THE
TEXTING
BIBLE
A TEXTING GUIDE WRITTEN BY
ADITYA FIRSTMASCULINE
TABLE OF CONTENTS
1. MINDSET
2. texting power
3. HOW TO SET UP REAL DATES VIA TEXTING
4. 50+ BEST OPENERS
5. HOW TO FLIRT
6. ME/YOU THEORY
7. MASTER THE SEXUAL TALK ( 50 + Lines )
8. WHAT TO DO WHEN SHE DON'T REPLY
9. SECRET RULE
10. HOW TO MAKE HER TEXT YOU FIRST
11. THE SECEDE METHOD
12. HOW TO KEEP THE CONVO GOING
13. SEVEN ( 7 ) TOPICS THAT MAKE ATTRACTION
INEVITABLE
14. 4 INTERESTING TOPICS THAT YOU CAN TALK ON
A DATE NIGHT
15. FINAL MESSAGE FROM ME
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CHAPTER 1
MINDSET
You just did it. You fucking did it! Congratulations!
You just proved that you’re an ACTION TAKER who is
ready to take your texting game to the next level and
start fucking bitches left and right.
Now you got full access inside the Texting Bible and
TRUST me, your text game, and more importantly, your
self-perception and life with girls is gonna change. But
first, in order to REALLY be able to execute on the tips
and advice I’m gonna be giving you, the first and most
fundamental thing you need to be willing to change is
your mindset
Once your mindset changes, the texting game will
change with it. That’s why your mindset is THE most
important thing to focus on, since it will change your
whole approach to this. Because once you master what
I call the Based Mindset, the texting tips will be
ingrained in you, and godly game will begin to flow
naturally.
First and foremost, fuck everything you’ve learned in
the past and everything you THINK works with girls. I
want you to go into this totally open-minded and
willing to take risks with the girls you’re gonna be
going after. And I’m not talking about some hashtag
Me Too risks, FUCK THAT.
You have to be ready to step out of your comfort zone
and do the shit I’m telling you, because it WILL work.
Not only will it work, but it will change your mindset
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so that you’re must understand that
Second, I want you to destroy your fear and realize
that this shit is not that serious. Honestly, like this
shit is NOT that serious. You’re a young
guy who’s texting a girl you’re into, what’s the worst
case scenario if you fuck up? You miss out on getting
one girl? Newsflash! There’s like 3 billion more where
that came from.
You need to understand that the girl that’s so special
and important to you right now, will most likely be
totally irrelevant 6 months from now and EVEN MORE
irrelevant 6 years from now.
And now I know someone is gonna say, “But aditya what
if she’s the one” well then in that case, that’s only like
1% of the time, so for the time being, it’s just safer to
assume the girl you’re talking to ISN’T the one you’ll
likely end up marrying
Besides, if she WAS the one, then she’d be into you
anyways and it wouldn’t be so complicated.
It’s not like you can’t change the way you perceive her
later on if she turns out to be really special. All these
girls seem special to you only because you aren’t that
experienced, but once you start dating around and
getting to know more people, you will see that all
these characteristics that seem “special” about the girl
you’re talking to are actually pretty common.
So with this knowledge in mind, all fear should be
erased from your mind and you should feel
empowered knowing that each individual girl you meet
isn’t THAT important, and that life will go on,
regardless if you smash that girl or not.
The third thing about the Based Mindset that will
separate you from 99% of the population is that we TAKE
ACTION. We don’t spend months and years planning and
perfecting every little thing, FUCK THAT.
We just do and figure shit out on the go. We think of
something, come up with a quick game plan, and just
start executing because regardless of how you THINK
something is gonna work out, it’s most likely gonna
change and turn out differently anyways, so you need
to be ready to welcome those changes and be ready to
adapt to them.
THE most important thing, is that you switch to an
action mindset, instead of a passive one
Lastly, I want your number one priority to be LEARNING.
I need your mind to shift from being focused on
getting some pussy, to being focused on becoming the
best you can be with this skill.
Your focus needs to be on making progress, talking to
more girls, exercising your texting skills, and more
importantly, learning to become better and better,
EACH and EVERY day
In summary:
• Fuck everything you learned in the past. Be open
minded
• Be fearless. No girl is that serious, or important.
• Be ready to take action.
• Think quantity, and be ready to master your skills on
tons of girls.
• And focus on learning.
CHAPTER 2 + 3
TEXTING POWER / HOW TO SET DATES
Texting is fucking awesome. It’s also a really new
addition to the dating game. No joke, texting has made
it so much easier for me to get pussy, but for thousands
of years I had to get pussy the old fashioned way, no
texting involved.
In fact, in order for you to even be born, your grandpa
had to get pussy WITHOUT texting. Just imagine that
shit for a second, the only way you can get pussy is by
physically going up and talking to every single girl
you like.
And the only way to communicate with them is to do
so in person. Now that texting is involved, it’s made
dating awesome because now you can keep constant
contact with a girl and keep the momentum of your
interactions going even while you’re not in person
The best thing is that you can do it while you’re just
going about your day and you don’t actually have to
invest any real amount of time into it.
