Personal Development
INTELLIGENCE QUOTIENT AND EMOTIONAL QUOTIENT
                      Howard Gardner
                      Intelligence quotient, or IQ, is a number derived from a standardized intelligence test. Your
                      IQ usually refers to your intellectual ability.
                      Daniel Goleman
                      Emotional intelligence refers to your ability to recognize and regulate emotion, and to use
                      social awareness in problem-solving.
                          IQ
                                visual processing
                                working memory
                                Fluid & quantitative reasoning
                          EQ
                                identifying emotions
                                relating to others
                                social communication
                "All emotions are, in essence, impulses to act, the instant plan for handling life that evolution has
                instilled in us."
                -Daniel Goleman "Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter Than IQ" (1995)
                By this, he traces the origins of emotions from the human race's survival instinct to sense, detect,
                and act on any threat to its life and survival.
                The instinct is known as "flight or fight".
AMYGDALA
     Dr. Joseph LeDoux (1992) said that the amygdala has become the center of actions even before the
     neocortex could assess what to do. It also keeps a memory bank of previous experiences related to emotions.
        AMYGDALA HIJACK
        Small amounts of the pulses coming from the thalamus escape to the amygdala, which triggers what we
        know as our knee-jerk reaction to a situation.
THE PROCESS
    1. NEOCORTEX
             Process the stimuli. "THINK"
    2. AMYGDALA
             Emotions
    3. FRONTAL LOBES
             Sends the signal to other parts of body.
PRE-FRONTAL CORTEX
       Controls emotions so we can deal better and more effectively with the situation.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
      Emotional intelligence (also known as emotional quotient or EQ) is the ability to understand, use, and
      manage your own emotions in positive ways to relieve stress, communicate effectively, empathize with
      others, overcome challenges, and defuse conflict.
        1. Knowing One's Emotions or Self-awareness
              It brings the skills for self-reflection. It is about a person who recognizes an emotion being felt and is
              able to verbalize by saying “I am angry” at the peak of one's rage. According to Mayer, when one
       recognizes this emotion, there is also a desire to get out of that situation. This is seen as a sign that
       the neocortex is gaining some control over the amygdala.
2. Managing Emotions or Self-regulation
      Goleman points out that we often have very little or no control when an emotion occurs and what
      this emotion will be, but we can have control on how long an emotion will last.
3. Motivating Oneself
      Research shown that hope is a major indicator of emotional intelligence. Hope is the element
      present when one is fighting some overwhelming anxiety, a defeatist attitude, or depression.
      Goleman points out that optimism is a great motivator.
4. Recognizing Emotions in Others
      According to Goleman, the root cause of our capacity to empathize is self- awareness. If we recognize
      our own emotions and how these affect us, then it will be easier to recognize other people's
      emotions as well. Empathy is important in maintaining relationships as this also taps on the caring
      capacity of people.
5. Handling Relationships
      EQ is also evident in the way we manage our relationship with others.
      Social Intelligence (Howard Gardner and Thomas Hatch)
               1. Organizing groups (stage directors)
               2. Negotiating solutions (mediators)
               3. Personal connection (teachers)
               4. Social analysis (therapists)
       ROBERT PLUTCHIK'S WHEEL OF EMOTIONS
       1. Anger
       2. Sadness
       3. Fear
       4. Enjoyment
       5. Love
       6. Surprise
       7. Disgust
       8. Shame
THE POWER OF THE MIND: The Whole Brain Theory
        How it All Started
                Studies conducted on the brain often starts with an attempt to understand a brain-related
                disease or malfunction.
                In 1861, Paul Broca conducted a study on the language and left-right brain specialization on a
                patient who had problems with language. After several tests, Broca theorized that some
                language functions reside on the left side of the brain. (R.J Morris, 2006)
        SPLIT-BRAIN THEORY Dr. Roger Sperry (1981)
                Sperry explained that the brain has two hemispheres that perform tasks differently from
                each other. He discovered that the RIGHT hemisphere of the brain was performing tasks that
                were intuitive, creative, and synthesizing; while the LEFT hemisphere of the brain was more
                adept with analytical, logical, reasoning, and critical thinking.
                THE TRIUNE BRAIN THEORY Dr. Paul MacLean
                A - NEOCORTEX
                       Intellectual tasks such
                       as language, planning,
                       abstraction, and
                       perception
                B - LIMBIC SYSTEM
                (Intermediate Brain)
                        Motivation and
                        emotion involved in
                        feeding, reproductive
                        behavior, and parental
                        behavior
                C - REPTILIAN COMPLEX
                        Self-preservation and aggressive behavior of humans similar to the survival
                        instincts of animals.
BRAIN DOMINANCE THEORY William Edward "Ned" Herrmann
             He derived it from observations and tests that the human body, although symmetrical
                and paired in almost all aspects, do not necessarily function equally. People normally
                have a more dominant part of their body, like a more dominant leg, eye, or arm, which a
                person prefers to use.
             Herrmann extended this dominance theory to the brain, which he concluded to having
                not just two parts but four, the upper left and right hemispheres, and the lower left and
                right limbic halves. They are all connected to each other.
