ME Notes Bonnington
ME Notes Bonnington
Morality is the idea or sense of right and wrong or good and bad
Morality is often associated with human behavior and conduct. Human
behavior can be seen as acceptable or unacceptable, depending on the
views of the people concerned.
ASPECTS OF MORALITY
Aspects of morality deals with human interactions. They address our
actions, thoughts, ideals and principles. Actions or decisions can be divided
into three moral categories or aspects.
1. MORAL ACTION
Moral action refers to behavior or conduct or character which is regarded
as right or good. They are decisions or actions that are believed to be right
and acceptable.
EXAMPLES
2. IMMORAL ACTION
EXAMPLES
a) Cheating in examination
b) Stealing
c) Telling lies
d) Killing other people
3. AMORAL ACTION
EXAMPLES
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SOURCES OF MORALITY
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These include religion, philosophy etc. most of our principles and standards
of behaviour come from religion and philosophy.
1. CHRISTIANITY
3. ISLAM
The moral code of Islam is based on the sharia law. The law states the
standard of behavior to govern the Muslims on how to live and how
wrongdoers should be punished. The following are strictly forbidden
Gambling, Sex before marriage, Adultery, Stealing Murder etc
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a) KANTIEN ETHICS- (RARU PRINCIPLE)
According to Emmanuel Kant actions are good when people do them for a
good reason. The good of an action does not depend on its results instead it
depends on the intention of the person performing the action.
Immanuel Kant ca me up with four conditions that must be met for any
action to be accepted as a morally good action. The conditions are;
For example, if majority of learners in a class are more alert and get better
results in Maths when they are taught outdoors, then having lessons outside
the classrooms can be seen as good and morally acceptable.
Morality guides the way people in the society behave and interact
with one another- it helps people to see the difference between right
and wrong, good and bad
Morality helps people to make responsible choices and act in a
responsible way
VALUES
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Values are the beliefs and ways of behaving that a person or a group of
people such as a family or a community, consider important to them.
TYPES OF VALUES
1. PERSONAL VALUES
Personal values are ideas, principles or things that a person believes are
important to him or her. E.g. a person may value education and marriage.
2. MORAL VALUES
-Moral values are standards or ides of right and wrong and good and
bad that govern people’s behavior and choices.
Moral values are those principles that people believe to be important
for themselves and for all the people in their community. For example
-justice kindness
Generosity politeness
Cooperation empathy
Respect generosity
Sharing
3. CULTURAL VALUES
4. AESTHETIC VALUES
They are the values that are concerned with beauty and the study of art.
They include the desire for beauty and the conservation of the surrounding
in which people live. People may value things like
- planting trees
- conserving wildlife
- environmental sustainability
2. Values help people to focus on their lives and give their lives a sense
of direction
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- Values help people to concentrate or put more effort on those things or
areas they consider important to them. E.g. a student who values
education will focus his or her effort and time on education and learning
instead of nice time or leisure time.
5. Values influence the decisions people make and the rules tat they set
for themselves, either as individuals or as a society.
The decisions that people make are usually meant to help them achieve
what they want. E.g. a student who wants to pass his/her examinations
may decide to stop participating in sports until after the examinations so
that she can prepare better for the examinations
i) Moral values are one of the things that make us human. We are
able to understand the difference between right and wrong, having
moral values distinguishes us from other animals.
ii) Moral values are important because they influence the way we do
things. Values shape our lives and the way we conduct ourselves.
Whenever we make a moral decision we have to take our moral
values into account.
iii) Values give meaning to the things we do. - e.g. working hard for
the good of the community makes us feel as if we are making an
important contribution to our society and to the nation of
Botswana. This gives us a sense of purpose.
iv) Our moral value allows us to lead a better life and a truly happy
life. We will not be truly happy when we do bad things. We become
truly happy when we do good things that are morally acceptable.
The personal level. Personal moral values are held by individual persons.
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The social level. Social moral values are held by the whole community or
nation
The global level. Global moral values are held by all the nations of the
world
COOPERATIO
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KINDNESS
DECISION MAKING
TYPES OF DECISIONS
They are easy to make- they require less thinking, and their consequences
are usually short lived and not serious, e.g. what to wear
Which novel to read
MAJOR DECISION (COMPLEX)
They are difficult to make- they require more thought and their
consequences are usually serious and longer lasting. E.g. choosing a career
Deciding whether or not to resign from work
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Problem solving skills- involve looking at an undesirable situation and
finding ways of solving or improving the situation
MORAL DILEMMAS
A moral dilemma is a situation where two or more of our moral values are in
conflict
A moral dilemma is a situation in which you are forced to make a choice
between two or more things that are equally balanced.
1. Lye’s Mother and Father are not well. They both need a kidney donor
for them to survive. All the relatives and friends are not compatible
donors. Lye is the only one who is compatible to both of them and is
willing to donate the kidney. He is faced with a moral dilemma
because he loves both his parents and does not know who to save. He
has o choose one and if he chooses one, the other one, would die.
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2. I went with a friend to the shops to buy some sweets. While paying I
saw my friend stealing a pen and putting it in his pocket and the
shopkeeper did not see him. I did not know what to do whether to
report my friend or not.
Conflicting values
3. Mary is a form one student. She has just found out that she is
pregnant. She comes to you seeking for help if she should commit
abortion or drop out of school, she wants both the baby and to
continue with her schooling. What should Mary do?
Conflicting values
Respect for the life of the child
Right to education
When making a decision when faced with a moral dilemma, you must be
able to justify your decision. This means you must be able to give reasons
why you made a particular decision and not the other and why the choice
could not have been avoided
When we justify decisions or give reasons for our decision in a moral
dilemma we should be able to say;
We made a well informed decision
We were aware of the advantages and disadvantages of the decision
that we made
We knew the consequences of our decision
We were aware that we were violating some of our moral values in
favour of one
No one forced us to make the decision. we chose what to do
The following is an example of how you can use the decision making
to solve a problem
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He asks friends, parents and teachers to suggest ways in which he can solve
his problem .he also searches the internet for information on how to study
mathematics
SELF CONCEPT
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CHARACTERISTICS- are the qualities or features that are unique or
special to an individual. They can describe and identify the kind of person
the individual is.
POSITIVE CHARACTERISTICS- are the good things about you. They are
your strengths .they are desirable features or qualities that make you like
yourself and that people admire about you. They are also called virtues.
POSITIVE NEGATIVE
CHARACTERISTICS(virt CHARACTERISTICS
ues)
Honesty Laziness
Kindness Selfishness
Generosity Carelessness
Courage Cowardice
Respectful Stubborn
Patience Dishonesty
Caring Aggressiveness
considerate Cruelty
humble Impatience
understanding Being unfriendly
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Allow us to do our best e.g. a lazy disorganized student cannot study
properly, so he or she will get poor results ,if this student stops being
lazy and becomes more organized, his or her performance will
probably improve
Help us to have a healthy self concept, self doubt will be replaced by
self confidence self belief
Help us to behave in moral ways e.g. you will be less likely to break
family rules and school rules.
Every person is an individual. No two people are exactly the same. Some of
the characteristics that can make us different from others are;
o Our beliefs and values
o Our self concept
o Our physical appearance
o Our abilities
o Our interests
o Our likes and dislikes
o Our ambitions and dreams for the future
1. SELF-ESTEEM
-Self esteem means how valuable or worthy you think you are as an
individual.
- Self esteem is that feeling you have about yourself
A person can have either low or high self esteem
High self esteem
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People who have a high self esteem have a good or positive feeling
about themselves.
Low self esteem
People who have low self esteem have negative feeling about
themselves
Respect yourself for being the unique individual you are- if you trust
and believe yourself you will build your self-esteem and be proud of
the person you are
Rejection- if one does not feel accepted in society one may feel
inferior and will end up having a low self esteem as she will not have
a sense of belonging
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teachers and friends keep on making negative comments about your
abilities or physical appearance, you may feel bad about yourself
Abuse- people who have experienced abuse in their lives will have a
low self-esteem. Abused people often blame themselves for the abuse
and let their abusers make them feel worthless.
High self esteem- someone with high self esteem feels good about
himself or herself. This in turn gives him or her confidence in her
abilities and strengths
A positive attitude- when you have a positive attitude you are not
afraid of facing new challenges. If you do well your self confidence
grows
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Rejection and humiliation- being rejected and humiliated by
important people in one’s life such as parents relatives peers friends
and teachers can make one loose confidence in oneself
SELF ASSERTIVENESS
- is the ability to standup for your rights and express your thoughts and
feelings in a direct and honest way while respecting the feelings and
rights of others
- asking for what you want or speaking up for yourself when you feel
strongly that you have something to say
- is the ability to express our own views opinions and demands
confidently without fear or aggression
- Self confidence- if you are self confident you will not be afraid to
stand up for yourself and say what you think or feel, it allows you to
behave assertively by taking responsibility for your actions
- Low self esteem- people with low self esteem are often afraid of
saying what they think or feel. They do not see themselves as people
worthy of love and respect and so they cannot stand up for their rights
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- Lack of self confidence- if you lack self confidence others can take
advantage of you or control you for their own benefit. you do not trust
and believe in yourself
- Fear- different fears can stop you from being assertive. E.g. fear of
not being liked by others, fear of hurting others and the fear of being
called selfish. you may do something to please others, even if it is
something you did not want to do
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AUTONOMY
- It s the ability to act independently and govern yourself and your own
affairs
- It means to govern oneself or self rule
IMPORTANCE OF AUTONOMY
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c) ASSERTIVENESS
If you are assertive, you can stand up for yourself and make your own
decisions. Therefore you are likely to be autonomous when you are
assertive.
d) GENDER EQUALITY
Women and men should be treated equally and given the same
opportunities in life. This will make women more independent and they
will not have to rely on men to support them.
AUTONOMOUS ACTIONS
1. Nino and Dodo are good friends. They are intelligent and usually score
high marks in school. Their classmates sometimes try to influence them to
neglect their school work and to get involved in sexual relationships. They
usually reject this influence saying that education comes first and that hard
work pays in the end.
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INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
INTERPERSONAL SKILLS
- are the skills that we use to get well along with other people
-are the tactics or abilities that enable us to get on well with others.
-abilities or skills of effective communication
They include the following;
Communication skills-
Conflict resolution skills- conflicts between people happen all the time.
However, It is important to resolve the conflicts so that relationships are
not damaged
Assertiveness skills- assertive action helps people have open and honest
relationships they are likely to respect and understand each other’s needs,
wants and feelings
Courtesy- means being polite
Respect- means having a good opinion of someone and valuing him or her
as a person
Empathy-
Confidentiality e.t.c
INTERPRSONAL RELATIONSHIPS
-an interpersonal relationship is an association or connection between
individuals
- An interaction or link between two or more people
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There are several reasons why interpersonal skills are essential for every
relationship. People with good interpersonal skills;
Know how to relate well with others, so less miscommunication happens
Understand the needs of others
Know how to approach people
Know that people are unique
Can promote constructive relationships that grow deeper over time
Can balance the needs of those involved in relationships
Empathy- means the ability to put yourself in someone else’s position and
understand his or her needs and feelings.
Respect- means having a good opinion of someone and valuing him/her as a
person.
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It makes them feel valued and important to us
They are likely to show us respect
We treat others in the way you would like to be treated
Respect promotes peace and harmony between people
We think everyone must be treated with dignity.
ADOLESCENCE
It is the stage of life when a child goes through physical (puberty), emotional,
social and mental changes to become an adult.
It is the stage of development between childhood and adulthood
BOYS GIRLS
Growth spurt Growth spurt
Sweat glands make more sweat Sweat glands make more sweat
Skin is oilier and may be pimply Skin is oilier and may be pimply
Voices grow deeper Breasts buds appear
Pubic and underarm hair grows Pubic and underarm hair grows
Body hair grows thicker and longer, Body hair grows thicker and longer
face hair grows
Muscles grow bigger Develop hips and pelvic bones grow
wider
Develop sexual desire Develop sexual desire
Experience wet dreams Experience menstruation
Sexual organs grow bigger Sexual organs grow bigger
EMOTIONAL CHANGES
Mood swings- moods can change suddenly, from being happy one
moment to feeling sad angry the next.
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Being short tempered – may get angry easily even over minor issues
Self awareness- they become more aware of their physical appearance so
they may spend a lot of time grooming to make sure they look good.
Sexual feelings- begin to have sexual feelings and romantic feelings for
others. they may want to have a special boyfriend or girlfriend
Loneliness or confusion- may feel lonely and confused; they often feel
no one understands them, especially adults.
SOCIAL CHANGES
MENTAL CHANGES
Ability to reason- develops the ability to think logically. E.g. they begin
to notice inconsistent behaviour in others, especially adults, when they
one thing and do the opposite
Ability to evaluate- begins to develop the ability to identify different
choices and think about the advantages and disadvantages of each choice.
Ability to understand ideas- begins to develop the ability to think about
the ideas and things they cannot see or touch. E.g. they are able to form
their own opinions about what is happening around them on political,
health, environmental and morality issues.
Ability to empathise- develop the ability to think about how they are
perceived by others and to understand other peoples points of view.
Ability to think about the future- develop the ability to think ahead and
predict what might happen in the future.
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They may want more privacy and become more secretive. E.g. they may
not want their parents to meet their friends; they may not want other
family members to enter their bedrooms without permission
They may develop or lose interests in different activities quickly as part of
developing their own identity.
Begin to question rules as well as the values of their parents and
community; they may want to know the reasons behind the rules they have
to follow.
They may become argumentative and rebellious especially against the
authority of adults.
There are skills an adolescent can learn and to cope with the effects of the
changes. These skills include the following-; effective communication, decision
making, emotional intelligence (anger and stress management), assertiveness,
interpersonal skills and development of a positive self concept.
1. EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
This skill helps parents and teachers to openly discuss the changes adolescents
are undergoing. It involves providing adolescents with information concerning
their growth and development. It helps them prepare for the changes they are
experiencing so that these do not surprise and traumatize them.
2. DECISION MAKING
These skills refer to the ability to make or create alternatives to a situation. The
situation can either be short term, mid term or long term. Adolescents are
concerned with making choices about future spouses, careers or jobs, and
opportunities for further education.
3. EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
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Men had power and authority over women. E.g. a husband had power and
authority over his wife and was responsible for managing the family
resources. When he died the eldest son became the head of the family. In
the community the position of the kgosi was passed from father to the
eldest son.
In the past males and females had different responsibilities. E.g. males
were responsible for looking after cattle, ploughing and roofing
roundavels. Women did the household chores, took care of the young
children and grew crops. Boys were expected to do tasks for males, while
girls did the tasks for females.
Boys who failed to do male tasks and did not behave like men were said to
be weak and were called names such as phara meseseng, kgole ya Chiba,
nkele dibing which implied that they were girlish and weak. Girls who
were strong and assertive were criticized and accused of wanting to be
like men.
During adolescence boys and girls were encouraged to keep away from
each other, boys spend most of their time playing with other boys. Girls
spend their time playing with other girls or helping their mothers in the
village and the fields.
PRESENT ATTITUDES
Nowadays boys and girls see each other as equals this has been brought
about by a number of factors – first socialization has changed, children are
brought together at home, they are no longer brought up in different
places with household chores clearly allocated according to ones sex, they
help each other in the house and in performing duties in and around the
house.
School is another place that has helped change the way boys and girls
relate with each other, boys and girls attend the same school. Boys now do
the subjects that were traditionally thought to be feminine such as home
economics and the same applies to girls.
-The school also provides an opportunity for boys and girls to develop
relationships since they are free to mix.
-sports is another area where boys and girls can come into contact with
each other, they both belong to the same sports teams like softball,
football etc
FAMILY LIFE
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THE ROLE OF THE FAMILY IN THE MORAL DEVELOPMENT OF A
CHILD
Family teaches children the right way to behave by showing them how
other people behave. When parents and other adults admire good
behaviour or criticize or condemn bad behaviour, the child learns what is
right and wrong ways of behaving.
Families have rules that guide children to understand right and wrong bad
behaviour. Good behaviour is normally rewarded with praise and
encouragement and punishment for wrong or bad behaviour.
( punishment and reward).
Families develop a child morally by explaining to the child how his or her
behaviour affects others. Children begin to understand that their
behaviour affects others too. This helps the child to develop feelings of
empathy (guidance and counseling).
Children learn right and wrong by observing the actions and behaviour of
older family members, especially their parents. Parents usually teach
moral behaviour by being role models of good behaviour that their
children can copy. Parents who want their children to be honest, kind and
generous must behave in that way too. (Role models).
