Phillips S.F
Phillips S.F
Kaitlin E. Phillips
Jordan Soliz
University of Nebraska-Lincoln
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Abstract
provide directions for future research as they relate to family culture. Specifically, we review
family communication research that is either explicitly or implicitly tied to family culture. Given
the importance of families and understanding the first social group that individuals often belong
to, it is necessary to synthesize programs of research related to family culture. Thus, in order to
further the progression of family research we provide an overview of where current research on
family communication converges, present additional factors for family scholars to include in
their work, and conclude with suggestions for scholarship that builds on and integrates existing
research.
Family represents one of—if not the most prominent and noteworthy social group
individuals will belong to over the course of their life (Lay et al., 1998; Yip, Kiang, & Fuligni,
2008). Our families are influential in developing personal identity and self-concept, socializing
attitudes and worldviews of members, and serving as a source of support and affiliation
(Cicirelli, 1995; Dailey, 2009; Soliz & Rittenour, 2012, Whiteman, McHael, & Soli, 2011).
Consequently, family identity is an important and salient concept tied to a variety of individual
and relational outcomes. Family identity is discussed as how “families are (re)created through
discursive practice” (Suter, 2012, p. 12), and thus communication processes are integral to this
discursive practice.
focused on this interactive dimension of family as a social group as research has been quite
& Hanzal, 2009), parent-child (Schrodt & Ledbetter, 2012), siblings (Mikkelson, 2014),
grandparent-grandchild relationships (Soliz & Lin, 2014), and extended family dyads (e.g.,
cousins, aunts, uncles: Floyd & Mormon, 2014). Further, communication scholars have
behavioral outcomes for family members (Schrodt, Witt, & Messersmith, 2008), such as mental
health, relational satisfaction, and family conflict. Although each of these areas of scholarship
are extremely beneficial, the issue lies in the disparate nature of these lines of research. Scholars
are informed by multiple theoretical and conceptual traditions, resulting in a lack of cohesion
among various lines of inquiry. In short, what is needed is more integration of these traditions to
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create a more comprehensive and expansive understanding of the communicative dynamics that
are enacted and constitute family. Although we see why it is easy to label this family identity,
and why it is a term frequently used in the literature, in order to distinguish and capture
additional components that are important to the discussion, we argue that family relational
culture is a more inclusive and perhaps less value laden term. By utilizing a more expansive
framework for investigating family communication, the potential for further enhancing our
understanding of family functioning and, more importantly, how practitioners can best assist
we argue for the importance of situating current and future research within a more expansive
framework of family relational culture. No framework will account for everything; however, we
hope that the proposed framework will enable scholars to: (1) see how current research informs
each other, (2) recognize the limitations in research that largely ignores socio-cultural factors and
focuses primarily on White families, and (3) utilize it as a springboard for continued research on
families that can be used by practitioners. The purpose of the article is to summarize these lines
of research and offer additional factors to consider moving forward. The hope is that this
The goal of this review, therefore, is to synthesize the research that speaks to these
communicative characteristics of family culture. Whereas family identity in popular culture and
necessitates a focus on the communication processes (Edwards & Graham, 2009) that constitute
family. Doing so is important if family scholars and practitioners are to continue to pursue the
goal of understanding family functioning as well as the manner in which families influence
individual and dyadic-level outcomes in and outside of the family. As such, we define family
relational culture as the communicative processes and relational ideologies that constitute the
Ghunney, 2012).
In the following, we first review and synthesize some of the more prominent ways in
culture. This is not an exhaustive list, rather it contains several of the major avenues of research
in family communication that focus on family culture. We encourage scholars to think critically
about how their work fits into the larger discussion of family culture. Collectively, these lines of
synthesizing these areas, our hope is that scholars can locate similarities as well as identify
opportunities to integrate these research traditions, developing a more cohesive idea of the
factors that reflect and affect family. Doing so is important for providing a common perspective
upon which to build knowledge, and a recognition of how the field has grown and changed over
the last several decades. We begin with a discussion of Korner and Fitzpatrick’s (2002, 2006)
general theory of family communication, and move into additional approaches to studying family
this section by summarizing the conceptual patterns of communication that are found at the
Patterned interactions are those communicative processes that are assumed to be stable
and consistent across interactional contexts. Often, these patterned behaviors are exemplified in
terms of typologies (e.g., Ritchie & Fitzpatrick, 1990) or specific categories (Caughlin, 2003).
