tr

ueloveisawonder f
ulgif
t;t
rustinit
,beli
eveinit
,gi
veit
,anditwi
llberetur
nedtoy outogi
ve
agai
nandagain.Youcangetadvicefr
om famil
y,f
ri
endsandstr
anger
s,butthebestadv
icecomes
fr
om yourhear
t;i
tneverl
i
es-trustit

tr
usti
st heonlythi
ngthatwi
llneverfadeunti
lyoudie,y
ourheart
,lov
eisl i
ketr
ust
,whenyouf
ind
yourspecialsomeoneitisasi fyou'r
etrusti
ngthem wit
hy ourheart
.Trusti
swhatyouputin
someone'shands.Fai
thiswhatyouholdont o.
Trusti
swhatmakesev er
y one

iwantyouassoulmat
emoret hanwordsexpr
essionhoney
,towanti
stodesi
ret
het
ast
eof
anot
her
'ssoul
,iwi
l
lnev
erdot
hingthatwoul
dhurty
oui nl
i
fe

youareanangelt hatGodgav etomet oshar

etheyearsleftinl
ife,
andIhopetheywil
lbemany,
manyy ears,butyouarelackoftr
ustbasedonyourpassexper i
ence,ial
sohar
dpassexperi
ence
i
nrelati
onship,butij
ustneedtomov eonasfri
endsadvised,ist
il
lhavetotr
ustsomeonetobui
ld
abetterrel
ati
onshipthatwoul
dleadtomarri
age

iwanttof ulf
il
leveryemptyspaceinyourlifeandinyourhear
t,wi
thtr
uelove,buti
tsonlythe
ser
iousouncesf ol
lowedadvicet
hatpermitthei
rhusbandfr
om camp,it
oldyoubefor
ethattr
ust
andunderstandisallweneedtobui
ldti
srelati
onshi
p

rel
ati
onshi
psshouldnev erbet akenforgranted.Thechoiceofbeingwi thanot
herlif
eisan
amazingthi
ng.Tr
ust,loy
alt
yandr espectar
eamustf oret
ernalhappi
ness.Nomatterhowmuch
youlovesomeoneifyoudon’thavethesei
ngredient
syouwillnev
ersucceed

onei mpor t
antthingist oleteachothergoi fy oucan' tdot hi
s,becauseiam st i
llscaredof
breaking heartwhich idontwantt o experi
enceagai n. Loveisl i
keawonder f
ulf eel
ing of
compassi onandsat i
sfact
ion.I
tshouldbegi v
enr espectandt r
ust;anditshoul
dreceivethatl
ov e
back.Thebestpr oofofloveistrust
..
Trueloveist hegreatestt
hingfindi
ngloveandf i
ndingtrust
wasagi ftfrom y
out ome

honeytolovemeistoacceptmeasIam.Idonotwantt
obejudgedforthethi
ngsother
sare
done,Iwantyout
otrustmeandl
etmedowhatIf
eeli
sri
ght,
wearedif
fer
entpeople,
it'
sal
lov
er
theworl
d,goodandbadpeopl
e

atthi
smoment,TRUSTi sal
lweneedt obui
ldt
hisrel
ati
onship,youneedtrusttol
ove,butfi
rst
youneedt
oloveinordertot
rust
.Tolov
esomeoneistounderstandeachot
her,t
olaughtoget
her,
tosmil
ewit
hyourheartandt
ot r
ustoneanot
her

rememberlovi
ngrelat
ionshipsgrow andonlybecomebett
er,el
i
minat
ethosewhodonotmeet
yourneedswhentheycontinual
l
yf ai
ltosuppor
tyou,wi
l
lnotcompromi
se,andwillnotbehonest
.
Thesethreequal
i
tiesalonewi l
lhelpy ounurt
ureanddevelopadeeperrel
ati
onshipwithyour
part
ner

