PART 3:
THE SEX PLAYBOOK
BECOMING A SENSUAL VIRTUOSO
“Unveiling the depths of desire and
vulnerability within her soul.”
CHAPTER 17
SETTING THE STAGE:
INTRODUCTIONS AND FOREPLAY MASTERY
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"Foreplay is like a long, slow dance, where
you're both eager to take the next step but
want to savor every moment along the
way."
- Unlimited Knowledge
Introductions
Studies have shown that 58% of females aren’t sexually satisfied, it
has also shown that the average girl only reaches climax and
orgasm 20% of the time.
Those numbers are outrageous and catastrophic.
There are multiple reasons for this:
The majority of men settle with average, repetitive, boring
vanilla sex.
The majority of men lack sufficient knowledge about female
anatomy.
The majority of men simply use the female body as a way to
masturbate.
The majority of men struggle to truly satisfy women and their
needs.
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The main reason for divorces and break-ups is the infidelity of
women.
Female infidelity is driven by male sexual incompetence because most
men don’t know how to truly satisfy a woman.
Sex must be viewed as a privilege for the women, not a favor to you.
Sex isn’t something a woman gives and a man takes. It is something that
must be shared. It’s about the connection of souls, and the two of you
losing yourself in each other.
It’s about creating a vacuum where nothing else exists except the two of
you and your passion.
You pleasuring her, and her pleasuring you.
Arguably one of the most powerful forces on the planet is the human drive
for reproduction. We all think about sex on a daily basis, even women.
In fact, women think and crave sex even more than men, they just don’t
want to be pressured, lied to, or made feel like a slut.
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There are 8.001.931.998 billion people on Earth, and some men still
believe women don’t like sex?
It’s ridiculous.
Women love sex.
Women need sex.
Their world revolves around sex.
Once a woman is “unleashed” her physical needs are often more
ravenous than a man's.
It’s just certain barriers and programming walls to be overcome in
order for her to feel comfortable enough to surrender to them.
Bottom line: Every woman has a deep desire to be fucked into
oblivion, but they need a dominant, capable, masculine, competent
man to take the lead, if not they'll look for a more capable man.
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Foreplay is hands down the most overlooked part of
sexual intercourse.
Skipping foreplay is like going down a waterslide without
water.
It's boring, going to hurt, and wouldn't be a pleasurable
experience at all.
On the other hand, with the techniques you’re about to learn
she’ll feel like she's going down Niagara Falls.
She’s going to be so aroused that even the slightest touch
will send her to “orgsmland”.
Proper foreplay sets the scene for proper sex.
Make sure to have plenty of bed sheets & towels - this is
going to be a wet experience... for both of you.
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Foreplay is everything that happens before you start touching
each her vulva.
It's all about getting her in the mood and turning her on.
As a guy, you can get turned on pretty quickly just by seeing a
sexy woman, but women need more teasing and mental
stimulation.
She needs to be taken out of her logical mind.
That's why porn usage is male-dominant; because of our visual
triggers, while women are more likely to read erotica and watch
movies with sexual stories that let them use their imagination to
picture what's happening; due to their emotional triggers.
Fifty Shades, 365 Days, the list goes on...
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Sexual Response Cycle
The sexual response cycle refers to the sequence of physical and
emotional changes that occur as a woman becomes sexually aroused
and participates in sexually stimulating activities.
The sexual response cycle has four key phases:
1. Desire
2. Arousal
3. Orgasm
4. Resolution
Why am I telling you this?
Because you need to understand females on a deep level in order to
truly please them.
By learning what's going on in her body you can take complete control of
her orgasms, joy, and pleasure.
Before we take a deeper look into foreplay you must understand the
changes that occur in her body.
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Phase 1: Desire
Indicated by the following:
Muscle tension increases.
Heart rate quickens and breathing gets faster.
Nipples become hardened.
Blood flow to her vagina increases, resulting in swelling of the
clitoris and inner lips.
Vaginal lubrication begins.
Her breasts become fuller and the vaginal walls begin to swell.
This is the phase where she starts wanting to have sex with you.
Usually, this happens before you’ve even entered the bedroom.
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Phase 2: Arousal
Include the following:
The changes which began in “Phase 1” will get more intense.
The vagina continues to swell from increased blood flow, and the
vaginal walls can turn darker.
Her clitoris becomes highly sensitive (she’ll feel the slightest touch)
Her hands become sweaty.
