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INTRODUCTI
ON/FI
RSTSTEP

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i
hav eason,
hei
s9y
ear
sol
d,hest
ayswi
thanannyi
nthest
ate.

andwher
ear
eyouf
rom?

i
am f
rom Col
umbusOhi
oUsa

Whatdoy
oudof
oral
i
ving?

Howl
onghav
eyoubeenwor
king?

Ihavebeenworki
ngfort
hemi
li
tr
yfor24y
ear
s,andi
hav
ebeeni
n
Afghani
stanf
or3year
sand2months.

Howmanyhour
sdoy
ouwor
kinaday?

doy
ouwor
kthr
oughoutt
heweekend?

doy
ouhav
eanyser
iousdat
e?

idonthaveanyoneinmyl i
feandiam lookingforagoodandsi ncer
e
womant ospendtherestofmylif
ewith.ibeli
eve,di
stance,
age,
col
or,
race,doesenotmatt
er,whatmattersinar el
ati
onshipi
sthe
l
ovetrustandunderst
andi
ngthatwil
lexistbetweenus.

Sot
ell
mewhatki
ndofamanar
eyoul
ooki
ngf
or?

Am lookingf oragoodandsi ncerewomant ospendtherestofmyl i

fe
wit
h, awomanwhocanl augh,onewhoi smot i
vatedandambiti
ous,
i
ntell
igent,andsel fconf
ident.Ienjoymeaningfulconver
sati
onin
addit
iont oplainoldgoodf un.I'
m basicall
yav er
ypositi
veperson
whoal soloveshumorandl aught erandwoul dli
kesomeonewi than
adventurousspi r
itandaposi ti
veat t
it
udewhocanseet hefunnyside
ofli
fe,

someonewhoi sopenandwi l
li
ngtolearnnewt hings. Ihaveapassion
formusicandacuriosi
tyforlif
e.TofindawomanIl iketoshar
e
thi
ngsIlear
nandam opent olear
ningnewt hingsaswel l
.wholoves
todancewouldbeami racle,butnoti
mpossi bleIbeli
eve,ev
enif
rare,
butdefi
nit
elyabonus,butnotar equir
ement !l
ollIal
solov
e
awomanwhoknowshowt ot r
eatamanl ikeababyandababyl i
kea
man.Romanceandpassi onar eimportantaswel l
.

Ihavel earnedt hought hatchemistr

yisnotev er yt
hingandnott he
onlyLikeev eryoneItalktoIwantthewhol eenchant er,i
ncluding
chemi strycomponentf orbuildi
ngast r
ongr elati
onshi p.Apicturei
s
worthat housandwor dsy etcanst
il
l t
elly
ounot hi
ng.Last l
ybeaut y
i
sint heey eoft hebeholder,andIwouldsayIhav emor eont he
i
nsidet hant heoutside.LOLNoonei sperfectincludingmy selfbutI
supposei fyoudon' tputitoutther
eandr isk,you'l
l neverknow.
Howev erIam r eali
sticandIam byf arnotperfect.
Tel
lmeabouty
ourf
ir
stdat
e?

Tel
lmeabouty
ourExr
elat
ionshi
p?

i
thi
nki
shoul
dtel
lyoumor
eaboutmysel
ftoenabl
eyouknowmebet
ter
.

I'
m Capt ai
nPeteryoungoft heUSar my.Ili
veinColumbusOhi o,buti
am onpeace- keepi
ngmi ssi
oni
nAf ghanist
annow.Iam theonl ychi
ldof
myf amily.Iwasrai
sedbyaCat holi
cpriest
,FrJohn,af
terthedeath
ofmygr annyandfather.Mydadt ol
dmebef or
ehisdeaththatmy
mot herdiedonthepr ocessofgivenbir
thtome.Af t
erthedeathofmy
father,
myuncl eJohnt ookmei nashissonbutt hewifeJanetwasnot
reall
ygoodt ome.

Shekeepsmal t
reati
ngmeal lt
hetime,soihadt oleav
et hehouse
forthem attheageof17.FrJohnwast heonewhohel pedmet oj
oin
theUSmi li
tary
.Hedi edaftersomey earsofcancer.Hewasl ikea
fathertome.Af t
erhisdeath,iwassosodev astat
ed.Ihadnoonei n
myl if
eanymor e.Igotmarriedtomywi feShirl
eyattheageof35.I
hav easonwhowi l
lbe9y earsbyMar ch15.hisnamei sMi cheal
.My
wifediedonacarwr eak4y earsago.

