By Aly Badara DIANCOUMBA, Lecturer of English at ESGIC
ESGIC
L2
ANGLAIS
FUNCTION: Asking for, giving and Refusing Permission
Asking for permission to do something takes many different forms. Perhaps you need to get
permission to do something at work, or perhaps you need to ask a friend for permission to use one of
her possessions, or maybe you need to ask the teacher if you can leave room for a moment or two.
Remember to use forms when asking for permission to do something or use an object as you are
asking for a favor of that person.
I. How to Ask for Permission in English?
Can I + verb (very informal)
• Can I go out tonight?
• Can he have dinner with us?
NOTE: The use of "Can I do something?" is very informal, and considered incorrect by many.
However, it is used in everyday informal speech and for that reason has been included.
May I + verb
• May I have another piece of chalk?
• May we go out with our friends tonight?
NOTE: Traditionally, the use of "May I do something?" has been used for asking permission. In
modern society, this form has become a little more formal and is often replaced with other forms such
as "Can I..." and "Could I ..." Many argue that "Can I ..." is incorrect because it refers to ability.
However, this form is quite common in everyday, spoken situations.
Could I please + verb
• Could I please go with Maiga to the movie?
• Could we please go on trip this weekend?
Do you think I could + verb
• Do you think I could use your cell phone?
• Do you think I could borrow your car?
Would it be possible for me + infinitive
• Would it be possible for me to use your computer for a few minutes?
• Would it be possible for to study in this room?
Would you mind if I + verb in past
• Would you mind if I stayed a few more minutes?
• Would you mind if I took a five minute break?
Would you mind my + verb + ing + your + object
• Would you mind my using your cellphone?
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• Would you mind my playing your piano?
2. How to Grant Permission in English
If you would like to say "yes" to someone who asks permission, you can give permission using these
phrases. The first three are more informal, while the fourth is formal.
• Sure.
• No problem.
• Go right ahead.
• Please feel free + infinitive
3. How to Politely Refuse a Favor/Deny Permission
Saying 'no', is never fun, but sometimes it's necessary. See the expresssions below for some examples.
• I'm afraid I'd prefer if you didn't / don't.
• Sorry, but I'd rather you not do that.
• Unfortunately, I need to say no.
• I'm afraid that's not possible.
When denying permission, people will sometimes instead offer to help in other ways, using the words
"how about" and "instead" to offer alternatives.
• I'm afraid I can't let you borrow my car, but I could drive you instead.
• I can't babysit your daughter. How about I call my sitter for you instead?
• I wish I could help out; maybe another time.
Sample Dialogues for Practice: Asking for Permission Which is Given
• Diallo: Hi Emmanuel, do you think I could use your cell phone for a moment?
• Emmanuel: Sure, no problem. Here you are.
• Diallo: Thanks buddy. It will only be a minute or two.
• Emmanuel: Take your time. No rush.
• Diallo: Thanks!
• Student: Would it be possible for me to have a few more minutes to review before the quiz?
• Teacher: Please feel free to study for a few more minutes.
• Student: Thank you very much.
• Teacher: No problem. Do you have any questions in particular?
• Student: Uh, no. I just need to review things quickly.
• Teacher: OK. We'll begin in five minutes.
• Student: Thank you.
Example Situations: Asking for Permission Which Is Denied
In this example, an employee is asking for time away from work.
By Aly Badara DIANCOUMBA, Lecturer of English at ESGIC
• Employee: Would you mind if I came in late to work tomorrow?
• Boss: I'm afraid I'd prefer if you didn't.
• Employee: What if I work overtime tonight?
• Boss: Well, I really need you for the meeting tomorrow. Is there any way you can do whatever
it is you need to do later.
• Employee: If you put it that way, I'm sure I can figure something out.
• Boss: Thanks, I appreciate it.
This example shows a father telling his son that he can't go out because of his recent academic
performance.
• Son: Dad, can I go out tonight?
• Father: It's a school night! I'm afraid that's not possible.
• Son: Dad, all my friends are going to the game!
• Father: I'm sorry, son. Your grades haven't been the best recently. I'm going to have to say no.
• Son: Ah, Dad, come on! Let me go!
• Father: Sorry son, no is no.
Practice Situations
Find a partner and use these suggestions to practice asking for permission, as well as giving and
denying permission as shown in the examples. Make sure to vary the language you use when
practicing rather than using the same phrase over and over again.
• Go out on a weekday evening with friends.
• Use someone's car for the day.
• Use someone's cell or smartphone.
• Take a day or two off work.
• Play someone's piano.
• Use someone's computer.