That’s why even if you have failures, you aren’t really
losing anything, so getting girls over text is a
situation where you can’t lose. But texting has also
made dating fucking terrible.
SO many guys fuck up the texting because they don’t
understand what the real power of texting is. In fact,
so many guys are so bad at texting
Texting is a tool to get you more dates.
Literally burn this sentence in your mind and
remember this every time you’re texting a girl. When
talking to a girl over text,
you should be thinking to yourself, “how does this get
me closer to hanging out with her”.
If it’s not getting you closer to a date, then it’s a waste
of time. There is one exception to this rule though, if
you’re using texting to flirt with a girl and maintain
momentum, then that’s acceptable because that
momentum you’re building is just to get her to want to
hangout with you again.
If you meet a girl briefly in person, or you get her
number from Instagram or Tinder or some other shit
like that, then the other purpose of texting is to
establish rapport with her and show her that you’re
not a fucking weirdo.
Texting will easily ease her potential worries that you
might kidnap her in and sell her organs out of a van.
But if you keep texting a girl for weeks and never ask
her out to hang out with you, it’s pointless.
Not only are you wasting your time, but you are also
making the girl less interested, because you are
treating her as a friend, instead of a potential partner,
and you are making yourself look like someone who
isn’t an action-taker.
Whenever I text girls, it never takes me more than
anywhere between one day and maximum two weeks of
texting before I ask them out. And if it takes me two
weeks, it’s only because I was busy and couldn’t do it
sooner
The point is, you should always aim for an actual
meeting and talk in person instead of wasting time on
endless discussion over text.
When it comes to gaining a girl’s trust, Snapchat is
another really easy way to do it, because it’ll prove to
her that you’re not a 40 year old guy who’s gonna
roofie her and steal her organs in a beat-up rusty van.
Again, that’s not the vibe you wanna go for here. And if
you drive a van, then you might wanna trade that shit
in for like a punch buggy or something really
nonthreatening haha.
Appearing non-threatening is a really important thing
to remember, because it’s a vital part when it comes to
texting any new girl.
Girls are far more cautious and paranoid about guys
being potentially dangerous, because if a girl is hot,
then there’s a ton of guys who are always drooling
over and fantasizing about her, which increases her
chances of getting kidnapped and thrown into a van.
Okay okay, enough of that haha. Seriously though, a
big reason guys fuck up texting and come off as needy
is because they give it WAY too much importance.
If you make a girl feel attracted to you in person and
can reel her in like that, then that’s 10 times more
meaningful than if you can send a few slick text
messages.
I get a lot of messages from guys saying they’re great
at in-person communication, but suck at texting. On
one hand, it’s good that some of you guys are already
good at talking to girls in person going.
On one hand, it’s good that some of you guys are
already good at talking to girls in person, but texting
is nowadays usually the first step and sets off the
initial vibe for dates, so you should be good at it too.
An easy way to fix this is to just forget about texting
and only use it the way I outlined above: to setup plans,
and to keep the sexual momentum going.
A lot of guys lose sight of what they’re actually
trying to do when texting a girl because they freeze up
and get anxious about fucking it up.
The reason you’re texting this girl in the first place is
to hangout with her and meet up in person so you can
stick the tip in and diddle her like you’ve been
dreaming about.
You’re not texting her because you want a fucking pen
pal. Fuck that. Besides, like I mentioned earlier,
generations of guys have picked up and fucked hordes
of girls the old fashioned way when texting wasn’t a
thing,
so it just goes to show that it’s far more important to
only use it as a fast pass to getting more dates. Think
of texting as if it was just a filtering method for girls
you actually ask out.
It might even be interesting to ask your grandpa how
he used to get pussy without being able to text his side
hoes. Actually, fuck it let’s do it.
Homework: go out and ask your dad or grandpa how
he used to pull girls without using a phone Look at
that
in summary:
• Use texting as a tool
• Use it to setup dates
• Use it to build and maintain momentum
• And to minimize her perceived risk of
meeting up in person
CHAPTER 4
50 BEST OPENERS
I’ve compiled my top 50 opening lines that are best
suited for starting a conversation with a girl
over text, on the right foot.
Framing the conversation to convey intent and
playfulness from the start is perhaps one of the
most important aspects of text-game that’s going
to get you consistent results with girls. Sending
“hey” or “what’s up” doesn’t convey intent,
lacks purpose, and will not get you the results
you’re looking for.
This is why I created these lines: so you can
implement them and start having success without
even having to think. Too many guys will spend
countless hours on text conversations that lack
direction and purpose.
Remember, the entire point of texting is to set up
dates and get the girl in front of you. These
opening lines I’ve outlined for you serve as a
great way to start the conversation off in a fun
way that will grab her attention,
and make it easy for you to organically
continue the conversation and turn it into a
productive outcome aka you getting her on a
date. The lines are on next page , copy paste and
make her go crazy xD
“Do you find it s*xy when girls/guys make the first
move or should I wait for you to do it yourself?”
