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I learnt that your country is such a beautiful and large place with different
culture and creativity
That the people over there are so nice, sincere, honest and truthful also good in
business productivity. Am i right?
How is your day and how is the weather condition over there ?
Nice to know about your weather condition over there, the world is wonderfully made
by God
I came across your profile and i found you attractive and interesting to be friend
with me
I hope you are not offended for banging into your privacy ? We can be good friends
if you don't mind okay
How long have you been using this site and what are your expereince here ?
However, i wanna know if you have encountered chat with any U.S Army or General on
here before ?
Because am aware a lot of U.S Army are on here since is one of the fastest means of
communication they have in where they have been assigned to for service
I have even gotten several request from few since i join facebook so i thought you
might also have experience the same thing
How is the situation of things over there in regards to the economic standard and
security?
Life is precious and I think nation's economy grows as a result of good government
and understanding of the people. What do you think?
Am just new here and I saw your profile and add you so we can be friends, know
more about each other okay
I enjoyed being a married man but didn't have much time to enjoy my marriage before
my wife and I got divorced, i have a son of 14 years old
However, am looking forward to a better life in the future if God will bring me my
desire woman that we will both love and cherish each other forever
Life is full of joy and great honor when our expectations come through
My son is studying in the boarding schoool in London. His class Teacher look and
care after him till my Mission here is over
I see family life important because everyone needs to establish a home and have
lovely children
So what do you do for a living to overcome the economical expenses and for your
kids ?
We can share ideas and discuss issues as we talk more about ourselves and as time
goes on there may be something great for us in the future. What do you say?
Although we just met, with the step of trust and willingness to begin this
friendship okay
I believe you are so much concern about the U.S Army and i really do appreciate for
being nice and sincere. With the step of trust and willingness to begin this
friendship okay
It will be very nice of you leaving me with your email address so that i can used
in texting you when we both are busy because i often use the app for communication
okay
Can we try a text message i will want to send an email to your mail box now please
if you receieves it type yes as a reply to me.
Ok i just sent you an email to your mail box please type a yes back to me.
Please if you don't mind, can I ask you for few of your photos. I hope you don't
mind sending me about 2 of your photos ?
Wow
You are looking younger than your age my dear. You are so beautiful and charming,
you look like 25 years old. what's the secret of your beauty ?
Am still watching your photos because I like your style of dressing and to be
sincere, your beauty has captivated my soul and your charming eyes has captured my
heart. In a nutshell, you actually look amazing and my head is going whiskey right
lol
We seem to have an interesting conversation and I hope for our communication to
lead to a fruitful end, don't you wish so too?
What are your hobbies, interest, life style, religion and your plans for life in
the future ?
Well, my hobbies are swimming, watching TV, listening to music, country songs to be
precised, going to beach and traveling. I also love to play golf, I am a Roman
Catholic Christian by Religion
My plans for life in the future is to find a good and honest woman like you dear,
that we can both love and cherish each other and then settled down with a
profitable business as soon as my contract is over here
Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have maintained a
successful relationship for many years ?
Good communication is very much a part of it but also acceptance of each others
faults and looking beyond them with much love
I haven't had all that many previous relationships. But I have learned a few things
along the way. Take your time and get to know one another.
Listen carefully. Don't make assumptions. Words can wound, use them carefully.
Words are important, actions are more important and more revealing of a person's
heart and character. Meet each other's friends
Trust is essential, We are all individuals and we are all different. Communication
is key to building, maintaining a healthy relationship. Good communication can be
hard work. The Lord has to be at the center of the relationship
What is the one dream for your life you most look forward to having come through?
I want just to continue waking up everyday with a big smile, and everyday being
helpful to at least one person and a hindrance to no one
nice and honest chat with me, I really do enjoy your accompany, however nice to
meet you once again, we will chat some more better time again
Am going to send you an email later, tell you more about myself also with some of
my photos and my son
And i want you to get back to me as soon as you read my email Okay ?
Alright dear, it was really nice chatting with you and once more, it's absolutely
my pleasure to chat with you
It's such a good feeling to realize that I have you in my life and am pleased as we
chat with each other again
I just wish we are together right now, having this conversation face to face but
never the less, it's just a matter of time for us to find out if we are compatible
with each other. So how is the weather condition there?
FRIENDSHIP FMT
I have been thinking about you since yesterday, we are like a miracle to each other
and I must confess that I really enjoyed our mutual correspondence yesterday and
the way you expressed yourself to me.
We have left the past behind us and I think all we need to do is to focus on the
future because I believe that the future is more important than the past, do you
think the same?
I understand all that you have told me about yourself and I promise not to go
against your views about life, I have found so much joy in our mutual
correspondence
Am really glad that I met you, am not here for endless online conversations because
I will like to meet you as soon as i my contract here is oveer. Don't you wish to
meet with me someday ?
My priority in life is to settle down with the right woman and share wonderful
moments together and forever.
If you guarantee me this things then I believe that we'll be happy together and
forever like the best couple in the world
I still don't forget your beautiful face since I saw your photos you send to me.
Your photo is in my head
The truth is that, it's difficult to find the right one this days especially with
the case of men who are single searching for a woman.
Most woman this days are not faithful i mean the young ones who don't know more
about a marriage life.