iam sohappyhoney
,icanwaitt
oseet hatbeauti
fuldayiwi
l
lmeetyoui
nperson,iknowi
ssoon
wit
hthegraceofGodandourunder
standingwithTRUSTwewi l
lbui
l
dthi
srel
ati
onship

ther
earemanyqual i
ti
est hatmakerelat
ionshipsgoodsupport,compromise,andopenand
honestcommuni
cati
oni sjustafew ofthesequalit
iesthatyoumaydesirei narel
ati
onshi
p.
Engageonl
yinr
elat
ionshi
pswherebothpartnerscanopenlydi
scussthei
rwantsandneeds,t
hat
i
swhyneedeachot
herhoney

weallturnt oourlov
edonesf orsupportfr
om ti
met oti
me,wheny ourl
ovedonedoesnotof f
er
youtheirsupporti
tmaybet i
met ol ookatyourrel
ati
onshi
pandasweal lwanttonurt
urethose
t
hatwel ove,wewantthebestinlif
ef ort
hosethatwecareabout.I
fyourpar
tneri
sunwill
ingto
l
ist
entoy ou,andt
oyourpr
oblems, t
heyarenotmeetingyourneedswhenyouneedsuppor
t

ireal
lywanttomeety ouinper
son,iwanti tf
orust oknowmor eabouteachotherwhileplanning
ourwedding,iwantust oknow eachot herl
ikesanddisli
kesandthetruthofthemat ter,icant
l
eav eher
ewithoutthenormall
egalprocessfrom theuni
tednati
on,t
hatistheonlyproblem,ifnot
ireall
ywanttomeety ouinperson,iknowmyadopt edsonwillbever
yhappy,ifitoldhimt hati
foundsomeone,iknowheneedsamot herlyl
ov eandasett
lehome

pleaseijustwantyoutohonesttomyhear t
,becauseonceiam i
nlove,am i
n,thati
smyt ypeof
personandi fyoudonothavethesefundamentalqual
i
tiesi
narel
ati
onship,
thatrel
ati
onshi
pisn'
t
l
ikelytogrow,andbecomesomet hi
ngthatyoudesir
e

we we need t o bui
l
dt hisrelati
onshipi s an honestheartand tr
ust,because TRUST and
understandi
ngisthesecondnameofanyt r
uelov ethatwouldleadtomarri
age,givi
ngawaya
heartcanhurt.
..
.havi
ngabr okenhear tcanbelif
et hr
eateni
ng,ev
enttothestr
ongestpeopl
e.But
,
recei
vingoneisthegreat
estgif
t.Gett
ingclosetomei sthesweetestt
hingyoucaneverget

am ani ntelli
gent ,
successf ulper son.Iam f requentt oldiam cut e, don'tlookmyageandr emi nd
peopl eofsomeone- gof igure.Act uall
y,Ir
eal l
yam al i
ttleshyandmodest .Ili
ket odomanyt hings
butpar t
icularlylovet obespont aneousanduni nhibit
ed.Il i
keamant hatcanbewi ldattimesor
j
ustchi l
loutot hert i
mes.Ial sol i
kesomeonewi t
haf unper sonalitythatl i
kest olaughatmost
anythinganddoesn' ttakelifetooser i
ously.Iwasi nar elati
onshipbef ore,nowt hatiam "f ree",i
wantt opi ckupwher eileftof f
!iam cur rentlylooki ngf oraser i
ousr elationshiphonestly,iam i n
thehomest rechofa" roughpat ch"inmyl i
feandam exci t
edaboutmov i
ngahead.Iam asensi ti
ve
person, al
thoughimaynotcomeacr ossthatway ,butdon' twantt obehur t.Itrymybestt ot ake
goodcar eofwhoiam dat ingi ftheyappr eciatei tanddot hesamef orme.Ihav emanyt alents
i
ncludi ngar oundt hehouse,i nbusi ness.
..younamei t!
.Idon' tmi ndt akingr i
sksl i
kestarti
ngmy
ownbusi nessev ent houghiknew i tmeantt akingani ncomehi ti ntheshor ttermi nreturnf or
beingmyownboss!Iam seeki nganat tractive,classysomewhatmant hattakesgoodcar eof
himsel fandi snott oopi nionat ed.Iliket heni cet hingsi nl i
felikef oreignl uxury/
sportscar s,
clothesal thoughir eallyam notmat eri
ali
stic.Iam j ustaccust omedt otheseki ndoft hingsand
appr eciatethem, especiall
yt her i
ghtkindofman.