“I wanted to ask you out, but I figured I’d start by
sending you a text.”
“If we have the time to “like” each other’s
Instagram pics, we have the time to text.”
“I can’t figure out if I should start this
conversation with a compliment, a horrible pick-
up line, or a simple “hello.” You choose.”
“I just saw the new picture you uploaded. Looking
hotter than ever, I see.”
“I had a dream about you last night. I’d tell you
what happened, but it’s way too inappropriate.”
“I’m still single, in case you were wondering.”
“Hey, sexy.” ( That's How I start , Works for me )
“I’m thinking about deleting Tinder because I’ve
already found the guy/girl I want to be with.”
“Let’s skip the small talk and go straight to
flirting.”
“I just heard a song on the radio, and it describes
our relationship perfectly.”
“Be honest. How long have you been waiting for a
text from me?
“If you want to make a move, today would be the
perfect time to go for it.”
“We’re hanging out tonight, just so you know.”
“I suck at starting conversations. Do you want to
try?”
Some Tinder Conversation Starters To Charm Your
Matches Instantly -
“I hope you find my willingness to text first
attractive because i don't like your willingness of
not texting me first, bitch !
“Hey, stranger. Stop being a stranger.”
“You never text first. I can’t tell if you hate me or if
you’re playing hard to get because the one who is
hard to get is me
“You already know how I feel about you. So what are
you going to do about it?”
“They say that a picture is worth a thousand words.
They were wrong. Whenever I see your pictures, I just
Think you are missing the main charecter in your
life , well dw he just texted you
" “I’m having trouble coming up with a flirty
conversation starter. Any advice?” " - That's what my
friends ask from me , anyways wassup
dADDY'S HOME
“I can’t even remember the last time we spoke. We
need to change that.”
“I was going to wait another day or two to text
you, but I can’t wait that long to talk to you.”
“I had a dream we were s*xting, so I woke up and
decided to turn it into a reality.”
“I haven’t seen you in forever. Have you been
visiting your fellow angels up in Heaven?”
“Did you smile when you saw my name pop up on
your phone just now?”
“I don’t really have anything to talk about, but I
still want to talk to you, so How is your
“I hope you haven’t forgotten that I exist, because
I definitely haven’t forgotten about you.”
“Im watching a rom-com, and the main character
looks exactly like you. Except, not nearly as cute.”
“I have Netflix on, but no one to snuggle with.
Think you can help me out?”
“My dog wanted you to know that he misses you.”
“Do you have any plans for this weekend? Because I
don’t.”
“We should really stop texting and start seeing
each other in person. Preferably n*ked.”
Do you know what would be even better than a
text back? An invitation to dinner.”
“I’m a little drunk, a little h0rny, and all alone.”
“I just took some s*xy pics, but they’re too
inappropriate to post on Instagram. Want to see
it?”
“Guess which emoji I just placed next to your name
on my phone?”
“I hope you don’t mind I’m texting you while n*ked.
OR that I’ve been imagining you n*ked.
“Miss me yet?”
“What is something naughty that you’re really
good at?”
“What is your favorite flavor(if you know what I
mean)?”
I wonder what that toungue do except talking
too much
Just came back from the jungle , hunted 4 tigers , 6
mamoths , 8 elephants , anyways do you want my
meat ? ( Meat = Dick, for those of you who don't
know )
IT'S REALLY SWEATY OUT HERE , i NEED TO MAKE
SOMETHING WET AND TOUCH IT , ANYWAYS WASSUP
CHAPTER 5 + 6
HOW TO FLIRT ? / ME YOU THEORY
How to Flirt Like A God ? Flirting with a girl over
text. How to do it. Well I’m gonna show you right
motherfuckin now. You ready? Ok good.
First of all the most important thing you need to
understand when flirting with a girl over text is
what’s known in the pickup community as “Me,
You” communication or man to woman
communication.
A lot of pickup artists have a whole fucking
science and bible based around this man to
woman or “Me, You” communication which is
totally unnecessary.
Basically, all you need to know is that “Me, You”
communication is a form of flirting that
involves centering the conversation around you
and her.
When you focus the conversation on you and her
it almost immediately makes the context of the
conversation flirtatious AND it makes it really
easy for you to flirt with her because the
context of the conversation is about well you
and her, obviously.
This kind of flirting also feels more genuine and
personal, so it’s very effective.
ME / YOU THEORY
If you’re still having trouble figuring out how to
flirt with a girl OR how to establish this sort of
communication just think of it like this.
When you’re in the middle of a text conversation
with a girl, think to yourself, “How can I frame this
as a ‘Me, You’ conversation?” Or even easier than that
you could also just try using the words, “me” and
“you” in the conversation and from there it’ll turn
the conversation in the direction you want it to go
Literally just adding in the word “you”, makes these
interactions more flirtatious and makes it way easier
to setup flirty and sexual comments.
