O bserve:
Notice and name what you're feeling, be as specific as possible
       Observe your physical sensations
       Don't judge emotions as good or bad, describe them instead, ie: "This is uncomfortable"
       Observe thoughts instead of believing them, ie: "I'm having the thought that they're
       judging me"
W illing to Feel:
       Sit with your feelings instead of trying to fix them right away
       Slow down and don't avoid situations or run amuck/act rashly
       Grounding skills- get back into your body, make space for sensations
       Nervous system calming- slow breathing, the yawn, shake it out, progressive muscle
       relaxation
       lean in instead of distracting
       If sitting/willingness is too hard, do it on paper (Brain Dump)
E   xplore:
       Make it concrete:
           Write about it
           Talk about it
           Diagram it
       Clarify- Ask, "Am I in physical danger right now?", "What messages do these emotions have
       for me?" (Are my emotions trying to tell me something, or are they a smoke alarm+bacon?)
       Explore thoughts:
           What thoughts are making this worse?
           Cognitive distortions?
           Underlying beliefs about yourself or the world?
C   hoose:
       Locus of Control activity- The Serenity Prayer
       Values Clarification activity
A ct and Accept:
       Act- here's what I'm going to do to make things better/act on my values
       Accept- here's what I can't change: I'll let go, practice willingness, calm my body, and
       redirect my energy to what I can change.
       What are 1-2 small actions I could take? Are there any?
N -Because   O, WE CAN.You can do this! You can do hard things! You can work through
     your emotions, resolve them and get better at feeling!
                                       Therapy in a Nutshell