Family develops a child morally when adults in the family explain the
reasons for their own behaviour. This helps children understand why they
should behave in one way and not another.
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- WEARING BLACK CLOTHES AFTER THE DEATH OF A HUSBAND
This is a cultural norm which symbolizes grief however; the husband is not
expected to change his attire after the death of his wife, so it can be considered
a double standard.
- RESPECT OF ELDERS
Respect of elders is a cultural value even if the elder is not worth of respect.
Younger members of the family treat their parents and other member’s of the
family with respect. E.g. children are expected to do household chores given to
them by a parent. Children are not expected to talk back to or argue with their
parents.
Values - are the things, ideas and beliefs that are important to an individual or
group of people. The following are some of the values of family life in Botswana;
COOPERATION
RESPECT
Respect form the basis of family relations in Botswana. Authority is based on
age, the young respect the old and in turn the old must have self respect and
show respect for the young. This is shown by the saying ‘Susu ilela suswana
gore le ene a tle a go ilele” this means that one should respect other people in
order to earn their respect.
SHARING
Sharing within the families is viewed as the spirit of consideration that is,
members are encouraged to show regard for others. For instance, according to
the custom of mafisa, relatives assist one another by lending or sharing cattle so
that everyone can have milk and use the cattle for ploughing. This is reflected in
the Setswana proverb “Bana ba motho ba kgaogana tlhogwana ya ntsi”
which means that nothing is too little to be shared.
OBEDIENCE
Listening to what parents and elders say is a very important cultural value in
Botswana. Children are expected to take the advice and follow the instructions
of elders. This is because the community trusts that older people will give
children good and positive advice.
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MANAGING FAMILY RESOURCES AND ACTIVITIES
Family resources include all the property and assets that the family owns. This
may include land, houses, savings, business, car, furniture and clothes.
Resources are not only confined to the property but also the family projects and
activities become part of the resources as well. All members of the family have a
collective responsibility to these resources so that they look after them and use
them as wisely as possible.
3. COOPERATION
There is a saying that “the family that plays together stays together” this means
that if all the members of a family cooperate, and work together towards the
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same goals, that family will be stronger. The family will form a close team and
there will be less chance of arguments
PEERS
Peers are people of the same age; examples of peers are our friends and school
mates. Peers especially our friends’ influence the way we behave, either
positively or negatively. Examples of positive peer influence include
encouraging you to work hard at school and negative peer influence could
include peers encouraging you to break family and rules.
SCHOOLS
Most children go to school nowadays. Schools not only teach different subjects,
they also teach children how to behave, through guiding and counseling them.
Schools influence the behaviour of their learners by making rules about
acceptable and unacceptable behaviour in the school, teachers praising and
rewarding good behaviour and punishing bad behaviour and teaching the
correct knowledge about issues that require behavioral changes such as HIV/
AIDS.
ROLE MODELS
A role model is any person we admire and we want to be like him or her. We
look up to them. People who can be our role models include our parents,
brothers, sisters, political leaders, musicians, sports men and women. Role
models may influence our behaviour in the following ways; good role models
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help us to make good choices in life, they inspire us to do better people by
imitating their good and moral behaviour. Bad role models can influence us to
behave in bad or wrong ways. By imitating their behaviour, we too begin to
behave badly.
MASS MEDIA
The mass media refers to methods of communicating with the public. Examples
of the mass media are television, radio, films, newspapers and magazines. What
we see, hear, or read influences our behaviour. The mass media can make us
aware of dangerous and bad behaviour and encourage us to change for the
better, e.g. road safety and HIV/AIDS. Advertisements make people aware of
how they should behave to be safe. Some people may want to behave like people
they see on the television or in movies. E.g. if they watch television shows,
movies or play video games where people use violence to settle their conflicts,
they may accept this as a good or normal way of behaving.
FORTUNE TELLING
Fortune tellers can predict our future for instance if you are told that someone is
bewitching you to fail exams, you are likely to believe it and give up on your
studies hence you fail. Similarly they predict that you have bad luck and will not
succeed in life, you may work extra hard in order to achieve your goals. Fortune
telling may have a positive psychological effect on people in that they may have
something to look forward to. Negatively fortune telling misleads people by
giving them false hopes. When such hopes are not realized people may feel that
life is ‘not on their side’
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- Giving us the correct information about issues that need us to change our
behaviour. Examples of issues that require changes in behaviour are: HIV
and AIDS, teenage pregnancy, drug and alcohol abuse and conservation of
the environment.
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they see in the media as HIV/AIDS, crime, road
safety etc
ABSTINENCE
Refers to keeping away or refraining any form of sexual activity or refraining
from sex
-abstinence means refraining from or avoiding certain things
RELIGIOUS VIEW
Abstinence is seen as a way of devotion, e.g. the catholic priests devote their
lives to the service of god by abstaining from sex
Some religious groups encourage abstinence until a person gets married. In
most religions, premarital sex is seen as a sin
CULTURAL VIEW
In most African countries, sexual relationships between boys and girls are not
allowed before marriage. Boys and girls are encouraged to abstain from sex
CELIBACY
The state of being unmarried and abstaining from sexual activity. E.g. fathers
and sisters in the Roman Catholic Church.
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SEX EDUCATION
People have different views in relation to sex education? The way sexual
intercourse was perceived in the past is different from how it is viewed
nowadays. Some parents do not want to discuss sexual issues with their children
while others are open and willing to discuss the matter with them.
Religious people tend to differ from one another even in their teachings about
sex. However, these religious views vary from one religion to the other.
In some religions, they encourage their members to refrain from sex since
they believe it is a dirty act and demonic e.g. In Christianity sex is
regarded as sacred or very special to be respected. It is seen as a beautiful
gift from God, which demands responsibility, commitment and total love.
To a devoted Christian sex is prohibited before marriage, as such majority
of church leaders encourages sexual abstinence to their followers as they
believe it is the best option.
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Furthermore, Kant teaches that those engaged in sexual activities make
themselves willing into objects of each other merely for the sake of sexual
pleasure. As such, both persons are reduced to the animal level.
a. Teenage pregnancy – early sexual acts can result in one being mother or
father at an early age. This will rob or take away one’s childhood as one
will have to take full responsibility of his/ her new born baby. In addition,
teenagers who fall pregnant fail to cope with motherhood as they are not
yet mature physically and emotionally.
b. Early sexual acts can lead to transmission of sexually transmitted
infections and HIV/Aids.
c. Early sexual acts can lead to stress from sexual relationships. As stated
earlier, children should abstain from sexual activities as they are not
mature enough to deal effectively with the demands and challenges arising
from sexual relationships. Sometimes others are unable to manage and
communicate their feelings about the situation in their relationships
resulting in depression.
d. Practicing early sexual acts can also lead to one’s aims priorities and goals
being affected. It is very important for one to understand the benefits and
disadvantages of a sexual relationship before getting involved. Teenagers
should focus on their education, passing examinations and having a bright
future. There are many things one can enjoy doing besides having sex,
remember you can just be close to someone without having sex.
They are old enough to handle the consequences of sex. As you know
every action has results, if you take a bad action, you will have bad results,
but a good action leads to good results. So mature people can deal with
the results of their actions in a proper way even if they are bad.
Sex should be performed by mature consenting people because they are
able to give an informed consent. Sex should be an action that is agreed
by both parties involved. The decision should not be taken by one person.
As such, mature people can agree or disagree to have sex without anyone
forcing them to make that decision.
In addition, sex should be performed by mature consenting people
because they are able to take care of their own health. As you are aware,
unprotected sexual intercourse can result in transmission of sexually
transmitted diseases, as such, mature people are in a position to take full
responsibility of their own health. For example, they can refuse to have
unprotected sex without fear of loosing a partner or being beaten.
They are able to stomach the emotional trauma and physical consequences
of having sex. During sexual intercourse, the penis penetrate the vagina,
as such, one should be ready both physically and emotionally. For
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instance, one’s physical body should be strong enough to accommodate
his/her partner.
c) Other people gain sexual satisfaction through being watched during sexual
intercourse. Such kind of people usually likes to have sex in an open space
and sometimes inside cars. If they are inside house they will leave doors
open or move curtains aside for someone to be able to view what is inside.
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Those having sex should give consent. If two people are having sex, they
both should have agreed. No one should force the other partner into
having sex. This is due to the fact that having sex has some consequences,
as such; consenting into having sex will lead to one not blaming anyone if
things do not go well during or after sex.
Having sex when one is sober and not drunk or high on illegal drugs, this
can help one to avoid, having sex with strangers, having sex without giving
or seeking consent and failing to use protection to prevent unwanted
pregnancies and spreading or getting sexually transmitted infections
Making sure there is privacy before engaging in sex because having sex in
public is considered indecent, offensive and immoral
As you have learnt, having sex raises some moral issues. To some people sex is
unacceptable, while to some is acceptable if done for good reasons.
Having sex gives one sexual satisfaction. Some people argue that sex is
good activity because it gives pleasure, it erases sexual boredom.
One can get some sexually transmitted infections through sexual
intercourse. As mentioned above, you cannot tell if your partner has some
sexual infections, as such, if one has unprotected sex, it is easy to contract
or acquire some infections. People who are sexually active can be exposed
to some sexual diseases if they do not take the necessary precautions.
Another moral implication of having sex is; it can lead to unwanted
pregnancy. Some people have unprotected sex though they do not want
children. Having said that, it is very important for one to wait for the right
time to have sex as one will be ready to face all the consequences that
come with having sex.
Though some people believe that having sex for pleasure is not acceptable,
others argue that it is good as one can meet the rightful partners. They
point out that some partners can end up having long term stable
relationship though they started with just casual sex for pleasure.
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If you are not involved in any sexual acts, I guess by now you know the benefits.
If you are still young and you are already involved in sexual relationships that
include sex, you can quit. It is not too late to quit, especially after learning about
the moral implications of early sexual acts and why sex should be performed by
mature consenting people.
The following are some of the reasons of waiting for the right time to have sex;
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Peer – pressure – age-mates or peers can influence one another to do bad
or good things. In most cases, peers can influence one another negatively.
Peers like to force others into having sexual intercourse. Some peers will
be afraid of being rejected by their friends and as a result they end up
agreeing into having sex though they do not want to. They will have sex
just to please their age-mates.
Gender roles and expectations
In many cultures females are socialized to be submissive to males. As a
result man makes the decisions concerning sexual matters and women
tolerate men being unfaithful. Women are unable to negotiate the use
of contraceptives or insist that a man should remain faithful
AGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SEXUAL PARTNERS
When a young person engages in a sexual relationship with a much
older person decisions about sex about sex are usually made by the
older person. The young person may therefore find it difficult to
negotiate the use of contraceptive, and when and where to have sex, as
a result the young person may engage in unprotected sex.
B. MATERIAL FACTORS
Material factors affecting sexual negotiations and decision making are;
a) Money – some people indulge in sexual relationships for money. They
get deceived that they will be offered money after sex. Though some
are given money after having sex, it is immoral to neither buy nor sell
sex.
b) Possession of goods – some young people believe that having some
properties and money are the most important things in life. For
example, a cell phone, certain clothing labels are the must have to
some teenagers. As a result, some of them end up having sex with older
people in return of such goods.
c) Alcohol and drug abuse – excessive intake of drugs and alcohol is
another material factor that is affecting sexual negotiations and
decision making. Alcohol and drugs are very expensive and addictive.
Since it can be very difficult to stop taking drugs, some people may end
up having sex with others for money so that they can buy drugs. In
addition, alcohol and drugs can lead to loss of physical control over
one’s actions which can result in one being raped.
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Assertive communication between sexual partners can help to change
attitude towards sexual behaviour such as having as having multi concurrent
partners, casual sex, and the refusal to use a condoms. Partners, who talk to
each other honestly about such sexual behaviour, will make each other aware
of the negative consequences of engaging in such behaviour. This can lead to
a change in attitude as well as sexual behaviour.
NEGOTIATION SKILLS
Negotiation means to reach an agreement through compromise. Through
negotiation a partner can be persuaded to change his or her negative attitude
towards condom use. If they accept the need to use condoms, they are likely
to change their attitude and always have safe sex instead of unprotected sex.
EMPATHY BUILDING
Empathy is the ability to put oneself in someone else’s situation and imagine
how he or she is feeling. Empathy enables us to appreciate how our attitudes
and behaviour affect other people. People are likely to change their attitude,
if they understand how their sexual behaviour is negatively affecting their
sexual partners and other people around them.
There are two types of condoms, those used by males and those used by
females.
MALE CONDOM
Male condom is a sheath which is closed at one end and fits over a mans
erect penis
FEMALE CONDOM
A female condom is a sheath which a woman inserts inside her vagina. It is
also referred to as a femidom
Store unused condoms in a cool dry place out of direct heat and sunlight.
Check the expiry date of the condom on the packet. Do not use expired
condoms because they are not safe to use. They may tear easily
Open the packet of the condoms carefully. Do not open the packet with
your teeth or a sharp object such as a pair of scissors.
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Read the leaflet with instructions that is inside the condom packet, on how
to use and put on a condom correctly and carefully. Condoms are only
effective they are used correctly.
If the condom tears or is put on incorrectly, remove it and use a new one.
A new condom should be used every time one has sexual intercourse.
Never reuse a condom.
Dispose the used condoms properly. Wrap the condom in toilet paper and
throw it away in a bin or pit latrine. Do not flush it down a toilet.
Condoms are the only form of protection that can prevent the spread of
sexually transmitted infections, such as HIV. This can help discordant
partners (where one is infected with HIV while the other is not) to stay
together because the infected partner can use condoms to avoid infecting
his or her partner.
Some people may become promiscuous and engage in casual sex knowing
that they can use condoms to prevent unwanted pregnancies and STI’s
Condoms are not 100% safe. If a condom is not used correctly or is of poor
quality, it can result in an unwanted pregnancy which may lead to an
unsafe abortion. The person is also at risk of getting STI’s and HIV/AIDS
SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS
- refers to the connection between two people who engage in sexual acts
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DIFFERENTIATING BETWEEN HETEROSEXUALITY, BISEXUALITY AND
HOMOSEXUALITY
HETEROSEXUALITY
Means being sexually attracted to members of the opposite sex, men are usually
attracted to women, and women are sexually attracted to women
BISEXUALITY
Means being sexually attracted to members of both sexes, a man would be
attracted to both men and women, while a woman would be attracted to both
women and men.
HOMOSEXUALITY
Means being sexually attracted to people of the same sex, men are usually
attracted to other men, and women are sexually attracted to other women. A
homosexual person especially men are known as being “gay” while women are
known as “lesbians”
most homosexual people believe that they are born as homosexuals i.e. it
is genetic and natural
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Many people believe that it is universally accepted sexual relationship
which is commonly practiced in all cultures
Some people are forced by the societies they come from to engage in this
type of sexual relationship. If the society is intolerant of homosexuality,
some people who feel sexually attracted to people of the same sex are
forced to hide their true sexual orientation by having heterosexual
relationships openly, while at the same time engaging in homosexual
relationship in secret
Some people may want to experiment with how it feels to have a sexual
relationships with people of both sexes as they may be unsure of their
genetic sexuality
Some people are sexually attracted to both men and women naturally
Some people discover that they are sexually attracted to people of the
same sex after they are already in a heterosexual relationship. Some
people could be married and have children and such people may find it
very hard to give up the relationship or to suppress their sexual
orientation and as a result may end being bisexual
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
HOMOSEXUALITY
Many societies reject this type of sexual orientation because they consider
it to be unnatural and therefore immoral. Homosexual may feel forced to
have heterosexual relationship, or to remain single, in order to hide their
true sexual orientation or keep their homosexual relationship secret.
Some societies such as south Africa respect and protect the right to sexual
orientation. In such countries homosexuality is accepted as a human right
and most people do not judge it as morally wrong.
HETEROSEXUALITY
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Since heterosexuality is considered the natural way to have sex and to
procreate, it is considered morally right. It allows the continuation of the
family and human race. Many people and some religions believe that a
sexual orientation which does not allow the possibility of procreation is
morally wrong.
In many societies marriage is defined as, the legal union between a man
and a woman as husband and wife. As a result only heterosexual
marriages are accepted and recognized as normal and morally right.
BISEXUALITY
It can lead to conflict with ones sexual partner who is not bisexual. It can
damage his or her self esteem and self confidence.