The most important thing you want to accomplish
with this type of communication is establishing the
sexual undertones.
One way you can do it is to outright acknowledge it.
This is a risky move, but if done correctly, you can
actually accomplish a lot and it’ll make your
interactions with the girl way more sexual. Here’s an
example of how I did it by simply using the words
“you” and “I” in the very beginning of the interaction
.In fact, you’ll notice that those two words are used
in almost every text I send to a girl, and it makes the
conversations way more flirtatious and sexual. It
also established some kind of connection, because
you are referring to both of you as “us” and gives it a
vibe as if you were a unit.
CHAPTER 7
MASTER THE SEXUAL TALK ( ME / YOU )
They say that kissing is a language of love, so
would you mind starting a conversation with
me?
I’m on top of things. Would you like to be one
of them?
Are you an eco-friendly kind of girl? The
condom in my pocket goes expires tomorrow,
so why don’t you help me use it?
Is your name winter? Because you’ll be coming
soon.
Do you want to commit a sin for your next
confessional?
I’m not into watching sunsets, but I’d love to
see you go down.
Are you an exam? Because I have been studying
you like crazy.
Can you tell me what time you’ll come back to
my place, please?
Give me your car keys so I can drive you crazy.
If I flip a coin, what do you think my chances are
of getting head
The word of the day is legs. Let’s go back to your
place and spread the word
Your body is a wonderland, and I want to be Alice
If you don’t want to have kids with me, then why
don’t we just practice
Do you know what would look good on you? Me
Sit on my lap and tell me the first thing that pops
up
Did you fart because you blew me away
Do you know karate because your body is kickin
Were you arrested earlier? It’s gotta be illegal to
look that good
Damn, if being sexy was a crime, you’d be guilty as
charged
Your Daddy must have been a baker, cause you got
the nicest set of buns I’ve ever seen
Hey baby, you must be a light switch, coz every
time I see you, you turn me on
You’re so hot you melt the plastic in my
underwear
Do I know you from somewhere? Because I don’t
recognize you with your clothes on
You are so selfish. You’re going to have that body
for the rest of your life and I just want it for one
night.
If your upper lip is Christmas and your lower lip is
Thanksgiving, can I come visit some time in
between?
Did you send the invitation to the party between
your legs by mail, or do you wanna give it to me in
person?
If I was the judge, I’d sentence you to my bed.
Is that a candy cane in your pocket or are you
just happy to see me?
You must be yogurt because I want to spoon
I’m not a dentist, but I bet I could give you a
filling.
Are you an archaeologist? Because I’ve got a large
bone for you to examine.
Aside from being extremely sexy, what else do you
do for a living?
I must be a beaver because I’m dying for your wood.
Hey, do you have an inhaler? ‘Cause I heard you
got that ass, ma!
You know, if I were you, I’d have sex with me.
I may not go down in history, but I will go down
on you.
Your clothes look so uncomfortable. Why don’t
you let me help you take them off?
I wish you were here to play ‘Simon Says’ with me…
in bed.
Did you sit in a pile of sugar? ‘Cause you have a
pretty sweet ass!
Let’s play carpenter! First, we’ll get hammered,
then I’ll nail you.
Do you believe in karma? Because I know some good
karma-sutra positions.
Do you have any room for an extra tongue in
your mouth?
Do you want to know how I got these muscles?
Picking up beautiful women like yourself.
I don’t like children until they are OUR children.
What do you think about that?
Are you a stack of dirty dishes? ‘Cause I want to
spend all night taking care of you.
CHAPTER 8 + 9
WHAT TO DO WHEN SHE DON'T REPLY ? / FDB RULE
So you’re texting the girl you’re into, and
midconversation when things were seemingly
going fine, she disappears on you and leaves you
with no response. Trust me I get it.
Girls used to leave me on read ALL the time, for
seemingly no reason.
But what I’ve found is this, the way you react to
her ghosting you is EXTREMELY important. This is
super simple and guys overthink this situation so
much.
It’s not that complicated. You basically have two
options when a girl ghosts you:
1. You can complain about it to her and ask her
why she’s not responding to you
2. You can just ignore it and act like nothing
happened.
Now I don’t know about you but option 1 is THE
absolute worst thing you can do.
It shows her that you’re needy, not confident,
and don’t have interesting shit going on because
if you did then you wouldn’t be sitting around
worried about whether or not she responded to
you.
Option 1 - accomplishes nothing because even if she
does tell you why she didn’t respond, what are you
gonna do then? It doesn’t change the fact that she
didn’t respond to you,
all it does is make you look like a little bitch.
Plus, a lot of times a girl will forget to respond for
a while and then she’ll hit you back up a few hours
later, or the next day.
So most of the time, it makes the most sense to just
ignore it and act like she just forgot. Another
question I get a lot is, “ADITYA what do I do if she
stops responding to my text but sends me a snap later
on?” Well, here’s your answer.
