Domestic Violence PDF
Domestic Violence PDF
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…..Complainant/Wife
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….Respondents
8. That Your Complainant states that in the initial days following the
matrimonial union, Your Complainant/Wife's stay in Kanpur was marred
by regressive customs and neglect. Upon returning to the marital home,
as the newlywed, Your Complainant/Wife endured the indignity of being
dressed in an old saree and relegated to sleep alongside the Respondent
No. 2, her cries ignored by the absentee Respondent No. 1. Subsequently
coerced into participating in a puja and ceremonies along with other
rituals with eunuchs by the Respondents Nos. 3 & 4, Your
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9. That Your Complainant states that during her stay in Kanpur, Your
Complainant/Wife endured relentless exhaustion due to sleep deprivation
and recurrent illnesses which necessitated her being entirely reliant on
medication merely to function. Rather than extending support during
these trying times, Respondent No. 1 exacerbated her suffering, subjecting
her to verbal abuse along with the Respondents Nos 3 & 4 using extremely
filthy and derogatory words. In a pattern mirroring the demeaning
treatment of women in his family, Respondent No. 1 along with
Respondent Nos. 3 & 4 resorted to openly insulting Your
Complainant/Wife, inflicting relentless mental anguish upon her day in
and day out.
10. That Your Complainant states that prior to their matrimonial union,
representations were made by Respondent No. 1 and the Respondents Nos.
3 & 4 asserting his employment as a Petroleum Engineer at Baker Hughes,
with an accompanying salary of Rs 15 lacs and a promised promotion
slated for the month of January. However, shortly after marriage, during
a work-related trip to Durgapur, Respondent No. 1 expressed a desire to
resign from his purported position due to frustration stemming from the
absence of the promised promotion. When confronted regarding the initial
misrepresentation, Respondent No. 1 callously admitted to fabricating
details in order to secure the marriage sans which, Your Complainant
would not have married him, thereby betraying Your Complainant/Wife's
trust and resorting to deceitful means to attain his ends. Respondent No.
1 had said “agar tumhe ye sab pata hota toh tum mujhse shaadi nahi
karti”. This revelation starkly exposed the deceit perpetrated by
Respondent No. 1 and the Respondents Nos. 3 & 4, who had misled Your
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11. That Your Complainant states that on and from the month of
February for about 6 months, Your Complainant/Wife and Respondent
No. 1 resided with Respondent No. 2 and her husband in Mumbai, at D
4503 Ashok Tower Parel, Mumbai, 400012. Despite Your
Complainant/Wife's insistence on acquiring their own apartment,
Respondent No. 1 displayed a lack of enthusiasm towards the endeavor.
Although they explored various housing options, no definitive action was
taken to secure a residence. Notably, Respondent No. 1 habitually
disregarded Your Complainant/Wife's input during house-hunting
excursions, resorting to verbal abuse when met with differing opinions.
Tensions often escalated between Respondent No. 1, Respondent No. 2,
and brokers, resulting in futile attempts to secure accommodation.
14. That Your Complainant states that during a visit to Kanpur for
Diwali in October 2017, a distressing incident unfolded between Your
Complainant/Wife and Respondent No. 1 after a dinner outing. Upon
noticing a shop of interest and entering without informing Respondent No.
1, a tumultuous argument erupted, exposing his tyrannical control over
Your Complainant/Wife's actions, depriving her of fundamental
autonomy. Despite her efforts to reconcile, Respondent No. 1 callously and
maliciously abandoned her on the streets of Kanpur, knowing full well that
she did not know her way around them, displaying a shocking disregard
for her safety and well-being. Subsequently, after Your Complainant spent
considerable time frantically running around the unfamiliar streets when
she finally found Respondent No. 1 in his car and upon reuniting in the
car, he subjected Your Complainant/Wife to a barrage of verbal abuse,
hurling derogatory insults and baseless accusations with pertinence to her
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character and that of her family. In a desperate bid to document the ordeal,
Your Complainant/Wife recorded the altercation on her phone, only to
provoke further rage from Respondent No. 1, who violently destroyed her
device by smashing it in half. Despite Your Complainant/Wife's visible
distress upon returning home and even after narrating her entire ordeal,
the Respondent's family remained passive observers, failing to offer any
assistance or intervention, leaving Your Complainant/Wife utterly alone
and vulnerable to the cruelty of Respondent No. 1.