SEXUAL PRACTICES
ADULTERY
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Adultery increases the risks of getting sexually transmitted infections,
including HIV and infecting one’s spouse. Some of these infections are life
threatening or cause infertility.
A husband or wife may end up killing his or her spouse due to the anger
and emotional pain caused by the adultery. This may result in the problem
of orphan hood because the person may after killing his or her spouse,
commit suicide.
Adultery may result in the misuse of family resources. Those who commit
adultery may spend money on their adulterous relationships and fail to
take proper care of their family.
Fornication
Fornication refers to the sexual practice of unmarried people having sexual
intercourse. Fornication is also known as premarital sex.
In many religions and societies, people believe that sex should only take
place within marriage. Fornication is therefore considered to be
immoral or sinning against God’s will.
Fornication can result in unwanted and unplanned pregnancy. A woman
who does not want to have the baby may end up committing abortion.
In most cases, the woman is left with the responsibility of raising the
child on her own. If the woman does not have the means to support the
child, other relatives are expected to help care for the child. This puts
an burden on the resources of the relatives.
Fornication can contribute to the spread of sexually transmitted
infections.
A sexual relationship between two people, who are not married to each
other, can break up easily. They can also easily become unfaithful to
each other. No matter how much time the sexual relationship lasts for,
one partner can easily leave and start a relationship with someone else.
Fornication involves becoming sexually intimate with someone without
any formal or legal agreement bonding the two people in the
relationship. As a result, the sexual partners do not have the same
rights and responsibilities towards each other that a married couple
would have. For example, one does not have the right to inherit
property on the death of one’s partner, unless he or she has said it in a
will.
RAPE
Rape is the crime of forcing someone to have sex. Both males and females can
be raped.
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Rape is considered morally wrong and a crime in most countries because
it violates the person’s right to say no to sex and to choose whom to have
sexual intercourse with.
Rape puts the victim at risk of being infected with STI’s including HIV.
Currently HIV has no known cure and can be a life threatening infection. A
victim can die from AIDS.
It causes emotional and mental trauma to the victim. This can damage the
person’s self – esteem and self – confidence. The person may become
withdrawn.
Female, who are raped by men, often lose trust in men. As a result, this
may affect their sexual and social relationships with other men.
Rape usually involves the use of violence in order to force the victim to
have sexual intercourse with the rapist. Violence is considered morally
wrong.
Some victims of rape are forced to hide the fact that they were raped
because they fear being blamed for being raped, being stigmatized, or
losing the chance of getting married.
INCEST
Incest refers to sexual activity between family members who are closely related
by blood, for example, brothers and sisters, parents and children. According to
the law in Botswana, incest is having sexual intercourse with someone who is
one’s grandchild, child, brother, sister or parent.
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The man and his wife because the wife may blame him for abusing
their daughter and may even divorce him.
The man and other family members who disapprove of and
conderm his behaviour.
MASTURBATION
Some people believe that sexual pleasure should be achieved only with a
partner. They consider masturbation as a selfish sexual practice therefore
immoral.
Some religions teaches that the only morally acceptable reason for having
sex is to procreate and that sex should only take place within marriage.
They consider masturbation as morally wrong because it does not lead to
procreation.
Other people believe that masturbation is morally acceptable because it
does not cause any physical or mental harm to individuals. It is a natural
way of releasing sexual tension. They argue that masturbation has many
advantages. For example:
Masturbation can help young people wait until they are emotionally
and mentally mature to have sexual intercourse.
It can help people deal with their sexual desires without involving
another person.
Masturbation can help to control the spread of STI’s, including HIV.
PROSTITUTION
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concerned about getting paid and the client is only concerned about
gaining sexual pleasure.
Prostitutes and their clients are not respected by other people in the
society.
Prostitution puts both prostitute and the client at a higher risk of
becoming infected with sexually transmitted infections such as HIV
because some clients demand and are willing to pay a higher fee for
unprotected sex.
Some prostitutes and people who pay them for sexual services have steady
sexual partners or are married. Prostitution undermines faithfulness in a
sexual relationship, especially marriage.
In many countries prostitution is a crime. Prostitutes are vulnerable to
abuse and exploitation by their clients because they are engaged in an
illegal sexual practice and may be afraid to report the abuse to the police.
BESTIALITY
SODOMY
Sodomy is another term for anal sexual intercourse. It is defined as a sexual act
in which a man puts his penis in to somebody else’s anus for sexual pleasure. A
man can have anal sexual intercourse with another man or with a woman.
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PAEDOPHILIA
Paedophilia refers to the condition of adults being sexually attracted to and
engaging in sexual activities with young children. A person who commits the act
of paedophilia is known as a paedophile.
DEFILEMENT
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Defilement can have a negative impact on a child’s future sexual life
when they become adults. Some may find it difficult to form healthy
sexual relationships because of the physical and emotional trauma of
being sexually abused.
Defilement can cause internal physical injuries, especially if the child is
very young.
SEXUAL VIOLENCE
Sexual violence refers to any sexual act or practice that involves one person (the
perpetrator) forcing, hurting or abusing another person (the victim). Examples
of sexual practices that can involve violence by a perpetrator against a victim
are: rape, incest, paedophilia, defilement, sexual harassment, and sexual
slavery.
Although both males and females can be victims and perpetrators of sexual
violence, often it is females who are the victims and males the perpetrators. The
perpetrator of sexual violence can be someone the victim knows or a stranger.
THE VICTIMS
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Marriage is a legally approved union between two individuals, most commonly
of the opposite sex
a) PERSONAL REASONS
-Feel they area deeply in love with their partners and wants to show or prove
their love by making a long life commitment to their partners.
-Believe that being faithful to each other in marriage can reduce the risk of
contracting STi’s especially HIV.
B) SOCIAL REASONS
It is norm for adults to marry at a certain age within their community, their
families and friends may put pressure on them to marry.
They want to continue the family lineage; in many societies it is the sons born
within wedlock to carry the family name.
Marriage in most communities gives married people special rights and status,
for example in Botswana only married people re allowed to attend a marriage
custom called patlo.
C) ECONOMIC REASONS
some people marry in order to gain financial security. They usually someone
who has more money than them and is therefore able to provide for all the
family needs and wants
some people marry in order to have a higher standard of living than they would
have on their own
in some societies children born out of wedlock are not allowed to inherit their
parents property and wealth. People may therefore marry to ensure that when
they die their children become the rightful heirs of their property and wealth
D) RELIGIOUS REASONS
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- sex should only happen within marriage, therefore followers of such
religions may marry in order to obey the teachings o their religions
- Procreation should only happen within marriage and that it is wrong to
have children before marriage. Followers may marry in order to avoid
having children out of wedlock
MONOGAMY
- it means having one spouse at a time
- when a person marries one partner
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
-It requires total commitment to ones partner and therefore they are likely to
trust and respect each other
- monogamy requires sexual exclusiveness therefore the couple is expected to be
faithful to each other and reduce the spread of STI’s including HIV.
- in many societies there are more man than women therefore it means that
some women will never have a chance to marry and as a result they are forced
to engage in premarital sex and to become single mothers
SOCIAL IMPLICATIONS
- It is the only socially and legally accepted type of marriage. If a person
marries more than one person at a time, he or she would be guilty of a
crime called bigamy.
- Helps control the number of children a couple can have
- The couple can remain childless if one or both of them are infertile.
ECONOMIC IMPLICATIONS
POLYGAMY
- It means being married to more than one partner.
There are two kinds of polygamy; Polygyny – which means when a man has more
than one wife and Polyandry- which means when a woman has more than one
husband
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- Some cultures say sex with more than one partner is immoral
- The risk of contracting STI’s are very high as there are multiple sexual
partners
- Older wife’s and children may be neglected for younger ones
- There may be less chance of adultery
SOCIAL IMPLICATIONS
ECONOMIC IMPLICATIONS
- A big family provides labour, security and child and old age care
- Poorer families may be unable to care properly for all members
- Division of property may be a problem if the head/breadwinner dies
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MARRIAGE IN COMMUNITY OF PROPERTY
Marriage in community of property means a husband and wife jointly own all the
property they each had before marriage, as well as any property they may
acquire during the marriage
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
Marriage out of community of property means when the husband and wife do
not have joint ownership of property and are not responsible for each others
debts
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
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- The concern of individual accumulation of property may become more
important than the marriage itself. spouses may become more concerned
about accumulating property and forget to give each other attention
- It can result in an unhealthy competition between the husband and the
wife, such competition can results in conflicts that may lead to divorce
- It may encourage selfishness. A person may not allow his or her spouse to
take or use what belongs to them
- spouses that feels forced to marry out of community of property, may think
that their spouses does not trust or love them enough to share what they
have with them. They may doubt that the marriage is a life long
commitment
- the death of a spouse may result in inheritance disputes over jointly
owned property. This may happen if there is no proof that the property
was jointly paid for and owned.
TEENAGE PREGNANCY
PEER PRESSURE
Some teenagers are influenced by their peers to engage in early sexual acts.
Those who are unable to resist such negative peer pressure may end up falling
pregnant.
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Some teenagers do use illegal drugs such as marijuana and drink alcohol. When
they are drunk or high on drugs, they are likely to indulge in risk behaviours
including unprotected sex which may lead to teenage pregnancy.
EMOTIONAL EFFECT
Teenagers may suffer emotionally because pregnant teenagers are often
stigmatized. Some of them may be rejected by their families and have little or no
support during the pregnancy and the baby is born. This is because some
parents may be embarrassed and reluctant to take on the extra costs of looking
after the pregnant teen and her baby
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Teenage pregnancy is a consequence of having unprotected sex. A teenager can
become infected with sexually transmitted infections (STI’s) including HIV. The
baby may also become infected.
LOSS OF FREEDOM
A teen mother has to spend time taking care of her baby. She has to take full
responsibiliti9es of motherhood at an early age. As a result she has less time to
spend with her friends and to enjoy life as a young person.
POVERTY
Teenage pregnancy can lead to poverty especially for those girls who were not
able to resume their studies and those that are from poor family background.
There is a greater chance of the girl remaining unmarried even if the girl did not
want to, after having an unplanned pregnancy, due to the attitudes in the
society.
2. ON THE CULPRIT
3. THE FAMILIES
When a teenage girl falls pregnant both the family of the girl and the culprit are
affected.
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Below are some of the effects.
4. THE SOCIETY
Some of those who continue with their studies after pregnancy may not be able
to perform to their potential because they may have to divide their attention
between child caring and their studies. As a result of this, the country loses
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potential people who could be educated and skilled to contribute to the
development of their country.
SINGLE PARENTHOOD
Teenage pregnancy is often unplanned. As a result, the number of single
mothers and fathers in society increases. Children of teenagers usually face
many challenges growing up because most teens do not have adequate
parenting skills.
Young people should be taught about the importance of sexual abstinence and
also about contraceptives, especially condoms, and their proper use. Condoms,
if used properly, can prevent both pregnancy and sexually transmitted
infections. Comprehensive sex education will enable young people who choose
not to abstain, to make informed choices about how to prevent pregnancy.
ASSERTIVENESS TRAINING
Teenagers are more easily influenced by their peers than by adults. Peer
education and counseling groups such as Peer education and Counselling for
Teenagers (PACT) can be used to educate and counsel teenagers on sexual
issues such as sexual abstinence, the correct use of contraception, and the
negative effects of teenage pregnancy.
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Families should be encouraged to educate their children about sexual issues
such as sexual abstinence, the effects of teenage pregnancy, the risk of
contracting STI’s including HIV, and contraception, in order to help them make
informed decisions and avoid becoming teenage mothers and fathers.
The mass media, such as television and newspapers can be used to raise
awareness about the negative effects of teenage pregnancy and ways of
preventing teenage pregnancy. This may help communities become more
involved in influencing young people to avoid situations that lead to teenage
pregnancy.
LAW ENFORCEMENT
The penalties for making teenage girls, especially those under the age of 16,
pregnant should be increased. Men, who make teenage girls pregnant, should
not only be made to care for the baby, but also be made responsible ensuring
the girl goes back to school. He should be made to pay for the remaining years
of her secondary school education. This may help deter men from having sexual
relationships with teenage girls. Defilement laws should be enforced more
effectively.
CONTRACEPTION
WHAT IS CONTRACEPTION?
They have chosen to remain childless and do not want to have a child.
Child spacing. They want one child to reach a certain age before they have
another one.
The want to limit the number of children they have.
They want to have a child at a time of their choice, for example when they
feel ready emotionally, physically and financially.
TYPES OF CONTRACEPTION
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Modern types of contraception involve the use of artificial devices, medical
drugs, or surgery to prevent pregnancy.
Traditional types of contraception use natural methods of preventing
pregnancy. No artificial devices are used.
CONDOMS
Both male and female condoms are used as contraceptive devices. The condom
traps the sperms and prevents them from reaching the uterus. For the condom
to be effective it has to be correctly used.
THE DIAPHRAGM
The diaphragm is a rubber disc placed in the vagina before sexual intercourse. It
covers the cervix in order to stop the sperms from entering the uterus. For it to
be more effective in preventing pregnancy it has to be used with the spermicide.
This is a device made of copper that is inserted in the women’s uterus. The
purpose of this device is to prevent the fertilized egg from settling in the uterus.
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The IUD destroys the fertilized egg when it tries to settle in the uterus. Women
using this contraceptive device have to go for regular check ups, to find out if
the IUD is still rightly positioned because if it moves out of position it cannot be
effective in preventing the egg to settle in the uterus.
The contraceptive pill contains some chemicals that help to prevent pregnancy.
The chemicals are said to have the same effects as the oestrogen and
progesterone hormones which when mixed together suppress or prevent
ovulation resulting in inability to conceive. There are various types of the
contraceptive pills.
CONTRACEPTIVE INJECTIONS
Contraceptive injections are given to women only and contain hormones that
prevent pregnancy for up to three months. An example of an injectable
contraceptive drug is called Depo–Provera.
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If injections are received at the correct times, it can prevent pregnancy
and has a low risk of failure.
It cannot prevent transmission of STI’s, including HIV.
It takes a long time for normal fertility to return. In some women this
takes up to a year.
Using contraceptive drugs such as Depo – Provera continuously for many
years, can lead to loss of calcium in the bones and as a result, the bones
break easily.
SPERMICIDES
This is a chemical in the form of cream, foam or gel which kills sperms, The
spermicide is placed in the vagina and can also be used with a diaphragm.
Tubal ligation is a surgical operation in which the woman’s oviducts are tied or
cut. This prevents sperms reaching and fertilizing the ova. This operation does
not affect the ovaries therefore menstruation still continues since the ovum is
released every month.
MORAL IMPLICATIONS OF VASECTOMY AND TUBAL LIGATION
SEXUAL ABSTINENCE
Sexual abstinence involves retraining from any sexual activity. It is considered
as traditional or natural contraception. Remember we discussed sexual
abstinence in chapter 1 of this book.
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MORAL IMPLICATIONS OF SEXUAL ABSTINENCE
The withdrawal method, also known as coitus interruptus, involves the man
withdrawing his penis from the woman’s vagina just before ejaculation.
Couples have to accept that, this method has a higher risk of leading to
unplanned pregnancy than most other contraceptive method. They should
be prepared to support each other if that happens.
This method offers protection against sexually transmitted infections,
including HIV. Couples who use this method should ensure that they do
not have STI’s and are always faithful to each other.
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A woman is at the mercy of the man who might not be motivated to
prevent pregnancy.
The effectiveness of the method in preventing pregnancy depends on the
man knowing himself, being able to exercise self – control and being
motivated to prevent pregnancy.
It is a risky method because after six moths, ovulation can occur without
menstruation. A woman may not know she has ovulated and fall pregnant
as a result. In addition, it only works if the baby is breastfed frequently
and regularly.
Couples should accept that there is possibility of pregnancy while the
baby is still being breastfed.
This method offers no protection against sexually transmitted infections,
including HIV. Couples who use this method should ensure that they do
not have STI’s and are always faithful to each other.
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Are modern types of contraception morally acceptable or not?
Is it morally acceptable for teenagers to use contraception?
Is it morally acceptable to use condoms to prevent the spread of sexually
transmitted infections, including HIV?
Does the use of modern contraception encourage people to be
promiscuous because they know that they prevent pregnancy and in the
case of condoms, also protect them from STI’s infections?
Every person has a right to control over their own fertility and to enjoy sex
without the fear of pregnancy.
Every person has a right to decide the type of contraception they prefer to
use.
Condoms offer double protection. They prevent both pregnancy and STI’s,
including HIV. It is therefore morally wrong to deny people access to
condoms which help protect their health.