Am really searching for a matured God fearing woman, caring, faithful, trusted and
honest lady who will be my wife and a mother to my lovely son Harry
What about you, what kind of a man will you love to meet?
It's will be easy to fine men who are honest and caring this days because most men
are searching for the perfect woman to marry but in the other hand am searching for
the imperfect woman to love and care for perfectly.
Am filled of jealousy,i will not love to see wife hanging around with another man.
Although people do say jealousy does not matter in a relationship but i see it to
as my first point because it makes me secure my relationship and family
I have travelled to over 15 countries in the world whice are Canada, Brazil,
France, Isreal,Western African, Germany, United kingdom, Afghanistan, Poland,
Italy, Pakistan, Poland, Greece, Denmark and Damascus of Syria
here is :______________
Am ahead of you.
Yes i love white and red roses. i have a rose garden in the USA it's a beautiful
one
Yes i have 2 beautiful castle in USA with swimming pool and wide foot ball fied
How do you feel all this years leaving without a man in your life?
I feel empty, i think love is dead, never have feelings for love since i got
divorced with my wife, until i saw two Birds one week ago caring for themselfs,
then i realize love is all about life
Which i can meet the woman of my life now so i give her my heart, soul and whole
body
Am ready to spend my whole life with my woman in any part of the world.
I have never been in any because i have been so busy with my work and my son Harry
I will love to see you here on Cam but it's highly risky here. I was warned by the
Commanding General here
Calls are not allowed here due to security reasons, It's against the Military
Protocols for any Army to use Webcam in War Zone since Captain Kelvin Robert Bruce
was killed during Webcam chat with his wife 2012.
Therefore all our Webcam has been disconnected by the UNSA (United Nation security
Agency)
The only call access we have here are Land line and Radio message communication
which is for our Major General use only and is being monitored
Here is a link of what happened during a Webcam call in the War Zone in Afghanistan
https://edition.cnn.com/2012/05/05/us/afghanistan-skype-death/index.html?no-
st=1527053550
I have good web camera here,but it's block,i can only see you but you will not be
able to see me.
But i assure you that you will see me as soon i travel to the city of Damascus some
of this days okay
I see you are a good and honest woman who is ready to settle and love the man of
your life with your whole heart.
If i give you my heart will you play and dance with it?
I see love as a place were we share one thought, have good communication, move slow
and fast holding our hands thight together
Love is not love until one heart is ready to love, trust being honest to give and
accept without no doubt
RELATIONSHIP FMT
I have developed the habit of thinking about you, so how has your day been? I hope
all is well?
You have now become a great part of my life, my heart is glad to have you and my
soul rejoices too
There are a lot of favorable and comfortable jobs in america but like i said
before, I will to build a hospital in America as soon as my Mission here is over
And I intend to run it with my wife. As destiny may have it, if you become my wife,
I hope you will be delighted to take the reponsibilty to run the hospital with me?
Do you have any nursing or hospitality experience?
As for me, I also healthy and fit. I like listening to music, although am not a
good dancer but I like dancing when am happy. How about you?
I see! if I'm not mistaken, i think we have almost the same interest, it's such a
great feeling and I believe that by sharing all these features in commom we will be
able to understand each others feelings and respect each others decision
I really miss you, I had a busy day, but the thought of you has helped me to calm
down
I see! I wish I'm there with you right now, how is the weather there today?
And I will be proud of you as my wife, if everything eventually works out with the
wishes and efforts of both our hearts
I have a question to ask you and I want you to be sincere with me. Have you ever
thought of our future?
So now, am asking you, what do you think about our future together?
The feelings I have for you is not just ordinary, am old enough to realize that
I've developed a very special and unique feelings towards you both when I think of
you and when I chat with you
You are precious to my heart, you deserve never to be hurt, you deserve all the
good things of life and you deserve to be treated by a nice man who will give you
full respect as his wife, My heart desires your presence so much
Even when am busy, I still think of you and I pray for the angels to guide you
always
I promise to always make you happy and contented with my love, My desire is to high
to be with you and take care of you
Destiny has brought us together, I promise to love, honor and cherish you for the
rest of my life
All I need from you is your prayers and best wishes for me while am still here in
the War Zone okay
Love means making the other happy, even from a distance. Don't measure the
distance; measure my love. Distance does not matter if two hearts are loyal to one
another.
Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle rather a great reminder of just how
strong true love can be.No matter the distance between our hearts, To truly love
something, If it survives, it is going to be stronger than ever. Distance is pure
proof of this, It's not the distance that counts, it's the love.Love knows no
boundaries, no distance, no fear. What captures is the God's love that will
eternally melt hearts together to stay, fused and sealed forever as one. Love has
its way and new life has begun.
contrary to what the cynics say, distance is not for the fearful, it is for the
bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for a
little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they
see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough If someone truly loves you,
distance is not a problem. It's just the power of making love grow each day.
The distance between us is only as far apart as our hearts will let it be.. So, to
me there is no distance, for we share each others' hearts, from mine to yours and
from yours to mine.There is no long distance about love, it always finds a way to
bring hearts together no matter how many miles there are between them.
