Final Speech Outline
Titile: How much do you know about “Love”?
1. When you wake up in the morning, what's the first thing coming to mind? You may
wonder if that person has woken up or is still sleeping or slept well or not. Then you
open your phone to check whether that person has texted you, if not, you look at the
goodnight message of the two of you with a smile on your face.
I can say that any of us who have had or are in a relationship have done something
like this sometimes or often. I used to be like that too. There was a time when I
wondered why I cared about him so much, more than myself. It turns out that because
it’s love and after experiencing that love, I have understood more about this kind of
relationship, which I have thought simply about.
Today, I’m going to talk about love, things of love that you don't always realize.
First, you will have an insight into the definition of love, then I will explain how it
affects you. Lastly, I will share some ways to have a long-lasting love.
2. Let’s begin with the mean of love.
So, what is love? Honestly, we can not attribute love to a specific definition, but we
can say : Love is more than the often used three words. “ I love you” Love is more
than those sentiments and touchy feelings. Love is not a noun, love is a verb, it is
full of action. Those three word “I love you” in any relationship only have as much
depth and meaning as the attitude to serve the beloved. Love is less about romance,
more about respect . The initial charm in any relationship goes down with time, but
respect for each other’s individuality doesn’t die down with time, which becomes the
foundation for all of our feeling. Love is less about knowing the person and more
about caring and daring for the person. A caring heart brings the best to your
beloved and daring to stand up and accept the person completely regardless of their
faults and short comings, to practice the virtue of forgiveness.
Now that you have known specifically what love is, I will inform you of its affects on
our lives.
Well, love is life. Love always exists in our heart to wait for loving and being loved.
Dr. Debasish Mridha- an accomplished entrepreneur, philanthropist and author says:
“Love is an invisible power that makes you extraordinary and happy”. There is a
link between love and increased levels of dopamine, which is good for your mental
health. When you see love in somebody's eyes for you, all of sudden, the way you
talk, the way you walk, and the way of your being becomes magical and playful and
all your saved up wishes start coming alive. The entire world shines in a much
brighter light, a pink world. You start living not barely existing when you
experience love. You not only feel better emotionally, but also begin to find new
meaning to your life. You are willing to put your beloved in priority, to sacrifice to
bring the best for your lover. Love makes you more mature when teaching you to care
about others and strive for a better future.
After knowing how essential love is to your life, I want to share a couple of ways to
have a long-lasting love. Once they become lovers, every couple will want it to be a
long-term romantic relationship. To do this :
The first and perhaps most important thing is understanding. Everyone has their
own problems, if you have never experienced the other's events, how can you
understand that suffering? So, stand in their position and think, try to put yourself in
the other person's mood and feelings. Because love is not necessarily understood, but
someone who understands you will definitely give you lots of love. Being a
supportive partner can also help you build a lasting bond. It is a success relationship if
you can be there for them both emotionally and physically at any time. Being by their side
even if they were to be rejected by the whole world and to cheer them on during the ups
can be a great way of showing your love. Another thing you may consider is how much
time you make for each other. Since loving each other is the desire to be together, to see
each other, to care for each other, and to enjoy good moments together .
3. Today, I spoke with you about love. And we now know particularly what love is,
its affects on our life and how to keep a long-lasting love. Love is actually a miracle,
which makes people more special than ever because “To the world you may be just
one person, but to one person you may be the world.” So, cherish your current or
future beloved and build a love story as beautiful as a fairy tale.