All the methods of birth control are morally right except the IUD. This is
because IUD’s allows fertilization but prevent implantation in the uterus.
Preventing unwanted pregnancy is morally right. One does not bring into
the world a human life that one does not want or is not able to provide for.
Tubal ligation and vasectomy are morally wrong because they involve
damaging parts of the human body.
Sex is not only for procreation. The use of contraception is morally
acceptable because it allows couples to avoid pregnancy while having sex
for other reasons such as for pleasure and creating an intimate bond in
their relationship.
Family planning is the morally right thing to do. This enables families to
give the children they choose to have the best care possible. It protects
the health of women and improves the quality of their lives.
Religious such as Buddhism, Islam, Judaism and Sikhism accept that it is morally
acceptable for their followers to use both modern and traditional types of
contraception. However, Islam forbids vasectomy and only allows Tubal ligation
if pregnancy would put the life of a woman in danger.
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In Christianity, most denominations also allow their followers to use both
modern and traditional types of contraception. The Roman Catholic Church is an
exception.
CAUSES OF DEATH
- Old age
- Diseases
- Abortion (backstreet)
- Murder
- Accidents
- War
- Capital punishment
- Natural disasters e.g earth quake, drought, floods, fire e.t.c
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Bereavement is the state of sorrow over the death of a loved one. People who
have lost a loved one due to death are said to be bereaved. The death of a
person has many negative effects on the family of the deceased as well as the
society that the deceased came from. Below are some of the effects of death on
the following.
Emotional stress
The loss of family member due to death brings shock, trauma, confusion,
sadness and sorrow to the bereaved family. The emotional stress may
overwhelm some family members and make them suicidal.
Orphan – hood
When both parents die, children become orphans. Other members of the family,
such as grandparents, uncles and aunts have to take care of them. They have to
use their own resources to take care of them. Some relatives may feel that the
orphans are a burden and may not be willing to take care of them. Others may
abuse them physically, emotionally, and sexually. Relatives have also been
known to take away any money and property left behind by their deceased
parents.
Loss of breadwinner
The family may become poor if the person who has died was the main
breadwinner. For example, they may not be able to afford the basic needs of life.
A family member is blamed for causing the person’s death. They may be
suspected of having bewitched him or her.
There are disagreements about where to bury the deceased person.
The deceased did not leave a will and his or her relatives fight over any
property left behind. Inheritance disputes have sometimes led to family
members suing each other in the courts of law.
Some family members do not want to cooperate and help in cash and in
kind during the funeral preparations.
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Change in social status
As a result of the death of a spouse, the status of the remaining spouse changes.
A married woman becomes a widow and a married man becomes a widower.
When both parents, die their children become orphans.
Emotional effects
Members of the society may be emotionally affected by the death of a person
who was well known, popular and loved by the society such as a president, a
kgosi or a musician. For example, when the first president of Botswana, Sir
Seretse Khama died on 13 July 1980, most Batswana were very sad and
mourned his loss because they loved and respect him as a great leader of the
nation.
Break up of families
Death of parents can lead to the break –up of families as their children are taken
by different relatives, adopted or taken to orphanages. Brothers and sisters end
up growing up in different households.
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The death of a leader may lead to succession disputes. For instance in
Botswana, some ethic groups have experienced conflicts over who is the rightful
heir to be installed as the new kgosi.
Increase in poverty
When breadwinners die, families may become poorer. If many families become
poorer because of the death of their breadwinners, the level of poverty in the
society increases. Government social welfare services have to support many
more people and this puts a strain on the country’s financial resources.
Population decrease
When the death rate is higher than the birth rate the population decreases
because there are fewer people being born to replace those who have died.
THE ATTITUDES OF COMMUNITIES TOWARDS DEATH
The attitude of a community towards death is about the way the community
feels, thinks or behaves towards death. A community’s attitude towards death
may be influenced by the people’s religious beliefs and cultural traditions.
Below are some attitudes of communities towards death in Botswana.
Although people know they will die one day, some fear death and are
reluctant to think about their own death. As a result, they are not
prepared to discuss what should happen to their property when they die
or save money for the cost of their funeral.
The deaths are treated with respect and dignity. Death is usually marked
by funeral ceremonies and rituals that allow the deceased’s family, friends
and the community to formally say farewell to the dead person.
Many communities think of death as being only the end of life on earth,
the spirits of the dead live on. This is why in African Traditional Religion
there is a belief in ancestral spirits or badimo. The badimo are the spirits
of people who died a long time ago but are believed to influence the lives
of the living. Christians also believe in life after death. They believe that
there is eternal life and that the souls of dead people end up either in
heaven or in hell.
In many communities, death is accepted as inevitable because every life
ends in death. In particular, communities readily accept the death of
people in certain situations for example:
When a person dies due to old age, usually the community accepts
that nobody lives forever and they may even celebrate the person’s
life.
When a person is very ill and there is no hope of recovery, people
may welcome the death of the person because they feel that death
puts an end of his or her suffering and pain. They believe it enables
the dead person to rest. This is why many tombstones are written
RIP, meaning ‘Rest in Peace’.
Most communities regret and express deep sorrow at the death of children
and young adults. This is because the continued existence of the
community depends to a large extent on the younger generation outliving
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the older generation. People may also feel it is against the order of nature.
Older people are expected to die first. Children should bury their parents
and not parents burying their children.
In some communities, people always want to know the cause of death.
Knowing the cause of death helps them, especially the bereaved family, to
accept and cope with their loss. Some families may request a post –
mortem examination of the dead body, while others may consult
traditional doctors in order to find out the cause of death.
By comforting those who are grieving; people visit and spend time with
the bereaved family until the burial takes place
Churches offer prayers to the members of the bereaved family
Some members of the bereaved family may be offered professional
counseling in case they are adversely affected by the loss of a family
member
By sending messages of condolences. Friends and relatives who are
unable to attend the funeral may send messages of condolences
Prayers may be held at the home of the deceased family regularly until the
day before the burial takes place, in some communities a prayer
vigil(tebelelo) is held the night before the burial
- To enable the bereaved family to cope with the loss of a loved one and
avoid despairing
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Coping with death involves dealing with the feeling of grief and gradually
reaching a stage of acceptance because nothing and no one can bring back the
dead person. It is important to talk about what one is feeling so that one is not
overwhelmed by grief, despair and depression.
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there are outstanding debts to be paid and family members are expected to
contribute towards the payment of the debts.
WILLS
A will is a legal document indicating how one wishes his or her property to be
distributed after his or her death.
2.-a will can prevent family conflicts over the deceased property
When a person dies without a will conflicts over the inheritance of the deceased
property are more likely to arise between the children, spouse and other
relatives of the deceased
5.-A will can prevent relatives claiming property that does not belong to
the deceased or other people falsely claiming property that belongs to
the deceased
In a will a person can state what property belongs to them. This would help
prevent confusion as to what belongs and does not belong to the deceased.
ABORTION
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It means the pre-mature termination of the foetus from the mother’s womb or
the premature termination of pregnancy which can be a natural rejection of the
foetus or miscarriage which is referred to as a spontaneous abortion or an
induced abortion which means when the pregnancy is unnaturally terminated.
SUICIDE
It is the killing of oneself deliberately or on purpose which could be due to
diseases, depression, personal problems.
1. DEPRESSION
The person will always look depressed and stressed.
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2. FINANCIAL PROBLEMS
Money is a necessity in today’s’ life. People feel unhappy if they don’t have
money and that life is meaningless. Financial problems leading to suicide
include debts, job loss, and collapse of business or supporting a large family.
3. SOCIAL ISOLATION
A person may always be away from others and she/may feels he/she is not loved
and it is better when she/he dead.
4. DISEASES
Terminally ill people may decide to end their lives and those who suffer
incurable diseases.
b) FEELINGS
-Hopelessness- one feels that there is nothing to gain
-Shame-someone hates himself/herself
-Helpless-there is nothing she/he can do
-persisted anxiety/anger-having mood swings repeatedly
c) CHANGE
- Change in personality, e.g. more withdrawn, tired, talkative, outgoing
- Change in behaviour – one cannot concentrate on a routine task
- Change in pattern of sleep- e.g. oversleeping or early sleep or late sleep
- Change in eating – e.g. overeating, loss of appetite
- Loss of interest in friends, hobbies and activities one used to enjoy
d) THREATS
- Statements like ‘how long does it take to bleed to death’
- threats like ‘I wont be around for long’
- plans like putting things in order, giving away favourite things, obtaining
and owning weapons
EFFECTS OF SUICIDE
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EFFECTS ON THE FAMILY
INCREASE IN POVERTY
If a lot of people who commit suicide are breadwinners, families in the society
can become poor. This may put a strain on government social welfare funds.
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- It can also lead to societal breakups in cases where members of the family
or community feels that the relatives are responsible for the death or
suicide.
EUTHANASIA
It means an intervention to bring about gently and easy death to a person
It can be referred to as mercy killing or the painless killing of a person suffering
from an incurable and painful disease
TYPES OF EUTHANASIA
1. PASSIVE EUTHANASIA
This is the act of stopping life sustaining treatment. It does not involve the
actual doing of anything to prolong life. Relatives can ask for it if their patient is
supported by a machine and cannot have normal life without a machine.
2. ACTIVE UTHANASIA
This is when death voluntarily induced on a person. A person may ask for it or
relatives can ask for it.
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PAST AND PRESENT PRACTICES RELATED TO EUTHANASIA
1. PAST PRACTICES
during battle severely injured warrior could be stabbed to death by a
fellow warrior in order to save him from suffering due to his injuries
during times of severe drought very old people who could not provide for
themselves were abandoned and left to die of hunger and thirst, in order
to reduce the demand for the little food available
babies born with severe physical defects were suffocated to death by
midwives immediately after they are born
If a mother died in child birth and there was no one willing or able to take
care of the baby, the baby would be buried alive with the mother. This was
done because people felt that it was better for the baby to die than to
suffer without its mother
A will can be done by an individual whereby he/she wishes not to be put in a life
supporting machine because it is worth nothing he/she won’t survive for long.
This is called voluntary passive euthanasia
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The issue of euthanasia has passed a moral dilemma. Some think it helps
terminally ill people to get out of pain while others think that killing is wrong.
- Many religions disagree with this because God is the only one who gives
life and should be the one to take it away.
- Relations of trust between the doctors and patients could be destroyed.
- Some people wake from commas, so doctors can make mistakes.
- Modern medicines can help reduce pain.
- Relatives may persuade an old person to ask for mercy killing because
they want to inherit property.
- In Botswana, it is an offence against ancestors and God. They hope one
will recover. This is expressed in a proverb” moya goleele o lefa ka
marapo”.
2. Organ transplant
People can be given organs like kidneys, heart, liver, etc by other people (those
people will be referred to as donors).
3. Intravenous feeding
This is the use of machines top feed those who cannot eat and are weak
4. Drugs
People who suffer from pain e.g. those with terminal cancer are injected with
drugs to ease the pain
5. Artificial body parts
Some of the artificial parts can be used to `replace those that are damaged e.g.
arteries can be replaced.
6. Blood donations
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Blood is screened to check for diseases and then is donated to those in need to
save their lives.
Treatment dilemmas
Medical treatments sometimes have to make very difficult moral decisions as to;
- Who should benefit from life prolonging treatments and for how long
- whether or not to give a patient treatment that will prolong his or her life for just
a short time
- Whether or not to violate the patient’s right to give consent to life prolonging
treatment. Some people refuse to accept life prolonging medical treatments such
as blood transfusion for religious reasons
The moral dilemma the medical practitioner face is whether or not they should respect
the patient’s religious beliefs and right to consent. If they respect the patients beliefs
and rights it may lead to his or her death. if they ignore the patients beliefs and rights,
and do a blood transfusion, they may safe his or her life, but they will have violated the
patients rights to consent and his or her religious beliefs
Quality of life
Sometimes family members face a situation where medical treatment such as dialysis is
prolonging the life of their loved one but he or he is still suffering and has a very poor
quality of life. He relatives and other care givers may question whether or not it is
worth keeping the person alive o it is better to let them die and end hi or her needles
suffering
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AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome); a collection of diseases that
affect the body as the immune system weakens due to HIV infection.
o If individuals think they might have been exposed to the virus, testing can
put their minds at rest. They will know whether or not they are infected.
o Individuals who are HIV positive need to know their status sooner rather
than later because they will need to make important decisions and may
have to change their behaviour. For example..
they can make an effort to learn about how to live positively with
HIV, through diet and exercise
they may have to start ARV therapy before their immune system
collapses and nothing can be done to save their lives
they can take steps to protect their partners by practicing safe sex,
This will help avoid re-infection and transmission of the HIV to
another person
o If they want to have a baby, they can adopt measures to ensure that the
baby is not infected with HIV, for example by enrolling in the HIV
mother to child prevention therapy programme.
The attitude of most Batswana towards HIV testing has changed. Many now go
voluntarily and regularly for HIV testing. This could be of the following reasons;
The introduction of free ARV therapy in 2002 gave people hope. People
now know that when they test positive, they can receive ARV drugs which
help reduce the amount of the virus in their bodies and prolong their
lives.
Comprehensive education about HIV AIDS issues has now made many
Batswana aware of the importance of testing and knowing ones status.
Public campaigns now focus on behavioural change and no longer
threaten people with death.
The government has opened Tebelopele HIV testing centers all over the
country. This has made it easier and encouraged people to know their
status
When some people went public and announced their status, they
encouraged other people to test and know their status and this also
helped remove the stigma and fear of testing for HIV
Many people accept that intentionally infecting another person with HIV is
morally wrong conduct because of the following reasons
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It shows lack of empathy and consideration for others. One may infect
many who would otherwise remain HUV negative
HIV infection has serious consequences. It is an incurable infection that
can ruin the other person’s life. The other person may become infected
with HIV, develop ands and die
It shows lack of respect for human life because it puts the life of the other
person at risk
In a sexual; relationship, a partner may feel that his or trust was violated
because they were lied to and deceived
In many cases it may be difficult to prove that someone intentionally
transmitted HIV to another person, if there is no proof it would be morally
wrong to accuse someone of intentionally transmitting HIV to another
person
It places a duty on the person who has been told to keep the information
confidential, unless he or she has been given the permission to tell others
by the person who disclosed his or her status
It is easier to disclose ones status, if one is HIV negative because being
negative is seen as a good thing
If one is HIV positive it can be a stressful decision to make. The fear of
stigmatization, rejection and discrimination may make the individual
unwilling or reluctant to disclose his or her status
It can help build trust between you and the person being told
One may be seen as doing something morally right because the
information will enable others to protect themselves. Sexual partners and
caregivers can take the necessary precautions to protect themselves from
getting infected
Would enable others to show empathy and compassion towards you and to
know how best to help you
Means one would feel free to take the ARV medicines openly. There would
be no need to hide the drugs for fear of people finding out that one is HIV
positive
May encourage behavioural change in order to protect ones health. A
person is not likely to engage in sexually risky behaviour if she or he
knows that other people know that he or she is HIV positive
ON THE INDIVIDUAL
- affects the persons health and may lead to death
HIV makes one to be vulnerable to opportunistic infections. If one is HIV
positive and their immune system is weakened by the virus it may result in AIDS
which may lead to death.
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After testing HIV positive some people get emotionally stressed. This is because
no one likes being infected with HIV. Some may become even more emotionally
stressed when they get AIDS.
-despair
Some individuals despair as a result of testing HIV positive and may end up
behaving in morally and socially unacceptable ways by engaging for example, in
drug and alcohol abuse, adultery, prostitution and intentional transmission of
HIV. Some may commit suicide.
ON THE FAMILY
-divorce
If one spouse is HIV positive, while the other is HIV negative, this can lead to
tension s in the marriage. The spouse who is HIV negative may accuse the one
who is positive of being unfaithful and may decide to end the marriage. If both
husband and wife are positive, they may blame each other for being the source
of the infection. This too can lead to divorce.
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COMMUNITIES AND THE NATION
-It creates a problem of orphan hood for the community and nation
If relatives are unable or are not willing to take care of the orphans, the
community and nation in which the orphans coke from will have to help. The
orphans would have to be taken to orphanage which the community and the
nation would be expected to support. Some orphans may end up living on the
streets.
-it results in loss of skilled and well educated people
In Botswana the government spends a lot of money in educating and equipping
people with skills. When such people die the government will have to spend
more money in training more people to acquire such skills and levels of
education.