If she she sends you a snapchat a little while later
instead of responding to you then just assume that’s
the same as her responding to you.
Like I said, option 2 is the best way to react because it
shows her that you’re still a guy of status.
She didn’t respond to one of your message , so what?
You shouldn’t let it hurt your confidence because
then that would only mean that she’s the one in
control of the relationship which is exactly what
you DON’T want
You are the top g here ( Ofcourse after andrew tate )
Apply the rule fdb ( Fuck dat bitch ) - means you
won't put any efforts to talk to her now
If a girl doesn’t respond, and I still feel like talking
to her, sometimes I’ll just say fuck it and send her
another text talking about something totally
different that we’ve talked about before.
You don’t want to overthink this, if a guy friend of
yours didn’t respond to your last text, does that
mean he doesn’t wanna be friends with you anymore?
FUCK No.
It just means he didn’t think your text warranted a
response, or he got busy, or he just forgot, who
fucking knows.
Just act like nothing and text her again the next day
if you feel like it.
Too many guys use texting as a way to make them
either confident or insecure in the relationship, and
this is why guys freak out so much when a girl
doesn’t reply.
The next time a girl doesn’t respond to your text,
just pause, take a deep breath
stop being a little bitch
and just do what you were gonna do anyways.
It’s that simple.
And that’s it
In summary:
Act like nothing happened and
don’t acknowledge it
If she don't reply , apply the rule
fdb and now onto the other
bitch , who fucking cares
CHAPTER 10
HOW TO MAKE HER TEXT YOU FIRST
Alright guys, it’s time, it’s finally time. You’re
gonna learn how to get these bitches to start
texting you first!
Crack open those notebooks because I’m gonna
show you exactly what it takes to make a girl
text you first.
You ready? Fuck yeah you are, I know you got a
boner just thinking about this topic. Let’s do it
Approach #1: Create Scarcity.
I briefly went over this in one of my emails to you
but I’ll give you an even deeper breakdown of it
before I get into the other approaches.
Basically, you have to show her that you’re a guy
of high status. A guy whose high status is a guy
who clearly has an abundance of girls, and more
importantly, good shit going on in his life.
You need her to believe that you’re a high status
guy so this way she understands that you’re
a man of abundance and it creates the most
important thing necessary to kickstart a
romantic relationship.
That thing is scarcity.
IF a girl sees that you have a ton of good shit
going for you, then she knows that she needs TO
compete for your attention because you have so
much shit going on that your time and attention
are both scarce.
So she’ll do everything in her Power to get your
attention and latch onto you when she does
have your attention.
And what’s a really easy way for her to get your
attention? Yup, that’s right, sending YOU a text
message. She knows that you have shit going for
you and that if she doesn’t hit you up,
then the scarce amount of interest you have in
her might fade and she’ll lose her chance. The
more scarce a resource is, the more valuable it
becomes. Scarcity creates urgency.
And urgency creates action. So it’s imperative
that you always carry yourself like the high
status guy you are and make sure you signal to
girls that you’re high status.
Approach #2: Establish a cadence with the girl
aka a rhythm
Let’s say you’re texting a girl or snapchatting
her pretty regularly for a few days. Then all of a
sudden she doesn’t hit you up like she normally
does.
You’re gonna think to yourself “Wow that’s weird
she hasn’t texted me yet like she does every
morning.”
That’s because you’ve established a routine
wherein you were talking to her every day for a
few days and then she suddenly disappeared.
So to get BACK to your routine, you’re gonna hit
her up first because you want to keep talking to
her like you normally do.
See how that works?
You basically want to create the same effect on
the girls you talk to. You can do this through
snapchat, instagram, or through text.
I know this BIBLE IS FOCUSED on texting but what
you do over snapchat, instagram, and in person
all play important parts in your text game and
decide whether or not your text game will work.
PERSONALLY I DON'T USE SNAPCHAT BUT SOME GUYS
DO SO THAT'S WHY I AM TALKING ABOUT IT
This way, she gets used to talking to you and gets
used to your interactions, once she gets used to
your interactions is when she’ll feel more and
more comfortable reaching out and initiating
them first.
Approach #3: Instagram
You’re probably thinking, huh? What the fuck?
How is my Instagram gonna make her text me
first?
Well the chad aditya is about to tell you.
Remember in approach #1 how I said that being a
guy who signals abundance and high status is
excellent for creating scarcity, and more
importantly action?
Well you can use your Instagram to do this exact
thing
Basically, if you’re living an awesome life and
you’re a guy who clearly has abundance and
high status, then all you have to do is post
badass pictures and stories on your Instagram to
capture that dope life you live
.And if you don’t do cool shit, then START DOING
cool shit because you should be doing dope shit
on your own
This way, you have an awesome life that doesn’t
need girls in it and they’re just an added bonus.
I talk about this all the time but girls should NOT
be the only thing you have in your life.
They’re just a plus.
Having an awesome life and simply documenting
it on Instagram will show the girl you like that
you’re living a dope life with or without her and
it’ll make her want to be apart of it.