Mysonl i
v eswi thaNanny .Af t
erthedeathofmywi fe,ididn'
twant
tofalli
nl ov eagai n.Icar edlessabouthav i
nganotherrelati
onship.
Ibecamev erylonelyandwor kedt oohar
d.Itwassopai nfulformeto
bealonebutIhav edeci dedt omov eonwit
hmyl if
e.NowIr eali
ze
thatit
'stimet ost opbei ngal oneasl i
fei
stooshort.Iwantt o
l
ov eandbel ovedagai n.i donthav eaccesstomybankaccounther ein
afghanistanandwear enotal l
owedt omakeuseofcel lphoneher ein
Kabul Afghani stan, t
heonl ycel lphoneweuseher eisthemi li
tary
signalphonewhi chisf orourdayt odayacti
vit
iesanditisbeen
moni t
ored.i fyouwoul dl ovet otalkmorewithmeher eismyemai l
address....
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2..
.QUESTI
ONSABOUTLI
FESTYLE,
INARELATI
ONSHI
PANDOPENI
NIONS.

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.i.WHATDOYOULI KEANDDI SLI
KEABOUTMEN.
Asf ormeIdon' tli
kecheater s,li
ars,t
hiefs,orshal
lowpeople.i
dislikesomeonet hatisinconfidant,Othert hanthat
,I'
m aperson
thatl i
kesprettymuchev er
ything.andl i
kesomeonet hati
strust
wor thy,fai
thful
,si
ncere,alway sshowgr eatconsignandv al
uehi s
relationshi
pmor et hananyot hert hi
ng,someonewhohasabi gheart
,
someonewhot akest hi
ngsthatmat ter
st oherhusbandv eryseri
ousand
actont hem..I'
m VERYeasygoi ngandi lovet obehappyalway s.

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i.
Whatdoy oudoforf un?(Opti
onal)
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wellasformeIenjoy
sloworfastdanci
ng,wal ki
nginthewoodshol ding,
hands,candl
eli
te
dinner
s,tr
avel
,shoppingandwat chingmov i
es,andplay
ingromantic
pianofort
hatspecial
per son.Il
ovesnuggli
ngandshar i
ngpassionate
ki
sseswi t
hthatspeci
al person.

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ii
i
:Whati
syourFav
ori
tel
ocal
hotspot
sort
rav
eldest
inat
ions?
(Opti
onal
)..
.Il
ov eanyrestaur
antt hatserv
egoodheal t
hyfoodsand
whereav er
ygoodbandi splaying.Iloverest
aurant
swithromant i
c
sett
ingswherewecanl ookintoeachot herseyesandfeelthatspeci
al
connecti
on.Ialsolovecandlel
itromant i
cdinners.

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.i
v:WhatisyourFavor i
tethingsy oudo?(Opti
onal).
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Ili
ke
healt
hyfoodssuchasagoodseaf oodsaladIl
ovet hecolorbl
ack.I
l
iketosnugglewheni trainsorr eadagoodbook, shoppingatalarge
mall,r
eadi
nganyoft hesel f-
helpbooks, l
i
steni
ngtor omanticmusic
or60'smusic,andexercising.

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.V..Howof tendoy ouexi size: Ienjoyexer cisingdai lywhi ch
eit
heri nvolveswei ghtt r
ainingoraer obics. It hinki tis
i
mpor tanttoexer ciseandeat ingv eryheal thymeal s.Il ov et ogoout
dancing, toni cer omant i
cdi nner sandshoppi ngatl ar gemal l
sliket he
Mal l
ofAmer ica.Ienj oyromant icmusi candsl owdanci ngaswel lan
fastdanci ng.Ipr eferr omant ic,attractive,af fect i
onat eman.I
beli
ev ethatr omancei sav eryi mpor tantpar toft her elationshi p.I
enjoywomenwhoar econf i
dentwi ththemsel vesandar enotaf raidto
expresst hemsel vesi nadi plomat icway .It hinki ti sv er yimpor tant
thattwopeopl ewantt hesamet hingi nar el ationshi p.Ibel i
ev et hat
thi
sshoul dbedi scussedandcommuni cat edcl ear l
ywhent wopeopl e
fi
rstmeet .Idonotbel i
evei nwast i
ngmyt imeort heot herper sons
ti
mebecausel if
ei stooshor t.Ibeliev eeachper sonshoul dbe
all
owedt obewhot heyar eandt obef reet ogi vet hei rbestf oreach
othersmut ual benef i
t.Idonotl ikecont rollingwomenwhodonot
communi catewel l
andhav eagendasorexcessi vepr ev iousbaggage.I
l
ikewomanwhoIcanhav eagoodconv ersat ionwi thandwecan
communi catei namut uallybenef icialway .. .
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Ili
kewomanwhoar einterestedi nexer ciseandphy si cal fi
tness.I
l
ikewomenwhor eadt oi mprov et hemsel vesandf i
ndv aluei nsel fhelp
books.Ial sol ikewomenwhoar eei therspi rit
ual butnotnecessar y
rel
igious.Ial soenj oyat tendingagoodchur cht hatl eav esy ou
feeli
ngbet t
erabouty ourselfwheny oul eav e.
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.DAY.
3..
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.QUESTI
OSANDANSWERESABOUTLOVE