Each of these processes have typically been investigated using quantitative methodology, and are
frequently used to predict family functioning (e.g., Schrodt, 2005), in addition to a host of
behavioral, information processing, and psychosocial outcomes (Schrodt et al., 2008). Koerner
communication utilizes schemata. Schemata are hierarchical in nature with the top layer being
general scripts, the middle layer being the scripts that one uses in a given type of relationship, or
in this case any relationships that are categorized as family, and the bottom layer of scripts being
those that one holds for particular individuals (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002c). Koerner and
Fitzpatrick (2002c) argued that schemata are relatively stable patterns used for efficiency in
interpersonal relationships and that individuals employ the hierarchy in order to find the script
that is most competent for that interaction. In other words, schemata are both efficient and useful.
Relationship type schemas are the commonalities that exist within families that allow individuals
to use similar scripts with different members of their family. Family relationship type schema
conflict avoidance (Fitzpatrick & Ritchie, 1994; Hortsman et al., 2018). These three dimensions
offer one approach to studying the patterned ways in which families are constructing how they
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“do” family. Centered within this framework, is family communication patterns theory, which
has been labeled a “Grand Theory” of family communication research (Koerner & Schrodt,
Family communication patterns originated in 1972 with McLeod and Chaffee’s cognitive
approach to family communication and their desire to describe families’ tendencies to develop
stable and predictable ways of communicating with one another (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2006).
Based on the cognitive theory of coorientation, McLeod and Chaffee (1972, 1973) developed
two theoretically orthogonal orientations that are representative of how families achieve
coorientation. Coorientation occurs when “two or more persons focusing on and evaluating the
same object in their social or material environment” (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2006, p. 52) reach
agreement about the object. The two processes through which families achieve coorientation and
are socialized are socio-orientation and concept-orientation. These two orientations form the
reach shared understanding of an object by adopting the views of other family members,
typically the views of a parental figure, and it is “the degree to which families create a climate
that stresses homogeneity of attitudes, values, and beliefs” (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002, p. 85).
individuals reach a shared understanding of an object (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2006), and it is
“the degree to which families create a climate where all family members are encouraged to
participate freely in interactions about a wide array of topics” (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002c, p.
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85). Together, these two theoretically orthogonal orientations (cf. Keating, 2016) form the
foundation of family communication patterns and the subsequent typology of families and family
understand both the interpersonal and intrapersonal communication that occurs in the family
(Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2006). FCP focuses on two communication schemata—conversation and
conformity orientation that reflect two patterns of communication that families use to construct
Conversation and conformity orientations have been used to assign families to one of
four family types (consensual, pluralistic, protective, and laissez-faire; Fitzpatrick & Ritchie,
1994), with each family type being indicative of a stable and patterned way in which families
communicate in everyday life. FCP’s utility has resulted in two separate meta-analyses, Schrodt
et al. (2008) demonstrated that conversation and conformity orientation are associated with
investigated the extent to which conversation and conformity orientation are correlated, or
operate in an orthogonal manner. These two meta-analyses, and the special issue on family
communication patterns in the Journal of Family Communication (2014) emphasize both the
utility and prominence of FCP; however, they also illustrate the concerns scholars have with the
conformity orientation measure. These concerns have resulted in two new waves of FCP research
that measure conformity in different ways. Specifically, Hesse et al. (2017) developed a measure
of conformity that divides it into two dimensions: warm and cold conformity. This approach
focuses on the idea that not all conformity is negative—as prior research frequently indicates that
more conformity in the family has negative outcomes (Schrodt, Ledbetter, & Ohrt, 2007). Such
that, “warm conformity represents the idea that parents can have set ideas of rules, discipline,