True love does not worry about the distance between, for the heart and soul travels
through one's words Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what
matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.If it is
really love, you can see yourself standing in their eyes, part of the abstinence
that is worth dying for..
If you long for that recognition that will not part by distance, in time your dream
will be replied. Distance is just a test to see how far love can travel. Distance,
it is a test of love, many will fail, but for those who can withstand it have the
answer: true love. All quality items must be tested to ensure promised high
standards for the customers
Since you came into my life, I have been very happy, I think about you all the
time, i want to be with you soon and forever.
your words really touch me and I feel so worried that you are lonely there. I
cannot wait for us to be together forever, so that i can take good care of you. all
i want is your love, I promise that I will not break your heart if you give your
love to me. do you also promise not to break my heart if I give my love to you?
Am short of words and I feel like a teenager now falling in love again. I promise
to protect you, cherish you, take good care of you, honor you, love you forever and
to always give you the attention that you deserve for the rest of our lives.
I strongly beleive that I have found the best and most wonderful darling in the
whole wide world. You have really touched my life in so many ways because you
brought back joy into my heart. I will never treat you wrong and give all the
things that you deserve in life.
Before now, my son Harry was the gratest part of my life, but now it's so amazing
that you are also a greater part of my life. Am overwhelmed with joy and these days
my colleagues have also noticed the recent happiness all over me. A million words
is too small to express the how greatful I am to God for putting you in my life. I
pray to him to also unite us as husband and wife, am willing to share my joy,
happiness and future with you
You are the star that brightens my life, your care and good thoughts for me warms
my heart
I have become fond of thinking about you all the time, you have captured every bit
of my love towards you and I want to be with you forever
Even though we are apart but our heart and soul is very close to each other.
I can no longer live without thinking of you, I believe our love will last forever
because you are my heart and my soul, you are my rain and sunshine
I want to know the scent of your hair and I can't wait for us to go shopping
together
Your love is my strenght. I want to know the taste of your kiss, I want to hug and
kiss you gently and passionately.
I think of so many good and happy moments that we will spend together in the future
and it makes me happy. I have so much comfort in you
I want to drink coffee with you, I want to hold your hand and walk by the beach
with you.
I want to sleep next to you as I want to always cover you with my arms and then
wake up beside you every morning to give you a morning kiss and look into your
charming eyes
Nothing can be compared to you because my heart treasures you more than anything.
I miss you every second, every minute and every hour and every day, you are
precious to my heart, I love you.
The bond we share is very strong, I cannot wait to be with you for the rest of my
life
You posses all the true qualities I seek in a woman, am proud to have you in my
life
Nothing can come in between us because the bond that we share is strong and am
giving you my word that I will always love, cherish, respect and protect you.
Thank you so much and nothing will ever stop me from being with you, I accept you
children into my heart and promise to give them equal treatment that i give to my
son
Even if we loose everything we own but there's something we won't lose... We won't
loose each other because we were made for each other, I will always be there for
you because your joy and happiness matters most to me.
our relationship was sweet when it was new, it was sweeter when it was true and now
it's the sweetest as we love each other
Even if I decide to search all over again, I know I will never find anyone as
precious as you are
As we grow older together, as we continue to change with age, there is one thing
that will never change. I will always keep falling in love with you my sweetheart!
I will be the man that will love you and cherish you forever, I will be the man
that will bring joy into your life, I will be the man that will wipe away your
tears and sorrow from your life
And show you the beauty about life, I will be the man to love you till end of time
and I'll be the man to honor and protect you. Above all, I'll be the only man that
will love for whom you're forever.
when it come to my thoughts about our future, I see a very bright and woderful
couple in us. Our respect for each other matters a lot but I know that everything
will be fine between us.
I have in mind to visit Italy, Scotland, and switzerland some day in the future and
I would definitely wish you to be with me all along. You're currently the reason
that I will be in spain and I really feel good about it.
[10/22, 6:30 AM] Gatus: Actually there is this whole thing going on in my mind
since we met.
Love at first sight is not just with the physical hope you know that?
Am telling you this because i have study you just for few time we have being
chatting, your Character is what i admired and likes so much,You look Honest and
straight forward and that is what i like. remember what i told you the other
day when we were talking about the quality that your partner should possess
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my dear.
The sweet nothings, the late-night talks, and the little memories have taken over
my heart and soul. I can't wait to create more with you. C
You have really touched my heart with your actions, your thought keeps on coming
my heart that won't let me have a break
I
I think i like you , let me not talk about love for now, but from here we will get
to that I want you to believe every word am saying to you today, and i mean it from
the dept of my heart I want you to tell me your view and what you feel Can you
accept me to be your hero?
Don't bother about the distance for now, the relationship is what i want us to
build first before we can start talking on how we will meet later if it all goes
well for us
Just talking to you makes me smile. Thinking about you pauses my world for a while.
Dreaming about you gives me sleepless nights. dear, I like you with all my heart’s
might.
I went to the doctor because my heart was beating in a way that was weird and
funny. The doctor told me that there was no need for any medicine and no cause for
worry. All he asked me to do was stop pretending and be true – which is why today I
confess that I like you.
[10/22, 6:31 AM] Gatus: What do you do for fun? (Optional)......I enjoy slow or
fast dancing, walking in the woods holding, hands, candlelite dinners, travel,
shopping and watching movies, and playing romantic piano for that special person...
