apostles, prophets, teachers, pastors, and evangelists that continued in
the fellowships in shorter or longer periods. No real organization
existed between the fellowships. e first Christians were not
paralyzed by institutions or imprisoned in organization but let
themselves be lead primarily by the holy Spirit. rough the holy
Spirit, the fellowships were taught and edified, and upcoming
happenings were told beforehand.” (hans P Pedersen, Proskri , 1999,
pg 21)
When Paul wrote his letters, he intended them to be read in the
other gatherings as well.
Now when this epistle is read among you, see that it is read also in the
church of the Laodiceans, and that you likewise read the epistle from
Laodicea.” (Col. 4:16)
So keep it simple! Start to meet, and things will start to take form
a erward as the Spirit directs.
“Take the next six months to make disciples. your only focus and
goal must be to make disciples of Jesus. Do whatever you can to see
Christians grow in their life with God and to see new people come
to faith and grow in their faith When this is your goal, it
will automatically direct you in what you need to do next. When you
then have done this for half a year, I believe you will look back and
say to yourself: What we have done these last six months is church.
even though it might not look like what you normally associate with
the church.”
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teachings. We read that the gatherings were something they held onto
steadfastly. ey were not just members who, for some time, belonged
to the same congregation. No, they were a family. ey gathered
together daily, and they would sell their possessions in order to help
each other when needed.
... and sold their possessions and goods, and divided them among all, as
anyone had need. (Acts 2:45)
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ey not only met in their homes in those first fellowships, they also
met in the city, specifically in the area around the temple, which was
like a marketplace for them. In doing so, they would meet other
brothers and sisters, and together they would share Jesus Christ with
the people who came by, people who did not know him yet. ey set
examples there to new Christians and encouraged each other in
practical ways.
Just like we have a need for small gatherings, it is important that we
also meet in larger gatherings so that we realize we are part of
something bigger. It is a really good idea to have relationships with
other fellowships, so you can sometimes meet together as well.
We read that God added daily those who were being saved. ese
new converts were primarily won in the temple place and then
became part of the small gatherings.
So continuing daily with one accord in the temple, and breaking bread from
house to house, they ate their food with gladness and simplicity of heart,
praising God and having favor with all the people.
And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved.
(Acts 2:46-47)
Another thing that was a big part of the practice of the first
fellowships was the breaking of bread. is breaking of bread was a
part of the common meal time where they ate together and had fun.
In the Everyday Danish Bible, the term “breaking of bread” has been
translated with “common meal time,” which is explained as follows:
oe
e text here is talking about the ‘breaking of bread.’ It was partly a
course of the common meal time amongst Christians in the home and
partly a celebration of communion.” (Everyday Danish Bible, pg. 177)
finally, we read that the apostles held fast to prayer. Prayer 1s what
Some years ago, Lene and I went to a training school. ere were
several Russians at the school. All the Russians could speak english,
but there were very few who prayed in english. When three months
had gone by and the training school was over, I had experi enced the
importance of prayer when it comes to getting to know each other. I
had developed a real relationship only with the Russians who
had prayed in english. It was as if they had uncovered their hearts
and their deepest desires through their prayers, desires that I could
understand and relate to. is is why prayer is such an
important part of a gathering. Common prayer helps us get to know
each other. We get tosee what is inside people, what people have on
their hearts.
In this chapter, I have talked about the basic building blocks for
small fellowships. of course, there are more aspects involved and each
gathering will have its own identity and focus.
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Up to God, into each other, and out to other people. for this reason,
God has given the five-fold ministry to travel around and equip the
fellowships in these different aspects.
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(Gen. 3:1). And when he later comes to tempt Jesus in the desert, the
tactic 1s exactly the same. is time, however, he takes the Word out
of the context in which it was written in order to make it appear
that God said something that he actually has not said.
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Satan is working in the same way today. he says: “has God really
said...?” he is sowing doubt and confusion about what God has said.
e Bible clearly says that, in the last days, many are going to fall
away from the faith because they listen to seductive teachings (1 Tim.
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I think that Paul describes the time we are living in today really well
here:
Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the
faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies
in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron. (1 Tim.
4:1-2)
Later, he comes with this warning to Timothy: I charge you therefore
before God and the Lord Jesus Christ, who will judge the living and the dead
at His appearing and His kingdom: Preach the Word! Be ready in season and
out of season. Convince, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching.
For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but
according to their own desires, because they have itching ears, they will heap
up for themselves teachers; and they will turn their ears away from the truth,
and be turned aside to fables. (2 Tim. 4:1-4) We are truly living in a
time when many are heaping up teachers, the ones they like to listen
to, while they close their ears to the truth and to sound teaching.
Paul says later that sound teaching is the teaching that leads to the
fear of God. In which churches do we hear this sound teaching that
leads to the fear of God? To tell the truth, respect for a holy
and righteous God is o en missing in our fellowships today.