i.
..whatarey ourowndef ini
ti
onoft r
uelove?..
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..Truelovet ome
i
st heki ndoflov eGodgi ves..
.UNCONDI TIONALl ove.It
'sal ovethat
i
si ndescribablewi thwordsy eti
sfeltdeepwi t
hinthehear t.It
's
wheny oucan' tstopthinki
ngoft heotherperson&y ouar eexci t
edto
gethomet ot hem af t
eralongday swor koryoudesi ret
oj ustsay
hellothroughat extorphonecal lj
ustbecausetheyar eony ourmind.
It
'sapr ecioust hingthatwayt oomanypeopl etakeadv antageof&
somet hingev er y
oneshoul dhaveatleastoncei ntheirl
i
v es.

i
i:Wher ewil
lyoulovetospendy ourhoneymooni ncasey ouf i
ndt he
ri
ghtman? .
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I'
vealwaysdr eamedofgoi ngt oat r
opicislandf ora
coupleofweeks.Wewoul dstayi naromant i
cbungal o.Wi ndowsopen,
ther
ewoul dbelacecurt
ainsbl owinginalightbreezealongwi t
h
warmt hcomingfrom t
hesunshi neshi ni
ngthrught helace.Althoughthi
s
wouldbeheav enonear t
h,I'
dbei nheavenjustbeingwi t
ht hewoman
Godintendedmet ogothroughl i
fe'
sjourneywith.

i
i
i:
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.Howwi
l
lyout
reaty
ourman?
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.Al
thoughev
ery
relati
onshiphasi t'
sups&downs, Iwil
ltreatmywomanwi t
hl otsof
l
ov e&r espect.Ili
ketohol dherhandwhi lewalkingsidebysi de, I
enjoythel i
tt
lekissesst ol
ent hroughouttheday ,&thelit
tlesmi les
shegi vesmef r
om acr ossther oom.Ibel i
eveawoman&manar etowal k
sidebysi deinlif
e&socommuni cati
on&honest yareVERYi mpor tant.
Mywomani sawomanofGod&becauseoft hatreasonal oneIwi llnot
hav etowor ryabouthert reati
ngmebadl yorcheatingonme.Ii nturn
willbecompl etelyfai
thfultoher&wi l
lsupportherdur i
ngourl i
ves
togetherandbot hwhensheneededmemost ,becauset hesayaf riendi
n
needi saf r
iendindeed.Idoexpecthert odot hesamef orme.We
don'talwayshav et obet ogetherbutwe'llfeeleachotherspr esence
evenwhenwe' r
eapar t.Wewi llbeeachot hersrocktoleanon&
we, wi
llsharedreams&goal sforourselves&ourchi l
dren.Wewi l
l
alsosuppor tthem &r aisethem tobet heGod- fear
ingmen&womenwho
willhavefaith&best rongev enwhenl i
feislookingdown.

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v .
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:Cany outakemykidsasyoursi
fwearemeantt obe
together?.
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.Il
oveki
ds&Itr
eatal
lki
dsasiftheyaremy
own...Ifavornonebutgi
vemylove&supportt
ot hem &tr
ytobet he
godlymanIam supposedt obe.Mydaught
er hasf ri
endsthatcall
me
Dadal so.

v:.
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..Doy oulovet oexpressyourfeel
ingsoryoulovetohi
dey our
feeli
ngs?...
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I'
m aper sonwhowoul drat
herexpressmy
feeli
ngsasIknowi t
'snotgoodtokeept hem l
ockedup.It
's
i
mpor t
anttoexpr esstoot her
sthatyoucarefort
hem &aret her
eto
suppor t&encour age.ILOVEshar i
ngsweetmoment swiththewomanI
l
ov e..
.itmakesmyhear thappy

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DAY6. .
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.LOVECONFESI ONS/ FILLINGS.Thev erymomenty oucanme
i
nt omyl i
feikeept hinkingabouty ou, youhav ecapt uredmyhear t
uncondi ti
onalythati thinkofnot hingel sebuty ou.
Ilearnedt hatGodsendsf riendswhenweneedt hem themostandev er
y
fri
endhasaspeci al pur posei nourl i
ves.Iknowt hatweof tenfind
newf riendsinunexpect edpl acesasi havef oundy oumyl ovelywife,
I
l
ear nedt hatdespi t
et hedi st ancebet weenus, ar ealfriendshipgrows
acrosst hemi les.andi knowt hatthoughwesomet imesexpectsomeonet o
kickusdown, at r
uef ri
endhel psusst andbackup.Ial solearnedthat
weshoul dnotwai ttoexpr essourappr eciati
onf orourf ri
endsifwe
do, i
twi ll
bet oolat e.Ilearnedt hatweshoul dbeopent ofri
end's
viewast wopeopl ecanl ookatt hesamet hingandseesomet hing
diff
erent .
Iknowt hatweshoul dnotj udgeourf riendsbutr espect
theirwayofl ifeev eni fwedi sagr eewi thit.Ilearnedt hatwe
shouldnotonl ytaket het i
met otalktoourf ri
ends, butweshoul d
alsolistenandt ryt ounder standt hem andhowt hef i
l
l aboutus.If
wecan' tunderstand, weshoul dacceptt hesituat i
on.