What your favorite local hot spots or travel destinations? (Optional)...I love any
restaurant that serve good healthy foods and where a very good band is playing. I
love resturants with romantic settings where we can look into each others eyes and
feel that special connection. I also love candlelite romantic dinners.
What your favorite things? (Optional).......I like healthy foods such as a good
seafood salad I love the color Blue. I like to snuggle when it rains or read a good
book, shopping at a large mall, reading any of the self-help books, listening to
romantic music or 60's music, and exercising.
What's the last thing you read? (Optional)......I am currently reading a dozen or
so self help books on success, motivation, relationships, financial security and
positive thinking.
What is your own definition of true love?...... True love to me is the kind of love
God gives....UNCONDITIONAL love. It's a love that is undescribable with words yet
is felt deep within the heart. It's when you can't stop thinking of the other
person and you are excited to get home to them after a long days work or you desire
to just say hello through a text or phone call just because they are on your mind.
It's a precious thing that way too many people take advantage of and something
everyone should have at least once in their lives.
What kind of Woman are you looking for? I am looking for a man who can laugh, be
playful and light hearted, one who is motivated and ambitious, intelligent, and
self confident. I enjoymeaningful conversation in addition to plain old good fun.
I'm basically a very positive person who also loves humor and laughter and would
like someone with an adventurous spirit who can see the funny side of life,someone
who is open and willing to learn new things. I like to share things I learn and am
open to learning new things as well. I have a passion for music and a curiosity for
life. To find a man who loves to dance would be a miracle, but not impossible I
believe, even if rare, but definitely a bonus, but not a requirement! lol I also
love a man who knows how to treat a woman like a baby and a baby like a woman.
Romance and passion are important as well. Like everyone I talk to I want the who
enchalata, including chemistry. I have learned though that chemistry
is not everything and not the only component for building a strong relationship. A
picture is worth a thousand words yet can still tell you nothing. Lastly beauty is
in the eye of the beholder, and I would say I have more on the inside thanthe
outside. LOL No one is perfect including myself but I suppose if you don't put it
out there and risk, you'll never know. However I am realistic and I am by far not
perfect.
I sing and I play several instruments,I play guitar, French horn,trumpet, oboe,
and a little piano would love to learn
Where will you love to spend your honeymoon incase you find the right
woman?.......I've always dreamed of going to a tropic island for a couple of weeks.
We would stay in a romantic bungalo. Windows open, there would be lace curtains
blowing in a light breeze along with warmth coming from the sunshine shining thru
the lace. Although this would be heaven on earth, I'd be in heaven just being with
the man God intended me to go thru life's journey with.
Can you take my kid as yours if we are meant to be together? I love kids & I treat
all kids as if they are my own... I favor none but give my love & support to them &
try to be the godly woman I am supposed to be.
Can you tell me more about yourself when you were a little boy? As far back as I
can remember I've always cared for people and had a big heart. I cared for people
even after they hurt me.
What do you like to do? I love being in the great outdoors seeing the natural
beauty God has given to us that others take advantage of. I love snuggling with the
one I love while watching a movie. I enjoy meeting others & making a difference in
the lives of those around me. I recently found out that some special people in my
life really look up to me & the feeling of that is AMAZING!
What is your favorite movies ? I have a few favorite movies. My all time favorite
is "City of Angels" it's a movie where a man sacrificed his life as an angel to
experience what it was like to love the woman he was drawn to. I also love
Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in Seattle,Grease, Never been kissed, anything
with Reese Witherspoon. I like romantic comedies, action movies, Romantic, & ones
based on a true story like Titanic, & Pearl Harbor. There are really sooo many that
I like, I can't really name them all.
What is in your opinion the most romantic movie you've seen to date?.Sleepless in
Seattle
What is your favorite book? I like James Patterson Sail! Love his novels! but My
favorite book is the Bible!!! It's got the greatest stories ever told as well as
words from our heavenly father..
Are you a romantic type? I'm a helpless romantic... I love being with my man and
doing little things for him to put a smile on his face.I enjoy surprising him and
doing my part to making his dreams come true.
What makes you smile? That's easy!!! What makes me smile is seeing those I love
smiling & knowing I put that smile on their faces. :-)
Do you cry alot and what make you cry? I do have a tendency to cry easily but not
always are my tears sad ones.... I cry also when I'm happy & surprised. I don't
like to cry in front of others so am embarrassed when I do.
What is your favorite music? I have a few favorite movies. My all time favorite is
"City of Angels" it's a movie where a man sacrificed his life as an angel to
experience what it was like to love the woman he was drawn to. I also love
Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in Seattle,Grease, Never been kissed, anything
with Reese Witherspoon. I like romantic comedies, action movies, Romantic, & ones
based on a true story like Titanic, & Pearl Harbor. There are really sooo many that
I like, I can't really name them all.
What is your idea of a romantic getaway? Romance can be found anywhere there's a
romantic guy.. *smiles*
What is your idea of a perfect first date? A walk along the waterfront or beach...
great time to talk & get to
know each other.