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beliefs, and values without being a negative influence on the wellbeing of the child” (p. 325),
and cold conformity behaviors “include parents limiting debate and open discussion of family
beliefs, exerting large amounts of control and influence in the child’s life, and presenting a
family that is overly dependent on each other, and not allowing for outside influences such as
friends” (p. 325). This approach to studying conformity orientation focuses on both the positive
and negative aspects of familial control. Hortsman et al. (2018) took a different approach and
developed a measure of conformity that includes four dimensions: (1) respecting parental
authority, (2) experiencing parental control, (3) adopting parents’ values/beliefs, and (4)
underlying schemata that constitute family; however, FCP only represents a small portion of
Relational Standards
Individuals hold certain beliefs about the nature of family relationships (Vangelisti,
Crumley, & Baker, 1999) and the role of communication in the family (Caughlin, 2003). These
relational and communication ideals or standards impact family satisfaction, are linked to family
communication schemata (Caughlin, 2003), and may reveal additional components of family
culture. These relational standards may be thought of as existing for the family as a whole;
however, research suggests that individuals within the family do not always hold the same
Vangelisti et al. (1999) investigated what relational standards individuals have for their
family based on the stories they told. Specifically, they found ten story themes in their analysis
of family stories, (1) care, (2) disregard, (3) togetherness, (4) hostility, (5) adaptability, (6) chaos,
(7) reconstruction, (8) humor, (9) divergent values, and (10) personality attributes. In addition,
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participants were asked to revise their story if it did not meet their ideal for family, this resulted
in approximately 34% of participants revising their family story. Although several of these
themes are representative of communicative behaviors, there are also multiple themes that speak
to the relational ideology families hold. Thus, by incorporating not only how families
communicatively construct who they are, but also including the values and beliefs that are
paramount to what is considered standard for families, scholars can begin to utilize all aspects of
this relational group and the standards they hold as part of their culture.
Caughlin (2003) developed the Family Communication Standards (FCS) scale to assess
the standards or ideals that individuals hold for communication in the family and found a set of
10 dimensions that are representative of how individuals believe families should communicate.
Specifically, he found that the 10 dimensions individuals believe to be the standards of family
communication are (1) openness, (2) maintaining structural stability, (3) expression of affection,
(4) emotional/instrumental support, (5) mindreading, (6) politeness, (7) discipline, (8)
humor/sarcasm, (9) regular routine interaction, and (10) avoidance. Caughlin (2003) suggested,
“that family communication standards constitute part of the specific content of family
communication schemata” (p. 33), in that FCS functions as schemata within the family.
Understanding the ways in which the combination of particular standards influences family
outcomes is relevant to our discussion of family culture, as it suggests that there are multiple
ways to “do” family. This is arguably one of the most important but often overlooked aspects of
family culture, as “doing” family has been shown to vary considerably based on socio-cultural
Matsunaga (2009; Matsunaga & Imahori, 2009) used the FCS to determine if there are
different family communication standards profiles for Japanese and American families and the
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extent to which multiple family members hold the same standards. Using latent profile analysis,
he found three distinct profiles for American and Japanese families, and for each of these three
profiles cultural differences emerged. Japanese families were primarily classified as high-
context, and American families were split between laissez-faire and open-affectionate. These
results indicate the need for research that uses a more diverse sample, as the current family
literature should not be generalized to families who are not middle-class Caucasian Americans.
Based on Matsunaga and Imahori’s (2009) research, it is clear that family identity is influenced
by cultural factors and rather than prescribing certain communication behaviors, researchers need
communication. In addition to cultural differences, Matsunaga (2009) found three profiles for
comparison study, and two profiles that indicate more than half of the families in the sample
have divergent views on family communication standards. Thus, it stands to reason that it is not
just national culture (cf. Sillars, 1995) that influences family culture. This is also evident in the
multiple ways in which families use narratives to create and indicate who they are as a unit.