And more importantly, it’ll create the scarcity
which will lead her to taking action. And that’s
it.
And also a good news for you mfs , I will soon
make a instagram playbook which will help you
to set a instagram account and i am going to
tell you how you can pull bitches out of it
In summary:
• Create scarcity
• Establish a cadence with the girl aka a rhythm
• And use your instagram to position yourself as
a high status guy
CHAPTER 11
THE SECEDE METHOD
As you guys know I’m very against bullshit “games”
and “tactics” and more about simply taking
action, but this method is perhaps one of the most
important ones for any guy to learn in order to
increase his success with women.
When I first discovered this back in high school,
it literally blew my mind and I thought I was
going to become the next Hugh Hefner with the
amount of girls it got me.
This godly texting method is known as “The
secede method aka Pullaway method ” and it
comes straight from Mount Olympus. My
standard routine for doing a pullaway is to text
a girl for anywhere between 2-4 days in a row (I
usually text her for 2.5-3 days) followed by a 1-2
day pullaway where I totally go off the radar
and don’t talk to the girl at all.
This includes not replying to any texts she sends
to you.
You may be wondering how NOT texting a girl
can actually make her more interested in you,
but it’s actually quite simple.
You’ve been texting her consistently for a few
days and then all of a sudden you don’t text her
at all for a day or two and don’t respond to any
of her messages.
Now, she’s forced to think
“Why isn’t he answering?
Why hasn’t he texted me all day?
I wonder what he’s doing that he’s not talking to
me, wouldn’t he have mentioned it?
Did I say something wrong last time we talked?
Does he not like me anymore?
Is he still into me?
Does he still want to hangout this weekend?”
As you can see, breaking the rhythm like this
forces her to think about you A LOT MORE than
she previously was and it forces her to think of
you as a guy who has more interesting shit to do
than text her all day every day even if you’re
actually nerdy guy who’s intentionally
ignoring her because you read my advice.
Girls like guys who have a lot of things going on
in their life and this makes you seem like one of
those productive and cool guys, even if you
aren’t.
This makes you seem a lot more unpredictable and
spontaneous which keeps girls interested WAY
more than being like most guys who are too
predictable and available all the time
Guys who aren’t always available are inherently
more attractive to girls because it makes them
seem more desirable.
And when you do actually give her attention,
she’ll be all over you because she doesn’t know
when she’ll be able to talk to you again.
It’s like going on a really expensive vacation to
an exotic place, you’re going to take advantage
of it and soak it up as much as you can while
you’re there because you don’t know if/when
you’ll be back there again.
The pullaway is also a really good way of
signaling abundance because she knows you’re
not chasing her around constantly hitting her
up and thinking about her if you can go sometime
without hitting her up at all
It also peaks her curiosity and makes you seem a
lot more mysterious.
And in case you didn’t know, curiosity and
mystery are very similar if not the same exact
thing as attraction.
When you’re wondering about who someone else,
what they do, and why they behave the way they
do, it makes you attracted to them and their life.
I’ve had a ton of guys message me after using the
pullaway and telling me that they couldn’t
believe how well it worked and how much of a
difference it’s made in their texting game.
It also makes her question how much you like her
- since she’d expect you to be talking to her if you
were into her.
This is also good for you because then she’ll be
more upfront about being interested in you when
you talk to her again since she’ll be worried that
you’re losing interest in her and may potentially
lose you.
A really good tactic I like to use is to ask the
girl to hangout right when I come back from
doing a pullaway because as soon as she hears
from me again is when she’s most interested and
at a high point so it makes it easy for her to
commit to hanging out with me since this is when
her interest is peaked
So in summary:
My pullaway is between 2-3 days of texting back
and forth followed by a 1 to 1 and a half day
pullaway.
This structure is what’s gotten me the most
amount of girls. Try it out
CHAPTER 12
HOW TO KEEP THE CONVO GOING
You know what to say, you know what to avoid,
and you can start conversations with girls
pretty easily.
But keeping the conversation going for longer
periods of time, and keeping it interesting, is
totally different and therefore, requires a
different approach.
#1 Use the Magnifying Method.
Basically, magnifying is using playful
misinterpretation to tease and flirt with a girl.
This is basically where you stretch or exaggerate
whatever she says into something totally
different for the sake of making the
conversation fun and light.
Right there, you’ve started an entirely new
conversation that’s also fun and interesting.
Not to mention, it also sets up the perfect vibe
for building sexual tension
#2 Don’t always keep the conversation going.
This sounds counterintuitive but it’s JUST as
important as any other conversational tactic or
trick.
Conversations have a natural end, once a
conversation reaches that natural end, DON’T
FORCE IT.
Forcing a conversation to continue after it’s
natural end will make for a boring and dull
conversation anyways so it’s better to let it end.
Additionally,
if you have a forced conversation with a girl,
she’s more likely to get bored and just stop
responding.