-it has a negative effect on the economy of the country and the country’s
development
The government of Botswana spends a lot of money on buying the ARV drugs,
which are given to AIDS patients for free. This then has a negative impact on the
country’s economy and it slows its developments. If many people in the country
are sick it can affect the productivity of a nation and lowers the economy and
slows the development.
Exercising
It can help the individual to relieve stress and to keep fit. Exercise can help
boost the immune system
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Getting enough rest
It is important for an HIV positive person to get enough rest because it allows
the body to recover from stress and fatigue one may be feeling. A well rested
body helps the immune system to function properly
There are various measures that people can use to prevent or reduce the risk
of becoming infected with HIV such as the following;
Using surgical gloves when attending to an injured person who is
bleeding
Having one sexual partner and being faithful to him or her
Using condom every time when having sexual intercourse
Male circumcision
Sexual abstinence
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The viral load test measures the amount of HIV in the body. The higher
the viral load the weaker the immune system. The viral load is checked
to ensure that the correct dosage of ARV drugs is given.
Counseling
A person should receive counseling before enrolling on the therapy.
The purpose of counseling is to:
1. Provide knowledge and understanding of the ARV therapy. For
example, patients will be advised about what to eat, the need for
exercise, and need to avoid certain foods, drinks and medicines.
2. Ensure the patient understands the importance of adhering to
instructions of how and when to take ARV medication.
3. Advise the person about the4 importance of coming for regular
checkups at the clinic or hospital.
4. Encourage them to have a positive attitude and to live positively.
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it can help a person re-gain their health and become productive
again
After enrolling on ARV therapy the person can become well enough
again, to work and become productive.
ARV like all drugs has negative side effects even if they are not taken
correctly. Below are some of the negative effects of ARV on a person’s
body.
-muscle pain
-diarrhoea
-skin rashes
-tiredness
-persistent headaches
-nausea
-abnormal menstruation patterns
-numbness in the hands and feet
One would have at least one family member to turn to for emotional
support.
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If the HIV positive person has AIDS, the family member who knows
one’s status can become a care giver. He or she will know how to take
care of the person properly without putting himself or herself at risk of
becoming infected.
Informing a family member about one’s HIV status can encourage the
family member to test for HIV if he or she has not already tested.
Empathy
Empathy is the ability to put oneself in another person’s situation and
imagine how he or she is feeling. People living with AIDS may be in
pain and unable to care for themselves. Empathy would enable us to
understand their suffering and needs. If we have empathy we are likely
to be more willing to help others.
Compassion
Compassion is a deep feeling of empathy for those who are suffering
and the desire to help them. It is necessary to treat people living with
AIDS compassionately because this will make them feel that other
people care about them. Having a feeling of compassion can make
people turn their feelings of sympathy into action.
Generosity
Generosity is the willingness to give and to share what one has. There
are many ways of being generous towards those living with HIV and
AIDS. This includes donating food, clothes, or money. It is important to
be generous to those living with HIV and AIDS because it shows that
we care.
Caring
Caring means to feel affection or love, and concern for somebody or
something. We need to care for those living with HIV and AIDS. We
can show that we care in various ways such as: cleaning, washing and
cooking for them as well as visiting them regularly when they are not
feeling well.
Respect
Respect means to admire someone or to treat someone with courtesy
and dignity. HIV positive people deserve respect because having the
virus does not make them less human. They have the same rights like
everybody else. We can show respect to people living with HIV and
AIDS in various ways such as respecting their privacy by not gossiping
about their HIV status and speaking to them politely.
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THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING A COMPASSIONATE ATTITUDE
TOWARDS HIV POSITIVE PEOPLE
It may encourage them to join the fight against HIV and AIDS
A compassionate attitude can help those living with HIV to educate
others about HIV prevention and to live positively with the virus.
The family
- They do not stigmatise family members who are HIV positive. They help
them continue having a
Positive attitude towards life.
-they respect their rights to privacy by keeping their HIV positive status
confidential.
-when the HIV person is ill, they make sure that they get the care and
medical attention they need.
-they do not blame them for becoming infected with HIV. Instead they
provide emotional support and
encourage them to accept their status
.
-they may be accused of becoming infected because they are promiscuous
and a disgrace to the family. As a result, family members may be unwilling to
support and care for the relative who is HIV positive.
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-some family members may not respect their relative’s right to privacy and
confidentiality by disclosing their HIV positive status to other people.
-husbands and wives may divorce their spouses or start ill-treating them
when their spouses test HIV positive. This is because the most common way
through which HIV is transmitted is through unprotected sex therefore they
will feel that their spouses were unfaithful
Schools
-learners who are HIV positive should be given special care and attention by
the school. For example, through the guidance and counselling department
learners are given counselling to help them cope with their status.
-staff members are required to respect the privacy and confidentiality of the
HIV positive status of learners and other staff members.
-learners who are HIV positive have the right to attend school lessons and
take part in school activities like any other learner. They should not be
discriminated against. However, just like any social group, there may be
some individuals who discriminate against people that they know are HIV
positive. For example some individuals may:
not be willing to sit next to someone whom they have heard is HIV
positive.
Disclose the status of the people they know are HIV positive without
their consent. This is violation of the person’s right to privacy.
Religious groups
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- Many religious groups do not discriminate against people who are HIV
positive. Followers are encouraged to treat them with love, compassion
and respect.
- They are given emotional and spiritual support. For example they can be
prayed for and encouraged to have faith and to avoid despairing
- They may be given material support, for example religious groups may
donate money, food and clothes to organisations that support HIV positive
people.
INFERTILITY
FEMALE INFERTILITY
Female infertility is the inability to conceive, or to produce viable eggs that can
be fertilised by the sperm, or the woman’s womb not being able to carry a
fertilised egg to a full term. When a woman cannot bear children, she is said to
be infertile.
MALE INFERTILITY
Male infertility is the inability to induce conception
n, or to produce enough sperms to fertilise an egg, usually caused by impotence.
Impotence is not being able to have an erection or not being able to ejaculate.
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TRADITIONAL PRACTICES RELATED TO INFERTILITY
Polygamy
If a woman was infertile, a husband would marry a second wife with the
hope that the second wife would be able to bear children for the family.
adoption
An infertile couple could adopt children of close relatives and raise them
as their own.
surgery
A woman can undergo surgery to correct the blockage of oviducts.
However, this may not be always successful.
When fertilisation takes place, several zygotes are then inserted into the
woman’s uterus through a test tube. The zygote develops into a foetus.
However multiple births can result if all the zygotes develop. Usually some
zygotes are stored and used if the first transplant is not successful. If it is
successful, the remaining zygotes are disposed.
artificial insemination
Semen is inserted into the woman’s uterus. This method is usually used
when the man has a low sperm count. The sperm may come from the
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husband if the woman is married, or if the husband’s sperm are of poor
quality, a donor’s sperm may be used. Some single women use donor
sperm if they want to be single mothers.
Adoption
An infertile couple may adopt a child. A child can be adopted from within
the family or from an orphanage. Nowadays a formal and legal agreement
has to be made and approved by a court of law.
Surrogacy
Surrogacy refers to the arrangement in which one woman (surrogate
mother) agrees to bear a child for another woman.
egg donation
This method is used when a woman has problems with her ovaries and as
a result does not produce eggs or she produces eggs that cannot be
fertilised. Another woman may donate eggs which would be fertilised and
implanted in her womb through the in-vitro fertilisation method.
in-vitro fertilisation
It brings happiness to a childless couple because they can have
a biological child of their own.
If successful, it can boost the self esteem of a childless couple.
Some couples lose
self esteem when they are not able to bear children because in
many societies infertility is stigmatised. People who cannot bear
children are ridiculed and even insulted. They may be called
derogatory names. For example, in Setswana terms such as
moopa, setwatwa or moreba are used.
Multiple births that can result from in-vitro fertilisation can put
a strain on the woman’s body and can also result in emotional
depression of having to take care of many children born at the
same time.
A child born through this method can lose self-esteem and
become ashamed when other people refer to him or her as a
test tube baby.
The remaining zygotes are disposed. People who believe that
life starts at conception consider it as a murder or disrespect
for human life because the zygotes if implanted in the uterus
have the potential to grow into a baby.
Surrogacy
Some surrogate mothers are paid. This brings up the question
of whether it is morally right or acceptable to buy a baby or to
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be paid for the use of one’s womb to carry a baby for someone
else.
The surrogate mother may develop an emotional bond with the
unborn baby. As a result, she may refuse to give up the baby or
experience emotional trauma after she gives away the baby.
Later on in life, the child may want to know the woman who
gave birth to him or her. This can result in a conflict between
the child and his or her parents.
Adoption
Through adoption, a childless couple provides a home to a child
who could possibly be homeless.
Adoption can boost the self esteem of the childless couple and
that of the adopted child. Some children appreciate having
been adopted rather than having to grow up in an orphanage.
When an adopted child becomes a problem, it can result in
conflict between the married couple. They can blame each
other for coming up with the idea of adoption.
In most cases children are adopted when they are babies or are
very young. They cannot give consent to the adoption.
The family of the adopted child may want their child back later,
and this can result in a conflict between the family which
adopted the child and the biological family or the parents of the
child.
If the child discovers that he or she was adopted, it can create
an identity crisis. The child may want to know who the
biological parents or family are, and may even want to leave the
adopted family and return to the biological family.
artificial insemination
Since sperm donors may be anonymous, this denies the child
the right to know their biological father.
The sperm from one donor may be used to impregnate different
women. The children will never know their half brothers and
sisters. This may create a risk of incestuous relationships later
on in their lives.
SOCIAL JUSTICE
Social justice is concerned with treating everyone fairly and equally in order to
attain social harmony in society. Social justice therefore involves;
- giving everyone in the society equal rights and opportunities
- allowing everyone equal and fair access to economic resources and the
basic needs of life such as food, shelter, clothes and medical care
- making everyone equal before the law
FAIRNESS
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-treating people justly
-conforming to established rules which give everyone the same treatment and
life chances
- It involves treating everyone in the same way.
- Fairness is about being impartial. Being impartial involves making decisions
and treating people based on objective reasons rather than on the basis of bias,
prejudice or favoritism for improper reasons
EXAMPLES OF FAIRNESS
- Fair decisions are made when all family members are treated in the same way.
E.g., for example boys and girls must take turns in cleaning dishes
-providing public toilets not only for able bodied people but also for people with
physical disabilities who are using wheel chairs
-serving food and drinks only to people who have contributed money for the
party
-fairness in decision-making prevails when both men and women are given the
same treatment. E.g. Administering corporal punishment to both men and
women offenders
EQUALITY
Equality means treating people in the same way and avoiding any form of
discrimination. People enjoy the same rights and opportunities
- This refers to giving people equal access to rights and opportunities. Equality
means there should be no bias.
- In Botswana all the learners have a right to have a meal provided by their
school at tea and lunch time. Boarders are also given breakfast and supper
- Requiring that students wear the prescribed school uniform without
exception
- Giving the males and females the same education and employment
opportunities. For example in Botswana both males and females can now
work underground at the mine and in the army
- All children have a right to go to school regardless of the economic status
of their parents
- Everyone in the country is protected by the law regardless of one’s sex,
race, ethnic group, or place of origin
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- in some cultural groups, a widow is expected to wear mourning clothes
after the death of her husband, while a widower does not wear any
mourning clothes after the death of his wife
- School textbooks are not written in Braille for visually impaired students,
this affects their learning and they may not perform to their potential.
- Many public buildings do not cater for people with disabilities. For
example some schools, shops , churches do not have ramps for those using
wheelchairs
SUCCESSION TO BOGOSI
Some ethnic groups still do not allow women to inherit chieftainship. If
the oldest child is a female, her oldest younger brother becomes the
chief after the death of their father.
INHERITANCE CUSTOMS
In some ethnic groups, the only or the youngest male child inherits his
parents’ home even if he did not help build the house. Female children
even they helped build the house cannot inherit the property. In most
cases, female children do not inherit valuable properties from their
parents. For example they may inherit kitchen utensils and furniture,
while the male children inherit the homestead and livestock
CUSTOMARY MARRIAGE
The customary law of Botswana allows Polygyny only. Men are allowed
to marry as many wives as they wish at a time. Women are not allowed
to marry more than one husband at a time
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- Only white people were allowed to vote during general elections to elect
the country’s government, citizens such as blacks, Indians, coloureds and
Chinese did not have the right to vote.
- Unequal distribution of development and wealth. Most of the country’s
wealth was used to develop areas reserved for white people only.
- There are inequalities in the distribution of health services. Some
provinces have more doctors than others. Most urban areas have better
services than rural areas
- There are gender inequalities in the work place, for example senior
management positions in big companies and organisations, are held
mostly by men not women
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Some parents promote fairness by making sure that chores allocated to
children are suitable for their age
Some parents promote equality by avoiding gender bias when allocating
chores to their children. E.g both ma le and female children are expected
to help with the cooking, cleaning the house, and washing dishes
Some man make decisions together with their wives in matters concerning
their families
Parents ensure fairness and equality by ensuring that their children have
an equal share of property in their wills
The school
By teaching learners and fairness and equality and encouraging treating
others fairly and equally. E g in subjects such as Moral Education and
Social Studies
Ensuring all students have equal and fair access to learning resources
such as textbooks and opportunities to develop their talents
In every class their monitors and prefects who represent the interest of
the learners on issues that affect them
By ensuring schools rules are obeyed by all students without exception.
Punishment for breaking rules being fair for all.
By ensuring all students wear school uniform
Religions
By teaching followers to treat other fairly and equally
Religions preach against discrimination, especially of vulnerable people
such as the children, the poor and the disabled. They encourage people to
respect others
As a way of promoting gender equality some religion groups accept
women as religious leaders
The kgotla
Through kgotla meeting members of the community are encouraged to
treat each other fairly and equally and not violate the rights of others
To promote fairness, before disputes are settled, every person is given a
fair hearing. a person has a right to appeal to a high court if he or she is
unhappy with the judgment
Both males and females are allowed to attend kgotla meetings
In order to promote fairness, all people are allowed to voice their views
during kgotla meetings
Dictatorship refers to the act of exercising complete powers over people and
forcefully telling them what to do.
1. FAMILY
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- Husbands may make decisions concerning family matters without consulting
their wives and except their wife’s to accept the decisions without complaining
or disagreeing. They may even indicate that their decisions are final.
- A mother in-law dictating to a daughter in law how she should care for her
children
- Parents choosing a husband or wife for their son or daughter. Some may refuse
their son’s or daughter’s choice of marriage partner.
- choosing for a spouse, who they should be friends with and who they should
not be friends with without any explanation. The spouse is not allowed to
question the decision.
2. THE SCHOOL
- School management making or changing rules without consulting parents, staff
members and students
- scheduling study time over the weekend and insisting that all students attend
even if they have good reasons for not being able to do so.
3. RELIGION/CHURCH
- In some religions, followers are expected to follow their leaders without
question e.g they are not allowed to question how money collected for religious
purposes is being spent.
- Some religious leaders indicate how members of the religious group should live
their lives
1. ABORTION
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Most social institutions believe that the rights of the unborn baby should be
protected than protecting of the mother. That is why abortion is illegal in
Botswana. Those people deciding the laws in the government are those who
have grown up in social institutions. If people feel that made laws are unfair the
government will listen to the complaints of the people and amendments are to
be made. There are situations where abortion can be accepted e.g. rape, incest,
pregnancy threatening the life of the mother. Sometimes people believe that to
commit abortion is a personal choice and some may differ.
Churches are anti-abortion. The religious beliefs of families may lead them to
socialize their individual members to accept that life is sacred and abortion is
therefore morally wrong. In such families when a teenager falls pregnant, even
if the parents are angry they would not allow their child to have an abortion
Schools teach students about the consequences of abortion, the different views
and beliefs on abortion and the moral implications of abortion. This may
influence the student’s views on abortion
2. PROSTITUTION
Many societies believe that prostitution is illegal and morally wrong. People
believe it impurifies the human body. People tend to practice prostitution for
various reasons e.g. lack of money, food, and employment. Family, community
and schools can influence issues of prostitution. If one gets enough education
and gain skills he will have the chances to get a job. Providing alternatives to
work in sex industries is an impossible issue not only for the individual but also
for the whole society why because prostitutes have multiple sexual partners.
They are at risk of STD’s that they can pass to those uninfected.
4. CAPITAL PUNISHMENT
It is condemned by most religions, they believe it violates a persons right to life
and is cruel, inhuman and an act of revenge. It violates the teaching of ‘thou
shall not kill’. Generally religions are against violence and do not support capital
punishment because it involves violence
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The school promotes awareness of capital punishment as a human rights issue.