Families jointly tell stories that create a family culture and are indicative of both who is
considered family and the extent to which individuals identify with their family (Koenig Kellas,
2005, 2015; Thompson et al., 2009; Trees & Koenig Kellas, 2009). “People build and
communicate their relationships, cultures, and identities, in part through the stories they tell”
(Koenig Kellas, 2015, p. 253), and these stories offer a view of the relational standards
individuals hold for their families (Vangelisti et al., 1999), the legacies that they inherit from
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their families (Stone, 2004; Thompson et al., 2009), and how the process of telling stories affects
One-way families construct culture is through stories about work and in particular
negotiating family-work boundaries (Langellier & Peterson, 2006b). Through family storytelling
about work, families negotiate boundaries surrounding culture, race, ethnicity, class, gender, and
sexual orientation among other aspects that make up their family culture. We see this reflected in
the tension individuals experience when moving between the working class promise and middle-
class affiliation in Lucas’ (2011) investigation into the social construction of the working class.
Stone (2004) suggested that our family stories shape us, not just the stories we are characters in,
but also the stories that are passed down or inherited from other family members. Stone’s work is
important as it elucidates how family identity is inherited and created and the role it serves long-
term for that family. These inherited family stories (or legacies) can be embraced or rejected by
the family, and may be positively or negatively valenced (Thompson et al., 2009).
Koenig Kellas et al.’s (2015) research investigates the process of jointly constructing
stories and how through the telling of stories families create and reflect their identity. Through
jointly told family stories, individuals can imply relational status, relational closeness, and the
degree to which they feel a sense of identification with their family (Koenig Kellas, 2005).
Inherent in each story told is a theme—or another aspect of culture, and which stories families
choose to tell are connected to the ways in which they tell the story and engage in sense-making
Each family may differ in the ways in which they use storytelling processes to enact
family culture. Thorson, Rittenour, Koenig Kellas, and Trees (2013) explored how differences
between and within families contributed to their storytelling process. How family members feel
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about each other contributed to the way in which they engaged in jointly told stories, as those
who were more satisfied with their relationships were more engaged in the storytelling process.
Narratives serve to create identity (Koenig Kellas, 2015), enable researchers to investigate both
content and process (Koenig Kellas, 2015), and observe the ways in which stories allow families
processes across families and various outcomes (Schrodt et al., 2008). In addition, the stability
that can be viewed through patterned interactions lends credence to the assumption that there is
an overarching culture that families have and enact in their everyday interactions. Patterned
interactions are just one approach to family culture, with narrative being an important component
of how families reify that culture. Family stories provide a glimpse of what characterizes each
family, and it is their telling of the story that determines the meaning (Stone, 2004).
communication culture, we felt it was paramount to summarize where the overlap lies in this
literature and present what we contend are eight conceptual dimensions of family communication
Based on the conceptual and theoretical overlap in our review, we synthesize these often-
fragmented bodies of scholarship into the following communication patterns and processes:
discipline, conflict avoidance, openness, affection, support, humor/fun, storytelling, and family
time. Collectively, these communication processes reflect a variety of behaviors that researchers
have investigated in the family context, and we argue are foundational in how families reflect
Discipline. From authoritarian to laissez-fair scholars have studied the way parents
discipline children. The way in which co-parenting occurs and how discipline is enacted reflects
and affects what values and communicative behaviors are considered acceptable within the
family. Consequently, discipline serves an important role in facilitating and creating family
culture. Caughlin (2003) proposed that discipline functions as one of the standards of family
communication. Human-Hendricks and Roman (2014) in their systematic review suggest that the
ways in which parents discipline their children impact adolescent antisocial behavior, such that
harsh, inconsistent, and conflictual parenting leads to more antisocial behavior. In addition,
researchers have demonstrated that discipline methods, and co-parenting practices are also tied to
marital conflict (Katz & Woodin, 2003), where more hostile couples use more assertive
parenting practices.