             Herrmann was not trying to differentiate the functions of the quadrants and how the
                brain works. Instead, he was pointing out the preferences of styles in thinking. He
                advocated for whole brain thinking or using the four styles, since most people utilize at
                least two primary quadrants.
             Using one's strengths while allowing the weaker styles to grow stronger through regular
                use and practice. Real life application of this is in solving problems and taking a different
                approach to finding solutions through more creative problem solving
ANALYTICAL THINKING
       Responds well to:
              technical or financial information, theories, charts, and graphs, formal approach, data heavy content
       Vulnerabilities:
              too focused, may miss synergistic opportunities, favors individual activities vs. group works, tends to
              place facts over people, problems with delegating
SEQUENTIAL THINKING
      Responds well to:
             agendas, goals and objectives, simple graphs and presentations, step-by-step procedures before
             concluding
      Vulnerabilities:
             reluctant to changes, tends to miss the big picture, does not appreciate innovative ideas, avoids
INTERPERSONAL THINKING
       Responds well to:
                creative and free flowing activities, experiential activities like music and art, people-centered
                activities and discussions
       Vulnerabilities:
       Dislike for routine and structured activities, tendency to be impulsive and emotional, often misses. out on
       details
IMAGINATIVE THINKING
      Responds well to:
              fun activities, humor, future-oriented activities, experimentation, thought-provoking and challenging
              situations, visuals
      Vulnerabilities:
              Can be impractical, tend to overlook details, may tend to procrastinate especially doing repetitive
              tasks, difficulty in prioritizing when they do not like what they are doing
WHOLE BRAIN THEORY IN LEARNING
A - ANALYTICAL
      Analyzes data
      Down-to-earth
      Critical
      Logical thinker
      Understands money
      Work with numbers
B - ORGANIZED
      Get things done
      Submits on time
      Creates procedures
      Plans and organizes
      Neat and organized
      Reliable in getting things done
C – INTERPERSONAL
      Tactile Sensitive
      Emotional Sociable
      Expressive
      Shares knowledge
      Uses physical movement
D - IMAGINATIVE
      Vivid imagination
      Explores Curious Experiments Flexible
      Conceptualizes
      Uses visual to learn Risk-taker
   COPING WITH STRESS
      Stress is defined as a reaction of the mind and the body to a stimulus that disturbs the well-being, state of
      calm, or equilibrium of a person.
      There is a common belief that stress is unhealthy, but experts conclude that this is NOT ENTIRELY the case.
      Psychologists have agreed that…
             Small and sporadic (occasional, irregular) amounts of stress can be helpful and beneficial to
             individuals, while excessive amounts of stress sustained over a lengthy period of time can be
             destructive to both physical and mental health.
              STRESS AS STIMULUS, RESPONSE & RELATIONAL (FEIST AND ROSENBERG, 2012)
              1. AS A STIMULUS
                     Caused by situations that may be threatening or life changing. These situations or events are
                     often called stressors.
              2. AS A RESPONSE
                     The way body reacts to challenging situations. It involves the interactions between
                     hormones, glands, and nervous system. The release of adrenaline & cortisol also known as
                     the stress hormone.
                     Cortisol produces energy to make our body work. Norepinephrine (noradrenaline) triggers
                     the body's reaction such as increased heart rate, higher blood pressure, and respiration to
                     prepare the body.
                              The adolescent's physical response to stress is faster than an adult. The prefrontal
                              cortex that assesses danger and directs action during stress is not yet fully
                              developed.
                                           The prefrontal cortex contributes to a wide variety of executive
                                           functions, including:
                                               1. Focusing one's attention
                                               2. Predicting the consequences of one's actions; anticipating
                                                   events in the environment
                                               3. Impulse control; managing emotional reactions
                                               4. Planning for the future
                                               5. Coordinating and adjusting complex behaviors ("I can't do A until
                                                   B happens")
              3. AS RELATIONAL
                     A person makes assessment. Assessment here means that a person allows reasoning to
                     prevail and weigh the relevance or irrelevance of the situation. For instance, if the relevance
                     is positive, the person will look at the situation in a more positive light.
WHAT ARE THE DIFFERENT TYPES OF STRESS?
                 CATASTROPHES                   SIGNIFICANT LIFE CHANGES          EVERYDAY INCONVENIENCES
        COVID-19                             having a child                       caught in a traffic
        terrorist Attack                     losing a job                         getting late
        typhoon                              marriage                             unstable internet connection
HEALTHY STRESS
      There are certain types of stress that can benefit a person. Stress that is short and sporadic can
      propel a person to a necessary action. These types of stress can motivate, energize, and spur an
      individual into fruitful action.
      Bad stress can be transformed into good stress depending on how an individual assesses the
      situation. Students are advised to learn some coping mechanisms to assist them in their
      development toward a healthy adult life.
              SIGNS OF TOO MUCH STRESS
                  Inability to concentrate or complete tasks
                  Get sick more often with colds
                  Body aches
                  Headaches
                  Irritated
                  Trouble falling sleeping or staying awake Changes in appetite
                  More angry or anxious
              KNOW YOUR STRESSORS
                  School Demands and Expectations
                  Selecting a School, College, Course, or Career
                  Separation Anxiety
                  College Life
                  Romantic Relationship
                  Family Demands and Expectations Health Concerns
                  Demands of Social Life Bullying