Learners are taught about views and beliefs held by other people and different
organization and these influences the learner’s views and opinions about capital
punishment
6. SUICIDE
Religion considers suicide as a morally wrong thing because life is considered
sacred. Those who commit suicide are considered to be committing a sin. This
religious belief may influence the followers attitude towards suicide and those
who attempt to commit it. Families influence its members to avoid suicide
through religious beliefs and teachings of moral values such as respect or life
CITIZENSHIP
The status gives one the entitlement to legal protection by the laws of a country.
- The state of having full rights as a member of a country; either by birth or law
A citizen is-
- An inhabitant of a country
-a member of a nation
-a person belonging to a certain country
BIRTH
If the person was born in Botswana and both the parents are Batswana
BY DECENT
If one was born in Botswana but both or one of the parents is a Motswana
ADOPTION
If a non citizen child of not more than three years of age is adopted by a
Motswana parent, the child may be granted citizenship
REGISTRATION
A person who can become a citizen by registration is a foreigner who is granted
citizenship by the president as an honour for having worked hard and shown
high commitment and loyalty to Botswana
BY NATURALISATION
If a person has lived in Botswana for attleast ten years may apply for citizenship.
But a person who is married to a citizen of Botswana, may apply after living in
Botswana for attleast five years
BY SETTLEMENT
A person who settled in Botswana before its independence in 30 th September
1966 and have lived in Botswana as a member of a particular tribe and
community, shall if they so wish, make a declaration as prescribed and become a
citizen of Botswana
RESPONSIBILITIES
CIVIL RIGHTS
These are the entitlements that one has because of being a citizen of a
particular country. They are drawn up and provided by the government
The difference between civil rights and natural rights is that natural rights are
common to every human being just for being human, whereas civil rights are
specific to citizens of a particular country.
Tradition is the passing of beliefs and custom from one generation to the other.
LOCAL NATIONAL
Proverbs Currency
Values National flag
Totems Constitution
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Taboos Coat of arms
Riddles National anthem
1. TABOO (MEILA)
They are meant to ensure the security for people as well as to protect the
welfare of the individuals and the community at large.
The taboos safeguard or protect the secrets of the community to be exposed to
other people of a different community;
They also encourage and discourage certain types of behaviour of the
community members.
2. RIDDLES (DITLHAMALAKANE)
They are used to improve the thinking skills and logic of the people
-they are educational.
-They used as a form of entertainment thus keeping youngsters busy and free
from danger.
-Riddles illustrate aspects of particular tradition in an area where people are
locate
-they provide powerful moral lessons to individuals.
3. TOTEMS (DIRETO)
They are used by people as an identity for their tribe
- give people pride.
- provide peace and harmony amongst people.
4. PROVERBS (DIANE)
They teach people morality,
-they encourage moral values such as respect and cooperation
-they reinforce customs and traditions.
5. NATIONAL FLAG
It gives the nation an identity and gives the people pride of their country. It
strengthens unity amongst the people of a country as they will be abiding to a
common flag.
6. CONSTITUTION
It encourages peace and harmony amongst people; it ensures that everyone’s
rights are respected as well as laying the basic rules and freedoms which people
are entitled to.
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o Some traditions encourage good behaviour and discourage bad
behaviour. E.g. bogwera and bojale teach young people how to behave
in morally right ways in the community
o National traditions encourage people to be patriotic. National
traditions such as respect for National symbols and celebration of
important political holidays encourage citizens to love and be loyal to
the country
o Traditions unite people; both local and national tradition can unite
people. E.g. the singing of the national anthem, wearing the national
colours and coming together for patlo and bogadi can create a sense of
unity among people
o Traditions promote peace and social harmony and cooperation in
society. Forms of cooperation such as majako, mafias,molaletsa and
motshelo encourage people to help each other. This in turn promotes
peace, kagisano and cooperation among people
Laws are the rules supported by the power of government to control the
behaviour of the citizen’s e.g.
- No one should murder
- do not drink and drive
- do not give false information.
RULES IN INSTITUTIONS
FAMILY RULES
Do not come home from playing or visiting friends after dark
Always wash your hands before and after eating
Do not use vulgar language
Do the chores assigned to you on time
Respect your elders
SCHOOL RULES
All students should be punctual to school
All students should wear proper school uniform
The use of vulgar language is not allowed within the school premises
No weapons and sharp objects such as knives are allowed in school
Students should respect other students and all members of staff
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HOSPITAL RULES
Visitors should adhere to the visiting times
Children below age of 12 are not allowed to visit patients
Switch off cellphones when you are in the consultation room
Visitors are not allowed to eat in the wards
The hospital shall not be held responsible for the loss of valuable property
belonging to the patients
3. ABOLISHMENT OF LAWS
Sometimes laws that have been made long time back may loose their importance
as they may address issues that no longer taking place or happening so they
need to be terminated or stopped to be on use.
CRIME
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Crime can be defined as
- An act punishable by law
- An action forbidden by the law
- An activity which breaks the law and is a subject to official punishment
TYPES OF CRIME
-Offences against property- theft, burglary, house breaking
- Offences against public, disorder, nuisance, insulting behaviour
- Offences against the road traffic act- dangerous driving, over speeding
- Offences against morality- rape, bestiality
- Offences against persons- murder, assault, abuse
CAUSES OF CRIME
- Poverty and Unemployment-
Some people may commit crime because they are very poor and have no means
of earning a living. E.g. they may engage in criminal acts such as stealing and
receiving stolen goods in order to earn money or to acquire items they need to
support themselves
- Greed
Some people want more money and property than they actually need or can
afford. As a result they engage in crime in order to try and satisfy their desire to
acquire as much money and property as possible
- peer pressure
Some people especially young people may engage in criminal activities such as
theft and robbery because of peer pressure from their friends.
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EFFECTS OF CRIME TO THE CRIMINAL
-LOSS OF LIFE
The victim can kill a criminal during the time of the crime as a way of self-
defense and to defend his belonging, Or may be sentenced to death as a
punishment. E.g. in Botswana where capital punishment is practiced, a
murderer can be sentenced to death
-LOSS OF DIGNITY
A criminal may lose dignity or his worthy when he is caught in an act of crime. If
he was a well known somebody people will turn to discriminate towards him.
-LOSS OF PROPERTY
The criminal can loose her property when caught in act of crime so her
belongings can be re-possessed to be sold in order to repay those who she stole
from.
-LOSS OF FREEDOM
All crimes are punishable by the law. A person suspected of committing crime
can be arrested and tried in a court of law. If found guilty he or she cab be
punished by being imprisoned. Imprisonment involves the loss of freedom.
-PERMANENT INJURIES
When caught in an act of crime such as theft and robbery, a criminal may be
injured by the criminal. The victim may shoot him/her in self defence. Some
people who commit crimes such as shoplifting or mug people in public places
are beaten by members of the public and as a result they may sustain
permanent injuries
-LOSS OF LIFE
Victims of murder loose their life’s. Other violent crimes such as robbery,
assault and battery can result in loss of the victim’s life
-PERMANENT DISABILITY
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Some crimes such as robbery and rape involve the use of violence. The criminal
may cause permanent injuries to the victim while committing the crime. For
example the criminal may stab or shoot the victim resulting in the victim
becoming paralysed
-SPREAD OF DISEASES
Victims of rape and defilement can become infected with sexually transmitted
infection such as HIV. This can affect their health badly
ECONOMIC CRIME
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Economic crime is any act of gaining wealth illegally for oneself, an organization
or a company and results in a financial loss to the victim
1. FRAUD
Fraud is the act of intentionally deceiving other people in order to obtain their
money or property. Facts are deliberately misinterpreted to mislead a victim.
E.g.
Forgery or counterfeiting
False pretences- involve a person pretending to have certain qualities
and abilities that they do not have. E.g. using faked or altered certificates
to gain admission into an educational institution or to obtain employment.
Embezzlement- is taking money or property entrusted to one’s care,
custody, or control without permission, and using one’s benefit. E.g a
finance officer who receives money for the organization she works for and
then deposits the money in his or her personal account or uses it for his or
her own personal benefit
2. TAX EVASION
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
- It is considered morally wrong because it involves being untruthful and
dishonest
- It violates moral values of fairness and justice. People who deliberately
evade paying tax place a greater and unfair burden on honest tax payers.
- It violates the standard of morally acceptable conduct in the society
because it involves abandoning one’s civil responsibility. It results in loss
of income for the government and this can threaten its ability to develop
the country and provide services that benefit the whole country.
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- It is the practice of deliberately not declaring, declaring false values, or
wrongly classifying imported goods or services in order not to pay any
duty or to reduce the amount of duty to0 pay
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
- It is considered morally wrong because it involves being untruthful and
dishonest
- It violates moral values of fairness and justice. People who deliberately
evade paying duty on imported goods and services places an unfair tax
burden on people who honestly declare the value of their imported goods
and services
- It violates society standards of morally acceptable conduct, because it
violates the principle of social responsibility. It results in loss of income for
the government and this can threaten its ability to develop the country and
provide services
4.MONEY LAUNDERING
- Is the process by which money obtained illegally, is made to appear to
have been earned legally. This is done by hiding its original illegal source
and legitimizing it for future use. This makes it difficult to trace the
original source of the money
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
- Money laundering is considered morally wrong because it involves being
dishonest and benefiting from money obtained illegally, and usually from
criminal activities
- It can tarnish the image of a country and its financial institutions. This can
result in loss of investor confidence
- Money laundering is considered immoral conduct in the society because
it violates the civic responsibility people have to obey and uphold the law
CORRUPTION
BRIBERY
- The practice of offering or asking somebody for money or other incentives
to do something dishonest or illegal.
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
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- Bribery can result in low productivity because officials will not perform
their duties unless they are bribed
- Bribery makes the public loose trust in the government or an organization
because of officials who take bribes.
CONFLICT OF INTEREST
Conflict of interest is a clash between the public and private interest of
somebody in an official position and involved in making decisions for an
organization, a company or the government
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
- A person with a conflict of interest not makes just and fair decisions. They
may want to favour themselves or their relatives and friends
- The public can loose confidence and trust in the process of decision
making of the organization or government
- Individuals who do not disclose conflict of interest, may benefit themselves
or their relatives and friends unfairly and unjustly from the decisions and
activities of the organization and the government at the expense of the
greater good of the organization or the country
MORAL IMPLICATIONS
VIOLENCE
TYPES OF VIOLENCE
Physical violence
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It is the use of ones hands or an object to cause physical pain or injury. It
involves actions such as punching, kicking, hitting, slapping, pulling hair,
pouring hot liquid over someone and burning someone
Sexual violence
Sexual violence involves use of physical force to make another person engage in
sexual activities against their wish or without their consent e.g. cases of rape.
Rapists may use victims as their sex tools (use them any how). This kind of
violence may lead to injury, HIV/AIDS, unwanted pregnancies and also inability
to have a long term relationship. However sexual violence also includes situation
such as using force to kiss someone, or to touch their breasts, buttocks and
genitals
Domestic violence
This is a form of violence which takes place in the home. It involves different
kinds of abuse between family members. For example, spouses who beat their
partners at home and children who are deliberately hurt by their parents or care
takers.
Social violence
Social violence is the type of violence that occurs in the society e.g. robbery,
burglary, rape, murder and others.
Political violence
Political violence refers to the use of physical force against people to achieve a
political objectives or goals. it is the type of violence that result in issues such as
when one group tries to impose their beliefs or views unto other people. , war,
injuries, assassination and other related brutal acts. It involves beating up
people murder rape and torture in order to force them to vote for a particular
political party or because of disputes over election results.
Religious violence
Religious violence happens as a result of religious reasons. People can fight
because of intolerance. This is a situation where religions do not accept others
or when they speak bad thing about others religious beliefs.
CAUSES OF VIOLENCE
Media influence
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When some people see violent acts on television or doing certain things they just
copy such behaviour. The viewers end up committing such acts of violence
shown on television.
Peer pressure
Some people become violent as a result of being influenced by their age mates.
E.g. young people may influence others to belong to violent gangs and to go
around beating and terrorizing other people in the communities
1. VICTIM
- Loss of life
Violence may lead to loss of life because it involves the use of physical force. the
death of the victim may be caused intentionally or unintentionally
- Physical injuries
Violence often results in physical injuries. Some of the injuries can lead to
permanent disabilities. E.g. loss of teeth, eye, ear or limbs. A person can become
paralysed for life
- Transmission of STI’S and other diseases
Sexual violence can result in a victim becoming infected with infections such as
HIV, syphilis or gonorrhea. A female victim may even fall pregnant as a result of
having been raped and this may force her to have an abortion
-Emotional stress
The experience of violence may lead to depression and feelings of anger, guilt,
humiliation and resentment. This can affect the victims’ mental health
negatively
- Fear
Victims of violence live in fear of the perpetrator of violence against them. They
will not feel safe or secure wherever they are, e.g. at school, home and at work.
Living in constant fear of being attacked can affect a person’s self confidence
and ability to live a normal life.
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- Some will be depressed, have mental disturbance and think of committing
suicide so as to be free from violence.
- Loss of self esteem.
The victim of violence may loose self esteem and may no longer feel good about
himself or herself. E.g. victims of rape may have a low self esteem
- Loss of life
A perpetrator may be killed during the course of committing violent acts. E.g. a
victim of violence may kill him or here in self defence. If the perpetrator is found
guilty of murder, he or she can be sentenced to death.
- Physical injuries
Violence often results in physical injuries. Some of the injuries can lead to
permanent disabilities. E.g. loss of teeth, eye, ear or limbs. A person can become
paralysed for life
- Loss of respect
Violence is regarded as morally unacceptable behaviour. People who are violent
are normally not respected by other people. E.g. a man who physically abuses
his wife may loose the respect from his children, friends and neighbours
3. FAMILY
Domestic violence may lead to family breakdown. This may lead to
children and spouse running way from home in order to escape from
suffering.
Children may run away from home and end up being street kids and
they may resort to crime as way of surviving.
If parents die in the act of violence children will become orphans.
Children become bitter and want to revenge when one of their family
members is disabled or loose life due to violence.
Violence breed violence; being socialized in a violent environment may
lead to children being violent since children learn through imitating what
people do.
If children were abused sexually they may not want to be involved or
form healthy relationships in future.
4. SOCIETY
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Under development; if there is violence in the society e.g. political
violence involving war, property may be damaged hence this would be
costly to repair damage property or replace it and also people will be
scared to take part in development activities.
Low production; as people die due to violence, both unskilled and skilled
personnel/labour would be lost hence there will be less production which
may lead to down fall of the economy.
Street kids; children may decide to run away from home to be street kids
to escape from violence. The society will be burdened with taking care of
them.
1. VIOLENT RESPONSE
This means meeting violence with violence. If someone have been violent on to
you, you are going to revenge to him through violence. E.g. a person who is
battered by a spouse may decide to fight back or a country may decide to fight
back when attacked. There is a saying that goes “an eye for an eye “or
“violence breeds violence”.
2. PACIFISM
It means solving the differences in a peaceful way without using any violent
means. Mahatma Gandhi used to say ‘an eye for an eye and soon we shall
perish’. If people are having problems, they have to solve them through
discussions.
3. NEGOTIATION
It is another means of responding to violence whereby people meet and discuss
their differences and end up reaching a common agreement to solve their
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differences. Negotiation often involves both sides in a dispute accepting less
than what they originally wanted.
4. MEDIATION
When people fight against each other, an individual or a group of people who
are not involved in the conflict can be asked to mediate in order to end the
violence. Mediators are not supposed to take sides. Their role is to end the
conflict peacefully. E.g. in most cultures when a married couple fight, normally
their parents or close relatives act as mediators to encourage them to resolve
their conflicts peacefully.
- Rape
Rape is forcing someone to have sexual intercourse against his or her will. Being
in a sexual relationship does not give one the right to force one’s partner to have
sexual intercourse
- Defilement
Defilement is having a sexual relationship with any person under the age of 16.
if a person is found guilty of defilement the penalty is a minimum of 10 years
and maximum of life imprisonment
- Homosexuality
Means being sexually attracted to people of the same sex, men are usually
attracted to other men, and women are sexually attracted to other women.
- Incest
Incest refers to sexual activity between family members who are closely related
by blood, for example, brothers and sisters, parents and children. According to
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the law in Botswana, incest is having sexual intercourse with someone who is
one’s grandchild, child, brother, sister or parent.