15. That Your Complainant further states that in July 2017, during a
visit from Respondent No. 1's cousins, all members of the household were
accommodated in a single room for sleeping arrangements. Your
Complainant/Wife found herself on a mattress on the floor alongside one
of Respondent No. 1's cousins, Sehaj, while Respondent No. 1 occupied
the bed. In an attempt to communicate with Respondent No. 1 in the
darkness of the room, Your Complainant/Wife inadvertently touched his
eyes while trying to tap his shoulders. In response, Respondent No. 1
reacted violently, immediately striking her with two punches. Despite Your
Complainant/Wife's distress and tears, witnesses to the incident remained
silent, failing to intervene or offer any form of assistance, thereby
compounding the trauma she experienced.
17. That Your Complainant states that in July 2018, Respondent No. 1
made plans to visit Kanpur, with Your Complainant and as usual,
arranged for one-way tickets without consulting Your Complainant/Wife
regarding her return journey. This unilateral decision-making pattern
extended to discussions held exclusively with Respondent No. 1's sister,
effectively sidelining Your Complainant/Wife's input. When Your
Complainant/Wife requested tickets for her return, she was met with
resistance from Respondent No. 1, who asserted her obligation was to
remain in Kanpur and attend to Respondent Nos. 3 & 4 and told her that
her status would be that of a mere servant in his family's eyes. Deprived
of any opportunity to express her opinions, attempts to assert herself were
met with hostility, resulting in contentious arguments. Faced with the
prospect of marital discord, Your Complainant/Wife felt compelled to
acquiesce to Respondent No. 1's demands, sacrificing her autonomy for
the sake of preserving the marriage.
19. That Your Complainant states that day in and day out, both
Respondent No. 2 and Respondent No. 1 relentlessly taunted Your
Complainant/Wife about her dusky complexion, incessantly pressuring
her to apply "ubtan" and "Fair and Lovely" products in a misguided attempt
to lighten her skin tone. This continuous harassment regarding her
complexion created an environment of immense psychological distress for
Your Complainant/Wife, further exacerbating her sense of inadequacy and
eroding her self-esteem.
20. That Your Complainant states that during a visit to the house of one
of Respondent No. 2's friends, an incident occurred that underscored the
demeaning treatment endured by Your Complainant/Wife. While seated at
their acquaintance's home, Your Complainant/Wife stood up to assist
when beverages were being served. However, Nidhi made a disparaging
remark by saying “let shruti help you,hum bhabhi ko yaha laaye hi kyun
hain”. This hurtful comment deeply affected Your Complainant/Wife,
prompting her to express her feelings to Respondent No. 1. However,
instead of acknowledging her hurt and offering support, Respondent No. 1
berated Your Complainant/Wife, shifting blame onto her for overthinking
and being unable to take a joke, thus exacerbating her sense of isolation
and disregard within the familial dynamic. At every turn, the Respondent
No. 2 in coherence with the Respondent No. 1 treated Your Complainant
like an outsider and relegated her position to that of a mere servant.
21. That Your Complainant further states that periodically and ever so
often, Respondent No. 1 would demand that Your Complainant/Wife pack
her belongings and vacate his sister's residence, indicating his desire for
her to leave their matrimonial home. On occasions when Your
Complainant/Wife ventured out with her friends, Respondent No. 1 would
instruct her over the phone to remain wherever she was and refrain from
returning home, further underscoring his insistence on her departure from
their shared abode. On several occasions, Your Complainant was told by
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the Respondent No. 2 that she would do better than to return home as she
was unfit to be a housewife and was nothing better than a prostitute.
22. That Your Complainant states that she overheard Respondent No. 1
conversing with his sister i.e. the Respondent No 2, during which he
asserted that his wedding ring, a pure solitaire, was actually artificial—a
claim she found deeply distressing and unfounded. Confronting
Respondent No. 1 about this allegation, Your Complainant expressed her
hurt and frustration in response to which, Respondent No. 1 resorted to
insulting Your Complainant/Wife and her family in extremely filthy and
abusive language and making unwarranted and disparaging remarks
about their characters and the same was joined in by the Respondent No.
2 insisting that Your Complainant/Wife prove the authenticity of the ring
by having it examined by a jeweller, they refused to relent until their
doubts were dispelled. During this altercation, the Respondent No. 2 told
Your Complainant that she should call her parents and ask them for
money to buy a genuine solitaire ring failing which she would be kicked
out from their shared household.