Heavy & faster breathing - blood pressure continues to increase.
Muscle spasms begin in the feet.
Here’s the sad reality.
Most men aren't able to carry her beyond this stage.
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Phase 3: Orgasm
This phase is the climax of the sexual response cycle.
It's the shortest of the phases and generally lasts only a few
seconds, but the techniques you’ll learn in this course will grant
you access to a secret power.
The ability and competence to give her multiple orgasms in a
row, causing them to last for minutes.
Women completely lose themselves the moment they orgasm,
they disappear into another dimension.
It’s hard to understand if you’ve never made a girl cum before,
but once you’re done reading and applying the techniques you’ll
understand exactly what I mean.
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Phase 3: Orgasm
Include the following:
Involuntary muscle contractions begin.
Blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing are at their highest rates,
with a rapid intake of oxygen.
Muscles in the feet spasm.
There is a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension.
A rash or "sex flush" may appear over her entire body.
Her body temperature rises.
Her vaginal muscles contract like trying to grab your dick.
Her stomach will move up.
Her eyes will roll backward in delight.
Her legs will start to shake.
Heavy breathing/moaning.
Her asshole tightens.
*Take a screenshot or write down these points, they'll be extremely
useful once we get into edging and other techniques.*
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Phase 4: Resolution
This phase comes right after the orgasm ends, but she’ll still
be aroused.
During this phase, the body slowly returns to its normal level
of functioning.
She’ll often feel a sense of well-being but can also feel
fatigued and sleepy.
The techniques you’ll learn in this course will make you
capable of making her return to the orgasm phase and make
her experience multiple orgasms by edging and taking her
between the different phases;
giving her the best and most pleasurable experience of her
life.
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Prepare Your Place & Yourself
Sex is as much a psychological experience as it is a physical
experience for women.
Even the slightest distraction can turn her off and completely ruin
her mood.
Her emotions can change in a split second.
Therefore, always bring her back to your place, where there will
be no external distractions, and where all the focus is on the two
of you, and the wild sexual naked shenanigans you're about to do
with each other.
It needs to be sexual, romantic, and personal. Two souls
which connect, on a very deep level of intimacy.
As I said in part 2: “A woman needs to be comfortable before she
can even think about having sex with you.”
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Properly preparing your place will both show and convey
that you’re a safe, mature, classy man while having
takeaway boxes, clothes, and full ashtrays laying around
will immediately turn her off; causing her to walk out the
door.
Once she notices the class and hygiene you follow, she’ll
be willing to do more freaky things in bed.
She realizes that you’re a trustworthy and classy man.
Making her crave you even more.
In chapter 12: 'Sealing The Deal' I created a long list to help
you prepare your place & yourself for shenanigans that are
about to happen.
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Eliminate Her Insecurities
Let me tell you an untold secret about women.
They’re more self-conscious & insecure about their bodies than any other
creature on Earth.
Studies show that 80% of women aren’t satisfied with their bodies.
Even a small mole on their boob can be enough for them to not want to
undress.
As I say this you may think: “Fuck, that's going to make it even harder” but
that’s not the truth. You can use it to your advantage. Turn the “obstacle”
into an opportunity.
We all have insecurities, but have you ever been complimented on one of
your insecurities?
That shit makes your day, and you’re not going to forget that person. It's
basic human psychology.
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So let’s assume that every girl is insecure about her body.
Imagine what you’re going to make her feel if you say:
“I should call the police, it should be a crime to wear clothes with a
body like that.”
She’s going to fucking love you, and she’ll suddenly want to undress to
receive even more compliments and positive feedback on her body.
It’s operant conditioning at its finest. It's like training a dog; give
it a snack and it'll do it again.
Compliments about how "she looks so sexy in that body" and "that
body should not be wearing clothes" will go a long way in establishing
comfort as well, which leads to more orgasms and better sex.
Keep on complimenting her body throughout, once she has taken off
her bra, say; "wow" with a genuine facial expression, then give her a
passionate kiss.
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In order for her to have sex with you, open up, let loose, and orgasm
she needs to feel a deep sense of emotional connection, intimacy &
comfort around you.
She also needs to feel like a beautiful, feminine, sexy woman as well as
feel unique and special, like she is the only woman you have in your
life.
Complimenting her on her body when it’s at its most vulnerable checks
all the boxes above.