Worldly thinking has slowly sneaked into many churches, even though
God says that we should separate ourselves from the world so that
he can receive us (2 Corinthians 6:17).
Today, we are allowing things in our lives and fellowships that God’s
Word says we should not accept. Many Christians are living like “the
people of the world.” e only difference is that they go to church on
Sundays. is is not Christianity! 1s only shows that many who are
going to churches today are not yet saved. ey have yet to begin the
Christian life and still need to turn away from their old life by being
baptized into Christ.
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zealous in doing good deeds (Titus 2:14). Today, we see how young
people in the church are sleeping with each other before marriage and
are living in fornication. We see divorce and remarriage as if it were
the most normal thing in the world. All these things are, however,
symptoms of an inner problem. ey show that we have fallen away
from true life in the power of the holy Spirit and from the
sound teaching that leads to the fear of God.
“And because lawlessness will abound, the love of many will grow cold.”
(Matt. 24:12)
Did you notice that it is lawlessness, not legalism, that is going to
take over? Today, some are talking so much against being legalistic
that they have fallen into the ditch on the opposite side of the road
into lawlessness, even when Jesus is making it clear that our biggest
problem is not legalism but lawlessness. Today, an entire generation
in church is living in lawlessness. ey are living in sin and in
rebellion against God’s law, the moral law, the Ten Commandments.
God’s law should be in their inner being if they have truly been
born again.
“And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you
who practice lawlessness!’ ” (Matt. 7:23)
“you who practice lawlessness.” you who are lawless and living in
sin as the world does. 1s 1s what is meant by the
word “lawlessness.”
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Jesus really said that fornicators, liars, thieves, and greedy people will
not inherit God’s kingdom? has Jesus really said that we should
believe in him? Is it not about believing in yourself?”
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It will be the same with this book as with other books. Some are
going to accept the message, and others are not going to accept it. In
the gospel of Mark, chapter four, we can read about the different
types of soil. ere are different kinds of responses when God’s
Word is preached. It is going to be the same with this book. If I
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at which falls on the road are those who read this book but do
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at which falls among the weeds are those who understand the
message but cannot handle the consequences of leaving what is
already established to go out into the new. eir environment and fear
of opposition suffocate the Word so that it does not change anything
in their lives. en there are those who understand the word and
accept it. ey begin to take it in and to walk with greater and
greater freedom as God shows them what it is all about.
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others will try to make a mix of it. But that is not going to work
because it will be like keeping new wine in old wineskins. hopefully,
there will also be some in the traditional fellowships who will go all
the way and change the whole system. Perhaps they will split up into
simple, small gatherings and begin meeting regularly as a network of
gatherings.
So, the truth be told, these are hard questions to answer. ere is one
thing I know, however, and that is that God wants to do something
new. Jesus is currently building his fellowship: A pure, radiant, and
holy bride ready for his return.
As Jesus is saying here, the old and new do not work together. New
wine must be held in new wineskins. en, neither the wine nor the
wineskin get ruined.
en He spoke a parable to them: “No one puts a piece from a new garment
on an old one; otherwise the new makes a tear, and also the piece that was
taken out of the new does not match the old. And no one puts new wine into
old wineskins; or else the new wine will burst the wineskins and be spilled,
and the wineskins will be ruined. But new wine must be put into new
wineskins, and both are preserved.
(Luke 5:36-38)
“And no one, having drunk old wine, immediately desires new; for he says,
* eold is better.” ” (Luke 5:39) When you first taste what fellowship
really is and experience the freedom that comes when we do things
in a simple way, you will never
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Where do you stand in all of this? Well, that is what time will tell.
Maybe you are going to take in some of this, and maybe you are
going to be one of those whom God is calling, one of those who
will help inthe building of his fellowship and who will pave the
way for others so that even more can come into the green and
fruitful land. If so, you must be willing to lay down your life in
order to be able to do whatneeds to be done. Maybe you will
begin to investigate this idea of fellowship a little more. Maybe
you will start something. or maybe you will share this with others in
your fellowship. Regardless of where you stand, it is important that
you seek God for yourself. If you seek God with all your heart, he
is going to lead you.
I hope that this book is going to be a blessing to your life. I hope
that, in one way or another, it can be part of a reformation that starts
in your life.
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Jesus wants to build his church with his holy Spirit, and he wants to
use you as a living stone. So, give him permission to do it, and let
the third reformation begin.
Torben Sondergaard
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Torben Sendergaard
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e ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
e BEFORE YOU BEGIN
e TABLE OF CONTENTS
e INTRODUCTION
e PREFACE
_A THOUGHT EXPERIMENT
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ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
BEFORE YOU BEGIN
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INTRODUCTION
PREFACE
. A THOUGHT EXPERIMENT
. YOU WILL MAKE DISCIPLES
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. CHURCH CULTURE
. OUR TRIP TO THE GREEN FIELDS
. A NEW PLACE AND ONE MORE CHURCH
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