23. That Your Complainant states that Respondent No. 1 and often at
times through instigation from the Respondent No. 2, in fits of anger,
frequently resorted to vindictive acts such as discarding Your
Complainant/Wife's belongings, including clothes and personal items, into
the dustbin. This pattern of behavior not only displayed a lack of respect
for her possessions but also served as a means of exerting control and
inflicting emotional distress. Consequently, Your Complainant/Wife was
compelled to retrieve her belongings from the dustbin, a humiliating and
degrading experience that underscored the toxic dynamics within their
relationship.
24. That Your Complainant states that one day, Your Complainant/Wife
suddenly discovered communication with the ex-girlfriend of Respondent
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26. On the 21st of April 2017, the journey from Dubai to Mumbai was
fraught with inequality and disregard for Your Complainant/Wife's well-
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being with her position being relegated to being akin to a burden. While
Respondent No. 1 arranged luxurious Emirates flights for himself and his
parents, he opted for a cheaper option, involving a connecting flight via
Bahrain, for Your Complainant/Wife. This decision forced her to
undertake the journey alone, subjecting her to the risks and discomforts
of traveling solo in unfamiliar surroundings, surrounded by strangers.
This stark discrepancy in treatment not only underscored Respondent No.
1's prioritization of financial savings over Your Complainant/Wife's safety
and comfort but also highlighted a profound lack of consideration for her
welfare and dignity within the marital relationship.
27. Your Complainant states that Respondent No. 1, along with herself,
had further shifted to Guwahati in and around July, Residing at
Jagabandhu Apartments having its address as Bhangagarh, GS Road,
Block 1 Flat F2. Jagabandhu apartments Guwahati, Assam 781005,
Respondent No. 1 deceitfully misrepresented his employment status in
Guwahati to his family, fabricating a façade of productivity while in reality
remaining unemployed and idle for a significant duration. Despite this, he
coerced Your Complainant/Wife into colluding with his deception,
instructing her to lie to his parents whenever they inquired about his
purported job at the factory. Under duress, Your Complainant/Wife
complied with his demands to avoid facing his wrath, as she knew that
any deviation from their fabricated narrative would result in physical
violence as on earlier occasions she has been beaten mercilessly by
Respondent No. 1. This coercion not only perpetuated Respondent No. 1's
deceit but also subjected Your Complainant/Wife to further emotional and
physical abuse, perpetuating a cycle of manipulation and fear within their
relationship.
28. Your Complainant states that upon acquiring the flat, the initial
experience was marred by unsanitary conditions, with the premises
infested with cockroaches and in a state of disrepair. Rather than seeking
assistance from professional cleaners, Respondent No. 1 instructed Your
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29. Your Complainant states that in Guwahati, the initial days of Your
Complainant/Wife's marital life were marked by profound hardship and
mistreatment. Despite waking up at 6 am to prepare meals for Respondent
No. 1 before he departed for work, she endured relentless verbal abuse
and confrontations in the filthiest of languages, often triggered by minor
issues such as salt levels in the food. On one occasion, while accompanied
by her mother during a trip to the bank, Respondent No. 1's inexplicable
bad mood led to a heated argument over transportation arrangements,
leaving Your Complainant/Wife stranded on the roadside, with her mother
witnessing her distress. Throughout this tumultuous period, Your
Complainant/Wife bore the brunt of household responsibilities single-
handedly, while Respondent No. 1 remained idle at home, subjecting her
to further mistreatment and berating the hired help. Instead of offering
support, Respondent No. 1 actively undermined Your Complainant/Wife's
efforts, even resorting to documenting minor kitchen mishaps to denigrate
her competence to his family. These incidents collectively illustrate the
profound emotional and physical toll inflicted upon Your
Complainant/Wife, underscoring the pervasive atmosphere of control,
manipulation, and neglect within the matrimonial home.