Not to mention, it’ll also make her think that
YOU are boring which is the exact opposite of
what you want her to think
You want her to think, you’re that cool,
interesting guy who she actually likes and wants
to talk to.
#3 Remove your confidence from the equation
I’ve answered thousands of guys DMs, messages,
and comments, all relating to texting and one
thing I noticed over and over again was that SO
many guys attach their confidence to their text
conversation.
For example, you’re texting a girl, you guys are
flirting back and forth, she’s adding a lot to the
conversation as well and seems SUPER down, and
then suddenly,
out of nowhere, she stops responding. Leaving
you feeling like an idiot and wondering what
you did wrong.
This is a bad reaction, and more importantly it’s a
bad habit that so many guys have. They attach
their confidence and self-worth in the
relationship to their text conversations.
You have to be unreactive and willing to accept
the fact that sometimes a girl isn’t gonna hit you
back.
It’s part of the game.
I’ve had girls stop responding to my texts, just
for them to text ME first and ask me to hangout.
Your confidence should not be hurt just because
a girl didn’t respond to you. Do you even hearh
ow stupid that sounds?
Could you imagine me, ADITYA , getting hurt and
upset just because ONE girl didn’t answer one of
my texts? FUCK NO. I’m still a MAN , G , CHAD,
regardless if she left me on read or not. A lot of
guys, get validation and feel better about
themselves when the girl responds to them, and if
the girl doesn’t respond,
they feel like shit.
This isn’t true confidence, this is seeking approval
from girls which is the total opposite. For this
reason,
a lot of texting boils down to a confidence
problem, not an actual problem with your text
game.
If you’re not confident, your text game is gonna
show it, and you’re gonna fuck things up. But if
you are confident, and you signal your
confidence to girls like I outlined in the first
module,
then your text game will be significantly better
and you’ll achieve more results. Basically, don’t
keep the conversation going for the sake of
keeping it going. Keep it going,
in order to build more flirtiness and momentum
in the relationship, or if you want to ask her to
hangout.
However, DON’T keep it going just because texting
her all day every day, makes you feel good and
makes you think she’s still into you.
Because trust me, plenty of girls will text guys
they’re not into just out of boredom so don’t
fall into this trap.
Go into the conversation knowing what you
want to achieve, and once you do it and the
conversation comes to a natural end, then leave
it at that.
And that’s it.
In summary:
• Use the magnifying method
• Don’t always keep the convo going
• And remove your confidence from the
equation
CHAPTER 13
7 TOPICS THAT MAKE ATTRACTION
INEVITABLE
What are the traits of good topics for
conversation? Not all topics are created equal.
And most will just bore her silly.
She doesn’t want to hear about your job. She
doesn't care about how long you've lived in your
current city. And if one more guys asks her "Do
you come hear often?" she will probably scream.
So what are some traits of topics that she DOES
want to talk about. And more importantly…
what are the traits of topics that will lead you
to your desired outcome… ATTRACTION.
There are six main traits that good topics possess
1. A good topic should build rapport
This means that the topic will allow you and the
woman to relate to each other on some level. It
will give you an opportunity to build trust, and
foster a connection with her. Once a woman
finds that you have some level of connection
with her… she will let her guard down and be
much more open to continuing the conversation
2. A good topic should create an emotional
state
Most of us walk around in what I refer to as "a
boredom trance." The daily grind keeps us void of
any real emotions.
So we hunger for emotions. This is why the
entertainment industry is a multi-billion dollar
a year business.
It satisfies our craving for an emotional state. If
you choose topics that ignite these lost or
repressed "positive" emotions, the woman you are
talking to will be putty in your hands.
3. A good topic should make you three
dimensional.
When a woman meets you she has trouble
differentiating you from the hundreds of other
hound dogs who have approached her over her
life. It is easier for her to group you in with all
of them and reject you. This is why it is important
that you immediately introduce topics that will
create a unique identity for you. It is even more
powerful to add some contradictions to your
identity. (You are an intellectual thinker- who
also is an MMA fighter) This will not only make
you unpredictable… but it will allow her to
imagine herself having fun with you in different
types of scenarios
4. A good topic provides hooks to keep a
conversation going.
Ultimately you want to get her to open up
to you, express her emotions, and become
invested in the conversation.
The best way to do this is provide hooks for
you to chime in.
This means that a good topic acts as "bait" to
hook her into becoming more emotionally
involved in the conversation.
5. A good topic allows you to display your
attractive qualities.
There are certain characteristics that
women universally find attractive.
These characteristics include: pre-selected
by other women, social proof, leader of men,
worldly, passionate, fun, and adventurous
The more of these characteristics the topic
allows you to display – the BETTER
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6. A good topic leads to sexuality.
If your goal is to create sexual attraction
in a woman then ultimately you need to
begin to build sexual tension.
And the topics of your conversation must
allow you to do this.
This means that a good topic should be
visceral; it should lend itself to touching,
and should produce an undercurrent of
sexuality.
