WELCOME
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Communication Skills
What is there for the day…
We’ll share knowledge
We’ll have Fun
We’ll Play Roles
We’ll learn
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LET’S DISCOVER
THE POWER OF
COMMUNICATION…
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WHAT DO WE
UNDERSTAND BY
A “SKILL”?
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At the end of the workshop we will
learn…
what is Good and what is Bad
Communication
some basic skills to become a
Good Communicator
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… and also
to recognize & overcome barriers
advantages of listening
to speak confidently
to communicate effectively
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Research shows, communication is…
55% 7%
body language words
38%
style
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Why Communication…
• to express our emotions
• achieve joint understanding
• to get things done
• pass on and obtain information
• reach decisions
• develop relationships
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Home Truths about Communication…
• Good Communication can’t exist without
honest listening
• We do not try HARD to get our
message across
• We do not take advantage of various
media available to us
• We all could improve our
communication skills
• It cannot be perfected
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Ways & effects of Communication
Formal Less Flexible, More Accurate
but less responsive (JAGRITI…)
Informal More Flexible, Less Accurate but
responsive (Grapevine/Rumors)
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What is Communication…
• art of getting your message
across effectively through:
•Spoken words – first & simplest way
•Body Language – can make or mar
•Written words – reflects importance
•Visuals – leaves greatest impact
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Types & Methods
Written Letters, Memos, Reports…
Spoken Conversations, Interviews,
Phone Calls, Requests…
Gestures Facial expressions, Actions,
Voice Tone, Silence, Stance…
Visuals Photographs, Paintings, Videos,
Film…
Multimedia Television, Newspaper,
Magazines, Internet…
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Communication : The Flow
Channel
Formulating Delivery
Message
Sender Receiver
Feedback
Perception
Response
Understanding
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Effective Communication…
– Is scarcer than quality water
– Is measured by results or actions
– Does not need to be very complex
– Is aimed at informing others
– Is complete and clear
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Barriers to Effective Communication…
Personal Barriers
• Your style and character (rude, polite, shy,
outspoken)
• Preparation & presentation
• Lack of clarity (pronunciation, pitch, etc.)
• Lack of credibility
• Timing
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Barriers to Effective Communication…
Proper Pronunciation
Communication Help Pen
Buffalo Career Guest
Colonel Buffet Bouquet
Rendezvous Bulb Fax
Prakash Pradeep Chandrajeet
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Barriers to Effective Communication…
Organisational Barriers
• Culture
• Environment
• Size & structure
• Pace of activity
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Barriers to Effective Communication…
Process Barriers
• Channel/Medium
• Irrelevant Information loading
• Lack of Response or Feedback
• Inappropriate Questions
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Overcoming the Barriers…
Say to yourself, “I will get Response”
Come up with a topic for discussion
everyday
Start improving upon pronunciation
Develop habit of reading – start with the
English newspaper / Comics
Understand first, then communicate
Don’t be afraid of asking questions
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Body Language…
Facial Expressions
Gestures
Posture
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Body Language…
Clearing throat, "whew" sound,
Whistling, smoking, pinching flesh
Nervousness covering mouth, jiggling money or
keys, tugging ears, wringing
hands.
Short breaths, "tsk" sound,
tightly clenched hands,
wringing hands, Fist like gestures
Frustration
pointing index finger
rubbing hand through hair
rubbing back of neck.
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Body Language…
Openness Open hands,
unbuttoned coat
Arms crossed, sideways
glance, touching-
rubbing nose, rubbing Defensiveness
eyes, buttoned coat,
drawing away
Pinching flesh,
chewing pen,
Insecurity
thumb over thumb,
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Body Language…
Upper body in sprinter's
position, open hands,
Cooperation sitting on edge of chair,
hand to face gestures,
unbuttoning coat.
Steepled hands,
hands behind back,
back stiffened, hands Confidence
in coat pockets with
thumb out, hands on
tapels of coat
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Body Language…
Look out for some more clues on
Body Language in the given
handout…
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SPEAKING SKILLS
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Speaking…
“A wise man reflects before
be speaks; a fool
speaks, and then reflects on
what he has
uttered.”
- French Proverb.
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While Speaking…
– Take initiative
– Be polite
– Be pleasant (smile, jokes)
– Be clear and concise (tone, accent,
emphasis, pronunciation)
– Cite negative opinions honestly, but in a
positive manner
– Seek Feedback
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While Speaking over phone…
– Write down in advance what you want to
say and in what order
– Smile
– Speak slowly
– Always be polite and friendly
– For long messages, follow a script
– Get confirmation
– Monitor your time
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WRITING SKILLS
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Clarity in Writing…
Rs 1000000000
Rs. 10,00,00,000/-
Rs. 10 Crore
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While Writing…
Plan what you want to say in your letter/
report
Reread the letter when you have finished
Check spelling & punctuation, then send
Use simple language – avoid ambiguous
words
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While Writing…
“KISS” (Edit the letter by cutting
ruthlessly).
Be kind to others’ eyes (font size,
clarity)
Be creative (use tables, graphs)
Use the language YOU are better at
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Keep in mind while writing
• Visualize the reader when you are
writing
• Don’t write unbroken paragraphs
• Use numbered paragraphs to make
cross-referencing easier
• Punctuation plays the role of body
language in writing
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Keep in mind while writing …
• Use headings and subheadings.
• Use ruled sheets instead of plain
ones.
• Don’t print without thoroughly
checking your sources.
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LISTENING SKILLS
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Listening – why is it important?
Listening 45%
Order in which we are taught
Order in which we learn
Speaking 30%
Reading 16%
Writing 9%
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Objective of Listening is…
– to receive information
– to understand effectively
– to enhance clarity
– to empathize
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So, while Listening…
– Avoid distractions
– Do not interrupt unnecessarily
– Be active (show interest)
– Paraphrase what you’ve heard
– Throw an echo
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What Listening Looks like...
• The Listener keeps looking at the speaker
• The Listener’s body is in ‘open’ position
• The listener is smiling with a pleasant &
encouraging expression
• Listener looks relaxed but alert, neither tense
nor slouching
• Listener utters humming sounds
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PRESENTATION SKILLS
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While Presenting…
– Research (find out facts & figures)
– Prepare (Introduce, Discuss, Conclude)
– Rehearse
– Be confident
– Present
– Use proper media
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5 styles of communicating to manage conflicts
You feel confident but You win and other
“Go for it” uncooperative person loses
You don’t feel confident
“Run Away” You lose
or cooperative
You feel cooperative but You let the other
“Yes, Boss” unconfident person win
You feel partly You both win a bit and
“Let’s Trade” cooperative & confident lose a bit
Mutual Cooperation & You help one another
“Let’s both win” Confidence to win
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“I HEAR, I forget
I SEE, I remember
I DO, I understand”
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