communication standards (Caughlin, 2003), and Koerner and Fitzpatrick’s (2002) general theory
Emphasizing the importance of conflict assessment and its impact on families. Schrodt (2009)
found that conflict avoidance is negatively associated with family strength and family
satisfaction, indicating that how conflict is modeled and enacted contributes to the norms in the
family. Both the FCS (Caughlin, 2003) and the FCEI (Fitzpatrick & Ritchie, 1994) contain
dimensions that focus on level of conflict avoidance, as the extent to which families are conflict
avoidant (or not) speaks to their need for group harmony, and the ability to express conflict with
outcomes (e.g., Schrodt & Phillips, 2016), and is a key component of the FCS, RFCP, and FCEI
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(e.g., Caughlin, 2003; Fitzpatrick & Ritchie, 1994; Ritchie & Fitzpatrick, 1990). Yet, when
considering openness as a factor in family research scholars frequently ignore additional factors
that may dictate that less openness is the norm. Schrodt and Phillips (2016) found that
individuals who have more conversation-oriented families, are more likely to be open with their
siblings, and thus have more satisfying sibling relationships. Consequently, when investigating
the role openness plays in family culture, scholars should consider the implications of suggesting
Affection. Floyd and colleagues (2005, 2010) have repeatedly demonstrated the
importance of affection in romantic and family relationships, and individuals also indicated that
affection is a critical standard within their families (FCS; Caughlin, 2003). Floyd and Morman
(2000) found not only that the extent to which fathers were affectionate with their sons predicted
how satisfied they were with their relationship, but also that fathers who had highly affectionate
parents were more likely to be highly affectionate with their sons. Therefore, we see continued
evidence for the impact of family culture on future families, and the intergenerational
transmission of family culture (see also Rauscher, Schrodt, Campbell-Salome, & Freytag, 2019).
Support. Social support has been extensively studied (e.g., Goldsmith, 2008), and makes
an appearance in the FCS (Caughlin, 2003). Goldsmith (2008) argued that enacted support is
most beneficial when conceptualized as a communication process, and by framing social support
conceptualize their culture—either as a family who supports each other or a family who does not.
Supportive communication has been linked to relational satisfaction in families and the extent to
which individuals perceive they are part of the same social collective—or family (Soliz,
Thorson, & Rittenour, 2009), thus although it is easy to say that some of these factors are always
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good reifies a heteronormative understanding of families and gives credence to the assumption
evident in much of our work—that all families are happy and functional in the same way.
Humor. Humor functions in a variety of ways and can be used to sneak in hurtful
comments, yet it also is seen as a “fun” aspect of family. Humor (and fun) as a component of
family communication is consistent with Koenig Kellas’ (2005) family storytelling themes, the
FCS (Caughlin, 2003), and family relationship standards (Vangelisti et al., 1999). Myers and
Weber (2004) found that siblings use humor as a relational maintenance behavior, such that it is
positively related to sibling liking, commitment, and trust. Thus, humor serves as role in
facilitating relationships, and potentially serving as an ingroup marker (see Abrams & Bibbpus,
2011). Humor and fun may be a frequent part of storytelling in the family, and families may
2015), we argue that storytelling is an essential component of family culture. Families tell
and togetherness (Koenig Kellas, 2005). It is through these stories that families pass down
traditions and culture. Specifically, family stories serve to affect and reflect who they are and
Family Time. Family rituals, activities, dinnertime, and just spending time are key
aspects of both the “routine interactions” category in FCS (Caughlin, 2003) and the
“tradition/culture” theme (Koenig Kellas, 2005). Family time, whether dinner or other activities,
these events illustrate the importance of rituals in constructing families (Baxter & Braithwaite,
2006). Each family may utilize or not specific rituals that help constitute what they value or
consider to be important.
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toward understanding family culture from a communicative perspective and reflects various
methodological and paradigmatic approaches. Yet, there has been little integration of these lines
definition of family culture, integrating these lines of research provides a more comprehensive
perspective of the various communicative patterns and practices that constitute our families.