What is your ideal date ? Oh wow.... there are sooo many scenarios I could mention
here & each depends on where the friendship/relationship was as to the idealness of
it. I like romance either way so anything where we would have a little privacy to
talk & stare into each others eyes. ;-)
Are you a God fearing man?. VERY much so!!! I love God with all my heart & trust
in HIM to comfort me & guide me. Only he knows what he has in store for us. How
often do you go to church? Haven't gone much in the last few years as I've had
major health issues to deal with. In this case,God has come to where I am spoken
to my heart about different situations. I totally believe in going to church &
fellowshiping however, I don't believe that a person NEEDS to goto church to be a
christian as going into a chicken house doesn't make you a chicken. *wink*
What do you like and dislike? I don't like cheaters, liars,thiefs, or shallow
people. Other than that, I'm a person that likes pretty much everything.... I'm
VERY easy going.
What make you very happy? When my loved one is happy & when I have a man who treats
me like a princess. hehe
What kind of sport do you like best? I like Football!!! I also like shooting
baskets, playing volleyball, & a few others... I've been to a St. Louis Cardinals
baseball game also... it was fun!
Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your feelings? I'm a
person who would rather express my feelings as I know it's not good to keep them
locked up. It's important to express to others that you care for them & are there
to support & encourage. I LOVE sharing sweet moments with the man I love... it
makes my heart happy!
What's the top thing on your Christmas list? GO TO VACATION WITH A PATHNER
What is your favorite season of the year? SPRING WHEN FLOWERS GROW
Do you have any hobbies? I like Writing, I Like the Beach but havent Gotten Chance
to Visit anyone here since I am always working
Have you forgiven all the past relationship and those that have offended you or
hurt you in the past? YES.... IT ONLY HURT ONESELF TO KEEP BAD EXPERIENCE,IT'S A
SMALL WORLD
Where is one place you did like to vist that you haven't gotten the oppourtunity to
see???? AUSTRALLIA,ITLAY
Tell me the most memorable moment of you life and tell me the saddest times of your
life to (if you would love to share). WHEN I FIRST GOT MARRIED AND WHEN I LOST MY
MAN AND DAD AND SIBLINGS IN THE AUTO CRASH
What will be the your ideal first date with the man of your dream? HANGING OUT
TOGETHER IN A QUITE AND SMALL COZY COFFEE SHOP HAVING A LOVELY CHAT AND LOOKING
INTO EACH OTHER EYES
What's would you like to do when its raining outside with that special woman for
you. CUDDLING WHEN I HAVE A PATHNER INSIDE
Are any good at holding hands, or hugging?? I AM ... TOO BAD HAVEN'T
HAD ANYONE TO DO THAT FOR LONG TIME NOW
How do you spend your holidays? Free time? LIKE TO GO OUT FOR
VACATION,I DEVOTE MY FREE TIME WRITING AND WORKING IN THE GARDEN
Do you frequently have unfinished task and don't get back to them? I
DON'T THINK SO,I LIKE TO DO ALL I GOTTA DONE
Are you at ease in a crowd?I AM COMFORTABLE ANYWHERE BUT I LIKE MY PRIVACY ALSO
Do you ofter plan your day ahead?YES ,I TIME MYSELF FOR EVERYTHING
What makes you laugh? ANYTHING THAT MAKES THE PERSON NEXT TO ME LAUGH
Do you hurry to complete a job? NO... TAKE THE RIGHT AND NORMAL PROCEDURE
Do you watch the tea pot or sometimes forget it's one the burner?
HAHHAHAA DON'T THINK SO
If you don't like someone do you tell other why?YES I WILL,I AM FREE
WITH MYSELF
If you run into a person whom has hurt your feeling or harmed you, do
you act like you didn't see them or confront them head on? I FORGIVE
AND FORGET EASILY... I AM PRETTY SIMPLE
Honey i will be going for shopping today to shop for my self on the things i will
need before going for my contract job, i love you so much darlng , you are the
best
When i went for shopping today honey , i Took my time to shop for you too honey , i
pick some things for you and i know you will love it honey ,
its a surprise Gift from me to you honey and i promise you , you will love them
darling when yo se them ,
all you need to do honey is for you to send me, YOUR ADDRESS, FULL NAME, AND YOUR
MOBILE NUMBER, so that i can be able to send this surprise gift to you honey , i
love you so much and i promise i will always do my best to make you happy forever
darling
thanks for accepting my friend request here on instagram,I am new here on instagram
and would love to be your friend
sorry am new here, I was lonely and needed to talk too some one to wipe off my
idleness so I decided to search here on instagram and on the process of my
searching I came acrossyour profile so i decide to add you and say hello and I was
surprised when you respond back hope you are not angry about this?
Wow you have a very lovely name,are you married and do you have kids?
okay, i lost my parents when i was 10 years old, but i don't want to talk about
that now , maybe some other time ,
thanks but life has to move on with me since i have mourned her 25 years now
i am from hong kong, but work and live in the San Antonio USA, I am a petrol
chemical Engineer, i deal with the drilling of oil and Gas sector
when i am online this is what i do: I am Responsible for day to day activities in
regards to answering/gathering information/questiona from the internet and also
doing some paper work try to also get new ideal from the internet and also seek
some contract job from cleint abroad
The world is wonderfully made, i will like to know about the weather condition over
there in your country?