Ial
sol earnedthatourfri
endsshouldalway stakesomet hi
nggoodaway
wit
ht hem eacht i
met heycrossourpath.thatfri
endssomet i
meshurt
usunintentional
ly,
butweshoul dforgetandf or
givethem.Ial
so
l
earnedt hatfri
endschangeov ert
imeandt hatsuchchangeshouldbe
welcomedasi t'
snecessaryforgr
owt h.Iknowt hatfri
endssometi
mes
needt i
meandspace, andweshoul dbet houghtfulandunderst
andi
ngof
theirneeds.Ilearnedthatyoushouldtreatafriendki
ndlytoday,
forthepeopl ewel ovethemost
areof tentakenawayf rom ustoosoon.
Ilearnedthatfri
endshipi sacandlet
hatl i
ghtsourway, andthough
i
tf l
ickersagainstthewi ndsofti
me,distance,andchange,i
tsbeauty
endur esandshi nesforeveri
nourhearts.iloveyouforevermy
beaut i
fulwife.

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Day7: .
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.LOVEQUOTEANDCONFESSI ON
i. Iwanty out oknowt hatiyouhav ecr eatedapsoi tiv
eimpar t
i
nmet hatiwoul dlovetospendmor et
imewi thy ouher emor eof t
en,i
thoroughl ywanty ouinmyl if
eandi knowwecoul dwor ktogetherto
actaulizethisdream, ithi
nki am inlovewi t
hy oual eready,
ilove
youandy oumeansomucht ome.Wehav ebeent hr oughsomuchpai nsand
heartbr eakthesepastmont hs,butourlov ehasal way scomeouton
top.Youmeansomucht omeandIwantsomucht omakey ouashappyas
youmakeme.Eachpassi ngdayhasmef all
i
ngmor einlovewi t
hyou.
Youcandot heslightestthi
ngandi twar msme.Mostoft hetimey ou
don'tev enreali
zei t
.Youar ealway sinmyt hought sandi nmyhear t
.
Inev erknewt hatlovecoul dbesowonder fulunt i
lImety ou.Youhav e
givenmeanewper spectiveonsomanyt hi
ngs.Iwi l
lalwaystreasure
ourlov eandkeepi tsafe.Il
ov eyouv er
ymuch, Baby .

(TBC.)i i.
Ithinki am inl ovewi thy ou.Ev ersi ncei setmyey es
ony ourprofi
lepicsy ouhav ecapt ur edmyhear ti t
hi nkofy ouasifi
havenev erbeeni nl ovebef ore,Iloveev eryli
t t
lethi ngabouty ou.I
l
ov eyourcutesmi leony ourpi cs, yourmagi caley es, iantwaitt
o
bewi thyouandt akecar eofy ou.Ilovey ourgent leness, andIlove
thewar mthIf eelwhenI ?mr i
ghther et alki
ngwi thy ou, il
ovetobe
i
ny ourarmsmyl ove.Ican' tstopt hinkingabouty ouwhenwear e
apart.Ineedy oubymysi de.Youcompl eteme.Youmeant heworl
dto
me.Youar ethebestt hi
ngt hathasev erhappenedt ome.Youar et
he
oneI '
vealwayswi shedfor .Inev erthoughtt hatIwoul devermeet
someoneasspeci al asyouar e.Il oveeachandev erymomentIshar e
withy ouonher emyl ovelyAngel ilovey ouf orev er .

ii
i.Sincedayonewe' vesharedsomet hi
ngincredi
ble,somet hi
ngthat
mostpeopl eonl
ydream of.Ihadbeensearchingforyoual l
ofmy
l
ife.Youhav emademet hehappiestIhaveeverbeen.Youar esincere,
caring, l
ovingwoman, andIwouldn'tt
radeyouf ort
hewor ld.Iam so
thankf ulandblessedthatyoulovedmeasmuchasIl ovedy ou,and
thaty oumademey ourhusband.