- Bigamy
In Botswana people who are married under civil marriage laws can only have
one living husband or wife at a time. If a person while still having a living
husband or wife marries someone else under civil marriage law, they are guilty
of the offence called bigamy
- Domestic violence
In Botswana, the domestic violence act of 2008 deals with violence in sexual
relationships. e.g. between couple that is married, cohabiting or dating. This act
considers any abusive behaviour that harms the health or safety of one’s sexual
partner as a crime
Selfishness
Some people are selfish and only think about themselves and their needs. They
do not have empathy for others and are usually inconsiderate of the needs of
others. E.g. when the lover of a selfish person decides to end the sexual
relationship, he or she may feel rejected and decide to kill the ex lover.
Obsessive possessiveness
Possessiveness is a believe that one has to own something or someone as a
possession and feeling that one cannot function without it or them.
Possessiveness can become an obsession which may lead to unreasonable
behaviour and may result in some people killing their lovers.
Economic reasons
Some people kill their lovers when their lovers want to end the sexual
relationship because they feel that they have spent a lot of money on them.
Usually lovers spend money on each other.
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- Killing a love partner violates our understanding of what love is. It is
betrayal of the trust the partner had in the person they were having or had
an intimate relationship with
- The love partner who is killed may the mother or father of a child or
children the couple had together. This can be emotionally traumatic and
can also put the children in a moral dilemma. They do not know whether
to love and trust the parent who committed the crime.
- It can break up family relationships because the dead person’s family will
always blame and even hate the killer for the loss of their loved one
Public education
People can be educated on how to deal with problems which may occur in
relationships which could lead to crimes involving sexual partners, e.g. through
drama performances at public events and the mass media
PUNISHMENT
This is the disciplinary action against somebody who has broken the
law or committed an offence.
Punishment can be seen as a penalty given to an offender or someone
who has done wrong.
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TYPES OF PUNISHMENT
Fine; the offender pays a certain amount specified by the court as a form
of punishment.
Imprisonment; this means keeping someone in a correctional institution
for a period of time in such a way that s/he may not interact with the
public for a certain period of time.
Probation: this is when a criminal usually a first time offender is let off
but warned. The offender is placed under official supervision for a period
of time not to repeat the same criminal activities.
Manual labour; this involves giving an offender physical work for a
period of time e.g. cutting grass
Corporal punishment; this involves giving an offender who has been
found guilty of breaking rules or laws some strokes/lashes (i.e.) whipping
Capital punishment; this involves sentencing a criminal to death.
Community arrest/service; this is when an offender has to work for
period of time helping in community projects or facilities.
House arrest; this is when people are confined to their houses. This is
often used on political prisoners of high social status.
Expulsion; being forced to leave the place or an institution as a form of
punishment.
Compensation; the offender pays the equal financial loss to the victim.
Some types of punishment are believed to violate human rights of the people
being punished. Eg. Some people believe capital punishment violate the right
to life
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Punishing people equally means that people who commit similar crimes
should be given similar punishment. However they should also be punished
fairly.
1. Vindication
This is based on the desire to revenge not to forgive. This could be cruel or
unfair
2. Retribution
This is the idea that someone deserves to be punished, if s/he breaks the law.
The criminal is punished in such a way that s/he will feel the pain s/he has
caused the victim. This is ‘eye for an eye’ and ‘a tooth for a tooth’. It is assumed
that a person was aware of what s/he was doing and should pay the price for
bad behaviour. -it makes wrong doers pay a price for what they have done, that
is an eye for an eye. If you have done something wrong you have to be made to
feel the consequences so that you do not repeat it.
-it gives a clear message on a society’s expected moral behaviour, it means that
punishment serves at uplifting the societal norms of values of keep law and
order in society by punishing the wrong doers.
3. Rehabilitation/ Reformative
This is idea that someone can become a better person after a period of
punishment i.e reform or change the character of the criminal to a responsible
person. In contrast to retribution, it assumes that the criminal can not take full
responsibility of him/herself when s/he committed crime.
4. Protection
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This is intended to offer people security against criminals. The most common
way to offer security against criminals is to lock them up in prison. -it protect
people from criminals by putting them in prisons that is those wrong doers will
be separated from the society thus helping in reducing number of criminals
-to ensure that there is peace and harmony in society because wrong doers will
be put into trials and can end up being secluded
5. Deterrence
This is intended to scare off potential criminals. It aims to stop people from
committing crimes more than once and also hopes to stop people from ever
committing crime.
1. THE KGOTLA
-It tries cases and ensures that criminals are punished e.g. if someone stole a
goat he may repay back with a goat or two
- The Kgosi and the elders give the criminal guidance and counseling in order to
improve his behaviour
-it uses corporal punishment a lot in order to punish the criminal and to prevent
others who were thinking of doing the same offence.
2. PRISONS
-they protect the society from criminals by keeping criminals away from the
society
-they provide criminals with some opportunities for self improvement e.g. being
trained in carpentry, brick laying, and knitting.
-they act as deterrent because they discourage criminals from committing
crimes again and deter those who were thinking of committing similar crimes
- The criminals are offered guidance and counseling about the moral
implications and consequences of committing crimes
3. REHABILITATION CENTRES
- They are concerned with correcting and improving the behaviour of offenders
-they provide offenders with programmes that will help them to recognize what
they have done wrong, boost their self confidence and make them less likely to
commit crimes again.
CAPITAL PUNISHMENT
Capital punishment refers to death penalty or when person who have committed
a serious crime is punished by being killed.
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- electrocution whereby a person is put into an electric chair and is given a
very large electric shock which will kill him
- lethal injection is when a person is given an injection that causes instant
death
- firing squad the person is blind folded and a small group of soldiers shoot
him/her till he/she dies
- Stoning
- Gas chamber
- beheading
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HUMAN RIGHTS
Human rights are
-universal ethical principles
-are universal moral rights that belong morally to all people because they are all
human beings
-are what people are entitled to irregardless of their gender race and colour or
age
A right is an entitlement
ARTICLE 1
- “All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights.
They are endowed with reason and conscience and should act
towards one another in the spirit of brotherhood”
This article states that all people are free and equal simply because they are
human beings. People should be treated the same and there should be no
discrimination. Human beings can tell the difference between right and wrong,
so they should treat each other well. Our conscience and ability to reason should
enable us to treat each other in the spirit of brotherhood and that involves
treating each other with kindness, dignity, equality, fairness, respect empathy,
generosity, botho etc.
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ARTICLE 2.
- “Everyone is entitled to all the rights and freedoms set forth in
this declaration, without distinction of any kind such as race,
colour, sex, language, religion, political, or other opinion, national
or social origin, property, birth or other status. Furthermore, no
distinction shall be made on the basis of political, jurisdictional or
international status of the country or territory to which a person
belongs, whether it be independent, trust, non-self governing or
under any other limitation or sovereignty”
This article acknowledges that people and countries are different in many ways.
However the article requires that these differences should not prevent people
from enjoying their rights and freedoms as stated in the UDHR. Human rights
are for all, without distinction and regardless of the status of the country or
territory to which they belong. This article is based on the principles of equality
and non-discrimination in the enjoyment of human rights and fundamental
freedoms
ARTICLE 4
- “No one should be held in slavery or servitude; slavery or the slave
trade shall be prohibited in all their forms”
Article 4 prohibits slavery, servitude and the slave trade in all their forms.
Slavery is the status or condition of a person who is owned by another person as
his or her property. Servitude is the condition of being forced to work for
someone else and having no freedom to determine ones way of life. Slavery is a
form of servitude. Slave trade refers to the buying and selling of human beings
so that they can be used as slaves
ARTICLE 13
1. Everyone has the right to freedom of movement and residence within
the boarders of each state.
2. Everyone has a right to leave any country, including his own, and to
return to his country
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This article protects the right of individuals to move freely and choose where to
live within a country. Freedom of movement and residence within a country is
essential for one to be able to travel, work, or build a home in any part of the
country. International travel and migration and being able to return to ones
country of origin are also protected by this article. For instance a person should
be able to legally go and work or study in another country and come back to his
or her country.
ARTICLE 15
1. Everyone has a right to a nationality.
2. no one shall be arbitrarily deprived of his nationality or denied the
right to change his nationality
ARTICLE 16
1- Men and woman of full age, without any limitation due to race,
nationality or religion, have a right to marry and to found a family.
They are entitled to equal rights as to marriage, during marriage
and its dissolution
2- Marriage shall be entered into only with the free and full consent
of the intending spouses
3- The family is the natural and fundamental group unit of society and
is entitled to protection by society and the state
This article protects the rights of every adult to marry and have children if they
want to. A person cannot be prevented from marrying and having children due
to their race, nationality or religion. Men and women have the same rights when
they marry and when they divorce. Individuals have to give their free and full
consent and should not be forced to marry.
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REASONS FOR UPHOLDING THIS HUMAN RIGHT
- To ensure that no adult is denied the right to marry and establish a family
- It promotes gender equality. Men and women have the same marriage and
divorce rights
- It recognises the autonomy of individuals and their right not to be forced
into marriages
- The family is recognised as the foundation of the society and should be
protected by society and the state
- All human beings are equally entitled to human rights, therefore when we
claim or exercise our rights, we should do it in the ways that do not
prevent others from enjoying these rights. It is important that each person
is able to enjoy his or her rights without interference
- Not violating other peoples rights can help create peace and harmony in
society. Violating another person’s right to attain ones rights may results
in conflicts people between people which could lead to violence.
- Not violating the rights of others shows tolerance and promotes mutual
respect. Mutual respect and tolerance are essential for building good
relationships among people. Good relationships lead to people to trust
each other and live and work well together
- By not violating other peoples rights we are carrying out moral duty to
respect human dignity and equality
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- capital punishment- it is a violation because it denies people the right to
life
- Relocation of Basarwa from the Kalahari game reserve- they have lost
access to their ancestral land. They are vulnerable to exploitation due to
isolation, ignorance of rights and lack of representation in local or national
government
- Ageism- it is common in Setswana culture to discriminate old people
because they are usually associated with witchcraft.
- Tribalism- we still have people who discriminate others on the basis of
tribe in Botswana
- Discrimination against people with disabilities
- The failure of the ministry of education to provide schooling in indigenous
languages for minority tribes, this amounts to discrimination on ethnic
basis
- Obtaining evidence through coercion(force) by the prosecution, despite
the fact that such evidence is not accepted in Botswana courts
- Child labour
- Discrimination of women in customary marriages- women in customary
marriages are still regarded as minors under the control and authority of
their husbands
- Discrimination against men
- Mob justice
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3. DEATH PENALTY
The death penalty is still used in many countries to punish various crimes. Some
use it only for murder and treason. Others use it for various crime s including
drug trafficking corruption and adultery.
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employment and training opportunities or have been dismissed from work
because of their status
5. RELIGIOUS INTOLERANCE
Death penalty
Supporters of the death penalty give various reasons to justify the use of capital
punishment. Below are some of the reasons they give.
- By committing murder, the murderer loses his or her right to life.
- It deters others from committing crimes punishable by death such as murder.
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- A dangerous criminal cannot re-offend once they are put to death. This helps
make the society safer.
- The death penalty brings justice to the victim and victim’s family.
Corporal punishment
Corporal punishment is still practiced in some societies, including Botswana.
Supporters of corporal punishment give various reasons as justification for use
of corporal punishment. Below are some of the reasons they give.
- it helps in moral development of the children because it corrects deviant
behaviour. For example, the setswana proved ‘ya mosimane ke e nkgwe’
encourages the use of corporal punishment in disciplining children
- Corporal punishment is part of the traditional culture of the community. It has
always been used to punish offenders and is an accepted by the community.
- It helps reduce overcrowding in prisons because instead of sending offenders
to prison, they receive their Punishment quickly and are released.
Child labour
Some people give the following reasons to justify the use of child labour.
- Many of these children are from very poor families. The money they earn
enables their families to pay for their basic needs and to survive.
- Preventing children from working on farms, in factories, mines and private
homes, may lead some of them to engage in immoral ways of earning
money for example, through stealing, selling illegal drugs, and even
prostitutions.
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The use of torture
Some of the reasons gives by governments to justify torturing people suspected
of committing crimes include the following
- it enables the police and security officers to get confessions that suspest
would not otherwise make voluntarily.
- The information obtained from suspects can help solve crimes or prevent
further crimes being committed.
Religious intolerance.
Some of the reasons given to justify religious intolerance or discrimination
include;
- a particular religion is the only true religion or faith. Other religions or
faiths are false or wrong.
- Members of a particular religion or faith are a threat to the security of the
country.
- The beliefs and teachings of a religion are against the political, moral and
social values held by the majority of people in the society.
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HOW HUMAN RIGHTS VIOLATIONS AFFECTED HUMAN LIFE
Human rights violations have many negative effects on the life of individuals.
Violations also affect whole groups of people such as families and communities.
Below are some effects of human right violations on human life.
Loss of life
Some human rights violations may lead to death of some individuals whose
rights are violated. Some women have died as a result of domestic violence. It
can also result in loss of life for the person who violates the rights of others, for
example, a person who commits murder may be sentenced to death as
punishment. The denial of right to health care can lead to the unnecessary
deaths of people from diseases that are preventable or can easily be cured with
available medicines.
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Physical injuries caused by torture may result in a person being paralysed and to
walk again.
1. PERSONAL 2. SOCIAL
Fear hatred
Low self esteem depression
Death lack of trust in humanity
Physical and emotional pain anger
Psychological trauma
3. GLOBAL
Wars
conflicts
Mistrust between nations
Lack of social, economic and cultural development
1. AFRICAN UNION
It has laid objectives that it uses to ensure that all African citizens have access
to the basic rights to safety, education, peace, health and stability. E.g. the
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economic cooperation in transportation and communication, healthy sanitation,
cooperation for defence and security. One of the objectives of the AU is to
promote and to protect Human and the people’s rights in accordance with the
African charter on human and people’s rights and other relevant Human Rights
instruments
The main task of Red Cross is to care for the sick, destitute’s, provide social
welfare, HIV/AIDS programme, blood donation, to help those who are affected
by natural disasters like floods and hunger. Its work is guided by the principle
that all human beings have the right to life.
It aims at removing all the laws that discriminate against women at home and at
the work place. It also offers psychological and legal advice to abused women.
Increases awareness among women and the public in general about the specific
problems faced by women in all sectors. It also mobilise women to take steps
that will help change the social, political, economic and legal position of women
in Botswana.
6. AMNESTY INTERNATIONAL
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The aim of the organisation is to create a just environment for those infected
and affected by HIV and AIDS. It strives to fight HIV related stigma and
discrimination and to promote respect for human rights
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Gender refers to characteristics or attributes such as the social and
cultural roles, rights, responsibilities and behaviour that a particular
society or culture consider appropriate for males and females.
A) MARRIAGE RIGHTS
Women have less marriage rights than men. According to the Botswana
marriage act when parents of a minor disagree on the consent of a minor’s
marriage, the father’s consent is sufficient for the minor to get married. All
people should be treated equally because women rights are human rights. They
have the same saying as the males. Women are to be respected for their skill
and knowledge in the matters of childcare, cooking and house keeping
B) ECONOMIC RIGHTS
Women have less property than men. If they need something, e.g. getting a bank
loan, they have to seek permission from their husbands. Nowadays they are free
to own property and are entitled to apply for the same jobs as men and get the
same pay
C) DIVORCE RIGHTS
Women are also entitled to sign divorce papers to their husbands if they feel the
marriage does not work. She has the right to divorce her husbands on the
grounds of adultery, desertation and unreasonable behaviour
D) FORCED MARRIAGES
some parents force their daughters to marry. Girls as young as 13 years have
been forced into marriages arranged by their parents. Such cases have been
reported in countries such as United Kingdom, Zambia Nigeria and others.
E) WIFE SECLUSION
It refers to the practice of not allowing a married woman to interact with the
members of the public. She is kept isolated from the outside world and she can
only leave her home with the permission of the husband. When she goes out her
whole body must be covered. this practice is found in Islamic societies such as
Saudi Arabia and Nigeria
Responsibilities of men and women over the care of the children are not
balanced. Only men can be charged and punished for child maintenance. This
may be done irregardless of the financial status of the man. Even though the
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husbands are sometimes denied the custody of their children they may be
directed to pay maintenance fees until the children reach 21 years of age.