How`s the situation of things over there in regards to the economic standard and
security?
we are not allowed to make video or vioce call here in the office , and when we are
in the Sea working too, because it my cause a danger that will take alot of lifes,
and i hope you understand what i mean
But i can send you my photo if only you can promise to keep it safe and lovely.
Although we just got to know each other,Well I will appreciate us being good
friends in sincerity,honesty and trust. to share ideas and discuss about more
issues as we talk more about ourselves, and i believe as time goes on there may be
something great for us in the future,What do you think?
you are my first and only friend,i would like our friendship to be base on
truth,trust believe and honesty.
Honey,you are so far and yet so close. You are many miles and so many moons away
and I get lonely just thinking of the distance between us, yet in my heart you are
just a bit away. When I feel blue, I picture you with me on a moon-lit night
holding hands and planning our great future together.
Thanks for accepting me as your friend and you are indeed welcome to my world of
friendship, you happens to be my first and only female friend here on instagram and
i am so glad chatting with you.
What are your Hobbies,Religious beliefs and Plans for the future...?
I am 170cm, black hair, brown eyes.,and 75kg.I am very loving, caring, and very
honest.i love to read, dance, watch comedy movies, play music, like country music
and most of all cooking.
yes dear..I enjoy going to the beach,love the ocean and mountain view Enjoy some
Travel and weekend trips.Movies and dinners with a nice glass of wine.Going to
concerts or comedy club and more. Clouding at home to a good movie,I also like to
go to the races as well. walks in a nice park followed by a picnic.
You happen to be my first friend on instagram and i am very happy chatting you here
please let me have your wechat/email address/whatsApp so that i can always write
you from time to time. because i don't think i will be able to access my instagram
everyday due to the nature of my job
I am so happy chatting with you and now that we are friend i would love to tell you
a joke and i do hope you will like it !
thanks for answering these questions and i am so glad that i know some things about
you now.
Let me tell you thing about me
I have no brother and i have no sister. my only brothers and sisters were the
orphans in the orphanage home.
I try to overcome difficulties, because I can't go to a good school because my
parents are dead. I was denied by my relatives. I cried all day and night praying
to God .
I miss my mother and my father so much. they always appear in my dreams to comfort
me, encouraged me to be strong. I can see the tears in my mother's eyes every time
they seem to appear to me in my dream. .
I had to struggle so hard. I walked through hell trying to survive as a young man
Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness..... No matter how much
you love someone if you don't have these ingredients you will never succeed
.
To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her. first,
You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing
that will never fade until you die, your heart.
Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart. Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you
hold on to.
Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is
what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they
need some help Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is
special, think that you are always there for him, to be with him, to make him
realize how much you really love him....
Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. Love is
a wonderful gift, trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to
you to give again and again.
You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes
from your heart. it never lies trust it. There may be many people that are
trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart, choose wisely. To
be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows
what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart. Distance cannot,they are on the
inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in
the world. Love is patient.
Love is kind, It does not envy, It does not boast, It is not proud, It is not rude
It is not self-seeking, It is not easily angered, It keeps no record of wrong
doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth.
It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres. Love takes many things. trust, ho
That's good, My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I
will call my wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving
family forever,Life is too short i just wanna be happy again.
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So tell me, How do you normally spend your leisure time?
I enjoy, swimming, and reading, walking on the beach, fishing, camping, scrabbling,
playing checkers and seeing good comedies. I love the outdoors mountain biking,
camping, fishing, horseback riding, outdoor photography, cooking and also spending
some time out with my friends and also with my daughter.I love animals too.
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So tell me do you have pet??
I love pet, Because they are beautiful.I have 2 dogs and a mama cat.
I think we both have somethings in common and i will love to know more about you
hope you don't mind ??
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So tell me where are you originally from?
That's good you have done good for yourself.I do own my home it is a duplex that
has four rooms, swimming pool and a back yard.
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So tell me what do you do for a living?
Unfortunately my both parents are dead too and I am the only child my parents gave
birth to, so you see my daughter is the apple of my eyes and the only close family
I have at the moment.
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So tell me how old are you?Sorry to ask.
I'm 65 But my daughter say i don't look my age lol.But to me age is just a number,
you do not know where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you
or perhaps older than you.
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So tell me are you a God fearing woman?
I'm a keen golfer and I also play Tennis. Golf and Tennis are my favorite Sports to
play, I'm a Big Fan of Tiger Woods and Michael Jordan.. I also watch NBA .. My
Favorite Basketball team is Lakers Of Los Angeles, I also love the Miami Dolpins
too.Jenny enjoy watching Soccer
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My dear, I need to rush to the deck office now, I will talk to you later.
Nice talking to you.God bless your day.I will talk to you later.
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I'm Sitting in my cabin talking to you.My dear It's nice meeting you and i do enjoy
our chat this morning.
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So tell me, How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm
yourself down?
I get mad to start then I calm down as quickly.And I do feel unhappy for that
moment;I go to quite place and listening to a cool music that will calm me down.
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So tell me what turns you off?
Yes that is a good reason to get mad and turned off.As for me Argument, Anything
fake, lies, deceit, cheating, and quarreling turns me off.