It will also help you break through any last-minute resistance if it occurs,
but trust me, once you start with the foreplay routine there’s no way
back (for the both of you), you’re both going to be too fucking horny to
suddenly say “no”.
Rule Of Thumb: Compliments about her body = more secure and
comfortable = willing to undress further.
Here's another compliment you can give her, to take her over the top: "I
don't know what I did in my past life to deserve this, but I must have
been a good guy."
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Once she knows you are head over heels over her body she's going to be
much more willing to let loose, and she'll be 1000x more comfortable and
much more capable of having an orgasm.
Was just about to finish this chapter, but I remembered another great one.
I read it on a PUA forum a few years back and it works wonders, tell her:
"I hope you're not one of those girls that's too shy to take off your
underwear because you're not 100% clean shaved. Guys really don't pay
attention to that."
INSTANT COMFORT.
The only time you're allowed to be a simp is during foreplay.
The point of all these lines is to make her less insecure about her body.
We are most vulnerable when we are naked, if you compliment her when
she's at her most vulnerable she’ll fucking love you, and she'll be much
more open to completely submit to your lead.
Now it is time to dive into the good stuff, the foreplay act itself.
Let's dive deeper down the rabbit hole.
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Foreplay A-Z
This isn't going to be your “normal”, quick, impatient
foreplay.
This sequence will take 30 - 45 minutes and consists of
constant teasing; sending her over the edge before you’ve
even penetrated her.
This technique works wonders and has been battle-tested by
me, my friends, and several of the brothers in The Masculine
Alliance.
I could have charged $10.000 for this chapter alone, this
will revolutionize your life.
Let’s get into it.
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The Beginning
Once you're in the bedroom, push her gently but dominantly up
against the wall, with one hand behind her head, and one at her
waist.
Look her straight in the eyes and move closer to her lips, but don't
kiss her yet!
Stop right in front of her lips, then whisper;
"You have no idea how much I've had to restrain myself tonight" in
her ear.
(Especially if you met her at a bar and you're both drunk, she's
going to be wet only by hearing that one sentence.
Dirty talk is a must in order for her to be swept off her feet. Start
doing it during the foreplay so you can use more advanced lines
later on in the interaction.
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This is a good way to break the ice when it comes to dirty
talking, which can often be scary especially if you're new to it.
Then start kissing her slowly and passionately on the neck.
Start as far down on the neck as possible and work yourself
up against the ear.
Right below the ear is one of the most erogenous zones in her
body - so don't go there immediately.
Note- Tease and build up.
This pattern will repeat itself throughout this guide.
Always work yourself from the least erogenous zones to the
most erogenous zones.
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Once you've kissed the lower half of her neck for about
1-3 minutes, then move upwards and start to kiss her
right below the ear for 1-3 minutes.
Already at this point it's probably the longest foreplay
she's ever experienced, but you're just getting started.
Stop kissing her on the neck and act like you're about to
kiss her lips (stop 2 inches in front of her lips)
She's going to want the kiss so bad at this point, but
fortunately/unfortunately for her, she's going to have to
wait.
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She’ll probably have her eyes closed in anticipation of the kiss, but if
her eyes are open, stare her in the eyes and give her a cocky smile.
Take her hands and pin them above her head with one of your hands
(dominance).
Then start the "neck kissing routine" on the other side of her neck (for
another 5 minutes).
Her heartbeat will be so high and she's going to crave your dick at this
point. Nobody has ever made her feel like this before.
What you're doing is a push & pull, you're sort of switching between
different phases.
It doesn't only tease her, but it makes her body used to switching
between different phases - making it easier for her to orgasm again
after she's reached the Resolution phase - making it easier for you to
give her multiple orgasms and become her "best ever."
Anyway, let's continue.
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Lift her up as portrayed in the image below.
Except both of your hands should be under her ass (holding the weight)
and her back should rest against the wall.
This is sexy in itself, but will also make it easier for you to make a
smoother transition to the bed.
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After you’ve lifted her up, you can finally kiss her on the lips.
The sexual tension will be so high at this point, so don’t be surprised if it's the most
romantic, sensual kiss of her life.
Once 1-3 minutes have passed it’s time to continue the foreplay shenanigans in
bed.
Turn around and place one hand on her back to stabilize (as portrayed in the
picture on the previous side) and carry her over to the bed.
Either lay her or throw her on the bed.