With that being said, a holistic conceptual framework needs to also attend to the socio-cultural
factors that are often ignored in family communication scholarship (Sillars, 1995).
As such, we propose a need for scholars to more consciously consider and situate their
research within several socio-cultural factors that have direct influence on the interpretation,
Socio-Cultural Context
Family communication scholarship has often ignored non-communicative factors that are
vital to our understanding of family culture even though there have been calls for many years to
include cultural and other social ecological factors in considering family communication and
family functioning (Perry-Jenkins et al., 2013; Sillars, 1995; Soliz & Phillips, 2017; Turner &
West, 2003, 2018). In cases where these considerations do come into play, there are often
differences in family communication processes and outcomes (e.g., Matsunanga, 2009). In the
following, we introduce three salient socio-cultural domains that we contend are critical to
family research: race-ethnicity, religion, and socioeconomic status. Although not completely
comprehensive of all factors in the larger sociocultural context, we highlight these because
research demonstrates both how these considerations can shape the nature of family
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communication patterns and processes and their role in influencing individual and relational
outcomes. For instance, a family religious identity may be unimportant in some families, and yet
when it is important to the family, it may serve as the foundation for the ways in which a family
communicates. Further, we argue that inclusion of these factors highlights how we must consider
the manner in which family culture intersects with other salient social identities (Roccas &
Brewer, 2002).
ethnicity, yet fails to discuss the important implications of those limitations, and there is even
less research that investigates the family communication differences based on racial-ethnic group
(Soliz & Phillips, 2017). North American researchers know a lot about American, White,
middle-class families; however, by ignoring other cultural factors, scholars are generating
knowledge that is specific to a particular family (Sillars, 1995). Gudykunst and Lee (2001) called
for research that investigates ethnicity and family, and suggested that race and national
characteristics associated with ethnicity are important for understanding family functioning. If
race/ethnicity is influencing family functioning then it stands to reason that race/ethnicity is also
For example, families who identify as open are seen as stronger and more functional
(e.g., families who are more open about sexual health have adolescents who engage in less risky
sexual behaviors; Markham et al., 2010) but perhaps we are missing part of the story (e.g., when
cultural differences are considered, openness is not always viewed as more positive when talking
about sexual behaviors with adolescents; Wang, N., 2016). For example, N. Wang (2016)
demonstrated that in Chinese culture, openness—particularly openness about sex is not always
the best choice for parents hoping to reduce their child’s risky behavior. Whereas Holman and
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communication about sex-related topics was negatively related to sexual risk-taking, Regnerus
(2005) found that African American parents, and specifically Black Protestant parents, had more
frequent conversations with their adolescents than Asian-American, White, and Hispanic parents.
It is not just openness where scholars have demonstrated differences based on race/ethnicity.
Shearman, Dumlao, and Kagawa (2011) found that Americans were more likely to use avoidance
and distributive strategies, whereas Japanese used integrative strategies when engaging in
race (Allen & Chaffee, 1997), and Soliz and Phillips (2017) presented preliminary findings
indicating that how conformity orientation functions varies based on race/ethnicity. Thus, when
thinking about one of the largest and most well-known bodies of family communication
scholarship, it is possible that the conclusions drawn about conversation and conformity
orientation are limited given the relatively homogenous nature of the research.
on the norms of each group, rather than drawing comparisons between any non-White group and
the typical study sample (Staples & Mirande, 1980). While marriage and family therapists have
been investigating the role of culture for several decades (see Hong, 1989), family
communication scholars have largely ignored the impact of race and ethnicity in families, and
have instead treated all families as similar. Ethnicity and race, are not a choice but rather an
inherent part of the family structure (Sillars, 1995), and should be included in our scholarship
Religion. Scholars have approached religion from a variety of ways such as church
attendance, and extrinsic and intrinsic orientation (e.g., Fife, Nelson, & Messersmith, 2014). Fife
orientation and religious strength, indicating that religious orientation is connected to the way
families communicate. Thus, religion is a prominent factor in some family’s relational culture.