iv
.myl oveWear egoingtogetmar r
iedverysoonandIwi lllove
youandcher isheverymomentweshar edtogether.Iloveyoumor eand
mor eeveryday.Thi
nkingaboutourf ut
urefi
ll
smewi thant i
cipati
on
andexcitement .Wemaket heper f
ecthusbandandwi feteam, andI
cannotwai tt
obr i
ngToni ai
ntoourwor l
d,andy ourkidshopef ull
yone
day.we'
llbetogetherasonef amily
,Wear egoingtohav eanamazi ng
l
ifetogetherrai
singaf amil
ywithsomuchl oveandhappi ness.Al l
ofourdreamsar ecomi ngt
rue,baby!
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DAY8: ..
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.WHATAREYOURPLANSFOROURMARRI AGEAND
CONTRI BUTIONSFORMARRI AGEPLANI NG..
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.Honeywheni comebackf rom ser vi
ce wewi l
lget
mar ried,andwewi llhav et odof ami l
yplanning,ineedt oknowi fwe
aregoi ngt ohav emor ekids. .
..orar eweokaywi t
ht heoncewehav e
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..?andt hemi ndofeachot herwi llbethesame, noonewi llcome
bet weenusweat hergoodorbad, wewi llbeeachot hersrockbot hin
sicknessandi nheal t
h, wewi llnotletthirdpart
yintoourmar ri
age,
wewi llsuppor teachot herbot hfinanci
allyandot herwiseourki ds
willattendexpensi veschool sot hattheywi l
lbewel leducatedi n
termsofacademi cs, honeyi wi l
lli
ketogetabi ggerhousef orthe
fami l
y ,andt otrainmyf ami l
yt obeaGodf eari
ngandl ovelyfami l
y
I'
veal way sdr eamedofgoi ngt oat ropi
ci sl
andforacoupl eofweeks.
Wewoul dst ayinar omant i
cbungal ow.Wi ndowsopen, t
herewoul dbe
l
acecur t
ainsbl owi ngi nal i
ghtbr eezeal ongwithwar mt hcomi ngfrom
thesunshi neshi ningt hrought helace.Al t
hought hi
swoul dbeheav en
onear t
h, I'
dbei nheav enj ustbei ngwi t
ht hewifeGodi ntendedmet o
got hroughi nl i
fe'sj our neywi th.

i:
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Under lay inglovef orher..
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....
Baby, fr
om themomentI
mety ou,Iknewy ouwer esomeonespeci al
.Iknewbyt hewayy oulooked
atme, tal
kedt omeandwast hereforme.Iwasaf rai
dtolove
again..
.afr
aidoft hepai ni tmightbr i
ng.Buti nashor tti
me,you
showedmet hatr eal lov
ewasn' tpainfulordecei v
ing.Youshowedme
thatIdeservedt obel ovedandhappy .Yougav enewmeani ngt omyl i
fe
andIcoul dnev ert hanky ouenoughf orthat!Yout rul
yareaGodsend
tome! So,forall you' v
edonef orme. ..Ipromi setoalwaysbeher e
foryou,tocher ishy ouandt oloveyouwhol eheartedl
y.Ipr
omi seto
beal oyalandl ov inghusbandt oyouf oralltherestofmyday s.I
promisetol ovey oual way s!!

i
i.
..
.Al
thoughsomet i
mesIquest ionthings,deepinsideIknow
thatyouaretheonl yonef orme.WhenI 'm notwithyou, youaret
he
onlyoneI'
mt hinkingof .Ev er
ythingabouty out el
l
smet hatwecanbe
toget
herforever.Onl yyoucanmakemef eell
iketimeSTOPSwhenI '
m
withyou.Onlyyoucanmaket hingsbet t
erwheni tfeelsli
ketheend.
Onlyyoucanbet heonet osmoot hmyf earsaway .ForthisI'
m gr
atef
ul
andIhopey ounev erleave.Ilovey ou.

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.DAY9: i
nv estmentANDASSET: .
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..honeymypl ansaf ter
getti
ngmar ri
edwi thyou,am planingt ogoi ntor eal estatebusiness
withy ouandi loveanimalsandi willal
solov et ohav eaf arm,honey
ihaveassetf orthef amil
yaswel l
,ihavemyownhousei nhowai ibut
noonei sstayingt here,i
usedi tformoneycol act ral wi
thbank,
dusringmy2ndt uri nA f
ghani stanwitht hei ntent i
onofopeni ngan
accountwi t
hanI sl
ami cbankingsy stem butitcoul dentwor koutduet o
therebankingsy stem becauset hear eallmul slamsandi couldloseall
mymoneyi fi openaccountwi t
ht hebankt her eduet ot hecr i
sisthere
soihavetouseallt
hemoneyt oi
nvestonsomeexpensi
vev
alualbles
andgol
dwi chial
readytoldyouabout,Honeyt
ell
meaboutyourplans
fort
heyfamil
yaswel l
.
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.mylov e,EverydayIwakeupt hanki ngGodfory ou.You
hav emadeal l mydr eamscomet rue,especi al
lynowwehav eallitt
akes
totakecar eofourl ov el
yki dsthatGodbl esseduswi th.Youhav e
givenmesomuchwi thi
nt helastfewweeksandIdon' tknowi fIwill
beabl etogi v
ebackal lthatyouhav egi venme.Youhav ebeenmy
guidinglightwhenIwasl ost.Youhav ebeenmycomf orterthroughal l
myt rial
sandsor r
ow.Andy ouhav ebeenmyr ock.Therehasbeenso
manyt i
meswhenIwant edt ogiveup, andt henyougav emehopeand
fai
th.
Ipromi setoal wayslov eyouandal way shol dyouinmyhear t.Iwill
alway sbeher efory ouwheny ouneedmeandIwi l
llovey ounomat ter
whatl if
ebr i
ngsus.Youar emysoul mat e,honeyandIv owt ol oveyou
untilthedayt hateternit
yi sgone.Ilovey ou, baby.