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If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
Lol, That's good, As for me i really don't think so I feel like it am okay and I
beleive that.I am who I am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me.
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So tell me what motivates you?
That's good,I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it.
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That's good, Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady is
the person inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with
time but the person inside appreciates with time.
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So tell me what are your likes and dislikes?
Thanks, i don't like cheating and i hate lies I'm a one woman man.
I like Faithfulness,honesty and Trustworthiness and I dislikes dramas, cheating,
lies, unfaithfulness and racist.I Like to listen to good music dance and cuddle
with my woman.....I like honest and truthful people.I love people around me and I
Love God so much because he leads my path and protects me from all evil....I also
love to have a happy family I can go home to.I would be perfect for that one I have
trust and love for you.I Enjoy Surprising people and making people happy.I hope I
can make you happy.
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So tell me who is your mentor ??
That's good, as for me. My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and
understanding dad, who loves and take good care of his family, he always speaks
the truth and he is a self discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he
has for his loved ones, but I do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me,
he was really the best dad in the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the
head that wears the crown, so for you to be successful in life you have to face
some challenges.
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So tell me what do you go for in a man?
That's sounds nice, As for me I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks
for itself over time and for women like you who are family oriented is an added
advantage to me.
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So tell me what is your biggest fear?
That's good,As for me,Taking the roll of a father and mother to my lovely daughter.
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What are the five most important things in your life ??
That;s good, God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything
in return. Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great.
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So tell me what are your favorite movies?
The Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic, Superman
so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list.
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Okay,What brand of music do you like??
Country soft music.I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams,
RocknRoll.
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So tell me what are your favorite TV Shows?
Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris, Ellen De Generes, Oprah,
TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the Kardashians E! Online
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My dear can you Describe the perfect vacation you have had!
I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work
trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like; Spain, Malaysia,
England. while on vacation trip I have been to; Ajax of Netherlands, Switzerland,
Italy, Yugoslavia, Greece, Dublin of Ireland, Bermuda, Paris of France, Rio De
Janeiro of Brazil, and Dubai, Paris, then taking a train throug Then spending 1
month on a Greek Island together with my daughter. I had the time of my life, and
these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.and I would love my next vacation
trip to be with that special someone.
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So tell mell Do you think you can be trusted by your man?
Yes,Yes and Yes I can be trusted by my woman, because I am ready to open up my mind
and my heart and also lay down my life for the woman I love.I'm a one woman man.
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That's good,I think We do have so many things in common.I'm so glad talking to you
right now.
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So tell me, What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their
relationships.??
You are right,Having an argument or not trusting one another.Not understanding one
another and trying to find time and share things with each others.
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I think i'm interested in you and i want us to keep this conversation on and see
where it lead us to, i know God has plans for the both of us.
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Thanks
So tell me, If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
Lol..As for me, that would be the power of Clark Kent also known as superman, I
wanna be the one to save the day for the woman i love. lol
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My dear, I need to get some paperwork done and i will talk to you tomorrow.
Okay.Good night and God bless you.
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Oh that's good, Today is going to be another busy day for me, I have to work with
the boys at the work field. You know my job is a very busy one.I can't wait to get
this contract done and get retired.So I will be able to see you.
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So tell me, What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships
that will help you succeed in future relationships ??
Yes that is why I am here on online dating so that I can find a woman from another
country I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.
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So tell me the most important things you pray for in your life?
My daughter happiness and me having a complete family is the most important thing
I pray for in my life.
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So tell me some things you like doing most?
My dear,I Like to listen to good music dance and cuddle with my woman.....I like
honest and truthful people.
I love people around me and I Love God so much because he leads my path and
protects me from all evil....I also love to have a happy family I can go home to.I
Enjoy Surprising people and making people happy.
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So tell me one special place you would like to take me to when I come to you?
We would go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us....Tahiti is the
largest island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the
archipelago of the Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean.
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So tell me what Are you scared of?
I am scared of been hurt and heart broken. and i am also scared of the dark. but i
think life is an Adventure.
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I'm so comfortable talking to you, I think we both have so many things in common
and I think i'm interested in you and i want us to keep this conversation on and
see where it lead us to, i know God has plans for the both of us.
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So tell me what was your first impression of me? Did you ever dislike me?
Thanks and i promise never to break your heart or let you down,I'm a man of my
words and i know you are woman of your words too..The first Impression i have about
you was wonderful and i believe we were going to be a good match, i never dislike
you for once and i really enjoy getting to know you.
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I sure hope we will be a fantastic team together we will be a good match.
I have enjoyed getting to know you it's been a pleasure. All we just got to do is
to work hands to hands to make it work out and we have to take one step at a time.I
know with time we are going to be used to each other. Thanks for giving me your
precious time once more.
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So tell me What's your favorite memory of me?
Thanks,
Mine is that you have been really sweet the whole time I have talked to you. I
think we would make a great team.I want lots of memory with us hope to make plenty
more.
The way you reply back at my message the things you say print a nice memory in my
heart and if we ever get together i will put all this one day and go through them
again and again.
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With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate through online dating?
As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I
which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided
a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate.
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Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?
