• The submissive shall not lie.
• The submissive shall NOT consider “Nothing” as an appropriate response to “What’s
wrong?”
• The submissive shall be respectful at all times
• The submissive shall not manipulate the Dominant, or any situation, in order to
achieve their own personal objectives.
• The submissive must wear their “collar” or some other form of ownership at all
times.
• The submissive’s clothing is subject to the inspection and approval of the
Dominant.
• The submissive shall execute and complete all requests made by the Dominant in
the manner and time frame they set forth, and agreed upon by the submissive.
• The submissive shall discuss with the Dominant all decisions of any significance.
• The submissive shall submit a journal entry to the Dominant each day.
• The submissive shall not fear discipline from any matters contained in their
journal.
• The submissive is always to act in a manner that reflects positively upon their
Dominant.
• The submissive shall not misuse their safe word(flowers). It is appropriately
used only at times in which they feels their personal safety, either physical or
mental (including fear), is compromised.
• The submissive shall refrain from using profane language at all times.
• Always make physical or eye contact with your Dominant when your Dominant enters
a room, or greet in the case of online/digitally
• The submissive will put the Dominants name alongside their nickname in all areas
they are able to.
• The submissive must let the Dominant take care of them.
Daily Routine:
[ ] Upon waking Submissive will ensure she has taken all meds and continues to do
so throughout the day.
• Before leaving home every day, submissive must be wearing an item of ownership.
• Each morning, sub will write Dom name somewhere on sub’s body. (Condition-
If they are together, Dom will write their name on sub’s body each morning.)
• Each evening, sub must write an message to Dom describing in detail everything
that they plan to wear the following day. Or if together, then let them pick out
your outfit. Must include: undergarments, my outfit, jewelry, perfume.
• Every day after work, when female sub changes out of her work clothes, she must
send Dominate pictures of her before changing, in the middle of changing and after
changing.
• Every night submissive must masturbate, but NOT cum.
• The submissive will be in bed by 11pm except on weekends (no exceptions)
Grooming/Hygiene/Body care:
• Submissive will adhere to any preference Dominant might have regarding whether
they shower or take a bath.
• Submissive will adhere to any preference Dominant might have regarding
whether they bathe/shower at night or in the morning.
• Submissive will also adhere to any preference Dominant has to which body lotion
or perfume they use after they bathe/shower.
• The submissive will attempt to avoid disease. Should any medical issue arise, the
submissive will inform Dominant immediately.
• The submissive must brush teeth daily.
• Hair must be groomed each day.
• Submissive must exercise for a minimum of 30 minutes each day and provide proof
of it happening.
Mental:
• Submissive must thank Dominant cheerfully
• Submissive will never hide their feelings or thoughts from the Dominant.
• Submissive will apologize whenever they have erred.
• Submissive will never hide their tears from Dominant.
• Submissive will not borrow trouble and will not worry about things that are out
of their control.
• Submissive will accept all punishments, knowing they are out of care and/or love.
• Submissive will never (or rarely) speak badly of themselves, or there will be
consequences.
• Submissive will go to therapy, take medicine, or whatever the Dominant says if
they have mental issues like anxiety or depression.
Communication:
• Submissive will send a “good morning” text to let Dominant know they are awake
and to remind them of plans for the day.
• Submissive will let Dominant know whenever they leave the house.
• Submissive will not pick up their phone and answer it when Dominant is talking to
them, unless Dominant says otherwise.
• Submissive will ask permission to speak freely when they believe Dominant is
making a wrong choice.
• Submissive will always address Dominant as “Sir”, or other name both have agreed
on. And keep my eyes respectfully lowered. Unless agreed to not do this.
• If submissive is concerned that they will deviate from an expectation they are to
inform Dominant at once. Preferably before.
• Submissive will ask permission to make purchases that they or Dominant do not
“Need”.
• Submissive will always come to Dominant with any concerns that they have.
Submissive will not be afraid to talk to Dominant.
• Submissive will respond to text messages from Dominant in a reasonable amount of
time or explain why it took so long to answer.
Household:
• Submissive will keep the household in presentable order
• Submissive will keep dirty laundry to a minimum (providing proof they did
laundry)
• Submissive will fold laundry (without complaint) (with proof)
• Submissive will wash dishes everyday (Dishwasher) (providing proof)
• Submissive will feed dogs and do their training every morning
• Submissive will cook meals at least 3 times a week
Sexual:
• Submissive will do sexual acts when Dominant sees fit, unless health
prevents them from doing so. (condition: Submissive will let Dominant know when
they are not feeling well enough for sexual activity.)
• Submissive will never touch their self in a gratifying way or pleasing way
outside of Dominant’s presence or unless they have obtained Dominant’s consent.
• Submissive will never touch a toy unless instructed to do so.
• Submissive will always thank Dominant after play, or sexual use.
• Submissive must also ask permission to orgasm.
• If submissive is given instructions regarding masturbation prior to asking, they
must follow those instructions to the best of their ability.
• If submissive wants to buy a new sex toy they must show Dominant so they can make
the decision together.
• While in the scene, the submissive will not speak unless to say their safeword or
unless the Dominant says they can.
• Submissive may ask for a particular sexual act before starting the scene, but not
during.
• Once the scene has started, the Dominant has full control and expects full
cooperation from submissive.