someonewhot ri
estounderst
andmeevenwhent heyhaven"
tgotacl ue.Someonet
hatwouldbe
readytogiv
esomuchofher sel
fandcandoany t
hing,goanywhere,andsacri
fi
ceanyt
hingshe
hasforsakeofLOVE.Iwanttheki
ndofrel
ati
onshi
pthatcoul
dleadstomar ri
age

Atmyf r
eeti
meil i
keany thi
ngout doorsilovet
oki ssandcuddlepreparedel
ici
ousmealandski p
anddi vebbqandl ovecampi ng,ilovegoodmov iesandl i
ketoli
stentomusi csandspendt i
me
wi t
hmymant hatwaswhenihadonebutf ornow ihavenoneil overeadingnov el
sandother
booksandil ovegoingt othebeachandt odance.Ilovecamping,watchingpassionatemovi
es,
travel
l
ingandsomeout doors.Myf avouri
temusicareR&B, soul
,cl
assicandcountrymusic.I
'ma
veryhonestperson,easygoi ng,f
aith,ki
ndhear
tedandisomuchl ovechildr
en.Ifitwereposi
ble
formet oi
mpregnatemysel fiwoul dhavedonei tbecauseialwayhopet ohav emyownchi ld
somedaywi
thmydr
eam man

iam beenl
ooki
ngformysoulmat
e,someonewhoisexci
ti
ngandadv ent
urous,hasgreatsense
ofhumorandenjoy
smakingmelaugh.someonewhoissogl adtoshare,sogladtohelpand
gi
ve,
someonewhoicansharemythought
swithandwhowillmakesmef eelspeci
alandbrings
outt
hebestinme

ili
ketogot odi
nner,movies,wal
ks,andquietti
mes. .
.Ilov
et ol
aughandIl i
kebeingaround
peopl
ewithagoodsenseofhumor .Ial
soappreci
atepeopl
ewhoar edi
ff
erent
,evenbi
zarr
e.They
l
ovenatur
e,enj
oylear
ning,
andhaveadeepr espectandl
oveforchi
l
dren

i
'm ar eall
yfunpersonwholovespeopl
e,l
ov estolaugh.
..
I'
m exci
tedtoseenewpl aces,meetnew
peopleanddonewt hi
ngs.
I'mfight
erfi
ghter,butdonotanddonotar gue,l
if
e'stooshort,butI
valuefriendshi
pandinti
macy.Adher
enceisoneoft hemosti mport
antrequi
sit
esinar el
ati
onship
thatisintegri
tyandcommit
men

youseem sointer
estingandiwilll
i
ket oknowy oumorewanttogetcloset
oy ou.Ilookedatyour
smoothfeatureandIl ongedtohol dy ouinmyhands.It
'snothow l
ongy ou'veknownmet hat
real
l
ymattersbuthowt hechemistr
ybet weenbothofus,iam movi
ngonwi thli
feduet ofr
iends
advi
cebecauseist i
l
lhav etotr
ustsomeone,ev er
ybodyarenott
hesame,t hatisj
ustthenature
ofli
fe,myprayeristhatimeettherightperson

iam scaredoffall
inginlov
ewithawrongpersonbasedonmypastexper
ience,
ihaveaverybad
exper
ienceinrelat
ionshipt
hati
swhyiwentforadopti
on,
ihav
ebesinglef
orthepass2year
splus
now,byfriendhereadviceimoveonwit
hli
fe