2. SEXUAL HARASSMENT
3. PUNISHMENT
Male punishment is often harsher than the female punishment. E.g. the
Botswana penal code states that “ no sentence of corporal punishment shall be
passed upon females”. According to the Botswana education act, male students
can be beaten on their buttocks, backs and palms of the hand but female
students can be beaten on the palms.
In Botswana, the status of men and women in marriage depends on the marriage
law under which a couple is married. There are two legal systems for marriage;
the common or civil and the customary law.
Under the customary law, men and women do not have the same status. The
abolition of Marital Power Act 2005 which indicates that indicates that men and
women shall have equal powers in marriage, does not apply to people married
under the customary law. In customary law marriages, men have marital power
over women. Husbands are the heads of their families and they have
guardianship rights over women and children.
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Status of men and women in common or civil law marriage
In Botswana, people who marry under the common can choose to marry ‘in
community’ or ‘out of community of property’. Below is the status of men and
women in marriage ‘in community of property’ and ‘out of community of
property’.
Since the abolition of Marital Power Act of 2005 was passed, men and women
married in community of property have equal status in the ownership and
control of family property and resources, including the property they owned
before they got married. In addition,
Being married out of community of property means that the husband and wife
own their property separately, except where it can be proven that they both
contributed to the cost of buying the property. In case of death of the spouse,
the surviving spouse only has the legal right to inherit the property jointly
owned. For property individually owned, each partner can decide who his or her
beneficiaries are.
When formal education was introduced in Botswana, many families did not
consider taking girls to school. Most of the children who were sent to school
were boys. Many families preferred to pay school fees for a boy child because
boys were expected to become providers for their families later in life. Girls
were socialised to know that they do not need to be educated because they
would marry and be provided by their husbands.
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In present day Botswana, males and girls have equal status in access to
education and training. However, some subject choices still appear to be gender
biased.
Men have led development in Botswana because they occupy most of the
leadership and decision making positions in private companies and government.
Men also own and control most of the resources that individuals use to create
wealth, for example, cattle and land, and as a result, men dominated
development efforts in the country. Formal employment statistics also show that
more men than women are employed.
The status of men and women in marriage in Zimbabwe varies according to the
law under which the couple is married. E.g. civil law marriage or customary law
marriage
- The customary marriage act allows a man to marry many wives. Under
this act a man can sue for adultery but the wife cannot do the same
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- Some men dominate women. they have more control and power in the
family matters than their wives
- Their are some cases in which childless widows are chased from their
homes by their in-laws
Currently Zimbabwe is one of the countries with a high literacy rate compared
to after independence when the country inherited a racially biased education
system from the colonial government. This education negatively affected the
black people especially women. It lowered the status of men and women in
education.
The political and economic crises in Zimbabwe have negatively affected the
education system. since education in Zimbabwe is not free, parents struggle to
keep their children in schools and schools have a serious shortage of resources
CHILDREN’S RIGHTS
CHILD
-According to the UN charter a child is person under the age of 18.
-the children’s act defines a child as the person under the age of 14.
-adoption of the children act defines a child as the person under the age of 19.
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act years. and from hazardous work.
-The minimum age for basic - The right of the child to
employment of children for rest and leisure, to engage
hazardous work is 18 years. in play and recreational
-The law protects children activities.
from being exploited as - The right to education.
cheap labour and being
exposed to situations which
endanger their life.
The child -A child is a person below - The right to protection
maintenance the age of 18 years. from neglect.
Act However, if the child is still - The right to a standard of
a student, the age limit can living adequate for his or
be extended until such time her physical, mental,
when a child is no longer a spiritual, moral and social
dependent. development.
The Adoption -A child is a person under -The right to a standard of living
of a child the age of 19. adequate for his or her physical,
-A child is a minor, so the mental, spiritual, moral and
law requires that a court of social development.
law has to approve an -The right to be protected from
adoption. This is done in abuse, neglect and exploitation.
order to protect the rights
and interests of the child to
be adopted.
-A child cannot apply to be
adopted. It is the adult or
the adults, who want to
adopt the child who have to
apply for permission to
adopt.
Deserted -A child is the person under -The right to a standard of living
Wives and the age of 16 years, or who adequate for his or her physical,
Children is older than 16 tears but mental, spiritual, moral and
Protection less than 21 years old and is social development.
Act not earning his or her own -The right to be protected from
living. any form of abuse.
-A child is said to being
having been deserted by his
or her father if that child is
without adequate means of
support and the father has
without sufficient cause
refused or neglected to
provide such a child with
food or other necessaries of
life, or the child has left or
has been removed from the
home of the father because
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of the acts of cruelty of the
father or the father is a
habitual drunkard.
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Work hard at school and do the best they can
Children have a right to education, however, they have a responsibility to
work hard at school and
do the best they can. It is the child’s responsibility to pay attention in
class, do their assignments on
time and prepare well for tests and examinations.
Children represent the continuity of the family and society. Children are
the future generation. They grow up to become adults and have children of
their own. They are the future leaders of the society. This allows the family
and the society to continue to exist.
Children bring happiness and pleasure to the family. Most parents want to
have children of their own to love and watch them grow. In many cultures,
having children is seen as a sign of adulthood.
In patrilineal cultures the boy child is valued because he carries the family
name. When he grows up, marries and has children, the children bear his
surname. This helps to continue the family name.
Children help with the family chores such as cooking, cleaning, washing
and sweeping. In the past, children were an important source of labour in
the family, for example, they helped raise crops and livestock. For the
society, children are the future workers. This is why countries spend a lot
of money on educating and training children and young adults.
In cultures where bogadi is given to the woman’s family upon marriage,
the girl child is valued for her future potential to bring wealth to her
family.
In some cultures, children were valued because later on in life, they took
care of their elderly parents and would advise them. A Setswana proverb
says ‘ Botlhale jwa phala bo tswa phalaneng’ meaning that children can
advise their parents.
Children are considered the rightful heirs to their parent’s property.
Some children have disabilities, for example, they may be visually or hearing
impaired or have a physical or mental disability. It is important that children
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with disabilities are equally important in the society and are worthy of special
care and protection like all other children.
Children with disability in Botswana are entitled to all the rights and protections
stated in the UN Children’s Charter. They are also entitled to the rights stated
in the Constitution and to the children’s rights protected laws of Botswana
Disability is not inability and therefore children who have disabilities should be
given opportunities to develop and use their talents as best as they can. For
example, special education relevant to their disability should be made available
to enable them to go to school. Public buildings such as schools, clinics,
hospitals and offices can provide ramps, wide doors, and special toilets to
accommodate children who use wheel chairs.
Both the constitution and the charter put emphasis on certain rights. For
example;
The difference that we find that the constitution at tempts to into practice
include the following ;
*the age of which someone is a child in the constitution is when he/she is under
the age of 21 but in the charter is 18 years.
*Botswana law does not guarantee non-discrimination on the basis of gender.
*provision of right within Botswana’s constitution do not have certain restriction
however, enjoyment of right in children charter do have certain restrictions
* Unmarried women have the responsibility of raising the child alone without
contact from the father.
*in the constitution and in education act it is unclear in addressing punishment
but charter for birds punishment and regard it as inhuman treatment.
Different acts vary in their definition of a child e.g. the children’s act says that a
child is a person under the age of 14, while the adoption of children’s act says
that a child is a person under the age of 19
CHILD ABUSE
It is deliberate cause of pain and suffering to children.
- any deliberate act by an adult that violates the rights of a child and harms
the welfare and the wellbeing of the child
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COMMON CHILD ABUSE PRACTICES.
1. PHYSICAL ABUSE.
Physical abuse involves the deliberate use of physical force that causes pain
and injury to the physical body
The abuse affects the body e.g. severe beating, broken bone, and bruises on
different parts of the body, swollen body parts, wounds, and burns. It can also
take the form of kicking, pinching, scratching or pulling the hair. This affects
the body of a child and can sometimes lead to death if it excessive.
3. SEXUAL ABUSE
This may include rape or any form of sexual contacts, sexual harassment,
encouraging children to watch pornographic videos, incest. The child may end
up showing signs of inappropriate behavior, acting older than their age, inability
to form healthy relationships.
Other forms of child abuse include torture, abduction, denying the child the
right to education.
1. ACCEPTING GIFTS
Abusers normally tempt children by buying them presents and offering gifts and
in return demand sexual favours
2. DRUG AND ALCOHOL ABUSE
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Children who use drugs or are given drugs and alcohol by the abusers are likely
to indulge in unplanned sex or are even raped because they will be under the
influence of such drugs
3. POVERTY
Children from poor families may be tempted into prostitution in order to get
material support such as clothes, food, money etc.
- Parents and other adults have a moral duty to love and care for children.
Child abuse is an abondonment of this duty and it is the ultimate form of
betrayal of trust in a relationship between a parent and a child or an adult
and a child.
- The consequences of reporting child abuse can create a moral dilemma for
the child who is being abused, the person who is dealing with the child
abuse case, and other people who may be aware of the abuse. For example
reporting the abuse may lead to..
The break up of the family
the child being thrown out of the home and becoming homeless
invasion of the privacy of the child and family
a moral dilemma. If an abused child tels you about the abuse and
asks you to keep it a secret
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THE IMPORTANCE OF TAKING CARE OF A CHILD
- Children cannot take care of themselves. They depend on their parents
and other adults to provide for and meet all their needs, for example, food,
clothing and shelter. Children who are not well cared for may:
Suffer from malnutrition and die young
Be forced to drop out of school and work in order to earn a living to
survive
Become involved
CHILD ABANDONMENT
Women who fall pregnant as a result of rape or incest normally desert their
babies
b. TEENAGE PREGNANCY
Young girls who fall pregnant find the reality of raising a child as difficult and
stressing. They normally throw away, kill, or leave the baby alone in the bushes
because they are afraid of their parents and want to continue with their
education
c. POVERTY
Children from poor families may be tempted to prostitution in order to feed
themselves, get money to buy drugs, clothes and even money. Poor families that
cannot feed their children normally leave them behind so that someone can find
them and take care of them. Sometimes they leave the babies in the act of
showing love and desperation and what is best for the children.
d. SINGLE PARENTHOOD
Single parenthood can be a very difficult and traumatic experience a
women .When they are kept by their babies father and mothers cannot
provide for the child’s need she can child or leave it with other family
member
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THE MORAL IMPLICATIONS OF CHILD ABANDONMENT
In Botswana the law that the parents have to care for their children until the age
of 21. If parents fail to provide for their children and are found guilty, they may
be imprisoned, punished and made to pay maintenance of child abuse.
ANIMAL RIGHTS
Just like human beings, animals have rights. These rights also have to be
respected. Even the smallest of all animals do have rights. Just the mere fact
that they exist on along with human beings should indicate that they have a
purpose to serve. These animals play a very important role in the environment
as they balance the ecosystem.
- They are source of food e.g. they produce meat and milk
- They can be used to provide security. e.g. dogs
- They can be used to provide transport, e.g. donkeys and horses
- They can be used as pets e.g. dogs and cats.
- They can be used as guidelines for the disabled people. E.g. dogs
- They can be used to provide raw materials e.g. we get leather from animal
hides.
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- they are used as tribal identification like totems
- they are used as a source of raw materials as we obtain skins and tasks
that can be used to manufacture goods from animals
The concepts animal rights refer to the idea that animals have rights separate
from human demands. As people we should respect and care for the animals.
They need to be treated with respect because they are living things.
CRUELTY TO ANIMALS
a) VIVISECTION
Using animals for scientific or medical experiments. New medicines are tested
on animals before they are tried on humans. Illnesses are sometimes
deliberately induced on animals and scientists try medicines on them before
administering them on people.
b) PSYCHOLOGICAL EXPERIMENTS
Psychological experiments done in those animals that display similar behaviour
pattern of humans. e.g. apes and monkeys. They are ill-treated or denied certain
things to see their emotional/psychological effects.
C. BESTIALITY
This is where humans use animals to satisfy their sexual needs. It is a serious
abuse on animals because they cannot give consent to that.
D. VICIOUS BEATING
Beating animals in trying to make them run while carrying heavy loads usually
causes wounds on their bodies
E. CAPTIVITY
F. STARVATION
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Some people do not take care of their animals. Such animals are therefore
forced to fend for themselves especially dogs.
G. IN HUNTING SPORTS
Some animals may hunt animals for competition and they end up killing then
indiscriminately
- establishing laws that can protect animals against various forms of cruelty
to animals
- allowing captive animals to live in larger areas like private wildlife parks
- establishing alternative ways of developing drugs other than using animals
- people must adopt modern modes of transport other than using animals
like donkeys and horses
- establish organizations that will promote public campaigns on animal
rights, and speak strongly against all forms of animal abuse
- drawing up legislation that regulates the proper keeping of pet animals
- legislating against cruel methods of hunting and animal trapping
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- It monitors animal numbers and their well being
- It is responsible for management of game reserves and national parks
INDIVIDUALS
ORGANISATIONS
BIO ETHICS
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WORK ETHICS
ENVIRONMENTAL SUSTAINABILITY
It means looking after the environment so that it retains its natural look for a
longer time, such that the future generations will be able to use it as well
Human beings have a right to use the environment for their daily needs
though they have to be responsible such that they avoid all types of
pollution and over population
They should avoid cutting down trees especially those that are scarce, so
that the environment retains its natural beauty
They should ensure endangered species of animas are kept in a more safe,
secure and well guarded place to avoid extinction
There are a number of organization and individuals who take care of the
environment in Botswana. Some of these organizations include governmental
and non governmental organization.
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The Botswana government has established several departments, which are
responsible for environmental management.
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ENVIRONMENTAL MISMANAGEMENT
Pollution of rivers and seas- this reduces water quality since its
contaminated leading to various diseases to humans such as water-bone
diseases.
Climate change- ozone being destroyed leading to cancer(Global warming)
Deforestation and desertification this may leave the land bare thus being
vulnerable to erosion and global warming.
Release of chlorofluorocarbons (CFCs) and green house gases, release of
carbon dioxide and other pollutants into the atmosphere and destroy the
ozone molecules leading to the ozone layer being weak such that it cannot
effectively protect us from the sun’s violent rays.(ozone depletion)
Littering- this involves dumping of waste products and this is not good to
peoples health and animals.
Acid rain – This is rain water in which gases such as sulphur dioxide have
dissolved to make it acidic. This is caused by burning fossil fuels and
sulphur dioxide therefore may damage rivers, lakes, ground water, soil
and forests.
Green Peace
An international environmental organization founded in 1969. It promotes direct
non-violent action to try and prevent [project activities that they consider to be a
threat to the environment. They managed to reduce seal hunts, dumping toxic
waste in the sea.
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It aims at protecting wild life and wild lands. It directs its conservation efforts
towards protecting endangered spaces, addressing global threats and saving
endangered species.
INTERNATIONAL AGREEMENT
1. AGENDA 21
It stands for the agenda of the 21 st century. Brazil hosted the Rio summit in
1991. the summit was held as a result of global environmental worries. Agenda
21 is not a fixed law, so it needs to be adopted by each national government if it
is going to be effective, and those who are committed to the environment can
adopt it.
It aims to protect the wide variety of animal and plant life that exist on the
planet, before it is made extinct. In 1996, it was recognized that 25% of the
mammal species and 11% of the bird species were still at the risk of total
extinction.
It was formed in 1987 and an agreement was made to cut the use of chemicals
that damage the ozone layer. They agreed to reduce them by half by 1996 and to
stop using them altogether by the year 2000. Without this agreement, levels of
ozone depletion would have five times higher by 2050.
In the year 2000, the hole in the ozone layer above South America was causing
people to experience burnt skin within 7 minutes of being exposed to the sun.
5. MULTINATIONAL CORPORATIONS
Large companies can have some impacts in the way people relate to the
environment. Companies may encourage people to consume items they really do
not need through advertising. Therefore, to control the power of the
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corporations the UN has drafted some guidelines for their conduct. One of the
recommendations is ; to observe the international standards and national laws
on consumer protection and environmental protection
Negative
*Taxes
*Rising acts of goods e.g. petrol, paraffin..
*Restriction of freedom.
*areas not allowed to be developed.
*restrictions of using resources e.g. ivory.
Positive
*health of humankind
*clean, healthy environment
*sustainable development
*preservation of species that may lead to new medical treatment
*protection of biodiversity i.e. maintaining a wide variety of plants and animals
species
-.government should set aside land for game parts and nature reserves.
.-environmental education should be taught in schools.
.-companies should package their products in environmental friendly containers.
.-people should be made for those who mismanage the environment.
.-vision 2016 building a prosperous, productive and use water wisely preserve
natural resources for --the future generation.
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