Specifically, as parents try and enforce particular religious values (e.g., Fife et al., 2014) through
communicative behaviors, individuals may try to indicate how their own personal religious
orientation diverges from that of their family (Colaner et al., 2014). Consequently, religion
functions as part of family culture, but also as a point of contention when individuals have to
manage conflicting religious identities. Religion is not the only socio-cultural factor that is
Socioeconomic status (SES). Lucas’ (2011) investigation of the working class promise
clearly identifies one of the ways in which SES may influence the culture of a family.
Specifically, through the stories families pass on it is clear how the value of the working class
promise contradicts their newly attained middle class status. SES status has been linked to
divides in education attainment (Musu-Gillette, 2015), mobile access (Lee & Kim, 2014), and
health care (Hughes & Simpson, 1995), to name a few. Ramdahl, Jensen, Borgund, Samdal, and
Torsheim (2018) found that children who reported higher levels of family wealth, were more
likely to report better parent-child relationships. Amato, Booth, and Johnson (2006), found that
family income was related to measures of marital quality, such that higher income was related to
happier couples, less conflict, fewer problems, decreased chances of divorce, and more
interaction. However, these findings become more complex when we separate out wives’
earnings and hours worked from the overall financial stability of the family, such that working
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wives contribute to greater strain on the marital relationship. Finally, T. R. Wang (2016) argues
that SES shapes the type of conversations parents have with their children, specifically about
considered in inquiries into family culture and family functioning (e.g., how families intersect
with social institutions: Socha & Stamp, 2009). What is important is recognizing that
understanding family culture and consequently situating family communication within a larger
Relational Ideology
As Sillars (1995) points out, the value framework of families is integral to understanding
family functioning. In fact, aspects of family values are reflected in the family communication
patterns and processes (e.g., openness in the family) and, as we emphasize, influenced by socio-
cultural considerations. We recognize that relational ideologies are constituted within the family;
however, given the value that families place on these constructs, we argue that centrality of
Centrality of family. Sillars (1995) proposed the term “centrality of family” to indicate a
focus on the family, and noted that family centrality is often associated with various ethnic
minorities in the US; however, that does not preclude it from being an important ideological
component of other families, nor does it mean that all ethnic minority families must hold
centrality of family as a foundational value. Part of family centrality is the overall cohesiveness
of the family, such as a focus on we language instead of I language. Families who use more
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individualistic tendency. Rather what is important is the role that centrality of family plays in
relational and individual outcomes and the way in which centrality of family interacts with
family identification, as individuals may not identify with their family, but may feel such a
associated with some type of familial hierarchy and adherence to a prescribed set of beliefs and
values (Caughlin, 2003; Fitzpatrick & Ritchie, 1994; Ritchie & Fitzpatrick, 1990). Moreover,
they are frequently viewed as having a negative effect on relationships and individual well-being
outcomes (Schrodt et al., 2007). Families adhere to specific roles and beliefs, yet this underlying
ideology may produce different outcomes depending on the family. Rather than assuming that
families only conform to discriminatory beliefs (see Odenweller & Harris, 2018), when we
consider hierarchy as a value that is important to families, we can take a more holistic approach.
For example, if we consider conformity as one way in which families instill a sense of hierarchy,
then it makes sense to investigate a curvilinear function (Phillips, Ledbetter, Soliz, & Bergquist,
2018), differences based on racial/ethnic groups (Allen & Chaffee, 1977; Soliz & Phillips, 2018),
and how it is reconceptualized to better capture these nuances (Hesse et al., 2017; Hortsman et
al., 2018). When hierarchy, or this adherence to a set of values and beliefs dictated by parental
authority, is thought of as an ideological component that families value and endorse, it opens the
door for a broader and more complete understanding of the ways in which this family value
influences relationships.