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DAY10:
TRUST:

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Honeycani
real
l
ytr
usty
ou,
?cani
real
l
yconf
inedi
n

y
oubabewi
thal
lthei
nfor
mat
ionandal
lmysecr
eti
hav
erev
il
ed

t
oyousof
ar,
cani
real
l
ytr
usty
ouwi
tht
hem mybabe,
cani

t
rusty
ouwi
thmyl
i
febabe,
youar
etheonl
ywomani
hav
eopenup

mysecr
etwi
thandmyf
ami
l
yli
fewi
th?i
hav
enev
ershar
edt
his

wi
thanyonei
nmyl
i
febef
orebabe,
ilov
eandt
rusty
ouwi
thmy

l
i
feandi
needy
out
otel
lmei
ficant
rusty
ouwi
thmy

l
i
fe.
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?

ii
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..Myl ovelywi f
e,Ther earenowor dstoexpr esshowIf eel
ri
ghtnowt hati knowi couldtrusty ouwi thmyl ife,am sogr eatful
togodf orhav ingy ouasmyl ovelywi fetobe.Iconst antlysear chfor
thewor dsi woul duset odi scribthel ovei havefory ou, andt heyall
seem lesst hanIt rulyfeel
.Youar emyl ife,myhear t,andmysoul .
Youar emybestmat e.Youar emyonet ruelove.Istillremembert he
daywef i
rstmet .Iknewt haty ouwer etheoneIwasmeantt obewi th
forev
er.Ast hey earswentbyandwedr i
ftedapart,Ist i
l
l hel
dont o
thememor yofy ou.Ithoughtofy ouev eryday,anddr eamedofy oueach
night
.JustwhenIt houghty ouhadf orgot t
enme, y
oucamei nt
omyl i
fe
andmakeal lmydr eamscomet r
ueandr eal.Myhear twasbeat i
nghar d
withi
nmychestv eryhav i
l
ywheni coul dnother efrom y ouanymor e,
Wheni am al l
alonei f
il
lli
kehol dingy our ighti
nmyar ms,

Myhandwher
eshaki
ngandIcoul
dbar
elybr
eat
hebecausei
har
dnoone
tohol dmet hightandTheny oucamei ntomyl if et ocompl etmeandI
knewi twasmeantt obef or
ev erthemomenti stumbl edony ourprofi
le
pics, Ineedt oshowy ouhowmuchi lovey ou, thaty ouar et hebest
soul mat eandwi fet hatihav eev erl ovednotev enmyExwi f
ecoul d
makemef illhappyt hewayy oudo.Wheny ousai dt omet haty oulove
mesomuch, If eltitwasonl yadr eam.Ii knel t
hdownbef oret he
altherofGodandsai dtohi m Fat herher ei st hewomani hav echoson
tosat ywithf ort her estofmyl i
fepl easebl essourmar r
iagef or
ether nity
.i packedupmyst uf fandal teredmyl ife.Inev erl ooked
backi wentbackt omycubi cleandl i
ghtmycandl eandsl ept ,nowy ou
hav echosenmet obey ourhusbandmyl ove.Iam onacl oud, li
vi
ngi n
adr eam, andv erysoon, i
twi llreallyfeel real.Iwr otethisl etter
fory out okeep, andwheny ouneedar emi nderofhowIf eel abouty ou
myl ove.I'v
esai di tbeforeandI 'l
lsayi tagain, WORDScanot
expr esshowy oumakemef eel.Imaket hispr omi setoy oumydear
l
ov elywi fe,tol ov ey ouinr ai
nandi nsunshi nmyl ov efory ouwi l
l
nev erputy out oshamebut ,peace, l
ov erespect , andhappi ness, andi
will l
ov eyouf oret ernit
yt hewayt haty ouhav el ov edme.Inowl ook
tot hef utureandf orgetthepast ,yourl if
ei smi neandwewi llmake
i
tl astf orev er.Il ovey oumor etodayt hanIdi dy est er
day , and
I'
lllovey oumor et omor rowt hanIdot oday .Wi t hal lmyhear tIam
forev eryour s...
...
myl ovelywi fe.TAKECAREANDGODBLESSOUR
MARRI AGE.

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DAY11: LOVECONFESI ONANDSMS. ..