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31. Your Complainant states that in January 2018, on the first day of
the year, a heated altercation erupted between Your Complainant/Wife
and Respondent No. 1, culminating in a violent outburst. In a fit of rage,
Respondent No. 1 violently destroyed Your Complainant/Wife's phone
when she objected to the same. Subsequently, Respondent No. 1 resorted
to physical violence, striking her with such force that she went flying onto
the ground, resulting in severe facial trauma and double vision. Despite
the gravity of her injuries, Respondent No. 1 callously proceeded to
denigrate Your Complainant/Wife to his parents over the phone. Following
repeated pleading from Your Complainant, Respondent No. 1 finally agreed
to take her to a hospital, where a doctor attended to her injuries and stated
that she had internal trauma, and the double vision would take
substantial time to subside. Deprived of any means of communication due
to her broken phone, Your Complainant/Wife endured a harrowing night
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of anguish and fear while Respondent No. 1 pitilessly slept. His lack of
concern for her well-being was starkly evident when he callously
threatened her, stating that he would kill Your Complainant if she dared
to cause any further "tension" for him and his family. The next day, Your
Complainant managed to videocall her father from Respondent No. 1's
phone, wherein her father saw that she had a swollen black eye. Following
her father's intervention, Respondent No. 1 begrudgingly provided Your
Complainant/Wife with a replacement phone.
32. Your Complainant states that after this harrowing incident, and
despite her fragile state, Your Complainant/Wife undertook a journey to
Calcutta for purposes of puja and other religious ceremonies. Despite her
asking Respondent No. 1 multiple times to accompany her in her then-
weakened state, Respondent No. 1 flat out refused and told her that if she
wanted to go to her home, she would have to undertake the risk, and if
she died, he would simply get married again.
only his belongings and possessions and leaving her items which he would
collect from Guwahati at a later date, in a shocking turn of events, despite
assurances that he would only take his personal belongings, Respondent
No. 1 absconded with all the luggage, including Your Complainant's
valuable possessions. This blatant act of betrayal and disregard for Your
Complainant's belongings further underscored the breakdown of trust and
the callous indifference demonstrated by Respondent No. 1 towards her
well-being.
35. Your Complainant states that she had items and goods of
considerable value, including her stridhan ornaments along with wedding
dresses, perfumes, and shoes, which she had all purchased with her own
money. This money she had saved up or had borrowed from her parents
from time to time, as Respondent No. 1 intentionally avoided paying her a
single penny for her own maintenance or for her own independent financial
needs. Despite several requests made by the father of Your Complainant
to give back her items and belongings, such requests fell upon the deaf
and uncaring ears of Respondent No. 1. At this juncture, it is to be
mentioned herein that later on the uncle and aunt of Your Complainant
went to Kanpur to collect the belongings of Your Complainant but only the
jewelry that she had brought from her paternal house was returned back
to her. The rest of the belongings of Your Complainant, including her
stridhan ornaments, were withheld by Respondent No 1 being hand-in-
gloves with the Respondent Nos. 3 and 4.
36. Despite numerous requests and pleas, the following items belonging
to Your Complainant/Wife, which were left behind in Guwahati, have not
been returned by the Respondent No. 1 or the Respondent Nos. 3 & 4:
4) Personal belongings:
5) Wedding trousseau:
Despite the sentimental and material value attached to these items, the
Respondent Nos. 1, 2 and 3 have failed to honor repeated requests for their
return, causing Your Complainant/Wife undue hardship and distress.
38. Your Complainant states that on the 15th of May 2020, Your
Complainant/Wife took the courageous step of initiating mutual divorce
proceedings by messaging Respondent No. 1 but received no response.
However, on the 6th of February 2022, Respondent No. 1 reached out to
Your Complainant/Wife to progress the matter, yet due to pressing family
health issues, she was unable to engage in the discussion. Subsequent
attempts at communication from Respondent No. 1 on the 14th of
November 2022 and again on the 1st of January went unanswered, leading
to a pivotal moment when his father reached out to Your
Complainant/Wife's father instead. In a further bid to assert control,
Respondent No. 1 resorted to contacting Your Complainant/Wife's friend
to inquire about her whereabouts, falsely portraying her as unreachable.
This calculated effort to pressure and manipulate Your Complainant/Wife
into reconciliation while tarnishing her reputation among her circle of
friends highlights Respondent No. 1's disregard for her autonomy and well-
being.
40. That Your Complainant states that at present she is residing with
her parents at the address mentioned above in the cause-title of the
application and that though the marriage between the parties was
solemnized and the entire cause of action were outside the territorial
jurisdiction of this learned Court, but at the time of presentation of the
instant petition the petitioner being the wife is residing within the
territorial jurisdiction of this Learned Court and as such is well within the
jurisdiction of this Learned Court.
filed herewith :-
date.
so require
marriage.
And
Dated, Barasat.