(see Scharp & Dorrance Hall, 2019). However, when we think about families as having a
particular ideology that contributes to their functioning, then we can view closeness as a value
that families hold. Is being close important to them as a whole? Do they prioritize family
closeness? Individuals may discuss estrangement as a negative aspect of their relationship, as one
is always connected to his/her family, or individuals may extol the values that should be
associated with family and distance themselves from individuals who do not meet those
standards (Scharp & Thomas, 2016). Adams, Anderson, and Adonu (2004) argue that the
experience of closeness is often framed “as a secondary product, not necessarily in the sense of
less values, but in the sense of derived or manufactured” (p. 322). In other words, that closeness
or intimacy is considered to be something that results from something else. Research often views
closeness and intimacy as disclosure driven, yet this happens at the expense of socio-cultural
factors (Adams et al., 2004). Thus, by thinking about closeness as a function of family ideology,
As illustrated throughout, there are multiple ways in which family culture has been
conceptualized and studied; however, these approaches have yet to be integrated into a more
comprehensive framework of family culture, and in many cases only consider communicative
aspects. The differences across these approaches lies in how family culture is conceptualized,
whether as a patterned or stable interaction (Caughlin, 2003; Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002), or as
story content or process (Koenig Kellas, 2005; Langellier & Peterson, 2006a; Stone, 2004). Each
approach adds something different to researchers’ understanding of family culture and how to
position it as a larger theoretical model. There are also pragmatic implications of conducting
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research that investigates family components such as family ideology and race/ethnicity, in that
by ignoring these factors researchers may be missing out on important dynamics that could
influence how families negotiate which communicative practices are “normal”. For example,
Soliz and Phillips (2017) noted in their essay on family communication and race/ethnicity that
initial findings indicate that the way in which family communication patterns functions varies
based on racial/ethnic background. Such that within Black families conformity orientation serves
a positive role for some individual and relational outcomes. Thus, research that considers these
additional factors may be particularly important for translational work, as scholars and clinicians
The goal of this project was to summarize several prominent areas of family
communication research, and present a more expansive framework of family culture from which
scholars can position their work. Specifically, by integrating communication processes and
relational ideology within the context of sociocultural factors, researchers have the opportunity
to account for differences in how people do family that moves beyond the stereotypical White
aspects of family culture, researchers can begin to understand how the various components of
family culture work together. Family culture is largely presumed to be a salient component of the
development of individuals, and may be predictive of not only the longevity and quality of
family relationships, but also the extent to which children are able and want to bring new
Based on these factors, we believe there are various directions for integrating this
framework of family culture into family communication scholarship. Researchers should assess
the manner in which the communication process dimensions are associated with individual and
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relational outcomes (e.g., relational trajectories, family satisfaction, life satisfaction, and self-
worth). These inquiries should also consider variations based on race-ethnicity, SES, and
religion, to name just a few of the sociocultural features that influence families. Second, scholars
should continue to investigate the role of family identification (see Phillips et al., 2018,
Odenweller & Harris, 2018), as the extent to which one feels part of the family may be just as
important if not more so that the characteristics of family culture in predicting long-term family
outcomes. Fourth, scholars should consider ways to account for the multiplicity of family
members. One way to investigate this sense of shared meaning, is to ask about the extent to
which the individual feels their family members would answer similarly to them. Although this
is no replacement for soliciting data from multiple family members, it is one way to address how
individuals and their family members may perceive these constructs differently.
cohesive framework for studying family communication and collaborating with marriage and
family therapists. Family communication scholars are uniquely qualified to work with
practitioners to develop interventions that can be used to help improve family functioning. The
reason family culture is so integral to this process is because of the ability to determine what
communicative processes are instrumental in different families. For example, closeness is often
considered a positive outcome in families, and something that should be strived for; however,
ideology (see Sillars, 1995). In other words, families do not necessarily become closer over time;
rather families may value closeness to a certain degree. If closeness within the family is not
particularly valued, then trying to make a family closer may be counterproductive to helping the
family function.
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Ultimately, by situating research within the larger framework of family culture, family
scholars have the opportunity to start larger discussions about the way in which research can be
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