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Dearlov
elywife,
Il
ove
youbecausey oubri
ngt hebestoutofme.Ilove whom, Ihave
becomesi nceIhaveknowny ou.Il
oveyourterr
if
icsenseofhumor .
Everyti
meIl ookinyoureyes,myheartmissesabeat.Ienj
oydoing
thi
ngswi t
hy ouandspendingtimewithyou.Youaresimply
i
rresi
sti
ble.

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.Someti
mesIfeell
ostandoutoft ouch,butwheny ourthere,I
feelsaf
e.Yourl
oveformesoothesme.Icoul dsi
thereandt ryto
tel
lyoujusthowIfeel
,onl
yIcan'tf
indthewor dsotherthanIam
happywemetandhav egot
tentogetheraft
erallwe'vegonet hrough.

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Youmakemef eellov
ed, y
oumakemef eelneeded,butmore
i
mpor t
antl
y,y
oumakemef eelwant
ed.Thatissomet hi
ngthatIhadn'
t
f
elti
nav eryl
ongtime.Wehav esl
owlygr
owni ntoabeaut i
ful
r
elat
ionshi
pthatonlyyouandIcanunderstand.

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Youarebecomi ngmybestf ri
end,myl overandmysoul mat e.You
ar
eablessingt hatmyenti
rebeingisverythankfulf
or.Ifeel
that
weweremadet olove,
li
sten,underst
and,andwor kthroughall
times
i
nourli
vest ogether
,atrul
yraregif
t.

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...
..
.Wehavebothgonet hroughsomuchi nourlives;we'
vebothbeen
hurtandhavel
osttrustinother
s,butIasky outogivemeachance
asIgiveyouone.Idon'taskformuch,onlyforyout ol
ovemeasI
am andnottohurtmeasIwoul dnothurtyou.Ionlywishtobeby
yoursideandwit
hnooneel se.

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From t
hismomenton,
wehav
eeachot
herandal
lthet
imet
obe
i
neachot
her
'sar
ms.WhenIsayIl
ovey
oui
tist
rul
ymeant
.

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DAY12. ...
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:LOVELETTERS. ..
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i.Myl ov e,
Iam gl adt hatf
inally,Ihav ef oundsomeonel ike
you.Nowt hatIhav ey ouher ewi t
hme, Iwoul dliketol ety ouknow
howhappyandgr atef ul Iam fory ou...ev erynightIthankGodf or
sendingy out ome.Imaynott elly out hisasof tenasy ouexpectme
to,butt rustme, Il
ov ey ouwithal lmyhear tandmysoul .Youmean
somucht ome.
Iti
sy out hatIwantt oseewai ti
ngf ormeatt heal tar.
..itisalso
yout hatIwantt ohol dmyhandi nt hedel iver
yr oom andi tisy ou
thatIwantt ospendmyl i
fewith.Nowt hatwe' retoget herIpr omise
tobeal way st r
uet oy ou, t
olovey ouandt r
usty ou.Ilov ey oumor e
thanany thingt hi
sl i
fecanof ferme.
Youmademer eal
izet hatIdon' tneedt owai tforev erybody '
sapproval
forany thing. .
.aslongasIam happyandasl ongasi tf eelsright
forme.Iguessdest inyhasl eady out omesoIguesswe' rereally
meantf oreachot her .NowIknowev er yt
hing'sgoi ngt obeokaybecause
Ihav ey ouwi t
hmenow. ..
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Therear enowor dst hatIcanspeak, nosongt hatIcansi ng,
andnogest urethatIcanshow, toprovemylov efory ou, forthel ov
e
Ihavefory ouhasnodef initi
on.HowcanIdescr i
bet hesheerj oyI
feelwit
ht hev erythoughtofy ou?Howsi mplywr i
tingt oy ou causes
myhear ttobeatf aster,mypul setoraceandmysmi letowi den.How
canjustoneper songi v
emesomuchhopef oraf utureIhav eal ways
dreamedof ?Youhav eopenedmyhear tandawakenedmysoul .Youaremy
oneandonl ytruelove.Thati showIknowt hatourl ovei s
everl
asting.Icanbemy sel fwhenIam wi t
hyou.Youri deaofr omance
i
sdi mlights,softmusi c, andj ustthetwoofus.Youmakemef eel
l
ikeIhav enev erfeltbefor e.Icant el
lyouanything,andy ouwon' t
beshocked.Yourundy ingf aithiswhatkeepst hef l
ameofourl ove
ali
ve.

YouandIt oget
her,wecanmakemagi c.We'reaperfectmat
ch.Thi
nki
ng
ofyou,f
il
lsmewi thawonderfulfeeli
ng.Yourlovegi
v esmethe
feel
i
ng,thatthebesti
sstil
lahead.Younev ergiveuponme,and
that
'swhatkeepsmegoi ng.Youar esimplyi
rresi
sti
ble.