For me...Being lonely has really affected me a lot because as humans we all need
someone to lean on in hard times and someone to talk to and share those cheerful
moments with... And my daughter also has not been happy because she miss her mom. I
need a woman who would accept and love my daughter as much as she will accept, love
me and make me happy and I will be so happy if she gives me the chance to do the
same for her as I will love her and lay a good foundation for her kid(s) if any
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Whats Your Favorite color?and why?
My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure heart love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.
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How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?
I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my wife, because going out alone
seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with my daughter
and I will be looking forward to go out with that special Someone someday
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Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?
I had never smoked in my life neither used drink alchohol, and never pretend too,
its not for me. If I drink alcohol, Well I drink socially, if I go out with some
friends and they are drinking something light its okay
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So tell me what is your favorite food?
Yes I can,I drive a blue Ford Explore and i have a poursh car 2016 model.
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What do you spend most of your money on
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My dear, I need to rush to the deck office and i will check on you later
okay,Please take good care of yourself for me and Always remember that there is
someone at here who cares about you so much in his heart.God bless your day, Have a
nice day.
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Hello dear, How are you doing over there and how is your day going ??
That's good,
Mine was very busy, But am okay I'm just thinking about you.
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So what are you doing now ??
Yes and that's you. You are the only person whom I am sharing my feelings with.
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Do you have a favorite musician in particular?
hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice who inspires me in terms of music for that he is my
number one musician
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So tell me If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do
I can remarry again when she love me and love my Daughter so much that she care
about the family been together as one big family with so much love
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So tell me, If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept
your mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I do
abide to the truth.
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So tell me, In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns
more money than the man
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I dont think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.
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My dear, I want to know what you understand by the word "LOVE" tell me more about
it?
That's good, as for me It's gonna be my grandmother when she was alive. She gave
me her love of cooking and always had a word of encouragement when I needed it.
When my home environment was not safe for me I lived with her and she was my best
friend. She was patient and kind and gentle. I miss her very much.
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My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving birth and
I heard the voice of my daughter crying and then I knew I'm a father with so much
joy in my heart.
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So tell me Your worse moment in life?
Jan 16th. 2010 When I donated my Kidney to my Wife... But she couldn't make it
through alive
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Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner
Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.
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I want to know,"LOVE" never fails..But If it dose, would it be love?
Thanks my dear, As for me You are a true example of Love. In Ephesians 3:17 it
says: That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye being rooted and
grounded in love. Baby, may we always remember that it was through Christ that we
found each other. May we live like that will honor him and show our love for him.
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So tell me, What is your favorite way of spending time with your soul mate?
That's good, As for me, I love Lying down on the couch cuddling and kissing maybe
sharing a glass of wine.. and watching our favorite color. I am a very out door
going person and i like to visit the beach mostly in the evening when it is less
crowded and the water are calm to nature, it show you the beauty of love,
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So tell me Who was the first person you kissed? What were the circumstances.Hope i
didn't upset you with that ??
That's good
As for me,The First Girl I kiss was my late wife and we went out on our third date,
and it happen to in a beach we ended up our date with a long and romantic Kiss.
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So tell me what's the craziest dream you've ever had? What's the most recent dream
you can remember?
I do have a lot of dreams and i believe dreams come true. my recent dream was
holding arms with someone walking on the beach sharing memory and promises. Opp's i
never saw the face of the person but i know it was nice and i really wish my dream
are coming true right now.
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I think so my dear, I just want us to work together and make this work out for the
both of us.
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So tell me are you willing to take a step with me?
Yes i'm willing with all my heart,Cause I no God has something in store for us I
hope me and you together.you are my darling. i don't wanna be alone any more.I just
wanna be happy again and i know wherever my wife is right now, she will be very
happy to see me taking this step.I don't want to be alone any more I want to be
happy with you.I know we are going to be a perfect match together, We do have so
many things in common.
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Thank you so much
I'm so glad talking to you right now.
I am glad to be talking to you I think we can love each other more.
I know God do has plans for the both of us.
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So tell me,Who has been the most important person in your life?
That's good, As for me not to fast but you are making hard for me not to fall for
you now.My dear i think I already did.. you make me dream of better days ahead and
i am sorry to say this. I AM FALLING FOR YOU.
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So tell me, Have you ever talked marriage with another person?
That's good, I like to be remember in one way and that way is making Good Impact in
people life's.
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So tell me What would you do if you had one day left to live?
God's will I will live my last day on earth. Being kind to people. And loving you
and Make things right with God and my Family and then get things ready for God
wills. and maybe i will be able to tell the one i love. I love you the Most..
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I sure hope so I hope you stand with me all the way, Cause I'm going to stand by
you and make you happy for the rest for your life.
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So baby tell me ! What the plan for the first night we met
A room full of Rose flowers... Hot Oil and candles... I will welcome my Queen to
our new World of undying Love and forever happiness, I will lay you on our bed like
a Queen and take off your clothes one by one, and you do the same to me too. And we
start from the Bathroom, we bath each other and make sweet love from the Bathroom
to our room and then continue from where we stop all night long
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My dear i need to get some rest now and i will talk to you in the morning before
going to the work field.Good night and have a wonderful night rest and Dream about
us.Lol.Ok let me leave this with you I love you.