WITH THAT BEING SAID LET'S HOP
ON TO THE 7 TOPICS THAT MAKE
ATTRACTION INEVITABLE
1. Glorified gossip
Glorified gossip is where you tell the story of
people you know and something that happened to
one of them.
This is the sort of thing PUA routines are based
on. This is all about taking the "drama" of your
friend's lives and turning into conversation.
It is best to pick highly charged subjects that
evoke strong opinions
Anything dealing with relationships, sex, weird
twists… think "Jerry Springer."
The more twisted the better. I often tell the story
of a friend who talked to a girl on the internet
for almost a year on daily basis. But every time
they were supposed to meet something would
come up.
Later he found out that she was a bored
housewife who actually lived thousands of miles
away.
2. Unusual experiences
Have you ever met someone famous or
fascinating? Did something bazaar or
intriguing ever happen to you or someone you
know?
When recounting the story do a steady mix of
facts and emotions. This means don't just
recount events…
get into the details of what you were thinking…
how you were processing what was happening
.How we react in certain situations reveals our
true character.
So don't be afraid to let the woman into your
thoughts.
3. Current pop culture
This is sort of a "go to" topic. It beats the weather,
or "interview style" questions but should only be
using sparingly to fill dead air or as a way to
find hooks.
It's best to ask her opinion on something like
"Would you ever date The Situation from the
Jersey Shore."
You can also inject pop culture references into
your conversation to create a sense of Rapport
4.Observations about her
We all love to hear observations about us by
people who don’t really know us.
You can do this by cold reading her or just
flat out telling her how she comes across.
This usually opens up Pandora's Box and an
entire conversation worth of material comes
spilling out.
This is a great "conversation steroid." This
means that no matter what topic the two of
you are discussing you can always insert your
observation of her into it.
5. Observations about your surroundings
When talking to a woman it is usually fun to
spend some time people watching.
This means you cold read the people around
you… or even create "imaginary lives" for
them. In order to use this effectively you
need to become "quick witted" and get good
at spotting humorous or ironic things.
For instance, if you catch an older man
with a really attractive younger date… you
could say "Is he rich or is she a working
girl?"
Or you could turn it into a story and say
something like "She moved out here to NY to
become a model…
but too much partying left her ass a little
bigger than the agencies liked.. she thought
about going back home to Tennessee…
but that would be too embarrassing… so she
convinced herself
she is in love with Old Man Clementine over
here…"
6. Future ambitions
It is best to use a story of your future
ambitions to root a question or statement
that will get her talking about hers
When a woman shares her future ambitions
with you it somehow connects you to her.
It is like she is letting giving you a little
glimpse of her soul… and now that you've seen
ityou share a bond with her.
It is important to point out that anytime a
woman is sharing her future ambition with
you NEVER belittle her or crack jokes about it.
For many of us, no one ever gives us the
opportunity to talk about our future goals
and it is a really big deal for us.
7. Travel
People love to talk about travel. They key
here is to let her talk.
Don't feel the need to jump in immediately
and tell your stories or brag about where
you've been.
Instead use it as an opportunity to dig deeper
into her interests, desires, and passions, and
world views.
And have a couple your own "travel stories"
ready.
Instead of just giving a laundry list of places
you've been to… have one or two memorable
stories from one of your recent adventures. (The
more exotic the location the better)
Travel is an attraction trigger.
Women are naturally attracted to men who
travel a lot.
It makes them seem worldly and slightly out of
reach.
THAT IS IT MF , THAT'S ALL YOU NEED TO REMEMBER
WHILE TALKING TO A CHICK
CHAPTER 14
4 INTERESTING TOPICS THAT YOU CAN
TALK ON DATE NIGHT
1 . GLORRIFIED Gossip
( just explained )
2. Early years and
childhood
3. HER AMBITIONS
4. HER WORLDVIEW TO
LIFE
CHAPTER 15
FINAL MESSAGE FROM ME
And just like that, you’ve finally made it
through. I just want to say, congratulations
because you’ve successfully made it through the
entire fucking texting bible .
Do you know how much of a badass that means
you are? You’ve just been successfully coached by
the God of bitches, and YOU are now a certified
God at texting.
You are now a master of all the texting
psychology and techniques that WILL get you
laid. But just like Spiderman, you must use these
powers responsibly, if not I’ll come down and
strike you with lightning myself.
You now have everything you need, to go out
and text and fuck girls like the God you were
destined to be. And there’s no excuse for it not to
work because I’ve given you all the tools you
need,
and this book will always be here for you to
refer back to.
Now go out and enjoy the gift of texting bible
I’ve given you, and be sure to go through all the
bonus content as well, because in it, you will
learn EVEN more about how to text like a God. In
the bonuses
I’ve now given you all you need, and I just
want to say again,
congratulations because you took action when
others wouldn’t and you made the decision to
better your text game, and your life.
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you should be proud of yourself NOW
ADIOS , NAMASTE , SAYONARA
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WHATEVER BUT I AM SURE WHAT I WILL BRING WILL
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- ADITYA