Il
ov eyoubecausey oubringt hebestoutofme.Il oveyourterr
ifi
c
senseofhumor .Ev
eryti
meIl ookatyou, myhear tmissesabeat .
You'retheonewhohol dst hekeytomyhear t.Youal wayssaywhatI
needt ohear.Youhavetaughtmet hetruemeani ngoflove.Loveis,
whaty oumeant ome-andy oumeanev ery
thing.Youar emyt hemef ora
dream.Ihavehadt hetimeofmyl if
eandIowei tall
toy ou.And,of
course,Il
ovey ouri
ntel
li
gence, '
causeyouwer esmar tenought ofal
l
i
nl ovewithme.

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DAY13:
ROMANCE.
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..DAY..
14
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.ATTACKI NTHEMI LITARY/PACKAGE. .
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..
.Babyam v eryworriedandam notj ustcomf or
tabler i
ghtnow,.
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..
.
i
tsal laboutthetali
banshere,honeywehav ebeenf ightingt
he
Talbansf oroverthreedaysnowandt hesituati
onher eisgetti
ng
wor stdaybyday ,mymi ndisnol ongeratrestmyl ov e,t
hetali
ban
attackedust odayandt heyshort4ofmymenandi thankgodt hatthey
surv i
veditandtheyar eundertr
eatmentr i
ghtnow.

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Honeyiam v
eryconf
usedandwor
ri
edri
ghtnow,
honeycani
real
l
y
t
rusty
ou?canireal
l
yconfi
deiny
oubabe?

.
..
Honeyr
emembert hatitol
dear
li
erthati
bought somev
aluabl
es
wi
thmylastsav
ingduringmyarr
ival
toAfghani
stan.
..
?

..
.i
tsaboutmybelongingsitoldyouaboutearl
ierandhereisno
l
ongersaf eformeandmybel ongi
ngs,
am nolongercomf ort
ablehav
ing
them her
ewi thme,honeyineedy outokeepthissecr
et,becauseof
securi
tyreasonsBabyam tell
ingyouthi
scozi real
lyl
ovey ouandi
beli
eveiny ousopl
easedon? tfai
lmeifishoul
dputal l
myt r
ustin
you
=================================================================

.
..Therewasamanwhosef atherdealsongoldandthemani stheone
thatalway
sHel phi
sfathert
osal ethegol
dandsomeofhi sexpensi
ve
valuabl
es,hewasattackedandshor tbyt
heTalibansonhiswayback
home, dur
ingthecr
isisgoi
ngonher einAfghani
stanlasty
ear,

..
.Thenmyt r
oopsandi whereonr oadpat rolwhenthemanwasat t
act
mymenandi intervai
nd,asami l
it
ar yCapt ai
nitookhimt othe
hospital,
butl ucky l
yforhi
m, hesur vi
v ethegunshotbyt he
Tali
ban's,afteritookhi mtothehospi tal,iwastheonet hat
recoverallhisgol dsfrom t
heTaliban'sf r
om takingthem away.and
thegoldwer eonl y13bars wi t
ht hesum of{ $160,000doll
ars}and
somev al
ables.

.
..soitookt heremaining13bar sofgol dandthe{ $160,000dol l
ar s}
withthev al
uablestothef atherafteri t
ookhimt ot hehospi tal
,i
tryal
licouldt osavethegol dandt hemoneyfr om t heTalibansfrom
taki
ngt hem away ,
sowi t
hthehel pi render
edtot hef amilythefat her
gaveme1barofgol dt heni boughtonebarofgol df r
om thef ather
makingi t2bar swit
hsomeexpensi v
ev al
aubl
esaswel l,soi decided
tokeepi ttomy sel
f.andi boughtt hatgoldwit
hmyl astsav i
ngs.

.
..BabyI
?m t ell
ingyouthi
sbecause i l
ov eyousomuchandi want
tosendthis2bar sofgol
dwithmyv aluablestoyoutokeepitsafe
formetil
licomebackbecauset hegol disnolongersafewit
hme
hereinAfghanistantheTali
banaredisturbingustoomuchher eandi
don?twanttol osemygol dherebecausei smylif
esav i
ngs,

.
..pl
ease babytellmeifishouldsendthem toyoutokeepitsafe
forme,sothatwheni comebacki wil
lsell
them andstartanewlif
e
withyoutogat
her,t
heny oudon?thavetowor kagai
nmyl ove.
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Pr
omi
semey
ouwi
l
lkeept
hem saf
eformet
il
licomebackmyl
ove.

iwi
llgoandl
ookf
oragoodandrel
ayabl
eshi
ppi
ngcompanyt
hat
wil
ldel
iv
ermybel
ogi
ngstoy
ourhouse.

honeyi wil
lbeneedi
ngyouri
nformati
on,
l
ikeemailaddress,house
address,andphonenumbertoenabl
emehav ethem regist
eredsothat
thecompanywi l
lbeabetocontacty
oufordel
iv
ery.