The Middle
At this point, she’s laying on her back. Place your body in a position where you
don’t rest your body weight on her. It’s uncomfortable for her, and it's a common
mistake a lot of guys make.
Stand on your knees and place your hands on each side of her body, standing
over her on all fours, like a lion before he dominates his prey.
She finally thinks she’s about to experience your dick…
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…but not yet. Constantly tease her, so go back to the “neck routine” on
each side, but you can occasionally kiss her on the lips.
Do this for 5 minutes before taking it any further.
After 5 minutes of passionate kissing, look her in the eyes, and say
calmly, but confidently: “I am going to fuck you into oblivion today.”
You probably got hard just by reading that, just imagine how she’ll feel.
She’s going to cum just from hearing those words.
Next, kiss her from the waistline up towards her breasts. Pull her shirt
up as you go, once you reach right below her tits: tell her: “Turn
around” in a commanding way.
She’ll love it, a commanding man who knows exactly what he wants.
Then kiss her on the back/side of her neck and below her ears - from
behind for as long as you want. (at this point she should be laying flat
on her stomach with her face facing downwards
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Get her up on her knees, either command her or lift her up.
Regardless, tell her either: “Take your shirt off” or “Hands up” and then take her
shirt off yourself.
Don’t just take it off, this is a great opportunity to be vocal in bed, which adds a
whole new element to the sex.
Remember- Sex is as much psychological as it’s physical for women, being
vocal satisfy arguably her most powerful sexual organ, her brain.
Then command: “Lay down on your back.” or pick her up and lay her down
yourself. At this point, she’ll be dying to fuck you, and most men would give into
their urges, but you’re not most men. You’re a fucking strong, masculine, sex
god.
At this point, you can take off your own shirt (she’ll feel more comfortable, and
she’ll be turned on by your jacked physique)
Her pussy is so fucking wet, but go back to kissing her on the lips for a while
before you slowly work yourself downwards towards her waistline, but don’t kiss
directly on her tits yet, kiss in between her breast until you reach her waist.
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This is what’s going through her mind at this point,
SHE CRAVES YOUR DICK.
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The Big Finale
Then it’s finally time to take off her pants but stay away from her vulva
for just a little longer.
Start caressing her legs using your hand - slight, gentle & smooth -
which sends shivers down her spine.
Start from her feet on the outside of her leg, and work yourself up
towards her underwear (1), repeat on the other leg (2) then do the
same on the inside of her leg (3) and repeat on the other leg (4).
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Then do the same, except this time you’re going to kiss her. (follow the
same patterns as above, but instead of caressing with your hands, kiss
her.)
At this point, she’s definitely thinking you’ll start liking her pussy, but you
won’t. You’re making her earn it.
In the next phase, it’s finally time to remove her bra.
If you don’t know how to take off a bra, you can do 3 things:
Command her: “Take off your bra”
Watch videos on YouTube.
Buy a bra, or borrow your mom’s and practice.
You don’t want to fuck up here, women find it extremely hot & sexy when a
man easily takes it off:
“This man knows exactly what he’s doing, he has done this before, which
means other girls have wanted him, but now he's mine."
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At this moment she can begin to be impatient - all she wants in the world
is your hard dick deep inside her vagina.
Take off your pants, so you’re both only wearing underwear - command
her: “sit on my lap” or just physically place her there.
The point is to make her feel your hard dick pressing against her
dripping wet vagina. Make her feel how hard you are for her.
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This is the last phase of the foreplay, so take your time - tease
her as much as possible.
Now you should be sitting in the position pictured on the
previous side and can start kissing her breasts.
Same here as before, work yourself from the less erogenous
zones to the most erogenous zones.
Kiss her breasts in circles - as far away from the nipple and
slowly start to work your way towards it.
Repeat on the other breast, you can do this as many times as
you want - until even you can’t stand the teasing anymore.
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Note- Use your tongue on the nipples, don’t bite them (they’re
extremely sensitive at this point.)
Lift her up, lay her down on her back and kiss her breasts for
another minute before you slowly start kissing downwards toward
her vagina.
Once you arrive at the destination, do the same exact thing as
before - You’ve probably already guessed it - work yourself from
the less erogenous zones to the most erogenous zones.
Kiss around it, before you finally lick her dripping wet pussy.
The most amazing part?
You’ve just given her the hands-down best foreplay of her life
- without touching her pussy once.
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